Memories of Batonnier Francis Asanga Sama, (1958 - 2020)

Share a special moment from Batonnier Francis's life.

My dear uncle- Gillian Ndi

September 6, 2020

My dear uncle, Pa Sama. You always called me Tifu, I will really miss that. You were loved by all and you loved all. You stood in the gap for all. You spoke up loud and clear for justice for all. The courage and bravery you portrayed will forever be remembered. Your legacy will always remain. Your ambiance and good sense of humor lightened up every where your presence was. Your sudden departure still feels like a dream. I can't enumerate the things you did but I will always remain grateful that you had impact in making me who I am today from your words, encouragement, assurance and for being that uncle whom when I called with an issue, you would not only respond but act with great impact. Achiri still remembers that you were supposed to teach him how to draw. You've gone too soon but God knows why. We love you, miss you and need I say I know your sweet soul is resting in the bosom of our God. 4ever missed ❤️️️️ choa.
Gillian Ndi/ Achiri Asongwed Jr

Show Daddy!! - Abu Ngwe

September 6, 2020

Big papa, my show show daddy, my cow boy. It seems like I am still in a night mare waiting to wake up. Your death has thought me a few lessons and also reminded me of the fact that live is very short. We should tell those around us more often how much we love and care for them. The laughter and fun times we had I will cherish. Rest with the lord my father untill we meet again. Untill we meet again papa.
Love always Abu Ngwe

Legends never die- Dr. Devine Shimbagha Frundi

September 6, 2020

Legends never die!!

As the cold hands of death snatched daddy Sama suddenly from us, all I could comfort myself with, was the paradigm that legends never die. As such, I pay tribute to passionate humanist, an astute advocate and above all, by all standards, a versatile and caring family head.

A couple of years ago, Pa and I cracked a joke on adjectives in which I was implying that he truly never lacks adjectives to describe those of us in the generation after his when making his speeches or emceeing. He quickly asserted that the ease at which he went about that was pride-driven. A couple of months later, after he was voted to lead the bar, I took bottles of champagne for him and challenged myself to find at least 50 adjectives that suits his person to shout out at him when we met. That challenge turned out to be quite easy because once I categorized his person under 5 main aspects being 1. Family head 2. Teacher 3. Advocate 4. Philantropist 5. Politician, there were more than enough adjectives to belittle my challenge. In his usual style, rather than patiently listen to my 50 adjectives, he quickly started re-directing all back at our generation... .aaaah Batonier! But as such, he nurtured, built, tendered, groomed.

If his in-born indulgence made him to promise too much, his compassion clearly compensated for that which he left unmet. A selfless compassion full of sacrifice and love of life. At about the same period as I was compiling my adjectives, I found myself in a vehicle that almost ran into the dragnet of highway arm-robbers at Mile 12 Santa at 2 am on a Sunday morning coming from Douala. Before we could later confirm to him that we are safe and unscathed, Pa had already loaded his rifles and was in his car on an assault mission to protect and save his own. Such was his solicitous concern for others that he would put his own life at risk any time, any where.

All he possessed, all he achieved, all he received, he freely, cheerfully and passionately gave. Without regrets or apologies. Without fear or favour. He would make spontaneous and regular phone calls to catch up with my in-laws in far away place like Mauritius. Where his physical presence could be felt, he would squeeze time off a busy schedule to stop by other family and in-laws with courtesy gifts of all kinds. It is an African norm for recipients of such courtesy gestures to respond by asking God “to replenish pockets”. In the pecuniary sense, Pa’s might not have been duly replenished, but at his final hours on earth his legendary soul was fulfilled, his legacy engrained and his deeds immortalized!

Legends never die!

Devine Shimbagha Frundi, MD

Assistant professor of medicine, University of Bern, Switzerland

We will meet again - Nei Formala

September 6, 2020

Pa Sama, during my last conversation with you on the phone You called me “Nei Formala” 5 times. You were so happy that I called. I was planning when I come home, I will spend some quality time with you. Pa, you have gone ahead to prepare a place for us. We will definitely meet again. Rest In Peace and greet the rest of the family.

Your bro/uncle

Nei Formala.

His life was a gift - Rose Wanda Awasum

September 6, 2020

We are gathered here today in memory of our brother, son, father and friend PA Sama Francis Aka De Don, so that together we may acknowledge and share both our joy in the gift that his life was to us and the pain that his passing brings. As we all know, pa was a man for the people. He impacted many people he encountered especially the younger generation. His goal was to make sure his family stayed united. The vaccum you left behind is a very big gap to the family. When there was a family gathering when we all say 'PA Sama don cam' or 'pa Sama di cam' automatically the atmosphere changed because of the ambience you always brought in. . NBOROBOT NEIH. You always made sure everyone was comfortable and organized. You were a father to all. Today I stand not to mourn you but celebrate a junior brother for whom I am proud of. Seeing the turn out on your sudden burial, the thousands of people reaching out makes me proud and we continue to keep that legacy you left behind. I know it is well with your soul and I am proud to know I have anotheSleep well Nyanga man, De Don, Man of the people till we meet to part no more.

Rose Wanda Awasum

Hard to believe - Nah Ndango Ceroma

September 6, 2020

Dear Pa, Its hard to believe that the cold hands of death took you so soon from us. We know that you are in the Bossom of the Lord in heaven. Words cannot describe the gravity of the loss. Our only consolation is, " we shall meet again in Heaven. "You were always there for us all. You were a role model, epitome of goodness, a person that gave solace to the needy. The good spirit of dedication to service, readiness to help, struggle to achieve greater heights that you taught us even before your demise are evidence in our lives. A common German adage says: " the fruits of an apple tree are found in the vicinity of the tree" You will be remembered for all your good deeds and sincerity. As successful as you were: Barrister / professor Emeritus, you never marginalised anyone of your folks. A father, Grandfather, Mentor, Advocate, freedom fighter, to mention but a few, I can boldly unequivocally say you left no stone unturned in your quest for equal rights among your people. We're sad, bartered but not defeated. You're with God and I pray that your soul rest in perfect peace. The Lord is our strength and his mercies endures forever. "This is your story" Nah Eveline Ndango Ceroma.

Amazing Man and Dad - Precious Bola Kameni

September 5, 2020

Dear daddy
You were nothing short of an amazing man and Dad. You opened your arms to all and welcomed them. You were known as an enjoyment boss. You knew how to enjoy yourself “norrrr”. You brought smiles, laughter and a good mood to everyone around you. “A farouteuse” that is such a generous person. Always giving money to people to help them out. You knew how to dress and light up every room. Growing up you stood in the gap as my father and I am so grateful. You accepted me as your daughter and called me baby till I was a teenager. I could never have known you were not biological dad because you treated me like your own. Your death was a shock to me but I am so grateful for the time well spent before your departure. I can say you enjoyed life very well before leaving us. I know God had a bigger and better plan for you and you will make an amazing angel. When I think of you, it is nothing but memories of bliss.
Forever in our hearts daddy

THE DEAREST AND THE BEST - Ma Constance Tasi

September 1, 2020

There are some very extraordinary people that God puts in your life to make this earthly sojourn beautiful for you. This exactly is who you were to me.

Pa, how could you just go without saying good bye? You never ever just go like that!!! Whenever you left for business out of town, or on vacation to visit with family abroad, you will call or send a short message even on transit. Talk less of the daily chats, calls and pictures to show that you were having a well deserved holiday.

Pa Sama, you were a selfless, very loving and caring father who made life just so easy for all of us. Your presence gave us so much security and even when you were out of town, we were only just a phone call away from the solution to any problem that suddenly sprung up...and then without a warning bell, June 8th came, changed things for the worst and life has never been the same again. How do I talk about you in the past? How does one live without you? It has been empty, bitter. The pain is deep, raw and time has refused to make it any better.

It will be most unfair not to flip the coin. Memories of and with you are just so beautiful. You taught me what it means to put things in proper perspective. From you I learnt what should always matter above all material things, because what truly counts is the quality of life you live and your impact on those you encounter. These great lessons will remain relevant to me.

Thank you for teaching me what it truly means to take someone in. Thank you for directing my path in very profound ways. Thank you Nei for your countless deeds and words of love. You were unique and everything you did, you did so selflessly and so cheerfully.

Oh how I miss you everyday and how I will miss you even more all through life.

God who alone holds the future will lead us through this and somehow, those countless beautiful memories of you will sustain us. Thank you Pa for everything. Thank you heavenly father that you gave us the best. Enjoy Heaven Nei. When God rules, there is no appeal so farewell Lawyer Sama. I can not forget to remind you as I always did in my birthday messages to you that you remain for me, the DEAREST AND THE BEST.

We are heartbroken - Gima and Nina Mudoh

August 31, 2020

It’s really hard to believe that I’m writing this tribute. We are heartbroken and it’s so hard to believe that you are gone and we will never see your face or get the chance to argue about politics. We will miss those funny and amazing stories and speeches from you. Gima and myself are truly honored that the last time we met, we were able to host and celebrate your birthday. In a very small way, it gives us some satisfaction to know that we were able to say thank you for everything you’ve done for us. When Daddy died, you made it your responsibility to make sure he was given a befitting burial. Now I pray that we will one day be able to do the same for you. We will miss you so very much. Say hello to Daddy. RIP uncle!

Gima and Nina Mudoh

We shall never forget you daddy - Achiri Stephen Sama

August 31, 2020

"Daddy we love you but God loves you more. It's very difficult to accept that you are gone. It broke our hearts to see you go, but we cannot question God, for only he knows why. you were a hardworking man who inspired everyone around you. Your love for your family was true. We shall never forget you daddy,rest in peace

Achiri Stephen Sama

Thank you for everything Daddy - Nahgela Tayong

August 30, 2020

Dear Daddy,

I remember back in 2010, when I visited you in Bamenda. The stories you told us that night about how you caught a thief, how happy you looked and sounded that evening,

The laughter, drinks and food we shared that night is one I will never forget.All the advice you gave me I’ll cherish and hold dear to my heart.

You were kind and generous to everyone who met you.

Thank you for everything Daddy

Farewell Daddy and continue to Rest In Peace

Till we meet again.

Nahgela Tayong

F arewell daddy - Sister Bih

August 30, 2020

Dear daddy,
I thank God soo much for having given us a wonderful, caring, loving and always on spot looking good father. You were such a darling father that you even threatened to pull out your gun if anyone dared with your daughters and much more (hahahhahaha).
Thank you i will always cherish these memories.And though i cry and miss you so much i am comforted to know that you are at rest and at peace with the Lord..farewell daddy rendez vous again as father and daughter in our next lives..
Thanks
Sis Bih

You will forever be in my heart - Mankaa

August 30, 2020

Dearest father,

You will forever be in my heart until the day I stop breathing. I am so grateful that I am becoming a lady who is caring, compassionate and loving because of you. Daddy your sudden death was a shocking one. No one could have ever believed you will just pass away like that without saying goodbye. I was praying and hoping I will spend more time with you. Daddy you taught me so many things in life such as respect and love. You took me in and treated me as your own biological child. Moreover, you trained me in school and gave me all what a child can have. I still remember how you will always shout at me when I do something bad and now, I realized that all what you did was for my own good.

I wish you could return to us so that I can thank you for all you have done for me. I really miss preparing your food, washing your feet, and doing your laundry. Daddy no matter where I am, I know your spirit will be beside me for no matter what you will always be with us. And as long as you’re in heaven I know you will continue to protect us. Thank you for being my dad. I will always love and miss you until we meet again.

Your legacy will live on Pa Sama - Jacky Ambe Ashu For the AMBE Family.

August 30, 2020

We have known Pa Sama Francis three generations of my family. He belonged to the same alma mater as the men of my family. My father, Larry Ambe, and he funly referred to each other as "Mishe!", "Senior Mishe!", or "Big brother", whenever they met. My mother, Ma Bea, and Ma Gla (his dear wife) are first cousins. Thus we have many vivid and fun memories of Lawyer Sama, as we referred to him, from when we were very young children living but 10 minutes walk away from their former home in Foncha Street, Bamenda.
How can we ever forget his boisterous personality. He had a way of walking in and taking over the room, and yet in a charming and all-inclusive manner. He had time for everyone and always wore a smile. His accomplishments know no bounds, for sure; but for my siblings and me, we simply have to look at his children, so successful and so sociable, and we say that he did well.
It is still unbelievable to talk of him in the past tense, but as we sat through his funeral and watched over 400 people take time to pay final homage to this great man, we are comforted in knowing that his legacy will live on. It has been a great honor to be family in this fleeting world, dear uncle. Farewell and may your gentle soul continue to progress in God's Kingdom.
Jacky Ambe Ashu
For the AMBE Family.

Hardworking, strong, loving, and gentle - Cecilia Nah Sigalla

August 30, 2020

There are not enough words to express your influence in my life. It is through your example that I leant to be humble and hardworking for you were hardworking, strong, loving, and gentle. You loved everyone in the family and took everybody as your child. You made a huge impact on the life I live today and on the person I have become.

A special father is hard to find and I will always keepthis in mind. I wish you could have stayed forever, but I will never forget you; no, not ever.

If dreams were notjust dreams and if every dream came true,then I know you would still be here. Distance is the only thing that keeps us apart but dad you will always remain in my heart;a special someone I cannot replace;a special smile, a special face.

We love you but God loves you more. You filled a space in the family that no one else could ever fill.

Rest in perfect peace our Daddy #2 - Cornelis Fru Ndi

August 30, 2020

My dearest Pa Sama, your sudden passing took us all by surprise. It also taught me a good life lesson to cherish every moment with family. You always fondly called me ‘your Engineer’ and not only would I miss that but I regret that you not be able to what ‘your Engineer’ has become.

Pa, your loss creates a huge gap across the family that will never be filled. I really want to thank you for who you were. You were our Daddy #2. If Daddy in Ntarinkon was away and we had any issues, our natural next step was to Fonchas Street to Pa Sama. I want to thank you for all you did for us and for being the inspirational leadership figure in the family from when we were very young and right through to when I turned a real man, when you ran the show at my wedding in 2011 to ensure it was perfect.

Pa Sama, you have been part of my growing up journey, I learnt a lot from you and thanks to your steer, directions, ambition we are who we are today. I can go on and on but Pa a very big thank you. We are missing you lots already but we are certain you are resting perfectly. Till we meet again Pa - Rest in perfect peace

Your Engineer - Cornelis Fru Ndi

The best dad I could even ask for - Andyn

August 30, 2020

It takes a loving man to be a dad, because anybody can be a father. Daddy was the best dad I could even ask for, I learned how to be hospitable from him. I feel so much pain talking about my wonderful dad and saying “Was” it hurts so much and I hope one day I will move past this. Hi daddy, it's me Andyn, I miss you so much, I am still in awe, I am still in so much shock but this is one of my final letters to you. Daddy I want to thank you for taking me in and always calling me your baby, thank you for always defending me and always putting a smile on everyone’s face even just the thought of it makes me smile. Precious and I would always sit and just remember your ways and smile about what a good man you were. I will never forget my ninth birthday when you had just come back from Douala and you took me to the store and got so many presents for me to take to school or when you would take mommy and I to Yaounde for the weekend. In all, daddy,once again I want to thank you for giving me such a good base because even though life wasn’t always easy it was always fun. Daddy please watch over me as I take on whatever this world has for me. My only hope is that I can be as good a person as you. I know that the lord took you for a reason so I am finally able to let you go. And I pray that you may continue Rest In Perfect Peace Daddy. I Love You with all my heart.

A loving, caring and involved person - Leoga Tita

August 30, 2020

Daddy, the impact you left on my life is something I will never forget. You were such a loving, caring and involved person in my life and those are times and things I will cherish forever. When I was young, I only got to spend time with you during the summers when you would visit America. We would go on so many fun-filled family vacations and our times and laughter are priceless. Little did I know the impact you would later have on my life. Once I became of age, I was sent to Cameroon to attend Our Lady of Lourdes College Mankon. I was so excited but also very sad about leaving my parents who lived in America. But those thoughts quickly faded once I started school. As I attended Lourdes, you became such a father figure in my life. You would take me to the hospital when I would come out of school sick. You made sure before going back to school I went home and rested and always bought me food to take back and share with my sisters. You would push me to strive for my hardest because you knew, more than I did at the time, that I was destined to succeed and you were right. My greatest sadness now is that you cannot see the success you helped me achieve. My heart aches that you will never see me in my white coat or even see me graduate medical school and become “your doctor”. Life comes at you fast, that is what your passing has shown me, and I will be sure to become successful so I can make you proud as you look over me. Rest in paradise Daddy. You were a blessing in my life and I wish you eternal happiness.

Leoga Tita

Nyanga man - Segala Tita

August 30, 2020

Grateful! My most dear and sincere of feelings I have of my late uncle Pa Sama, is how grateful I am to have had him in my life. Although he was a man deserving of many more words, I’d rather spare the world of the millions of descriptors I could use to describe such a generous being, all of which may not even captive what a great man he truly was. My relationship between my uncle and I was very thorough and enjoyable. As many would testify, he had a very direct and open approach when it came to making bonds with people. Pa Sama was always up front with how he spoke, would always stand his ground when he spoke, and almost never stopped speaking once he began to speak lol.

“Nyanga man,” as he would always call me. Pa Sama was never a person to put himself above others in terms of his career or even his age. When speaking with him, there was always a sense of comfort as he would perfectly match my energy and interests in topics as if we were the same age or classmates even. It was truly saddening to have heard of such detrimental news when told of his passing, but I know he would not be pleased if we were to take this as a sign of betrayal/burdening in our lives. So with that, the wonderful life of my late uncle Pa Sama will forever be celebrated in my heart and the ones of his lover/kids and everyone who he has been befriended by. I will always hold my thanks that I was never able to give personally, until the day we again. May your soul forever rest in perfect peace!!

Love,

Segala Tita

A legacy that will traverse generations - Alain

August 30, 2020

Daddy to everyone

Gone way too early but will never be forgotten. You leave behind a legacy that will traverse generations. A legacy of success, generosity, inspiration, compassion, most importantly a loving husband and a caring father. You were ‘daddy’ to everyone! You took my sister and I into your loving home and showed us love and kindness at a difficult time in our lives. However, you were not just kind to family, you went the extra mile for your friends. I remember us driving for miles late at night to deliver food to the less fortunate so that they had food for Christmas. You loved big parties filled with family and friends. It gave you a chance to talk and you were a true orator extraordinaire.

I have never seen a man who could talk so effortlessly in public. Your speeches were long, yet captivating and littered with jokes. We always used to joke about how you would start your speeches by saying “I do not want to take up most of your time” and then you would go on and seamlessly speak for an hour. You were always branché, with the most stylish fitted suits and “pointinini” shoes. Although, I never got to see you argue in court, I bet you were an incredible attorney. After all, you became the batonnier in a country were anglophones mustliterally fight for recognition. You are an inspiration to your family, friends, colleagues and even some of my classmates.

You inspire me to be hardworking, God-fearing, and compassionate. “Dockta” is about to be a physician next year because you are my inspiration. I want to positively impact thelives of my patients just like you did through your acts of service and in the court room. I promise to strive for excellence with my family, my community and as a physician in the same way that you did. You are gone too soon but your legacy lives on.

Peaceful memories -Nuela Sama (uncle Peter's wife)

August 30, 2020

Daddy , we little knew that on that faithful Monday God was going to call your name. we loved you dearly both in life and death. It broke our heart to lose you, you did not go alone for part of us went with you . The day God called you home, you left us peaceful memories. Your love is still our guide , though we cannot see you , you are always at our side. The family chain is broken and nothing seems the same. God calls us one by one, the chain will be link again. Forever in our hearts Daddy.

From Nuela Sama (uncle Peter's wife)

Our friend, our moyoh - Pa Ivo Mba & Ma Rose Mba

August 30, 2020

When I remember my friend, my moyoh (as we called each other), I smile each time. He was a jokester and he made us all laugh. He taught me not to take life too seriously. He was always in good spirits, even until the day he left us. I gained a son in Frank and a genuine friend in Pa Sama. Death is certain in life but we must all hold fast to hope and create lasting memories. He was truly legendary. He is very much missed. May he Rest in Peace.

-Pa Ivo Mba

The loss of Pa Sama has been a blow to us since the day we learned of his passing. I still vividly remember speaking to him just the day before. “You shall be well Pa. God will heal you from the crown of your head to the sole of your feet” i said to him. But we know that God’s plans are very different from ours sometimes, and though they may seem unfair, we trust the LORD. We trust God that everything happens for a reason and Pa Sama resting well.

He was an incredible man to my daughter and family. He provided for his family and made sure his children had the guidance they needed. I am grateful for Pa Sama's legacy and I miss him every day. Rest In Peace Pa Sama.

— Ma. Rose Mba

A golden heart - Ba / Ma Kuna Tita

August 30, 2020

Life is too short. I realize this now more than ever after the sudden dead of Pa Sama (Lawyer). I had known Pa since I was a young girl in my teenage years before I ever got married. When Pa got married to our Sister, the family was blessed to have won a golden heart. As I grew older and got married, I became more and more attached to Pa more so because he became very close(brothers) with my husband. The two family will spend most of their vacations together either in Cameroon or in the States. Whenever we will visit Cameroon, Pa will make our stay very unique .....and full of great memories. We remember once when we visited the Sea World and Pa eat turkey leg and told us that, that was the best thing he has ever eaten during all his vacations. He made us promise him that whenever he visit the State, turkey leg would be one of his main delicacies. Pa worked so hard to support my husband when they organized a surprise 40th birthday party for me in Cameroon. Pa took care of our kids when they were schooling in Cameroon. He was a kind, happy, and healthy person so full of life with so much energy. He will make anyone laugh at their own expense the moment he holds the microphone. He will remind us that he is being paid to talk so we should relax and enjoy the moment. Pa loved fashion, he was someone who loved his money right on his body where he can see it.Pa had a lot of great qualities, but perhaps his most endearing quality was his ability for humanity. He left a mark on every single person who met him. The absolute best thing about Pa was his everlasting love for his wife, children and family. Thank you for coming into our lives and enriching all of us. You were an amazing person that showed us all how to live life to the fullest (Sapper Magic) and give back to others. You were an inspiration to many including us. You will always be remembered for your funny jokes.Although you are no longer physically with us, you will forever remain in our hearts and your spirit will always be felt. Your memory will never fade, farewell until we meet again.

Ba / Ma Kuna Tita

Rest in peace Bartonnier - Paul Sama Ndango

August 30, 2020

Pa Sama, it is so sad and unbelievable how you left us so soon. I remember the last time we met in Dallas and you promised visiting my family this summer in Mission, Texas. We were really looking forward to it since you had to meet our son Nolan for the first time. Apparently, man proposes but God disposes. Our family has lost a great man, a backbone, a negotiator! All we can do now is to thank God for the opportunity to have spent some time with you on this planet earth. Thank you so much for the many souls you touched infinitely, I am definitely a beneficiary. May God give us the strength to deal with such a sudden, tragic loss. Rest in peace Bartonnier. Paul Sama Ndango

Pa Sama the dad I ever really knew - Henrietta Fossem

August 30, 2020

Oh death, Where is thy sting. Pa Sama the dad I ever really knew. You treated us with love and kindness unfortunately death did not let you live to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Only God knows why. You were a real hero. The pain is too much but our God and father is on the throne. Rest thee well Pa Sama. Let perpetual light continue to shine upon you till we meet to part no more.

Henrietta Fossem

An icon - Ma Feli

August 30, 2020

Daddy you were an icon to me and my husband. I keep thinking of the time I was on my sick bed and you made sure I ate and that everything was okay. You often gave tips to the nurses and doctors just to make sure that they took good care of me. You made sure I had a quick recovery and now that I am well, you are no more. I will always remember you in my heart. Thank you for everything. Rest in peace Daddy.

Ma Feli

Daddy was unique in his kind -Mama Rose

August 30, 2020

Tributes

It is virtually impossible for me to write anything about daddy in the past tense. I don’t even know where to begin. Daddy was unique in his kind – showing love to all and impacting every life he interacted with positively. I was privileged to share special moments with him. I will never forget the eve of our late mom’s demise here in Yaoundé how he basically carried her downstairs on his shoulders just the same way he would carry his own biological mother. We struggled together in the animation wing, but she ended up dying. When I got thrown out of a bad marriage with two kids and dragged in court, he stood by us as my lawyer, elder brother, and father to two fatherless children. When we all ended up homeless, he came to Yaoundé and took the two kids against my wish to live with him in Bamenda. He told me to suffer alone and when settled, to come back and take the kids. He was so proud of me and encouraged me every step of the way. He introduced me everywhere as his kid sister, his daughter, his big engineer etc. he worked so hard and inspired me to do the same. He lived life to the fullest every day.

I will never forget the last trip to Kribi. I did not want to join him and Ma Gla but he insisted. Today I am glad I went because now I realize it was his manner of saying goodbye. Then came the dreaded cough that snatched him from us. Oh, death where is your sting!!!

Mama Rose Ndango

Rest In Peace Daddy - The Chiawah’s

August 30, 2020

Dear Daddy,

As we reflect on life, life as it should be, life that the Lord Jesus gave us on the cross, the one end to that thought, is how bitter sweet life is, and that it’s too early in the day for me to have this self-reckoning. And we shouldn’t be here, writing this tribute to you, this doesn’t feel right.

We are still in denial that this is real, that we won’t hear your voice again, that the only vision of you is sad memories of the good times with you ever so gone, that your speeches at family gatherings, incessantly calling for unity and love are now distant memories. You literally chased us to be ever so close to you.

You wanted the best for everyone, you buried all of Baba II and your family gone before, we all looked up to you, you single-handedly carried Bamenda on you, overstretched yourself in every direction to make everyone happy, you touched countless lives, solved everyone’s problems, wiped everyone’s tear, MCeed everyone’s occasion. You won’t be forgotten.
Daddy, Pa Sama, Metre, Lawyer Sama, Pa, it was an honor to call you Daddy, the pride of our family, we shall forever miss you.So when we reflect on life, with all that you are and all that you have done and have to do, we are not without you, you’ve transitioned to get better rest, and to finish the work that the good lord bestowed on you. We are happy that you have an army of our dads and grand moms and dads waiting to receive you and help you offload.

Rest In Peace Daddy.
Chiawahs( Akwen, Lum, Tembei, Roland, Ngufor, Fru and Mama)

Francis, good night, rest in peace till we meet again - Ni John FruNdi

August 30, 2020

Francis, I have found it very hard to write this message. Your passing away is one of those most moments that I least expected to live through after having experienced other painful losses in my life. What makes this even more painful was that you had once jokingly told me after Roses' funeral that you were certain that I would give you a befitting funeral; a joke which I took very seriously to the point where I had to slap you. That slap Francis, was the only way I could express my disappointment and pain for such a sour joke. The thought that as your elder brother, I would live to bury you is one I had never imagined. After all the training, support, exposure and the foundation to be a pillar of the family, first in your right as one of the 'Chop Chairs' and also given how big the family is you will ensure that in my demise, I am given the befitting funeral and the family is held together. But unfortunately, it so happens that your sour joke has now come to pass.

Our faith teaches us to embrace death not as the end but the beginning of the bigger life to which we are called. That call for you came much sooner than anyone of us expected and personally at a time when we had unfinished business. In our last discussions, we had plans to execute upon my return but it now seems the future had other plans for you. The lesson I have taken from your passing is that every opportunity we have in life is to do the best we can whilst we are at it as there may never be a perfect time to come back to fix things. I have also learned to have deeper appreciation and to love even more dearly those closest to me.

Francis, you have run a good race and have come to your end. What you have accomplished could only be achieved in your lifetime. Congratulations for the name, the many people you inspired along the way, the impact you had on the community and the numerous occasions that you made me feel proud as an elder brother. There is no perfect human being, you had you own fair share of mistakes and challenges but I use this particular occasion to tell the kids not to be held down by these things or their own personal challenges. I encourage them to rise up and be the best versions of themselves they could possibly be, pick out that very cheerful character you always had and to always rise up to the occasion especially when they see things going wrong.

Gladys, I hope that you would find strength, peace and joy once again in the beautiful strong kids that you and Francis raised. Do not leave the things that were left undone to steal this joy. Nature has a way of taking care of us through such challenging moments in ways we cannot imagine. The value of a man's life is not in the houses, the cars, the clothes or number of cases won, but it is in the simpleness of thought, the character of the person you truly love. As a younger brother, I loved Francis. I cherished his company, he was bright and he was fun to have around. I saw in him a lot of potential. Just the thought of Francis made me proud. But the weight of the things he eventually took on, always made me constantly recall him to focus on his priorities. We used to laugh about the fact that in asking him what his priorities were, the expected answer would be that 'It is you Daddy'. Gladys, Tina, Junior, Blessing, Noella, Frank, Sharon, you were always the reason why I kept asking that particular question.

Francis, good night, rest in peace till we meet again.

Your brother

Ni John FruNdi

I can't believe - Anjei Essomba cindi Britani

August 30, 2020

Daddy I can't believe I will not see you again. It's hard to believe you are gone forever. Thank you for all you did to me. Thank you For the love you showed. I will live to remember and cherish those memories. Those wonderful moments you spent with us. I remember how you took care of me each time I was sick, you made sure I ate to my satisfaction and most especially you thought me to share the little I have with others. I shall forever miss you. May your soul rest in peace. Anjei Essomba cindi Britani

Unbearable Pain - Vanessa Sama Akerenwei (Tsepe)

August 30, 2020

Daddy
The pain is still unbearable and this is so unbelievable. There is still some sense of denial i get and i cannot understand why its so hard to accept your faithful departure. If there is one thing you taught us so well is to live our lives but you forgot to teach us the part where we could live those lives without you. You were the father that many did not have. You gave us hope even when it seemed to be lost. There's a lot to be said but if we have to recall and write about the man you were a booklet will be too little. I do not even know where to start from because I never imagined myself writing a goodbye to you but it is done and you are no more. Thank you for being the true father and grandfather that you were. I remember our times in Lourdes that even when you had worked you spared out a little time to come spend with your grandchildren. I wish you could stay a little longer to read the fruits of your labor. Daddy you always called me your "doctor" and encouraged and gave me the strength to want to be a better version of myself its so unfortunate you left so soon. I want to promise you your "mother", your "tsepe will never let you down. Even in your grave you will continue to smile. Rest in perfect peace my daddy and I know that wherever you are you are and will forever be proud of us because will be our guiding Angel. I love you daddy once again Rest in peace
Vanessa Sama Akerenwei (Tsepe)

Goodbye My Uncle - Eliane Boma

August 30, 2020

Uncle, I still can’t believe I am writing a tribute because of your passing. Words cannot describe this difficult moment, but if this is the last time I get to say goodbye then I know I will do so with the knowledge that I consider myself blessed to have lived this life as your niece. I know you are right beside the lord . Rest well . Love u always . Elian

Dear Uncle - From Achidi Sama

August 30, 2020

Dear Uncle Francis,
I’m sorry you had to leave us so sudden and early. We need you here but it seems like the Lord needs you more. It hasn’t been easy to process, especially since we cannot properly give you the memorial you deserve at this time. No matter how much time goes by we will always honor you. Please rest well and greet my dad, uncle Robert, Aunty Helen, Uncle Stephen, Aunty Constance and the rest of the family with you in the kingdoms of heaven.

-Achidi Sama

Your Life was a blessing - Vincent Sama Tima Fobi

August 30, 2020

Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure, you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measures. Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near and forever in our hearts.
Vincent Sama Tima Fobi

Rest In Peace my dear Uncle/Grandpa - Juliet Ndofor Batcha

August 30, 2020

You have played several roles in my life and you did an outstanding job in each role.

You were Uncle Francis to us and eventually became my grandpa. A position you held and played the role so well.

You were a humble man, who had friends
of all ages.

You were always there to protect and direct us. We always knew no matter what the situation was, you were able and willing to handle it.

You took pride in each of our profession and gave each one respect through adding our titles to our names. My Dr, my prof, my IT specialist etc. We were your pride and you were ours.

Big Papa, you are gone but never forgotten. Thank you so much for all you did while on earth. We shall keep the Sama’s descendants and dynasty up to make you proud.

Rest In Peace

Juliet Ndofor Batcha. Aka Mami Abiba

Good Bye Daddy - Yvette

August 30, 2020

Dad, your guiding hand on my shoulder will remain with me forever. You have been there for me, no matter what bad choices I might have made… you lovingly repaired my broken spirit, helped me plot a new course, and set me free to fly on my own once again. There is no greater love than that. You will always be special to me, and no matter where life takes me, I’ll remember you with love.
> Dad, wherever you are, you are gone but you will never be forgotten.
> You were my best friend and greatest role model. You were an amazing dad, coach, mentor, soldier, husband and friend. My heart is heavy writing this, No matter where I am, your spirit will be beside me. For I know that no matter what, you will always be with me.Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I wish I still had your wisdom to guide me through my everyday.You were the guiding light in my life, how lucky I am to have you for as long as I did.
> If I could write a story it would be the greatest ever told. You believed in me when no one did, encouraged me, called me your CEO Daddy the pain is too much too much.The pain of losing a father figure might feel overwhelming, but the strength passed on from father to daughter will help me survive it. So please, Dad, go be at rest
> And know to me you were always the best.
>
> I love you so much and miss you.

Malik Essomba

August 30, 2020

MES LARMES,S'ASSÈCHENT AVEC LE TEMPS, MAIS CHAQUE 08 JUIN, TU ME FERAS ENCORE PLEURER TANT TON SOUVENIR RESTE GRAVÉ EN MA MÉMOIRE. AU FOND DE MOI,J'AI LA CONVICTION QUE TU ES HEUREUX LÀ-BAS ET JE ME REPOSE SUR CE VENT CHAUD ET DOUX À CHAQUE FOIS QUE JE VOIS TON IMAGE. JE RENDS HOMMAGE À NOTRE CRÉATEUR DE T'AVOIR MIS SUR MON CHEMIN, TU ES MA SOURCE D'INSPIRATION.
> Essomba!
> Auguste

Miss you - Yvonne Essomba

August 30, 2020

"Mamie Anjei! My mother. How are you doing? Is everything ok? Sure? You stay blessed and take care of your self" Papa, these were your words each time i called. I still can't believe I will not hear these words again. I have always answered by saying I am doing fine Papa. Today things are different. You are gone, leaving only memories of you for us to live with. You maybe gone from our sight, but you live on in our hearts. I shall grieve not for you, but shall remember and cherish the good memories. Today I say thank you for all the unconditional love and care you showed us. Thank you for giving us hope when life was at its worst, you brought light to our darkness. Thank you for being the reason we smile today. I witnessed how you changed the lives of so many young Cameroonians. You were a source of inspiration to many. Your legacy shall live on. " A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us he only takes the best". Rest well Papa. Yvonne Essomba

Proff Ndofor

August 30, 2020

Rest In Peace Big Papa

An Outstanding grandfather - Dr Gaston Boma

August 30, 2020

Big Papa:

You are the most spiffy and smart Attornney I have ever known. You made our family proud everywhere by your “savoir faire” gestures! There is absolutely not an iota of doubt that you lived an accomplished life not only as an Attorney but as a father, a wonderful husband and a mentor to many of us. We will forever miss you! We love you but God loves you more. REST IN PERFECT PEACE.

My show boy my mentor RIP - Uncle Chucks

August 30, 2020

Pa Sama my show boy, my fine boy, my brother, my friend, my father and my mentor.

What you represent in my life is limitless. You were fearless and an achiever, a man with a huge but kind and a tender heart, one of the smartest and most articulate human beings I have had the privilege and honor to meet. I miss you more than words can express. Continue to Rest In perfect Peace in the bosom of our lord Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more.

My brother, my father, my pride rest well - MaJu

August 30, 2020

You are the older brother I adored growing up. Being a couple of years younger than you, I looked up to you for protection, guidance and mentor. You never let me down. I called you Ni Francis until you became my father's successor then I changed to "Pa Sama" , a name I never stopped calling. Being your mother by tradition, I honored and was so proud of all your numerous achievements.

Pa, I wish I knew that your life was so short, I could have told you each day how honored I was to have a brother like you. I miss your jokes, your laughter and most of all your discipline. You did all in your power to make me a better person and you never failed to let me know how proud you were of me. You never hesitated to introduce me proudly to everyone we meet " hey have you met my beautiful sister maju".

Oh Pa, what went wrong, you were our pillar, our stronghold, my father in need and indeed. We shared a lot of childhood memories, you were my champion, my dancing partner, my friend, my brother my father. Pa Sama, the tears can’t stop flowing. Why why??

You represented our humble family at all times in big ways. So many of my friends growing up did not have older brothers who will threaten to beat up any prospective suitors. I had six. I knew this was your way of showing love and sometimes you let your fist or belt do the talking. The Pain of losing beloved brothers and sisters cannot be describe in words but I am singing because i am blessed to have you in my life and I am laughing because there is nothing any one can do about it. You went away so suddenly, we did not say goodbye. I will not remember your fight for breath, nor the strife or dwell upon your death but i will celebrate your life. I know I'm blessed to have guardian angels in heaven.

Rest in peace Nei, one day we will meet to part no more.

Daughter-in-law- Silo Sama

August 30, 2020

Pa Sama,
Time has sneaked by so fast but the pain of loosing you to the cold hands of death, remains so fresh in my mind!! I have tried so hard yet the month of June has become a nightmare in my mind.

You worked so hard and impacted the lives of many and God saw that it was time for you to rest. Who am I to question God?? I know you have gone to meet our parents, brothers and sisters who went ahead!! May God receive your soul and help us to understand that we're all strangers in this world!!

Rest in Peace my beloved Father-in-law, Rest in Peace my Brother and Friend.

REST IN PEACE till we meet again in the Heavenly Kingdom.
Silonia Sama.

Dear Brother - Ni Ben

August 30, 2020

Francis, candle in the wind! You did it lot for your family, village, country and will always be remembered! May your soul rest in perfect peace! Your Senior brother Ben.

My Dear Brother - Ma Grace

August 30, 2020

My dear brother Francis,
I cannot believe that l am doing something that would have been the other way round!!!. I thought that you, being younger than me, would have been there to write a tribute to honor me when l die. The Almighty knows it all. It has taken me almost 3 months to accept to write what l am writing to you.
We had a special bond, from when you came into my life as my baby brother. Our bond was so close because L was your baby sitter and took care of you which even when you grew up, you still became so attached to me.
My dear Father, Pa Sama, as your name changed when you became our father's successor. Growing up, l never thought that successors could die until June 8th 2020 when my world came crushing, I never saw this coming to me. You never prepared me for this because you promised calling me after l talked to you on the 6th of June at 9 a m on your way to the hospital. I wish l knew, l would have reminded you that I LOVE YOU always.
You lived a short but beautiful and very meaningful life. You touched people's hearts so much. You were my go to whenever l was confused. You were my defender, you fought my fights even when you knew l made a wrong move. You made me so proud wherever l went. You changed my name in a positive way, My name was "LAWYER SAMA ye sister".
My children, grand children knew that we had someone always present for us!. We are lost and confused since June 8th 2020. God help us!!!.
Pa Sama Francis, a loving brother, always present in times of joy and sorrow. Each time we thought of coming to Cameroon, it was a joy because of you. Even if you could not be there at the airport to pick us, you made all arrangements for us to get out of the airport without any worries. You will always be there to bid us farewell even if it meant we had to be the last to board, you will beat all the traffic and bad roads to make sure you get to the airport to huge us. This was our last farewell. I wish I knew, I would have whispered into your ears, I LOVE YOU!!!
I can write a booklet about you my darling brother, but tears will not allow me.
I will not continue to cry but will continue to think of our good times, one as big sister and small brother and two as "father and daughter". These are memories that will live on with me because there was never a bitter spot!!!
Rest well my HERO father.
Before l end, all l ask of you is to greet the wonderful big family you have met since June 8 2020. Give me the strength to continue just half of the good things you did to our family and friends,
Give Gladys, your sweet heart, strength and courage to accept the Lord's will. Intercede every day for the kids, Neola, Frank, Sharon, Tina, Francis, Ngye-so and Asanga, your name sake.
I love you, but Jesus Loves you best.
Good night my best friend!!!
Ma Grace, your sweet big sister as you called me.
RIP

MY BELOVED BROTHER/FATHER - Ma Alice Ndofor (Kah Manyi)

August 30, 2020

A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER/FATHER,
BARISTER FRANCIS SAMA( PA SAMA)
For those who know me, know I like to write and to talk. I have now met a situation in my life when I can neither write nor talk. No words as yet, still in a shock, still dreaming, still in denial because the passing on of my brother/ father was too fast and I did not see it coming. With time, I believe God will make us accept His will.
All I can say now is,“ Lord God Almighty, thank you for the precious years you granted us to live as brother and sister. A life full of concern and being there for each other, where unity was our strength. You bound us all with a cord of love that was not broken”
To my brother/ father, I say, “Thank you for who you were in my life as your elder sister/daughter . You were ever present in all situations in my life and that of my children. You showed pride in our achievements and emotional hurt whenever we were hurt. I remember one day how hurt you were when you noticed I was very hurt by an individual. That incidence stands out clearly in my memory. Thanks very much. I will forever miss you.
From about the age of twenty seven, you were made head of our family. You were made successor of our father. This role you held for about thirty five years. You did your best and did a good job. We thank God for you standing there as father to us all and grand father to our children. God lead you even through challenging times. To many of our kids, you were the only grandpa they knew. They were proud of you as you were of them. Thank you.
I sometimes imagine the wonderful reunion with family members who went before you.
Pa, you ran a good race and you fought a good fight. May Our Father in Heaven grant you a perfect rest.I promise to be there whenever and wherever I can for Gla and the kids.
Rest in Perfect Peace my dear brother/ father.
Ma Alice Ndofor( Kah Manyi)

Your daughter - Blessing sama

August 29, 2020

Tribute from Blessing Sama

Death changes everything. Time changes nothing. I miss hearing your voice, the times you told us stories of your past, when you took me in and gave me a new life. I miss you so much like it was only yesterday you left this world for time really changes nothing.

Some memories will never fade for when you called me “Ble Ble” I knew you needed help with your phone or when you called me “Blessing” I knew I had gone astray, or when you called me Miss Sama when you saw a bright future ahead. I just miss you Daddy.

Your Son - Francis Jr.

August 29, 2020

Daddy, I still cannot believe you are gone. I still remember that Friday night when I was driving home and we were chatting about my new car. Little did I know that was going to be our last conversation. I spent all day Saturday and Sunday trying to get you the best medical help but God had different plans. All I can hope and pray for now is that you rest in perfect peace and continue to watch over us and the entire family as you always did. It’s still such a shock to me that I can’t even write past this paragraph. Rest in peace daddy, I miss you so much.

Francis Jr.

Your learned colleague, friend, and daughter Tina Sama

August 29, 2020

Tribute to Daddy

Every day I wake up, it still feels like a dream. I can’t believe you’re gone Daddy. Never could I have imagined in my wildest dreams that you would not be here with us today. I never for one second thought that I will find myself so soon in a position where I would be asking “what would Daddy do in a situation like this?”. Daddy you’ve shocked us all. I can’t even begin to express how I feel. At the end of the day, the only thing I can really say is that God knows what’s best and if He thought it was time for you to go, then I guess that was the best option, given the circumstances.

I miss you daddy and I love you so much. You will forever remain my number one role model and my mentor. We were a team! We were going to take the legal stage in Cameroon by storm. What happens to all the dreams and plans we made together? What will I do now that you’re gone? Every day I wake up and ask myself if I can really do this. Is it even possible? What is the point in having a Sama Chambers without you?

But every day I am reminded of your positivity even to the very end. You will always tell me about the importance of having dreams. “A man can dream as much as he wants. Dreams are free!” you always said, but you often reminded me that the most important thing was that you should work hard. And that was what you did, until your dying breath.

Daddy life will never be the same without you. Legal Practice will never be the same without you. I am the woman I am today because of everything you taught me. The virtues and principles you instilled in me from the time I was born until the time I became your “learned colleague” continue to mold and shape my life to this very day. And I promise to hold them dear until the very end.

Thank you for every memory, for every lesson, for every moment shared with you. Thank you for always inspiring me to be the very best version of myself. Thank you for being the best boss, colleague, friend, and dad all in one. Thank you for everything daddy. I love you and miss you and pray that you find eternal rest in the bosom of the Almighty. I imagine the lengthy thank you speech you must have made when you got to the Pearly Gates, because where else would you be, if not in Heaven? Even though I lost a dad and so much more, I know that I have gained a guardian angel. Adieu Daddy, till we meet again.

Your learned colleague, friend, and daughter Tina Sama

Your princess, Complice, & fashionista - SharonSama

August 29, 2020

Is this really happening???

I ask myself this question EVERYNIGHT!!!

I still cannot believe you are gone Daddy. If any one had told us this was how the year 2020 was going to go, I would have told them they were insane. You shocked us all. We spoke to you that Sunday afternoon and making jokes about how you will tell us you are stronger than this and now I have to write a tribute, still puzzling to me!

But God knows best and he needs you more with him. This is all I can tell myself in order to move forward right now.

It really hurts, I miss you so much Daddy. Who will I call everyday to pump me up like you always did? I have never seen a father so proud of his children, no matter the smallest accomplishment; you will make us feel like we just conquered the world. I remember when I started blogging and you were the first to ask me what it was about and will ask me for pictures daily so you can “send to your status lol”. My complice, as you called me, and my number one cheerleader in everything I do. Always so proud of me and loving no matter how many times I am wrong. One thing with Daddy is you always made each and everyone of us feel like we were your favorite because you loved and encouraged us all the time. I was your Complice, your successor in style and fashion and “chopping life like you always say, do not mind the others, they are like their mother” I am going to miss you so much Daddy.

This really hurts. Life will never be the same without you but everyday I am reminded of your positive energy and zeal to achieve whatever you want in life. You always told us a successful man must have a dream, if you do not have a dream then you have nothing to look forward to. I will try my best to continue to fulfill my dreams even the ones I thought I would not accomplish, I know you will be by my side and always guide me through.

Thank you for every memory, for every lesson, for every moment shared with you. Thank you for always inspiring us, your precious and most proud accomplishments, your kids, thank you for always giving us the best in life, the best you could provide. I never lacked anything in life because you and mom made sure we have and got anything we want in order to be successful. You instilled the best you could in us and I am happy that were able to make you proud before you left this world. I love and miss you dearly and I pray you find eternal rest with the almighty God. Even though you are no longer with us on earth, we just gained an angel in heaven to look over us. Thank you daddy

Love you

Your princess, Complice, & fashionista

Sharon Sama

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