How I will miss Fran saying, as only she could, "outrAgeous," and "appAlling," especially as we suffer through the rest of this election year without her. Whether in jest or with ire, Fran's vehement use of these words to describe inappropriate or unprincipled behavior always served to underscore her own incomparable honor and respectability.
No one could do drama, flare, feisty, or formidable as Fran did. She could make even things-beige, dazzle with color. Fran was a force to be reckoned with both inside and outside the classroom. She was sometimes brash, frequently bold, always absolutely fearless. We drew strength from hers. She was the epitome of stubborn at its best: persistent, unflinching, committed, resolute about things which mattered.
No other friend was as loyal--make that a capital L-- as she. Fran always had your back, and sometimes solved a problem before you even knew you had one. I loved her passion, her politics, her eloquence ( she made you yearn to learn more 4- and 5- syllable words). This "tough old ranch girl" was classy, elegant, stylish, always put-together, impeccably coiffed. I wanted to dress like her when I grew up. Nobody could say "mArvelous," "fAbulous," or "phenOmenal" with Fran's same fervor. It's no wonder. She was all of these...and more.
I want always to remember that Sunday night at Fran's house about two weeks before she passed. I want these images never to fade:
Fran, though inching her way painstakingly on a walker from bedroom to recliner, smiling; stopping to acknowledge each next person; her face, radiant;
in her recliner, Fran telling Kevin to break out the champagne because we had things to celebrate!
Kevin popping the cork; he and Marsha serving us the bubbly in Fran's stems;
Fran joyfully taking a call from a former student in the Midwest who wanted Fran to know she was running for a state office;
Nathan, towering 6ft above everybody else, sitting, reaching over toward the recliner to hold his grandma's hand;
Tracy, moving over for a minute to cuddle in her mom's lap;
Fran holding Tracy, reassuring her, "You know, you're going to be all right. Yes, you will be ok";
Tracy, head on Fran's heart,"...because that's the way you raised me--to be a strong, independent woman";
Fran, lifting her glass, gazing with love again at each person in the room, toasting us, "This is good. It's so easy. So easy... being at home, rather than in a hospital";
Janice, tearing , toasting Fran for being an incredible mentor and friend;
me, toasting Fran for her fiestiness, thanking her;
Fran, sweeping the room, taking in everybody once more-- her nephew from out-of-state, her family, her friends--nothing but light shining in her eyes;
Fran, content, peaceful, still smiling, nodding her head: "What could be better? Here, we have family, friends….";
Fran, raising her arm, as though to embrace: "...we have teachers…"; loving eyes landing on Tracy and Marsha, "...mothers. Mothers. What could be better?"