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Tuesday, February 13th 2018, Dr. Stephen Abayomi Obadele Meeks, a king within our midst, returned to his spiritual home. Born to this realm in August 1958, his life mission was to serve, elevate, and heal. A highly skilled and accomplished Community Leader, Martial Artist, Doctor of Oriental Medicine, Musician, and Yoruba Priest, he was a vanguard with the ability to inspire others to be their best authentic selves. Dr. Meeks believed that “as a servant for god, love inspires the willpower which then directs us with the wisdom to help others!” 

Recognized nationwide for Martial Arts skills in both African and Asian traditions, Dr. Meeks instilled his students with a respect for tradition while encouraging innovation. He taught that the way of the warrior is to establish harmony by nurturing the seeds of love, compassion, courage, and integrity.

He is lovingly referred to as Bawo by his students, recognizing his rank as an 8 degree black belt and the highest ranking Master Teacher in the South African martial arts tradition of Isinaphakade Samathongo in the United States.

In 1990, Dr. Meeks co-founded the Moyo Nguvu Cultural Arts Center, the first Pan-African cultural and healing arts center in the state of Colorado that promoted diversity and inclusiveness. Originally from Brooklyn, New York, he brought his nationally recognized Children’s Rites of Passage (CROP) program to Colorado. A program which has since graduated more than 2,000 children of all ethnic backgrounds. In addition, the Center’s Kwanzaa Karimu was the first and largest public celebration in Colorado for more than 22 years.

Dr. Meeks was the first licensed African American acupuncturist in the state of Colorado and, over the course of 27 years was responsible for helping hundreds of thousands in Colorado restore health and balance to their lives. As a healer and activist, he was committed to providing health services to underserved communities successfully partnering with social service organizations and foundations to reduce health disparities, especially in the Black and Latino communities.

He approached problems with tenacity and sincerity resulting in the formation of meaningful relationships, innovative solutions; and, for his patients, physical and spiritual healing.

His courage, spiritual integrity, unconditional love, and generosity made a positive and lasting impact on all who had the honor and privilege to know him. He was peerless. He was larger than life, our super-hero… He will be, well and truly missed.

Dr. Meeks is survived by his Mother Pearl Meeks; his son’s Oji, Kumasi, and Adeyemi Meeks; his brother’s Keith, and Dwayne Meeks; grand-daughter, aunts, uncles, neices, nephews, cousins, and his numerous students.

In accordance with Dr. Meeks wishes there will not be a funeral service. Instead the public is invited to join his family and the Moyo Nguvu Cultural Arts Center for a “Celebration of Life” on 14 April 2018 from 1:00 –4:00pm at the Summit Event Center at 411 Sable Blvd. Aurora 80011.

For more information, visit our website at www.moyoarts.com; call 303-377-2511; or email MoyoNguvu@gmail.com.

September 5, 2023
September 5, 2023
On this day I wanted to take time to remember a brother not by blood but through shared moments in life. The memories you gave me will never be forgotten, you were truly one of a kind and I will always cherish those moments we shared.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Abayomi, You were my first teacher in Chinese Medicine over 30 years ago. I have thought about you over the years and wondered how you were. You were a magnificient human being and I always lit up when you came into the room. I still remember so manny things you taught us. Dry brush up with the yin meridians and down with the yang meridians. I did that for many years. Thank you for being the wonderful, gentle teacher you were. Lena Rothman
February 7, 2021
February 7, 2021
Yomi, you taught me Tai Chi in Brooklyn in 1988-89 when I was 23, up until you set out for Colorado to make your outstanding life. Now, over 30 years later, your wisdom, focus, and example still inspire me. You have left behind many communities who miss you. My belated condolences to your family. Pearl, my thoughts are with you.
September 1, 2020
September 1, 2020
Yomi, you and all of the wisdom you shared, remain in my thoughts. On your be-earthday, may you continue to rest in power.

You Are Missed
T.
August 31, 2020
August 31, 2020
Its your earthly birthday Yomi and I stopped by to let you know I was thinking of you. Not just today, but from time to time, the fond memories come to mind.... I remain.....

May you rest in peace.
I
September 1, 2019
September 1, 2019
We live in the light that you shined upon our lives!

RIP

August 31, 2019
August 31, 2019
We live in your shadow - love and miss you
August 31, 2019
August 31, 2019
Each week I receive acupuncture therapy to help with my arthrist. Each week I am reminded about Yomi as my doctor, mentor and friend.
Rest in peace.
February 27, 2019
February 27, 2019
Dr. Yomi Meeks,
You are missed.
Thank you for being an amazing spirit! 
T. Ann Bailey
April 28, 2018
April 28, 2018
I remember it being ~1972 when Stephen and I met. We lived around the corner from each other, and grew up together amongst a group of friends on Montgomery St., Brooklyn, NY. Among the years I grew fond of the Meeks family and forever that shall remain... With so many years shared with Stephen and family, I have been blessed to be a "sister" to Keith and Dwayne, a "daughter" to my other mother Pearl, and a dear friend in life with Stephen. There are no words I can express for the loss of Stephen, but God knows best and to know him was to love him.... He was witty, had a great sense of humor, humble, and a accomplished man. A warrior, a father, a teacher, a help mate to those he didn't even know, and so much more...

I thank God for blessing us to have known each other for 40+ years! Stephen will be forever missed and remembered by me, and many others because of who he was, and how he lived his life. A legacy of a job well done on earth caring for mankind, and service to others that will live on forever.....

Please join me in prayer for the Meeks family.

Rest In Peace My Dear Friend,
Dr. Stephen Abayomi Meeks
April 14, 2018
April 14, 2018
Dr. Meeks you will be missed. You were a very special person who has accomplished many things in such a short . Period time. Your smile lite up a room.
April 7, 2018
April 7, 2018
“To be brave is to cry, but you still fought”

My Dear Yomi,
The very last day we talked, I forgot to say Thank You. Thank you, for the lessons you taught! Thank you for being an amazing man and an amazing nephew! I truly miss you and our long talks we used to have. I wish Heaven took phones calls and had visiting hours; lord knows I’d be the first one calling! You are missed more than you could ever imagine. You will be in my heart forever! I will always love you!!!

Love Aunt Nina aka El Niño
March 30, 2018
March 30, 2018
Yomi a true King, Leader and Warrior of our family and his community. My heart stopped when I learned that my beautiful cousin had departed from this place called earth. I thank you for all the conversations and love that you shared. And though I cry, I’m able to smile through my tears in knowing you have taken your seat next to our almighty God and I am comforted in knowing you have reached the pinnacle in life - impacting lives. My beautiful cousin who exuded beauty all over, I thank you for the colorful memories you edged in my heart and my memory. And, knowing you, I know that you will continue from the heavens above guide us all in navigating life.  Rest In Peace my Hero, cousin, big brother and friend. You are forever missed. I will always love you
March 27, 2018
March 27, 2018
My dear brother from another mother, I am so happy for your freedom. At the same time I am deeply saddened by your passing and send my heartfelt condolences to your mother, family, friends and godparents. I barely knew you. Yet our conversations were intense, honest, insightful, compassionate, caring and filled with love. Only now do I get to know the depth of your accomplishments by the grace of this website. Thank you for being my brother from another mother, one of my personal heroes and powerful inspiration for my life. Thank you for helping me to focus on my life’s purpose and to not take time or life for granted.
March 22, 2018
March 22, 2018
Posted on behalf of Aunt Aguida:

"A Man of Wonder"

W- Warrior, chosen at birth & fulfilled to the end of this life on earth.
O- Originality to create & alter change for the betterment of others.
N- never giving up on his beliefs.
D- daring to be different.
E- everlasting legacy of life.
R- redeemer who claimed dignity through his suffering.

I Love You, Aunt Aguida
March 19, 2018
March 19, 2018
Yomi was an amazing, beautiful spirit. I will be forever grateful for his time, energy and words of wisdom he shared with me. He was a blessing to our community and will be missed. My condolences to his wonderful family.
March 18, 2018
March 18, 2018
As this MAGNIFICENT KING travels his path of a warrior moving through space and time (within all levels of consciousness and returns full circle), I send out spirit, light, abundance and love, to all the lives he has touched. You are all in my consciousness as you honor and celebrate the life of a GREAT MASTER. Peace and love be with you all...
March 17, 2018
March 17, 2018
I am eternally grateful to Abayomi for the lasting impression and continued support he gave in raising my Son. For many years Moyo was an important part of my Family's life. Abayomi's legacy will not be forgotten. Rest, my Brother. Until . . .
March 15, 2018
March 15, 2018
My heartfelt condolences on the transitioning of this incredible soul.
Yomi was and IS an amazing light for all, and inspiration for living in the truth of one's being and his holding the space for our vibrational evolution. Yomi your physical presence will be sorely missed. Your essence is still very much here with us. Thank you for all you taught, and continue to teach, me.
March 14, 2018
March 14, 2018
On behalf of my family and myself, I want to extend our heartfelt condolences to family of Brother Meeks. My personal memory of Brother Meeks is that from a young age he was well focused, highly driven & self motivated. He was extremely protective of his family and anyone he allowed in his inner circle.
He had enormous respect for others while at the same time demanding it for himself. I am deeply saddened upon hearing of his transition. I know that his impact on others will allow his legacy to continue.
May his soul forever Rest In Peace.
March 11, 2018
March 11, 2018
Greetings from The Asante Nation in Asante Nkonim Kurom (Victory Town) in Philadelphia. The drum has sounded that a Great Tree has fallen. Bawa Abayomi Obadele Meeks impact has left an indelible footprint on our hearts and spirits forever. We send our spirit guides to join his spirit helping to ensure a safe and peaceful transition back home to the land of our Ancestors. Much love, support and respect to the entire family as we all envision and embrace Perfect Peace together.......FOREVER
March 10, 2018
March 10, 2018
My heart aches. In his memory, I will move forward and share his love, peace and joy as best I am able. I will forever be grateful for the time Yomi gave me; his gentle message made me stronger; and for that I am blessed and forever grateful. Love and Peace to his family and loved ones.
March 10, 2018
March 10, 2018
We love you Cousin Yomi, We thank you for your LEADERSHIP!!! Black men need it every day and We know that you will be watching over us from Heaven. Love, Your young cousins but more like nephews, Bryan,
Brandyn and Peter Rogers.
March 10, 2018
March 10, 2018
Yomi was a king and will be truly missed!! He lives within us all and will never be forgotten!! He blessed us with his handsome smile, his laugh, his intelligence, his talks, his wisdom, skills, his manly strength. persistence, love respect for his mother, his sons, his family, his students, and finally his work for his patients and for the community. Yomi, you will be missed! we love you!! But God loves you more!!    love you, your sister, Cousin, friend
                          Miko Rogers
March 8, 2018
March 8, 2018
My condolences pours out to his loving family and extended family. Dr. Meeks was able to accomplish more for his people at such a young age, than many in several life times. As a Yoruba Priest he was well grounded in his spiritual life. Let's celebrate and be grateful for his life in this incarnation and look forward to his return in the next. Ase'

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September 5, 2023
September 5, 2023
On this day I wanted to take time to remember a brother not by blood but through shared moments in life. The memories you gave me will never be forgotten, you were truly one of a kind and I will always cherish those moments we shared.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
Dear Abayomi, You were my first teacher in Chinese Medicine over 30 years ago. I have thought about you over the years and wondered how you were. You were a magnificient human being and I always lit up when you came into the room. I still remember so manny things you taught us. Dry brush up with the yin meridians and down with the yang meridians. I did that for many years. Thank you for being the wonderful, gentle teacher you were. Lena Rothman
February 7, 2021
February 7, 2021
Yomi, you taught me Tai Chi in Brooklyn in 1988-89 when I was 23, up until you set out for Colorado to make your outstanding life. Now, over 30 years later, your wisdom, focus, and example still inspire me. You have left behind many communities who miss you. My belated condolences to your family. Pearl, my thoughts are with you.
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My first Role Model

April 6, 2019

As a young boy (5 years old) I met Dr. Meeks at Cleo Parker Robinson's dance camp. Over the next two years my mom drove me the 45 minutes every weekend to the Moyo Nguvu martial arts center where I learned African Martial Arts. I took great pride, even as a boy, in knowing Dr. Meeks and learning from him the culture and practice he taught. He is the one who taught me the difference between a soldier and a Warrior. A soldier is educated in the art of war and how to destroy their enemy. A Warrior is one who uses his or her strength to protect the Weak. I cannot convey properly how powerful this message was to me, how formative. Dr. Meeks was my first Role Model. I will always remember him and his message. I take great, great pride in having known him and learned from him.

My Teacher Stephen Abayomi Meeks, A True Warrior!

July 15, 2018

Stephen Abayomi Meeks was my teacher for many years. I came to him by chance and stayed as spirit family. A true warrior he was, he taught me so much and to this day I still use his teachings. I owe him so much, he taught me about self care, he taught me what discipline was all about and he taught me about community. Stephen Abayomi Meeks bridged the gap between communities as he was honest, sincere and more than happy to teach anyone with a sincere heart and spirit. I still get tingles when I think about his teachings. I swear he could read my mind. I often tell people about how at any moment during one of his profound lectures he would look at me as if he knew what I was going through. Stephen Abayomi Meeks was unlike any other teacher I ever had. He was the best teacher I ever had, and his heart and skills were masterful. I absolutely loved our Saturday and Thursday training sessions. Often I would leave a saturday class completely exhausted yet feel like I could jump a mountain and land safely! I’m honored to have had the chance to be taught by him, to have been part of Moyo, to have been welcomed in like family. Stephen Abayomi Meeks was one of the wisest men I’ve ever known and I’m grateful for everything he taught me. Today I was reminded of him and I feel I saw him in spirit. Back when I was training with a moyo we were all given animal spirits and I was named the spider. Today as I was sharing my stories about Moyo with a friend a little spider appeared and I looked down and was comforted. Rest In Peace Stephen Abayomi Meeks.

Love, respect and gratitude,

Eric Novack 

My nephew, my friend!

April 7, 2018

       I have known Yomi, as he was affectionately known all of his life. He is my nephew and my friend. I watched him grow into a man. Through that process I watched him grow spiritually moving closer to the energy we call God. He has been watched over and guided in that endeavour! Favor has always been put upon him ev en when it appeared to be negative! He was strong physically, mentally and spiritually! He loves and trusts God! After that it was his family and the martial arts of which he studied many styles, combining to create his own! A master and Sifu he is! He has pride and style, he loved nice clothes, with a style of his own. The way he walked, the way he talked, the way he stood tall, especially when he was in an aggressive stance! He didn’t fear anything, including the transition we call death! Yet he loved life in its many forms! Crazy about his mother, brothers, children! He has a special affection for his students! Well known for his profession and healing art acupuncture with which he helped many including myself! He loves nature, water, the mountains etc! An enfinity for the Universe! His sence of humor is second to none! He is a special man and spirit from my point of view! The smile,the way he would rub and scratch his nose! Those of you who know him know exactly what I’m talking about!!!! I love him and can’t say enough about him! If you noticed I never spoke of him in the past tense simply because he is not gone, he is still here, physically we we cannot hold and embrace him, but we can hold and embrace him in our hearts and mind! I will never let you go!!!! I love you Yomi my homey, my nephew my friend!!!! May Gods Peace be upon you!!!!

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