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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Alfonza Stakley, MD, 74, born on November 5, 1939 and passed away on February 17, 2014. We will remember him forever.

Please take a moment to leave a tribute or write a story. May the Lord bless you and keep you.

February 23, 2014
February 23, 2014
Dr.Stakley was a passion,loving, caring and very gracious for his patients. I have seen him, everytime a patient came in with no money or even not enough money, he never, never turned anybody away..He will tell them, I am going to see you and treated you but you need to come back and pay me. We as employees, do not like his plan but he always said, "My blessing comes from God". Sometimes, these patients will come back and pay him but mostly times they do not. Mostly times Doctor will write off their bills, and not only that patients would ask him for bus fares when they do not have money and he always gave it to them without hesitation, sometimes gave them a ride. As many years I worked for him he cared for his patients a lot, even spoiled them, and did everything what is best for them @ all times. He was a doctor for the poor..as many said not only he treated them for their physical illnesses but let them to the Lord...He was an annointed man and had wisdom, I had witnessed him told the patient what their sickness is before he even examined them. He was a gifted doctor with the annointed of the Holy Spirit. He had all the gift of the Holy Spirit. He was an intelligent doctor with a lot of humor. I had witnessed him with lots of miracles performed in the office.  He was a Godly man humble and a very excellent teacher,never raised his voice or even get angry, no matter how many wrongs I did he always forgiving me and give me chances.. Doctor, I know your patients will be missing you and mostly your office...You are a truly the doctor for the people who in need, This is one of many legacies you left for us,,,,There are many more to tell...your memories will always be in my heart as well as my family and many others...
My family and I will remembered you and the good deeds you planted in us will continued to apply in our lives. I do not know whether there is a boss I can find in this world like you...You are one of a kind...
Goodbye...we will dearly missed you...your memories and your legacy will carry on as long as I live..
Mrs.Stakley, Steven&Wanda, Serabella Ezekiel, Denise and the family,I am sorry about your loss and my family offered condolences for your family in this time of sadness..There are no words to express how deeply sorry we are..Prayers for your family always, The world is at loss for a great physician and a very compassionate, humble man..He is gone but never forgotten.
February 23, 2014
February 23, 2014
My doctor my friend. Gone to soon, but only the Lord knows Now I know what that dream meant. He said to me, he was not my doctor anymore, my doctpr is along way from here his name is FREE Washington. Miss you much, Cinda Johnspn
February 22, 2014
February 22, 2014
Mere words cannot express the gratitude from the entire Gaines family for decades of loving and caring service. You will be greatly missed.
February 22, 2014
February 22, 2014
Dear Dr Stakley,

You have been seeing me and my husband for years you are an amazing physician caring loving and always a joke and a smile you will be miss there will never be another Dr like you Rest In Peace
Delton And Adrienne Cowart
February 22, 2014
February 22, 2014
Dear Dr. Stakley
My whole family was sadden to hear of your death my mother and father were deeply effected by your passing we remember the great times of coming in as a family to be seen by you. You were an amazing MAN OF GOD one of my fond memories is when I came in complaining of my weight thinking you were gonna give me a quick fix welp, you did Dr Stakley went and grab his bible went to proverbs and told me how I was made lol when I got married I came back to let Dr know and he just smiled and said I TOLD CHA LOL we love and miss you Dr Rest and receive your crown.  THE COWART FAMILY.
February 22, 2014
February 22, 2014
I knew Dr. Stakley my whole life because he has always been there for me since day one. Dr. Stakley was not just a Doctor, he was also a blesser for every person that walks in to the office. Dr. Stakley felt like a loving, most generous father to me and my family. He would always help out my mother (Laisa Masealii who works with Dr. Stakley) if she was in a big problem or needed help. I have remember that every single birthday he would give me money for a birthday gift. Dr. Stakley will always be in my heart!!! I love you Dr. Stakley and now I know you are in a better place now!!!
February 22, 2014
February 22, 2014
I am so blessed to work for Dr.Stakley, not only was my boss but a father in our working place..You had taught us in so many things, you brought us under you wings and treated us like your own children, everytime we messed up or having problems, you were always there. You are a true Godly man, compassionate, faithful, patience, humble and have so much wisdom but foremost is your endless love for us. You will be truly missed and thank you for everything you had done in our lives..
February 21, 2014
February 21, 2014
I am very thankful to have worked for Dr. Stakley. He was a compassionate, spiritual, trustworthy and funny man that society and the medical industry is at a lost for no longer having a man like Dr. Stakley. He not only became my boss, but my mentor. As a doctor, his goal was not only to heal the patient’s physical illnesses, but also win them for Christ. As a boss, he not only cared for his employees, but for their families as well.
“Dr. Stakley, my family and I will forever miss you.”
February 21, 2014
February 21, 2014
Dear Dr Stakley we love you and we want you to take care and God will take care of you and also thank you for taking care of me when I was sick and taking care of my mom thank you for giving my mom her job. I will remember you for ever this is keila rosa 8yrs old.
February 20, 2014
February 20, 2014
To My Dad Stakley, may this site bring honor to you and represent a life well-lived.

To Visitors: May this site bless you. I encourage you to leave a message or story. The stories help the healing process and hopefully inspire us all. May God bless you and keep you.
February 20, 2014
February 20, 2014
HE DIDN'T KEEP ANYTHING FOR HIMSELF, HE GAVE EVERYTHING TO US............To all of the many patients, coworker, and colleagues touched by his spirit, lets forever be good stewards of Doctor Stakley's memory by being better teachers and spiritual leaders so that others will see the light he put in us...gone but never forgotten!!!!!!!!!!!!!
February 20, 2014
February 20, 2014
I was deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Stakley's passing. He was a very compassionate physician and a strong partner in healthcare. I personally enjoyed going to his office to meet with him and was honored to meet his wife and son during my last visit. My thoughts are with his family and his dedicated staff during this very difficult time.
February 20, 2014
February 20, 2014
To my brother, who from humble beginnings went on to bless a multitude.

“What you are is God's gift to you, what you become is your gift to God.”

― Hans Urs von Balthasar

“Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”

― Mother Teresa
February 20, 2014
February 20, 2014
Dr. Al Stakley was my best friend. I first met him in 1976, and we have been close ever since. I can only say that this world is a better place for having had Alfonso Stakley as one of its inhabitants. Al, I will miss you more than I could ever express in words. VIA CON DIOS, MY BROTHER.
Ed
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WOW what a different world it seems to be now 8 years later. The pandemic has changed how we live.
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STILL REMEMBERING THE TIME WE HAD TOGETHER.... GOD IS GOOD !!

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February 17, 2015

I got to know Dr. Stakley, through his wife Cynthia, we became friend at CCC, at which time she was the President of our women fellowship.I met  Dr. Stakley at one of our womens retreat, he like Apostle Price, wanted to always be with his lovely wife, Cynthia.   on different occasions I would  ask him question about difference vitamins, the importance what to take so I could  be healthy he would always tell me I don't know what your during, but what ever it is keep on during it" you don't need me.every time he see me a church,  we would laugh out loud" I did let him know that I like vegetables and that I grew collard greens in my yard, would belive the next day they came over and pick a batch" WOW that was the kind of man he was, down to earth, He was most of my senior friends Medical Dr. He took care a lots of my friends just through prayer, like it was stated he was a prayer worror"he knew who was the healer.He had Wisdom, Knowlege,and a doer of God Words.  Oh yes I miss seeing him, special on Sundays, I always would look across the roll and see them together. and now  Cynthia still sit, but the other sit is not empty, she is surround with family and friends, my condolance go out to you Mrs. Stakley, Our God is awesome" and he'll take you though this, I promise, I'm going to share some of Mrs. Stakley photos of her back in the day" she was one of our greatest Presidents of our CCC womens Fellowship, alone with other presidents . God bless this family

BigMomma  

A Friend, Doctor, Prayer Warrior

March 17, 2014

I met Dr. Stakley many years ago at Crenshaw Christian Center.  I had the awesome opportunity to sit on the Executive Board with him.  My family started going to see Dr. Stakley (affectionately called DOC) and found him to be a warm, caring physician who treated the whole person: spirit, soul and body.  Doc was a family doctor -- and might I add that there aren't many of them left.  He listened to you, prayed for you, and treated your illness.  I know God heals and he uses the hands of man to do it.  Doc allowed God to use him to treat his patients.  He was also an example of Jesus with skin on because he connected with the patients, he showed genuine concern for us, he prayed for us, and he encouraged us.  Then he would prescribe what we needed for the illness.

My husband was seeing Doc because of his heart condition, arthritis, and a battle with gout.  I recall on one visit that Doc encouraged John and let him know that there are many that have worse cases of gout and their limbs are deformed because of it.  He told my husband that he could get through his challenges with his heart and other illnesses by taking his meds, keeping his blood pressure in check and following Doc's simple orders.  John highly respected Doc and I think sometimes just went over to the office  just to get his opinion and prayer.  He always felt lifted when he left Doc's office.

In September 2013 John had a stroke.  I called Dr. StaKley and kept him informed of John's progress.  When he was released from the nursing home, he went to Doc whenever he was not feeling quite right, and Doc was always there for him.   Doc noticed that John was a little depressed, and he gentle and kindly ministered to him  to lift his spirits and get him back on track.

We will truly miss the doctor, friend, encourager, and the prayer warrior that Doc was to us.  We know he is rejoicing in Heaven because he has an opportunity to see Jesus face to face and he has rewards beyond what we can imagine.

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