June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
I couldn’t write until now. Despite the fact that for the last four or five years she’d been telling me that we might not meet again, her actual departure leaves an enormous hole. What a wonderful woman, and what a wonderful friend! Her public work in the community and at the University was remarkably valuable (I used to love calling her at her pre-OSU office and hear the receptionist cheerily answer “You have Options!”) But It was our was private friendship that made her one of the anchors of my life. She counseled me through career decisions, through divorce and remarriage, through challenges with my children. Almost equally valuable, she let me feel that I was sometimes a good counselor to her. She could be fierce; the North Star of her values shone brightly, and it wasn’t always easy to get her to agree that there might be another side to an argument. But truthfully, I almost always knew that she was right. I loved her, and I’ll miss her the rest of the way.