February 25, 2021
by Emaeyak Etim
I met Dr. Umez for the first time during Mboho Ndito Ibibio National Convention here in Houston Texas in June of 2017. I remember noticing Professor Umez as he walked into that convention arena to represent the Nigerian Foundation as the President of that organization at the time, as he got recognized to speak at the event, I couldn't help but noticed his great command of English, his baritone voice, his charisma, and his charming look which I believe was quite noticeable by most people at the event. To sum it all, he had all the right words to say when he gave a short speech before making his donation on behalf of the Nigerian Foundation, (an organization which he graciously represented). In less than no time, I soon realized that Dr. Umez was our very own Annang son-in-law, which drew me even closer to him. From his relationship with my sister, (his widow) Mrs. Emaido Umez, I came to know a true legend, a true gentleman, a great teacher, a great husband, a great father, a dependable friend, a selfless humanitarian whose love for others knew no tribal boundaries. "Oh, death! where is thy sting" Little did I know that I would write a tribute so soon in memory of someone as young and as vibrant as my dearest handsome brother-in-law. Since the news of Dr. Umez's untimely death broke, I have been in denial, it has been so surreal, I have tried to wish it away, i have tried to wake up from this nightmare but soon realized that death is so inevitable and it's one call of nature that, none of has the power to control its cruelty. Dr. Umez, your sudden death, has thought me how fragile life really is, you were a true matriarch and you have left a scar in our hearts which no one can fill. You will forever be missed because if it's not "Prof, it can never be like Prof". Adieu, my handsome brother-in-law "ukot Annang ajid" till we meet to part no more.