Fidel, my Husband!
I write this tribute in memory of our early life together.
I remember, in those youthful days, that bright summer morning, at the Catholic University of America, Washington D.C. I was passing, heading for my summer school classes, while you were doing your alloted summer part-time job, mowing grass in front of one of the University buildings. You stopped, briefly, to ask me directions to somewhere. I stopped to give that direction & noticed this very handsome, tall & dark specimen of a young man, with a disarming toothy grin. But, apart from that, I perceived goodness, humanity & kindness which was what attracted me the most to you. That direction, led to a wider introduction of you being Nigerian, Igbo, etc. From then it was as if we we're almost inseperable, from outings with your late friend, also from Enugwu Ukwu, Eng. Kachi & friend, Flo, to studying together, to cooking( you taught me how to make ogbonno soup), to listening to your favourite high- life music, Celestine Ukwu & Steven Osadebey. 
The first time I introduced you to my father & family in New York, they liked you instantly. You did have that unmistakable charm!
In marriage, in Nigeria, you were kind & sympathetic, through all the challenges, but you were also human.
I will not go further, except to say that there was love, there was laughter and God blessed us with many beautiful children.
As you go to the next phase of our earthly journey, I ask that the Almighty looks at you with sympathy & understanding, forgives you any offence and makes a place for you in his heavenly abode.
  Adieu, Fidel! Go well!
     Your Wife, Joy.

Dear uncle you will be missed. Your laughter and good humor filled the room and brought us all joy. We will miss your smile and the words that came with it. We pray that as God has called you back to him he grant you peace and eternal joy as you brought to us all.

Ijeoma,

Your Nephew

- Nche Ngini

Hi Dad,

It took me a awhile to figure out the words to use to say to you.

Goodbyes are the most difficult thing to say so i am not saying goodbye because your memories would always be with us forever. I want to thank you for all the advice, love, motivation and most especially giving me life. I would always cherish all the kind words and lessons you taught me I won't be where i am without you. You where father not just me but to so many people, and your kindness had no boundaries.

I know where ever you are right now you will be smiling and having a nice cold beer because you know we will never forget and a part of you will always be with us.

I will miss you
We will miss you

You are loved by many and your memories will live forever ❤️

Your son
Onyedika

TRIBUTE TO MY UNCLE, NZEADACHIE, A RARE GEM



It has finally dawned to me that you have temporary left us till we meet to part no more. Uncle Fide/ Nzeadachie, like I fondly call you, It came as a rude shock to me on Friday March 22nd when I got a call from my Brother informing me of your demise, I Wept. You've left us, but your foot prints shall remain in the records of history.

A man of peace, a hope for the hopeless has suddenly left us.Who do I resort to for the usual fatherly advice I receive from you?

By any measure you lived an exemplary, purposeful and fulfilling life that is worthy of emulation and celebration. I am very grateful for the positive and profound influence you had on my life in so many ways that cannot be enumerated or quantified. Your empathy and willingness to engage with those who sort out your help in whatever shape or form and whatever they may be was always evident and admirable.

I am grief-stricken on your passing-on but must surrender to our Lord's will , as I find succor in celebrating the exemplary and fulfilling life you lived..
We love you but God loves you more.

Rest in Peace Man of Peace

Rest in Peace Uncle Fide

Rest in Peace NZEADACHIE

JEE NKE OMA

Your Nephew
Okey Awachie

Dear Uncle Fide,
Thank you for showing us that strength and humility can reside in one person.
We will miss your cheerful spirit. Rest on.

Tribute to my Dear Uncle Fide
My Dearest Uncle,I remember your cheerful nature, and your kindness. You were always so full of life and lent a helping to those in need. We will miss you Uncle.Rest in Peace

With a heavy heart and total submission to the will of God, I write this over the unimaginable loss of our dear cousin brother - Fidelis Nwangwu (Nzeadachie).
Nzeadachie was one person among our cousins whom everyone can relate with irrespective of age or class because of his fondly, cheerful, open and loving heart. He had value for relationships with special attention to blood relatives. His openness and hilarious laughter creates lively and conducive environment that gives warmth of brotherhood whenever you are around him. He was handsome and good looking but most importantly garnished with a beautiful heart that made him special. We will surely miss him dearly.
Though he was sick for quite sometime, yet the news of his death caught me with shock and devastation for I have always trusted God he would pull through. However, we resign to the will of God. And as the saying goes - " Though Earth's Loss, Heaven Gains "for God loves him more.
Adieu Nzeadachie adieu, may the eternal perpetual light of God shine upon you, adieu nwanne ma nwanne ya.

Franca Mgbodu
(On behalf of Aunty Abagana Family)

I can't forget the first day I met with you, it was an encouragement session, your words of motivation became fire in my bones. I will always cherish those moments of Impacts. Keep resting sir as we have great testimonies to share about you.Till we met again where death can't separate us.

Dear uncle,

I will remember your kind smile, warmth and your generally cheerful nature. I hope that you got to truly live your life while on earth. I’m sure you did.

Now it’s time to rest, and I hope that you rest peacefully with God.

Your legacy will live on, always and forever. ✨

TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER-IN-LAW, ENGR. FIDEL NWANGWU

I am really short of words. There was a lot of lost time between us but it didn’t matter, because it didn’t change the fact that you had my family's best interest at heart.

I learned a lot from you, starting from the first day my wife introduced me to you when we visited you at your house in Port Harcourt. You were very intelligent, hardworking and always down to earth. You wanted the best for us and the entire family.

Marriage not only brings two hearts together in love but also unites families. I am delighted to have had you as my brother-in-law. Indeed, I will forever cherish the years I knew and encountered you.

While you lived on earth, you stood firm for the entire family. I know you will, in your heavenly abode, always desre to see all of us happy and united. May God Almighty that you have gone to be with keep you peacefully till we meet to part no more.

Rest on my brother-in-law.

Kenneth Odusola-Stevenson

"IN LOVING MEMORY OF ENGR. FIDELIS NWANGWU, AN INCREDIBLE CO-IN-LAW AND AN AMAZING FRIEND".

Your passing leaves a void in our lives that can never be filled, but your memory will forever be etched in our hearts.
Your kindness, compassion, and generosity inspired us all to be better people.
Your infectious laughter, your thoughtful gestures, and your unconditional love made you a treasured member of our family.
As a co-in-law, you became more than just a family tie – you became a true friend, a trusted confidant, and a partner in every sense of the word.
We cherish the memories of our time together, the laughter we shared, and the moments we supported each other through life's ups and downs.
Your strength, resilience, and determination inspired us all, and we're so grateful for the time we had with you.
Your legacy lives on through the countless lives you touched, and we'll continue to celebrate your life and memory in the days ahead.
Rest in peace, dear Engr. Fidelis Nwangwu, we'll miss you more than words can express, but we know that you're now at peace, free from pain and suffering.
Your love, spirit, and memory will never be forgotten.
With all our love and appreciation; requiscat in pace.....Amen!

HRH, Igwe Sir. Bernard .O. Emejuo
Ebube Agụ 1 of Dara Ancient Kingdom - Eziagu Town.

In Loving Memory of Uncle Fide

In the quiet corners of our hearts, where memories linger like cherished treasures, there resides a special place for you, dear Uncle Fide. As we bid farewell, we find solace in the love and light you brought into our lives.

To my dear uncle, brother to my mother, your presence was a beacon of warmth and kindness. You navigated life with a gentle grace, leaving behind footprints of compassion and wisdom for us to follow.

Your laughter echoed through our family gatherings, a melody of joy that filled our souls with happiness. You were more than an uncle; you were a pillar of strength, a source of comfort in times of need. Your unconditional love knew no bounds, and your guidance shaped us into the people we are today.

Though you may have departed from this world, your spirit lives on in the memories we hold dear. We will carry your legacy in our hearts, honoring your kindness, generosity, and unwavering love.

As we say goodbye for now, we take comfort in knowing that you have found peace in the arms of eternity. May your journey be filled with light and love, as you watch over us from heavens above.

Rest in peace, dear Uncle Fide. You will forever remain in our hearts, a shining star guiding us through life's journey.

With love and eternal gratitude,
Kenechukwu Okponyia (Your Nephew)

MEMORIES...We Lost a Gem

As a young child, I thought my beloved brother, Fidelis, was from Congo. I remember he loved and danced often to Congolese music. At the end of each music, nostalgically and with a joyful face, he would say, "ndi ukwunne m", meaning my maternal people. Silently, I longed to meet his people. I was certain they would be as loving, warm and kind as this person I knew and admired. He was passionate.

Then, I learned the expression, "Clement Wey fine, time no dey". I don't know the origin, but it often reminded me of the story about a young Tiv boy my brother, Fidelis ,brought home. He told my parents the young boy had no place to stay, so he had to bring him home. He cared.

While a student at the University of Nigeria, my classmate who hailed from Rivers State told me he was going to Port Harcourt. I gave him my brother's address and asked that he should look in and greet him. When my classmate came back, he told me my brother Fidelis was kind and generous. Not only did he send me pocket money, he also gave my classmate some money. He was thoughtful.

My brother Fidelis was a kind and generous man, very unassuming. He touched many lives. A couple of relatives have shared with me how my brother made a huge impact on their lives. They all ended by saying "...you won't understand". Yes, I may not understand, but I sure can imagine. Fidelis was like a massive umbrella that provided a shed for as many as it could shelter. That is my brother, the very one we bid farewell to today. He reached out.

If Fidelis believed in your cause, he took it up and drove it with all intent, brevity and passion. He stood for justice and equity, and despised oppression in whatever form or guise. He was reliable.

My brother, my friend, the Iroko, a man of the people, a servant-leader. You had a big heart. You loved, you cared, you touched many lives. You gave people hope, and a reason to live. I'm ever grateful that our paths crossed. Nzeadachie. Odogwu nwoke. Sleep well. Good night.

Onii Nwangwu-Stevenson
(Sister)

It's hard to come to terms with the fact you are no longer with us.
I remember fondly coming to see you, and being greeted with shouts of "Nwadiana" followed by a pat on the back and being wrapped up in a hug. Your smile and laughter always felt so warm and inviting. Those memories remind me of being home.
Now, you've gone home to rest. The last few years were hard for you, but the family did their best to support you. That only shows how much you meant, and how great your character was. Everyone wanted to see you recover and laugh that big laugh. I will look forward to us meeting again, and getting to hear you laugh again. Rest well, Uncle.

Tribute to an Authentic Leader.
My Boss, Engr. Fidelis Nwangwu

Sir, at this moment I have to say goodbye to you till we meet again.
I received with great shock the news of your passing. However, I give glory to God for a life well spent. It has never been how long you lived but how well you have been with us.

Your leadership has been a source of inspiration for all who worked with you.
Working with you was fun - we worked hard with enthusiasm in a friendly manner.
You gave me opportunity to grow and develop.
Your approach to me was always as a Mentor and Coach.
You always encouraged your staff to work together, help one another, and be a true team.
You were genuinely interested in your employee's concern. You listened to them and was always available for them if they needed help.
You were patient and understanding.
You were A Role Model - you mentored me in the skills and the values of a great leader and the more I observed you, the more I aspired to be like you.

Thank you kindly, for the good years as God said it is time.
May God rewards you with a peaceful afterlife!

Edwin N. Umoeyen

Tribute to My Dear Dad.


My Dear Dad, i have found myself executing the most difficult task in writing a tribute to you.In shock I never envisige a day and time would come that I would have to bid farewell to you. Each time I try to write this tribute I find myself in a contemplative mood leaving me totally blank.
You were not just a Dad to me but my friend, confidant and backbone.
Memories of us together resonates leaving me with smiles, that you ran a good race and finished well.
Rest assured that the morals and values you taught and instilled in me will remain evergreen in my heart.
Although you are no longer here with us, I take consolation on the fact that there is a resurrection where the Saints
will all assemble again.
On this note I want to make an appeal, 'Pls watch over us from up there ok.."
You are forever loved

Ever Loving Father,

Your Son Cyprian Uzochukwu Nwangwu.

TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL LEADER AND A PEACE MAKER
     Late Engr. Fidelis Nwangwu (Nzeadachie) came into this world with a very rare trade marks. It's not how long one lives on earth matters but how well.
      In today's context, dying at age 74 is seen as a reasonable age, but for us your kingsmen, when we examine and take stock of the quality of life our dear brother Fidelis exhibited when he was alive, and it's impacts on us, we wished he would have stayed more for us to benefit further from his wealth of humility, truthfulness, justice, love, cheerfulness and generosity.
       Our able and honourable chairman, your good leadership style when you were leading us your kinsmen from umuododo will be very hard to beat.
       Although ill health didn't allow you to lead us long , but the short time you led us was characterized with dynamism, so eventful, lovely, peaceful and worthy of emulation.
        There was justice, fairplay, oneness and oderliness in all our meetings you chaired.
         My dear Nzeadachie, our kindred, Umuododo has already started feeling the vacuum created by your demise. No doubt we will greatly miss you.
         But it's our hope and wish that you have replicated yourself in some of your children who will continue to shine the light you have lit for us.
          Because your rare qualities was not suppose to extinguish from our kindred linage.
          On behalf of my family and myself, I sincerely extend our heart felt condolences to the entire Nwangwu family and Fidelis Neucleous family in particular.
           May God who knows all continue to console and give you the robust strength to bear the huge loss and may your demise bring total love, peace, unity and glorious prosperity into your entire family in Jesus name amen.
            My dear ever cheerful brother, you will remain forever in our hearts. Biko jee Ije gi nke oma, Nzeadachie Enugwu-Ukwu na Umunri goodnight sir, rest in the lord, ka omesia!!!
             From your dearly brother
                 Anyakora Peter Obi
                  (Ezeabata Global)
                   08064700799

Dear Father,
It is with great sadness that I write this to you. If there is one thing I have admired about you, it is your enthusiasm for giving alms. It made me realise that there is more to life than living for oneself. You taught me how to be kind to people because life may not have been as kind to them as it was to me for gifting you as a father to me. I know that there was a lot I had to learn from you, but I will hold dear the life lessons that you have taught me.

It is painful to come to terms that your golden heart stopped beating, your brilliant brain is no more functioning, your caring spirit and your gentle nature are at rest.

You were a great man, a good engineer, a professional colleague and most importantly, a quintessential example of love, kindness and humility. You served and evangelised quietly without seeking for praises, touched many lives especially in the area of education amongst others.

Engr, you were a devout Catholic who was always praying the Rosary and sharing expensive Holy Bibles to the less privileged as well as giving alms to the poor. May his soul and the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, rest in perfect peace while praying that God will give the immediate family the fortitude to bear the irreplaceable loss.


Engr Isaac and Mrs Ngozi Okah.

As I write this, I find myself overwhelmed with gratitude for the time we shared and the memories we created. Though illness may have dimmed your physical presence, your spirit remained vibrant and strong.

One of my fondest memories of you is our annual Christmas trips to your home. The warmth and cheer that radiated from your welcoming embrace made those moments truly magical.

As I bid you farewell, I take comfort in knowing that your legacy lives on in the hearts of all who knew you. Though you may no longer be here with us, your spirit will continue to cheer us. Thank you for being such a wonderful uncle.

Rest in peace, dear Uncle. You will be deeply missed, but your memory will live on forever in the cherished moments we shared together.

I thought I was going to handle it. But No, it was a rude shock for me. You were in and out of hospital in the recent weeks. We were standing in the gap, hopeful, believing God for a miracle. You went through it with so much equanimity. But God said it is time. The time was never enough for us. You fought for your life. You hung on there for us. For over four years you were there holding on.

It is very difficult to believe the reality. Brother, we have so much to talk about. So much unfinished business. If I could turn the hand of the clock. You exhume warmth wherever you are. You are a supportive brother. If it were what we your siblings could manage, we did our best. If it were doctors/ medical efforts, they were all about you. The lord said it is time and we cannot question him for he said in everything we should give thanks to him.

As you have gone to be with your maker, may he forgive you all your shortcomings and grant you eternal rest in his presence. Rest on brother until the resurrection day.

Okponyia Amoge
The last one.

Over the course of 18 months, I experienced the loss of two cherished individuals. Writing a tribute for my mother at the time was incredibly challenging, and it greatly affected my mental well-being, a struggle I find myself today.

The news of your passing was shocking, and seeing the burial invitation sent shivers down my spine. A friend I invited remarked how vibrant you were, a sentiment I wholeheartedly agree with.

Despite all efforts to save your life, which began back in 2018, ultimately it was God's will. You entered my life in 2012, becoming the father figure I desperately needed for guidance and to fill a void I felt.

You were always so understanding, navigating life's obstacles with simplicity and cheers. Watching you lose your ability to speak and enjoy life's pleasures were incredibly difficult.

I pushed the medical team with numerous questions, seeking answers that were often elusive. Now, as you embark on your final journey, farewell Nze Adachie, you truly were a wonderful companion.

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR BROTHER FIDE(Nze Adachie)

It turns out to be true! Nzeadachie is no longer here with us!
Gone with the stars ✨!
Fide nwannem!
Nze Adachie, as you were fondly called by friends and family.
Your classmates called you Fidel-Castro!
You glowed and shone like the stars while you were here with us. A rallying point, a unifier, and a source of strength you were to your siblings. Never a dull moment with Nze Adachie !
Whenever we meet or talk on the phone, our exchange of greetings will go like this; … Adachie!!! and your answer would be Amaaa….ka!, dragging my name stylishly before dropping the last two alphabets; followed by,…”nothing mega Aku-Udo”!
A jolly good fellow you were. Always have the back of your siblings and relatives.
A great storyteller with very sharp intellect, Fide could recall past events and put them in their right perspectives.

You wanted to live. You struggled to live. As your siblings, we walked that rough road together. We all held tenaciously unto life, encouraging one another, leaning unto each other’s shoulders and supporting each other. We prayed fervently to God to save your life. The Lord answered our prayers! You survived that first stroke that struck you in 2018 at the age of 68 years. We celebrated and thanked the Almighty God who made it possible.
Unfortunately, during the COVID year of 2020, you suffered yet another stroke! This time, it was devastating. We held hands together as your siblings, we prayed, we waited, we counted days, weeks, and months, which eventually dovetailed into years; and did everything humanly possible to save your life. 
In your usual manner, you fought gallantly, cooperated with the hospital staff,and encouraged your siblings, relatives, and friends until your last breath on the 22nd of March 2024.
One thing is certain to me. when God says it’s time, nothing can change Gods will….and God’s will is always the best for us. I am convinced that the Lord called you home in order to ease your suffering here on earth. You are now at peace, having shed this earthly body.
We are grateful to God for the beautiful memories you left behind.
Fide b’anyi!
Fidel-Castro!
Nze Adachie!
You were an epitome of love, empathy, and compassion.
I shall hold tenaciously to the beautiful memories shared with you. I remain ever grateful to God for giving me the opportunity of being your sister. If I had a choice to choose in my next life, I would still choose you to be my sibling.
Farewell, my dear brother
Je nke oma, Nzeadachie!
It is well!

~Amaka Florence Nwangwu-Ngini
    (Aku-Udo).

It still seems surreal that you really are gone Uncle Fide. I have so many fond memories of my brothers and I visiting Enugwu-Ukwu during the Christmas holidays over the years - your huge smiles, laughter that lit up every room, and heartfelt hugs that always let us know just how much you cared. We all had hoped and prayed that you would pull through and we would someday soon have our jovial uncle back, but God knows best. Thank you for being such a light to us all over the years; we will miss you more than words can describe. Rest in Peace Uncle Fide.

Tribute to my very caring brother
Life is a journey and death is a finality. Infact life is a market where we come, buy and sell at the end of which we go back to our Almighty father to give account of our stewardship. Fide you are loved more than you know. Your open heart and open arms have made the years so happy. Your love and care have been the dearest that life could ever give. For all your love and caring , for your thoughtful kindness and advice, for all the help you have given without ever thinking twice, for being a special brother and really good friend too, I say BIG THANK YOU. I know you are in a very beautiful place God has reserved for you in his vineyard. You deserve to be very happy away from all the buhaha of this world of ours. My brother Fide was a man of strong character , a man who would not bow yet submissive, a man who would not bend yet capable of accommodating others , a man who would never compromise his beliefs for anything but yet flexible, a man with his own agenda and calling. My brother Fide was a man of great style and appeal, yet for who "less was more" A man who viewed all the obstacles, hurt and challenges throughout his life as cumulative steps to greatness. A people's person who gave everything he had to make others happy, a friend, brother and father to many. As you leave us, we are left with future pleasures in past memories. You will be dearly missed but we will take consolation in the fact that you have run a good and worthy race. God will raise you up on the last day when we shall see and be happy all over again. For now Good night my amiable brother. Finally I like to remind us of the adage which goes thus " When we are born , we cry and the world rejoices, Let us live our lives in such a manner that when we die , we rejoice and the world cries. Fide my brother is sure rejoicing where he is because " HE IS FREE"

To the most amazing DAD……
The most heartbreaking news I refused to accept….A day i never wanted to come by ,words cannot express how heavy it is to say farewell but the Heavenly Father needs you more..
You have given me the best gift a father could give to a daughter and that’s forever memorable.You did your best DAD ,you fought so well ,now you are in a place of peace and no pain.
We will surely miss you ,those days of frequent weekly visits.Your grandkids are growing and it’s good to know they have a strong memory of you which would last forever.
Your physical absence is gone but can never be forgotten .
Forever you will remain my guiding light ,until we meet again Daddy ….

A TRIBUTE TO NNAMOCHIE, ENGINEER FIDELIS NWANGWU
                    Nzeadachie
"Fide Nwangwu", as a fondly called you as soon as I stepped into your compound and you would respond to my greetings with "Agi-a-ti-a",aka Agatha. I could hardly believe you took ill about one year after I joyfully visited you last in Port Harcourt. I spent two days with you and your family, we shared your meals together during which I observed some unfamiliar changes in your cuisine. Out of curiosity, I asked for the meaning of my observation, you answered with a chuckle that you were diagnosed with a Type 2 Diabetes. I was not too worried about the diagnosis since it could be controlled with the right medication and appropriate diet regimen. You looked trimmer than usual, not sickly, but you were not as vibrant as you used to be.
I had a great shock when I was informed that you were struck with a cardiovascular accident (Stroke) which rendered you speechless for a long time and I could no longer exchange pleasantries with you from that day to the day you gave up spirit, March 22nd 2024. Fide, you did not just remain beaten down by the stroke, you gave it a fight like a man like you had always been. You never succumbed to an unpleasant situation without a fight.You truly loved your family to a great extent, lying on your sick bed for about 4 years, groaning in pains, and praying to recover from the illness, for your sake, the sake of your beloved family, and for the sake of all those who had closely associated with you, including myself.
At a stage, I was informed that you had started improving, even talking, I was so happy with your progress that I was very enthusiastic to chat with you on the telephone. My enthusiasim, was however, dashed to the walls with the sad news of your demise on March 22nd, 2024.
Fide, you are gone forever but you are loved, cherished, appreciated, and remembered forever. Rest in the bosom of the Lord Who loves you best.
Agatha Nkiru Ogbu (nee Ibik)
Lanham, Maryland,
United States of America.

Uncle Fide for me was a man who was generous with his time and resources to help those at their point of need. I would never forget his active involvement in the logistics of ensuring that my dad had a smooth burial. For this I am greatly in his debt. I also remember the amiable and heartwarming personality he always exuded when he paid us periodic visits in Lagos. He knew how to light up the atmosphere, this I am going to truly miss. He battled his condition like a warrior and is a true testament of resilience in the face of adversity. His untimely departure has left a gaping hole in our hearts. May his spirited soul rest in peace.

As the trees bow in the wind, so shall we. It is with a heavy heart and sadness that I write this tribute for one of the best uncles I have ever had.
Exceptional person and a rare gem. Your kindness in your living years will remain impressed upon my mind.
Glory to God for the brilliant life you lived while here on earth. May your kind and gentle soul continue to rest in peace.
May Perpetual Light shine upon you.
Adieu Uncle FIDE.
Nze Adachie.
Uncle Par Excellence.
Emissary of Peace and Ambassador of Humanity.
From Dee Okoye (Niece)

It's so painful to know that an outstanding and deeply loved Uncle has left this world. I will always treasure the beautiful memories of the many fun times I spent with you whenever we visited Papa and mama during Christmas holidays. Your constant bubbly spirit and smiles, your generous christmas gifts, the jokes you readily shared, the love .....you have definitely left indelible footprints in the sands of time. Rest in peace, dear Uncle, till we meet to part no more.