i was twenty when i fell pregnant having my son at twenty one & even though i was old enough i remember been terrified of telling my mam so i got my friend karen (whos now my sister-in-law) to tell her. i neednt have worried though she took everything in hand was with me right throughout from getting organised to everything i needed, making sure i was ok in myself getting plenty of rest to being there for the birth which i was absolutley petrified about but she calmed me down, and when my son did arrive she was besotted with him, she was the perfect nana just like she was the perfect mam. which is more than i could have said about myself at the start of motherhood not used to having my son at first, i once left him in his pushchair outside of a shop, how bad was that ? once again my mam took everything in hand calming me down when i was having izzy fits thinking i wouldnt see my son again, i can laugh about it now but believe me it wasnt funny at the time. there was also this other time when mam & i took michael for a walk stopping to have a look in the shop window none of us realised the pushchair was rolling out on to the road, we both thought the other had hold of it, now my son is older he never lets me live it down its amazing his turned out the way he as after having a bang to the head ha ha, my mam really was the best xx