My sister posted this on Facebook today and I think it is just so perfect and beautiful that I am sharing it.
Heather
Emerson, who we call Emmi, lived more in 10 years than I could live in 2 lifetimes, being the happiest little girl I know, which might sound like the kind of thing anyone would write about a child who passes away, but truly Emmi was very different-she had a joy about her that no one could quite understand that came from within and persisted through all circumstances. She was the girl that all of the other kids wanted to be around, both young and old. She went everywhere with a bounce in her ponytail and never went “out” without a stylish scarf. Despite being the pink-wearing fashionistia that she was, she was quite the tomboy, not afraid to work and get dirty and always happy to bring a snake, frog or salamander home to play pranks on Mom or go on a fishing date with Dad. She loved music and would wake up each morning belting out songs in the shower for all to hear followed by doing backflips in the living room before school. Being the gifted athlete that she was after this past summer Olympics Emmi insisted that she would go someday too but in soccer, gymnastics, and swimming. After placing 3rd in the Reindeer Run for girls 13 and under in her home town a few weeks ago (while running dressed as a Christmas present the whole time) she said she just knew she would be on the Track and Field Olympic team too-she had the timing between all 4 of the sports worked out and would train 1 year for each. She was quite the spitfire, nothing too far out of reach for her, but did everything humbly and with politeness that much surpassed her years. Above all though she never missed an opportunity to tell everyone around her how much she loved them. She could be found constantly making notes or gifts for her friends and family and gave constant hugs and kisses “just because”. She had a full-throttle, no regrets-kind of attitude and it showed in the way she found joy in everything she did and in the way she loved.
She was the youngest of 6 kids, and the only girl. She was Daddy’s “Principessa” and Mom’s mini-me. Her closest brother in age, Julian, was her very best friend. She was showered in affection by all and knew she was special, but she never flaunted it. To quote her obituary, “Her small frame carried a big personality and an even bigger heart.” For her Celebration of Life, one of her brothers wrote an excerpt that is also worth sharing and I couldn't agree with more:
“No words exist to adequately describe Emmi. I can tell you she was the happiest girl I have ever known, but that doesn’t embody the warmth her smile exuded, or elicit the joy it provided. I can tell you she was affectionate, but that doesn’t make you feel the embrace of her hugs or the love in her kisses. I can tell you she was passionate, but that doesn’t help you see the determination in her face as she competed athletically, or how she dug in her heels to beat her 5 older brothers in a game of basketball. I can tell you she was equal parts tom boy and girlie girl, but that doesn’t describe how adorable it was to watch her show off her earrings or put on nail polish.
I can try my absolutely hardest and use every word in the dictionary to portray our Emmi, but nothing will come close to truly capturing Emerson Jean Barbaro. I can only tell you I am honored to call her my sister, and am a better person for having known her and received her love. Although Emmi lived only 10 special years, her impact will last far more than her lifespan. I have never known a person to more aptly teach me lessons of love, joy, and vigor for life”.
So as you can see, Emmi was clearly no ordinary 10 year old. Although a tragic accident ended her life here on earth, she changed our lives more than she will ever know. She’s taught me that life doesn’t have to be so serious, that it’s ok to take risks and do it passionately, to play a little more, to not worry about what anybody else thinks, and to above all show people you love them every chance you get. She loved on everybody, loved life, and more importantly, loved Jesus, and I’m so lucky to have had the chance to see and hear that faith in action! What special moments that I will never forget. I pray that I too can love with the same exhilarated childlike faith like her!
Although I will continue to miss her and will never understand all of the questions that come with her death, I know that God is good, and He is always right. There is so much hope in tomorrow, and I know that I will see her again one day. He is taking such good care of her now and loving on her more than I can even imagine!
Before this incident I have to admit, I was uneasy about death. I didn’t really fear what would happen to me when I died, but I was worried about the dying process. I don’t know when or how I’ll go on my special day, but what I do know is that I’m no longer afraid. The process of dying is so relatively small to the glory and love to come. I also have hope that when I do, that I’ll be bombarded by kisses and giggles by my sweet Emerson, a Principessa of heaven, and she’ll escort me to see the one and only King.