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Loved Old Man Floyd

June 9, 2021
Floyd was definitely a character, but he had a heart of gold!  We were fortunate enough to know him very well since JonTom was his nephew.  My hubby, as everyone in the Navin/McGurk clan call him JonTom, was very close to Floyd.  Floyd would come to Manassas, VA to visit his sister Gerry and the whole Navin clan. John as I call him would always tell me stories about Floyd and how he would yell at him as a teenager.  Back then it rather pissed him off, but he now knows it was because he deserved it and Floyd was just a hard ass.  I think my husband has picked up a lot of Floyd's demeanor and quotes over the years. He certainly has a hard ass edge to him-but a heart of gold like his uncle. JonTom lived with Esma McGurk (Floyd's mom) when he was in college. He was fortunate enough to be able to see the McGurk clan quite often when they lived in Washington, PA. This was when I came into the family and had the distinct pleasure of knowing Floyd and his family, back then with JayBird too.   Floyd was known by the family for his abruptness and very passionate political views.  This was just how Floyd was and you could take it or leave it.  We learned not to get bothered by it, but when the nippies (alcohol) were rolling in that's when it got pretty intense here at my house.  Floyed loved his boys and was extremely proud of them but also very intense and ardent about his boys fighting in Afghanistan, (rightly so) he was passionate about many things and read the news profusely to keep informed.  I started listening to NPR because of Floyd years ago.  Fortunately for me, Floyd and I hit it off right away because we agreed on so many topics, but especially our political views.  Floyd was just so well versed in politics-even the politics in his moms small town of California, PA where he grew up. He wrote a lot of newspaper articles and always sent them to us via snail mail or over the internet.  He was also well versed in his woman....sorry, but just had to say it.  I have met two of his four wives and let me just say that they are both wonderful people.  JJ, I hope you are reading this too.  Its been a rough road for you the past several years. Love you! You were a huge part of Floyd's life.  You and Floyd together raised two amazing boys.  You BOTH did that together.  Some of those years must of been trying, but I know that Floyd always cared for you very much. Floyd an JayBird as Floyd would call her, were always welcoming every time we visited them.  I will never forgot how much fun we all had together and the meals that you both cooked were absolutely amazing.  Patty, I know we kid about Floyd returning to his first wife, but you were such a gift to him. And you also raised two wonderful kids and grandkids. Your beautiful smile and loving disposition were oh so welcoming to Floyd when he needed you. I am happy that the ten years together you were able to travel and visit us several times on your way to reunions and Civil Air Patrol functions.  Floyd we will miss your smile, hugs, abruptness, huge giving heart, and your laugh. (Allgreatquotes.com)
Of all the many blessings,
However great or small
To have had you for an uncle,
Was the greatest gift of all
The family chain is broken now
And nothing seems the same
But as God takes us one by one
The chain will link again-(with your parents, Gerry, John Navin, uncles, aunts, Billy, Stewart, and how can I forget the infamous JACK)  We will always love and cherish our times with you Floyd.

Our Memories

June 3, 2021
Our memories began at age 14 "Puppy Love".  A love that lasted 68 years.  Memories of high school days: walking to classes hand in hand, dances, parties, friends, proms and yes the infamous kiss under the mistletoe.  Then our working years, both working to save to put Floyd thru college (School of Mines).  Student housing, friends, parties, games and so busy working and Floyd keeping his tight schedule.  Then the delight of our first baby, Tracy.
Family get togethers with other young friends with babies.  Graduation and career in the Military.  Cross country trips, more friends and Bill born in Ft Lewis.  Good holidays and our family life was happy, no disagreements as we had reached our goals and enjoying life.  We then had a major disagreement about leaving the military.  Being young and foolish we broke up over it and both moved on to new lives and interests.  Then miracles or miracles 47 years later we were both alone and I called as Tracy said he had a stroke.  Because of that call we have had 10 more beautiful years together.  The first 7 were a dream come true: catching up on our stories, planning, traveling (Ireland, Hawaii, car trips thru out the South and Ca, and our high school reunion in Pa.  Finally settling in California.  We were both happy.  Happy to expand our families and friends.  About 2 years ago Floyd's health began deteriorating. Thankfully he stayed with me long enough to keep me company thru the pandemic.  I shall truly miss him but his memory lived in my heart all these years and shall continue to do so.  We started our young lives together and now we were able to spend our old age together.  Take it Easy

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