Life update
It’s been awhile and today had me thinking about you a lot and wishing that you were still here with us. Today we all got together for our cookie decorating day and spent time with Kirk, the kids and grandpa max. So I thought I would update you on somethings going on.
Emma is finishing up her first semester of college classes and getting out there more and more. Q is a black and red belt who is getting ready to go to high school. Bailey is almost done with her first semester of high school and growing more than you would believe. Pablito is work and spending lots of time with his girlfriend. Grandpa Max is still working of course and planning lots of fun stuff for us kids.
For some big news I am getting married! Looking back it’s really a day I never thought would come. I always wondered who would be able to put up with my moods and constant need to be perfect. Well little did I know the answer would be Jesus. He is so kind, patient and he cares for me so much. We do argue quite a bit but I wouldn’t give up the time I get to spend with him for anything. He is helping me grow as a person each day by teaching me to be more patient, kind, have fun and not care of what people think. He also loves all of my family like they are his own and I know he would do anything for them. So by June 8th we will be married. You will also never guess who is going to marry us. None other than Grandpa Max. I know right, he agreed to that? Not only did he agree to that but I do think he is actually excited to do it. To me it means a lot to get to have someone who has been such a big part of my life and gives us a little piece of you be such a big part of the day. It means a lot to me that Jesus loves him as much as I do. Bailey, Emma, Q and Paul are also all going to be in the wedding party. I am excited that I get to share this day with them and I know it would warm your heart that we all still get to be together. I can’t wait to marry my best friend and spend the day with those I love most. I do wish you could be there though.
Now an update on your oldest. She does worry me and I am sure she worries you as you watch down on her. She has a lot of stress going on in life and although she is handling it well it can not be good for her. She is always amazing at all that she does and although that is not changing it does cause her to put a lot on herself. So please watch over her and help her to realize that she will be amazing at whatever she does. Also please help to remind her that we are all here for her no matter what. Grandpa Max, my dad and Jesus and I would do anything for her at the drop of a hat. So if you could watch out for her and help us remind her everyday that she is loved and so strong that would be amazing! She is always so worried about making sure that everyone else is okay and I hope she can take a small break from that to care for herself. I do not live at home so it has been really hard for me to support her through the little things. Please help Pablito see this and help her with those little things and not cause her more stress.
I love you Grandma and although we are all hanging in there and moving forward in life we will never forget you. Hopefully in June I will be able to update you with some family photos but for now here is my favorite engagement picture. Again I hope you are hanging out with Grandma Verna and Grandma June. Please make sure all three of you are watching out for mom and helping her as much as possible. I will make sure I can do as much down here for both her and Grandpa Max. I love you my sweet Angel.