My tribute to you is much over due. I was reminded again when your birthday came last month and Dan and I decided to go to dinner at one of your favorite steak houses in honor of. You should know, Dan has been very diligent about taking care of things in your absence and making all your arrangements. But this tribute isn't about that, this tribute is for you, a dear friend, an impressive lady, a very much missed fairy god mother. You showed me a new view on life, and taught me patience, tolerance, and acceptance, and their boundaries- and how to bad assly stand up for oneself when those boundaries are crossed. I laugh as I say that because it's so true. I miss you. We could, and often did, burn thru many hours talking, visiting, sharing, and comparing our life's stories. I know that your capacity for love was incredible, as was your loyalty. And I was always impressed with the way you fearlessly jumped into any project or task or chore or dilemma, even when it was someone else's problem you would help in any way you could. You not only shared the workload but also shared in the good times making sure everyone was included. We first met in 03 finding common ground and an immediate friendship which only grew with the years. We met some of each other's family members and shared holidays and special days. I sent you a birthday card last year and was touched when Dan recently returned it saying he found it pinned to the board in the kitchen and it obviously meant something to you. I love you too, lady. You were smart, fierce, just, funny, polite, good, lovely, honest, and so much more, but I hope that some of who you were sticks with me enough to shine thru in my daily life. I'm a better person for having known you. Peace.