Gabe's colleagues and friends sent condolences.
I work at Microsoft, I’m a huge college football fan and I graduated from The University of Texas. Despite that third item, Gabe and I were friends because of the first two and had many years of discussions in depth about football and sometimes just life.
Word reached us on the college football discussion list last week and I’ve been wanting to send his family a note since then. Someone on his most recent Microsoft team passed along your contact information, I hope you don’t mind this note. And I’ve been dreading finding the words to write. I finally gathered the will to try to put down my thoughts on what a wonderful person Gabe was.
I cannot possibly imagine the sadness and sorrow you and your family are going through. My family’s thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Gabe and I had a surprisingly good friendship despite the obvious conflict of who we pulled for. In this day and age when everyone seems to live in an echo chamber, Gabe was proactive in ensuring that didn’t happen in our discussions.
One example: When Texas lost to Alabama (a game I was at), he was quick to reach out via text and email and offer sympathies. Maybe “condolences” is a more accurate term, I doubt he was really sympathetic about Texas losing. J
No matter the result of the RRS we were always able to discuss the ins and outs of the game. And of course we both enjoyed making fun of Texas A&M.
I’ve been going through my sent and deleted mails recalling our various conversations. These have helped a lot because it turns my tears into smiles as I recall what a wonderful person he was. Especially the last one from his last day at Microsoft:
From: Me
It’s been a pleasure. Good luck in the future and I’ll see you at the Texas State Fairgrounds!
From: Gabe Mares
You may indeed. I'll be the one doing the Horns down. ;)
From: Gabe Mares
After almost 16 years at Microsoft I’m leaving the company. Tomorrow will be my last day. I’ve enjoyed talking college football with you guys over the years. #3 OU’s first game is this Saturday @ #15 Houston. Can’t wait! Football is here! It’s really happening!
I now deeply regret letting life get in the way of staying more in touch in the couple of months since he left Microsoft.
Anyway, thank you for letting me share, I hope this note can in some way help with your sorrow and help you know his friendship was appreciated even from a Longhorn.
Kevin
I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Gabe. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you. Please accept my condolences on this sad occasion.
I am the one who convinced (and hired) Gabe to move to the Pacific Northwest. While we hadn't talked in a few years, I always valued Gabe's friendship.
I'll always remember his first week in Bellevue; him and I ended up getting stuck in a snowstorm on our way to have a computer repaired. His car couldn't make it up the snowy/icy hills, so we drove around looking for flat roads. We finished the day by having dinner with my wife and mother who was visiting at the time. We laughed and laughed about our trek...
Again, I am sorry for your loss.
Erik
Hello, I worked with your son Gabriel for almost 5 years at Microsoft on the Forza game team. We actually both worked on the same sub-team within Forza. I had the good fortune to sit directly next to him for much of that time. Gabe was such a wonderful person, friend and colleague to me and so many others, I know I will miss him forever. We both loved college football and that was a frequent topic of our daily conversations.
I am so deeply sorry for your and the rest of your family's loss. Your family is in my thoughts,
John
Know that Gabe is in all our thoughts. Please don't hesitate to ask if there is anything we can do.
-Alan
It is with a heavy heart that I write this note to you all to let you know that one of our own – Gabe Mares – passed away this last weekend. I know that many of you have heard this sad news already, but the studio leadership wanted to make sure you all knew.
I had the pleasure to work with Gabe in many of my teams here at Microsoft and for more than 10 years here at Turn 10. I, like many of you, have many fond memories of working with Gabe. His passion for making great games was always evident. It wouldn’t be a normal shipping year without Gabe doing a massive change in the memory management system weeks before RTX. He recently left Turn 10 to work on his second love – music; combining his love of tech and love of music in his new venture. And who can forget his love of college football, OU and the Big 12 (minus Texas).
As we mourn the loss of a colleague and friend, let’s celebrate his life and the ways that he enriched our lives and the games we built together. It is at times like this that I am reminded of the special people that I encounter every day – of which he was one.
Daniel
Thank you for reaching out. I'm stunned to hear the news about Gabe.
Gabe was one of the first people I worked with at Turn 10 Studios back in 2008. I recall his quiet confidence, and his patience helping me build up to tasks that were initially beyond my abilities. We were on different teams, so I didn't have much experience working directly with Gabe the last 8 years, but I do know that he was incredibly smart, humble, and passionate about delivering quality. He was well respected within the studio. Gabe and I shared common interests in cars, both owning BMW M3s, and in photography, which led to many hallway conversations.
I'm terribly sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Zach
I just wanted to reach out and tell you how sad I was to hear about Gabe’s passing. I worked with him on NFL Fever and for a brief stint on Forza. I always remember Gabe’s warm smile and relaxed demeanor. He loved his work, and the people he worked with. Thank you for thinking of his friends and co-workers and passing on the hard news. I will miss him.
Steve
I was a friend and colleague of Gabe. I was the Game Designer for NFL Fever at Microsoft and we worked closely on the project. When I went over to EA Sports to work on Madden NFL and NFL Head Coach, Gabe and I got to work together again on football games and his passion for the sport and gaming was always very impressive to me.
Gabe and I had spoken on the phone in the last 30 days as I am working on a new Virtual Reality football game for college sports featuring cyborgs and he seemed to love the concept. We had agreed that now that he was no longer working at Microsoft that he would do contract development for us while working on his own company. I was going to let Gabe head up all of the AI and was thankful that he would be on the project.
Unfortunately this was our last conversation....His passing comes as such a surprise and I was so excited that we had recently reconnected. He will be greatly missed and I send my sincere condolences to you and your family. He was a great person and a gifted talent.
David
This news has hit the office pretty hard. Your son was very well respected and liked by everyone he worked with. We used to talk about music a lot, and were always bringing in new guitars or music gear to discuss. I even bought some of his older equipment, things I shall now treasure. If there is anything I, or my colleagues can do to help you at this difficult time please let me know.
Nick
How terribly sad. I have fond memories of Gabe. It has been a very long time since I worked with him on NFL Fever but I remember him as a very bright and capable developer who was always kind to those around him. Thanks for raising such a fine son. May you find peace in his memory.
Steve
I was a long-time colleague of Gabe in many groups at Microsoft. Gabe and I worked together in Windows Media, Sports and Turn 10 Studios. And it was Gabe that got me my first job in games – something I forever will be thankful for. He was a great man, a great colleague and a good friend.
I just wanted to let you know that we at Turn 10 received your note about Gabe’s passing and sent it to our entire team. Everyone is in shock with the news as Gabe was well known and loved by all. On behalf of our Studio, I wanted to convey on condolences to you are your family at this time of loss. Our thoughts are prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Daniel