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On Friday night, April 24, the world lost a truly incredible man. Richard (Dick) Norval Fults, affectionately known as Dickie-Lau, passed away in his home. At his bedside were his best friend Janet, her sister Suzanne, and two dear friends.

Dick died as he lived: with tolerance, optimism, patience, generosity of spirit, curiosity, humor, strength and grace. 

Dick was born on March 26, 1946 in Lawton, OK, the son of Dixie and Norval Fults, stepson of Bob Agnew, and brother of Gary Fults. Dick’s personality was greatly shaped by his Oklahoma roots, growing up next door to his grandparents, Two-Mother and Two-Daddy (Stanley and Arlena Bates.) Dick had many stories from those times, as well as colorful anecdotes from life lessons learned working at Billy Bob’s Pawn Shop and Pont Ramey’s pool hall.

Dick was a child of the free-love, psychedelic 60s, embracing it all with his open minded, adventurous spirit. He left Oklahoma for California, settling in LA and later the San Francisco Bay Area.

One of Dick’s life-changing events was his 1979 purchase of an Apple II computer. Shortly afterward, he founded his first business hosting swap meets for similarly minded computer hobbyists. "Computer Supermarket” later became “Microshows," which over time added home shows to its offerings and was renamed "Richard James Corp."

It was during the early days of Microshows that Janet came into his life. They remained beautifully entangled in a deep and loving friendship ever since. In 2014, Dick left the Bay Area for Placerville, a move that brought him closer to Janet and to his country roots.

Dick thoroughly enjoyed a good, sparring debate and had a wicked, edgy sense of humor. His genuine interest in other people combined with his down home Okie friendliness found him making friends everywhere: with his neighbors, his landlord, the local post office clerk, his docs and nurses, and even one of his Bay Area Lyft drivers, with whom he had lunch a couple of times.

Dick’s exceptional curiosity and intelligence made him knowledgeable on a wide range of topics. His interests included science, ham radio, astronomy, photography, quantum physics, sci-fi, politics, computers, electronics, flying, sailing, traveling, food (the greasier, the better!) and cooking.

He loved figuring out how things worked and using his ingenuity to create, improve or repair things. That inventive mind was behind Dick’s later business, "Flash and Pass," producing flash card study aids for folks preparing for their ham radio and pilot license tests.

Dick also had an incredibly sweet, sentimental side and a generous, big heart. He had a soft spot for kids, dogs, and living beings of all kinds. He fed the birds and “critters” outside his home and welcomed ants and spiders within.

At Thanksgiving, he'd make a full turkey dinner with all the fixin's, package it up, and bring it in his suitcase to Oklahoma to share with his mom and stepdad, Dixie and Bob. At Christmas time, he would load up a couple of shopping carts with cool, fun toys, which he brought to Toys for Tots.

Dick was a once-in-a-lifetime friend: a multi-faceted, uniquely interesting man who was deeply loved, cherished, and treasured. He is truly irreplaceable. 

Dickie Lau, you repeatedly told us “you ain’t gettin’ outta here alive.”  For once, we were really hoping to prove you wrong.


December 20, 2023
December 20, 2023
I don’t know you Dick, but just noticed in reading the story about my son’s Make-a-Wish gift that you helped fund it the summer of 2020. I looked you up and learned about your life and passing. It brought tears to my eyes to learn about you. You passed on my In-laws anniversary. Conincidences like that fascinate me. June 6, 2020 after your passing, a litter of puppies was born and my son Jonny was gifted a beautiful Cavapoo puppy we named Daisy, gifted by you. Thank you! Daisy is what we needed to complete our family. My son Jonny was diagnosed with Leukemia at 2 years old. He relapsed a few times and had 2 bone marrow transplants (March 2018 and February 2019). He has been cancer free almost 5 years now. He also had to get 10 days of cranial radiation. He had to get the same head mold made like you did. The story of your life fascinated me and you seemed like a very intriguing, genuine human being. I, too like quantum physics! Now I understand how the Universe gifted Jonny such a perfect dog for our family so quickly and easily!  Thank you for gifting us such a beautiful puppy to bring us joy for so many years. I will carry the story of your life that I read here close to my heart. You are now a part of our story. Thank you! 
Love,
Jenny Leavens
J M
April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
You are 'forever missed' Lau...and forever in my heart.
June 22, 2020
June 22, 2020
Well buddy, we’ve talked about this day, but I thought there would be time for more conversations. Throat cancer and Covid 19 erased that time away, and I sure do hurt for the loss of it. It seems a very cruel thing that a man with an appetite for every imaginable kind of food, and one ready for any kind of conversation would be deprived of both for the last 3 months of his life. Of course, you took it in stride as you do everything else. You were a dear sweet and exceptionally good friend and I can only hope to emulate some of your wonderful character traits. I miss you muchly, my friend, and I’m hoping to hear that Oakey twang this next time around.
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
I've been thinking about Dick a lot during these troubling times - wondering what his take would be on it all, would so love to know. I met Dick shortly after I moved to the US through my friendship with Suzanne and Janet almost 25 years ago and we immediately hit it off. So enjoyed bantering with Dick at many social gatherings over the years - he had such a wicked sense of humor and that mischievous twinkle in his eye that I will always remember. I shall so miss you at the next gathering Dick but know you'll be there in spirit. Will root out some caviar to have in your honor - much love
May 7, 2020
May 7, 2020
Dick’s passing represents the loss of an incredible individual, and I mean ‘individual.’ Dick was truly one of a kind. He was brilliant, funny and so quick-witted he’d often have a clever riposte started before you finished airing the statement it addressed. I quickly learned that no gathering was complete without Dick and his ever-present post-Oklahoma drawl. I remember several Thanksgiving celebrations from the early nineties with Dick presiding over the turkey as it slowly turned on a mesquite-smoked rotisserie. Butter injections. Special basting rituals. All while espousing conservative doctrine intended as much to provoke as educate. Dick really enjoyed winding up anyone who fell back on simply regurgitating the popular politics and philosophy of the time. It was a special and joyous opportunity to watch and listen to Dick expound on almost any topic. As I write this, I can picture him delivering a mellifluous sermon on the travails of undisciplined thinking. Without Dick the world has lost something integral. I miss you, Dick. I wish there were one more chance to sit outside and converse – remembering not wanting to miss a single word or another cleverly drawn syllable. Goodbye, Dickie Lau.
May 5, 2020
May 5, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about this. Richard was a fun and loving guy and will be missed. We went to Lawton High together, and I have only great memories of our time.
May 5, 2020
May 5, 2020
Oh Dickie Lau, how we will and do miss you. You've been in my life most of my life and it doesn't seem possible you're not still here. I know I'll be thinking "I need to tell Lau this!" or "Lau will know the answer." The size of the hole we feel is a tribute to how much of a presence you were in our lives. Thank you for the debates, the wisdom, the laughs, the care and the love. You are my family. I love you Lau.

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December 20, 2023
December 20, 2023
I don’t know you Dick, but just noticed in reading the story about my son’s Make-a-Wish gift that you helped fund it the summer of 2020. I looked you up and learned about your life and passing. It brought tears to my eyes to learn about you. You passed on my In-laws anniversary. Conincidences like that fascinate me. June 6, 2020 after your passing, a litter of puppies was born and my son Jonny was gifted a beautiful Cavapoo puppy we named Daisy, gifted by you. Thank you! Daisy is what we needed to complete our family. My son Jonny was diagnosed with Leukemia at 2 years old. He relapsed a few times and had 2 bone marrow transplants (March 2018 and February 2019). He has been cancer free almost 5 years now. He also had to get 10 days of cranial radiation. He had to get the same head mold made like you did. The story of your life fascinated me and you seemed like a very intriguing, genuine human being. I, too like quantum physics! Now I understand how the Universe gifted Jonny such a perfect dog for our family so quickly and easily!  Thank you for gifting us such a beautiful puppy to bring us joy for so many years. I will carry the story of your life that I read here close to my heart. You are now a part of our story. Thank you! 
Love,
Jenny Leavens
J M
April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
You are 'forever missed' Lau...and forever in my heart.
June 22, 2020
June 22, 2020
Well buddy, we’ve talked about this day, but I thought there would be time for more conversations. Throat cancer and Covid 19 erased that time away, and I sure do hurt for the loss of it. It seems a very cruel thing that a man with an appetite for every imaginable kind of food, and one ready for any kind of conversation would be deprived of both for the last 3 months of his life. Of course, you took it in stride as you do everything else. You were a dear sweet and exceptionally good friend and I can only hope to emulate some of your wonderful character traits. I miss you muchly, my friend, and I’m hoping to hear that Oakey twang this next time around.
His Life

Memorial, Donations and More

May 3, 2020
by J M
Dick's Celebration of Life was a beautiful event, held in Coloma on Saturday, July 11th. If you would like to see a short, sweet slide show from the day, please contact Janet for a link.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to one of Dick's favorite charities, the Placerville Boys and Girls Club: www.bgce.org or to the American Amateur Radio League https://www.arrl.org/arrl-donation-form.  Please note "in memory of Dick Fults" in the comments section of your donation.

Finally, check out the "Gallery" section of this site for photos, videos & songs, and the "Stories" section for recollections about Lau. And please share photos and stories of your own!

Thank you!
Janet Maineri
PO Box 86, Coloma, CA 95613
530 642 9425

Recent stories

The Origin of “Dickie Lau“

May 5, 2020
In the early 1980s, a group of of friends (Dick, Ronnie Rosen, Leo Bergman, Georgette Quie, Nancy Smith, Denise Platt, Fran Baskin and me) decided to take a trip to Kihei, Maui, together. We rented a couple of condos for a week and did nothing but carry on, hang out at the beach, eat, drink and play 24/7. “The girls” in the group found ourselves singing (with the help of a few Pina Coladas) the Hawaiian song “Going to a Hukelau” and since we all loved Dickie, we changed the words from Hukelau to Dickie-Lau. “Oh we’re going to a Dickie-Lau; to a Dickie, Dickie, Dickie, Dickie Dickie-Lau”! We started each day with our new anthem and our Dickie-Lau was so named. Eventually he adopted a self-proclaimed shortened version to “Lau“ when he would sign off on a voice mail message, a card, etc., and simply say ”Ciao. Lau.”
So..ciao, my dear Lau. I know I’ll see you again.

The Termite Farm

May 3, 2020
by J M
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At an art gallery near Sea Ranch last year, I found THE most perfect gift for Lau...a termite farm, aptly named the "Termitat".  Basically, it's a slice of a log elegantly sandwiched between plexiglass into which a small colony of termites lives. You occasionally give them water and watch as they bore through the wood, creating an interesting pattern of tunnels.

Dick and I loved finding 'that perfect gift' for each other. As soon as I saw the Termitat, I knew I had to get it for Lau. I gave it to him for Christmas last year; this is his reaction...he didn't disappoint!

Lau Disarms Attempted Robber; Holds at Gunpoint

May 3, 2020
by J M
As I recall this story, one day when Dick was working in the pawn shop, a guy came in and held him up at knifepoint. He forced Dick to give him a gun, and then demanded bullets. Well, the pawn shop didn't keep bullets for obvious reasons. Dick astutely said he was getting the guy bullets, and instead pulled out a loaded gun they had on premises, and pointed it at him.

He told the thief something like, "this gun is loaded, my finger is on the trigger, and I'm nervous, so don't make any sudden moves." He then proceeded to get the robber to drop his knife and wait there at gunpoint, while Dick called the police. 

This article says "Ronnie's Pawn Shop" but he worked for Billy Bob Ramey at what I thought was called "Bill's Pawn Shop".  Anyway, very cool thinking on Lau's part...what a guy!

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