We hope that you are looking down at those who love you and that you are at peace. People are reflecting on the goodness, compassion, and love that you showed in your life as a mother, as a nurse, and as a partner and friend. You are missed and we are sure that you recognize grief and see tears—and they are good things.
Grief shows that you mattered—that lives were touched by you…your absence leaves a mark…and those who love you will never forget you. Grief is a manifestation of love. All of that love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and the hollow part of your chest. Grief is love that has no place to go. And then the tears come with joyful memories that spill from the heart.
The memories of you are happy ones—full of smiles, happy times, and sunny days. You loved your family, and your definition of family was all inclusive. It didn’t matter if people were actually relatives, whoever was in your presence and at the dinner table received the same love and caring that you extended to all. When you said “Family times were the best times,” it included a vast number of people.
Sometimes in life you wonder if you made a difference in the lives of those around you—You did, and you will continue to influence the lives of those you love. You will be at every holiday, there will be loving memories, and fun stories shared in the years to come. And if we are fortunate, we will all be with you in the future. Thank you for touching our lives in so many ways. ~Gerry and Diane