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Leave a tributeYou are showing him around. Giving him a big fluffy bed. Telling him we love and miss him so much. Just as we love and miss you every day.
Wherever your spirits/souls are, it is a better place.
There isn’t a day that I don’t think about you.! Love & miss you so much!!
Your laugh was infectious, your faith was inspirational, and your love of dogs and devotion to ending animal cruelty was humbling.
I wish you could see all the love expressed in your absence- you've touched so many lives. I am so honored to have known you, and am better for having had you in my life.
I live in SF and can't travel. I believe he and Loren are now together in happiness . What an incredible man to have so many wonderful tributes from so many who loved him dearly. Very few people in life can say they were loved by so many. I tear up every timed I think of him, such a special heart and a true good soul.......
Gary Mazzone has been the heart of 11th Avenue in South Minneapolis since 1981. When he first moved in with Monique, a miniature French poodle, all on 11th Avenue and beyond became friends as often happens, through dogs. This continued with Elsie, Emma, Wanda, Grace and the long line of fosters Gary adored. Gary’s partner, Loren, who sadly passed away in 1995, also quickly became a fixture on the block. Whether out helping the neighbors shovel, wave a sweet hello to all the children passing by or just outside gardening, both Gary and Loren were beloved by all. As Gary’s immediate neighbor, it was gratifying to see him finally land at Magers & Quinn Booksellers. Gary always had a new book he wanted you to read, a new story to tell. He had also worked at a big box bookstore, but he his home was in the independent small business community and he did whatever he could to promote Minnesota’s mom and pop shops. Gary also shared his heart with the many charities he supported. Putting in thousands and thousands of miles on his bike, Gary rode cross state and cross country year after year to support AIDS charities as well as the one Lung Association ride he did in honor of Loren’s dad. He was a volunteer buddy and all around helper for the Minnesota AIDS Project over many years. He also volunteered at Grace House and helped so many transition from this life to the next. Gary’s ability to raise money and support from his friends was phenomenal. No one could turn him down. When Gary asked for your support, you responded … why? Because you knew if Gary was involved it must be a great cause. And Gary loved children. He was godfather to a new born, he was big brother to many young kids at his church – and he took that seriously. He loved to introduce children to reading, to nature and most of all to the love of animals. No tribute to Gary Mazzone would be complete without emphasizing the love he had for those least fortunate amongst us. His eyes would well up as he told the tale of his many rescue “girls” – how long they had been caged, how they had never bonded with people before and how they could now finally live out their final days in freedom and with love. Thank you Gary for all you’ve been, all you’ve done and all you’ve left us. Years ago, Gary gave me a daily meditation book, The Color of Light by Perry Tilleraas, that he had originally given to Loren. The inscription on the inside cover reads, “To Loren. Read, enjoy, learn, grow and share this book with me. And if you need me, I will always be there for you. Love Gary.”
Gary, I am so grateful for the love and compassion that you have brought to my whole family. I remember the day after church I blew the engine on my car and you helped me to push it to the curb and make sure I got home. The beautiful way you served as President of our congregation and when I took over how you made sure that we met and you made the change of position so easy and continued to always check on me through the entire time that I served. Your encouragement when I decided to adopt our puppy mill girl, Buffy. Your stories of your beloved partner and the pain and lose that you experienced. You shared with us your beautiful puppies. Emma, who you always said saved your life. I know she will miss you so much. When George had his stroke last may the tears you shed with us. The hugs and kisses that gave us strength. The little angel coins we still carry. I feel like I never got to share enough how much you are loved. Through all the pain and heartache you experienced, you always smiled, shared love, and made us see the love of Christ through your eyes.
My friend, rest in peace, you have given so much love, oh good and faithful servant. Your faith family will miss you, the world will miss you.
I will miss you.
excluded ones. His leadership was recognized as he was elected president of the congregation. Gary made an effort to attend every committee and group within the church and was especially supportive
of the outreach and urban arts programs of Calvary. Almost every
Sunday we greeted each other with a touch or a hug and I knew he
cared about me. His loss from the heart of our community will be
difficult. The fact that he lived longer than he expected was a gift.
Thanks be to God for our brother in the faith - a good man and a
person we want to affirm and remember always.
Gary was like a second dad to me. He would always make me smile and laugh no matter what mood I was in. For my birthday, he would always take me to the bookstore where he worked to pick a book I wanted. We would then go out to eat (almost always mac-n-cheese pizza). We would then go back and make cookies at this house. I will miss not seeing Gary every Sunday, but I know he is always there. Gary, thank you for helping me realize that there are always good people in this world! I will miss you!
May your spirit continue to guide us on our walk in life, reminding us to live with compassion and purpose.
Peace be with you, my friend! Thanks for the memories!
Love you forever ~ Deb
Well you came over and introduced yourself. We have been fast friends since that moment.
You were the person I looked for at every event. Your outlook was infectious. You engaged yourself, chatting with folks looking for that forever furry friend.
I find it hard to bring myself to an adoption event, because I know I will be searching the room for you. Knowing you will never bless an other adoption event is inconceivable.
My only conciliation is that you are with all the furry four legged ones that have gone before the rest of us.
Take care my friend. Fill your bed with all those departed pets.
Love and Miss You.
Cindy
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![Gary and I took a road trip to see friends in Wisconsin! I miss your kindness & gentle spirit.](https://photo.forevermissed.com/lst/g/a/gary-j-mazzone/p/1016656_235x235_fa65cd.jpg)
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I first met Gary in 2001 at the Canada to U.S. AIDS Vaccine Ride, a four-day trek from Montreal to Portland, ME. Gary approached me at the pre-ride registration and asked me if I needed a tent mate. I was traveling alone and was happy for the company. I had done two previous AIDS Rides and considered myself a veteran. My assumption, soon proven erroneous, was that Gary was a rookie.
The first day of the ride was 100 miles long, into Vermont along Lake Champlain. I considered myself a strong rider and finished in good time. When I reached the camping ground, I was surprised to find Gary already there and to learn that he had showered, changed and set up our tent! As we talked that night, I learned that Gary had completed as many as ten AIDS Rides in the past and was something of a celebrity – everyone seemed to know him. So much for the rookie!
I also learned of his fifteen-year struggle with HIV and his loss of Loren. Despite his travails, he was one of the most cheerful people I had ever met. Over the next few days and evenings I also witnessed his kindness and consideration toward others.
On the final day, we chose to ride together, although I must admit that I drafted off him most of the way. When we reached Portland, Gary told me that it was a tradition of his to go out to lunch at the conclusion of the event. We hitched a ride into town and found a restaurant. When we walked into the crowded dining room in our cycling clothes, everyone burst into applause!
I stayed in touch with Gary over the years, seeing him whenever I went to Minneapolis on business. I was even going to join him on another AIDS Ride, from Minneapolis to Chicago, but those plans were dashed when I had a serious accident while on a training ride. I followed Gary’s own cross-country ride attempt, which I recall was to raise money for Calvary, with great interest.
Gary’s positive attitude, his generosity and his kindness were exemplary.
Requiescat in pace, my friend.