Marching to the Beat of Mr. C.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16
Jerry Carasea has left this life before the rest of us were ready to let him go… typical of him. Anyone who knew him was aware that Jerry could leave a conversation mid-sentence if he thought he knew how it would end. When you had his attention, it was 100%, but you had better talk fast and with few words.
Jerry’s high energy, sharp focus, and love for everything musical were instrumental in his success as a father, husband, friend, musician, music teacher, band director, music contest judge, and educational music consultant.
As his wife, best friend, and mother to our children, I realize that Jerry knew we would be okay. Jerry believed all of us to be capable of more than what we thought we could. Jerry marched to the beat of his own drum, and he made sure we all followed him. He made it fun, and he made us better people because of it.
On June 13th, 2019, Jerry took Matt and I to Isle of Palms, South Carolina. We had two special weeks at the beach before medical symptoms forced his return for testing. Jerry’s family and friends held his hand and talked to him during his last five days with us. He was never in any pain and was aware of everyone around him. On July 11th, 2019, Jerry passed away from this earth due to organ failure from pancreatic and liver cancer. We will never forget his life and his love for all of us, as his spirit lives on.
Mrs. C.
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Leave a tributeDennita
We miss him no less now than when he passed from this world four years ago today. It's still amazing to me how he is still so conscious and real to us in our daily lives.
Our family is blessed with so many good memories of our time together. Like the time he was driving us to our favorite ice cream place, Biggins on the Portage Lakes. He was going a bit too fast, slammed on the brakes while turning the wheel then slid on the gravel sideways into the parking lot yelling... "Yee haw! What a ride!"
And yes, now there are sad and tearful times knowing we cannot see him in this life again.
But while he was here, he enriched our lives with fun and laughter and the strongest love.
Then he slid into death sideways, worn out and screaming... "Woo Hoo! What a ride!" (George Carlin on a well lived life.)
God's blessings upon you all.
On this day three years ago Jerry passed from this life to the next. Our family still mourns his death. There remains a "Jerry sized" hole in our lives. It is comforting to know that he lives on in our hearts and those of students and friends too many to count. Matthew, Caryn and I continue to make new memories. Please pray for Matthew. He misses his dad so much but does not understand why his dad isn't here. Blessings to all of you.
Matt is saying, "Dad is gone" as he repeats often every day. All our lives are missing your love, enthusiasm and joy of life. Your friends have been so supportive and caring. We are blessed by knowing so many of them. Comfort comes to us in the memories the children and I have and our continuing great love we share with you. I picture you in heaven being joyously happy with students, band parents, our church members, friends and relatives that have passed. All my love to you my husband and best friend.
I remember Gerry when I used to come over to have sleepovers and music/movie nights with Caryn as a kid. He was such a fun, larger than life presence. I will never forget what a kind man he was. It was very clear how much he loved his family. I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you guys!
Corinna
Best wishes and prayers!
Lynne Fisher
I’ll never forget a time when we were helping kids try instruments to select for band and there was a girl that couldn’t make a sound on anything. We were also left with the impression that she probably didn’t have a great home life either. As soon as she walked away, he turned to me and said “Jerr (his nickname for me), that girl needs band.” Jerry realized me that being in band is so much more than making music. That, along with his talent and work ethic, is undoubtedly why he had decades of success as a band director.
Jerry was so much fun to work with and he was always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. Along with the jokes and stories he had, one of my favorite things was how he would swear in Italian and just assume I understood (I didn’t, but went along with it).
I still can’t believe he is gone and miss him so much. I consider myself lucky to have had him in my life.
Eloise Rice
At the games Jerry and I would get to talking and somehow we got on the subject of Rock and Roll history. He told me he once taught a class on that,and from that point on we clicked. I even gave him my Keith Richards biography after I read it.
As all his past students have said, the guy was hilarious and a great storyteller. He told me he once played in a POLKA band that somehow got booked to play and Arab prince wedding by mistake! Obviously once they showed up the guy organizing the wedding was like “umm what?”. Jerry told me instead of getting flustered the guy pulled them aside, pulls out a big stack of $100 bills paid them what they would normally charge for a gig plus a little extra and told them to get outta there before anyone saw. Haha
Jerry will be in my thoughts this weekend as we have a baseball tournament coming up. If there is an event in his honor I will do my best to attend that. Please keep me updated.
God be with you Jerry (Mr.C), just like you were with us!
Thoughts and prayers to the Carasea family.
We were crazy buddies in college at IUP trying to grow up and get an education in music. It was fun getting back together here in Chicago after all these years. Save me a seat in your new sax section.
Jerry DiMuzio (Chicago)
The second big moment is when I tried out for field commander at the end of my sophomore year. I didn't think I had a chance. I wasn't a favorite of his - he was always very serious with me and he used to say I 'just played clarinet'. I tried out anyway. There were three of us and I thought for sure he'd laugh at me for even trying. The day after tryouts, he came and got me in homeroom and asked me to go for a walk. I thought for sure he was going to give me the bad news somewhere in private so I could cry. He started out telling me how hard it is to be field commander and that it has to be someone he can rely on who he felt would do a good job. He said whoever was field commander would sometimes have to do things that might upset others. The field commander took his place on the field. He needed someone who would gain the respect of the entire band and he had to make sure that person could handle it. I almost started crying because I was sure the next sentence was going to be "and that's why I chose xx to be the next field commander. I'm sorry." But, strangely, his next sentence was "so D, what size boots do you wear? I have to get them ordered now. Oh and you'll be going to camp in July." I was in shock!! I hugged him and he laughed and he told me to go call my Mom.
I didn't have the silly and fun relationship with him that many others did. He was always serious with me. I never could figure out why. I didn't always agree with him and we'd have words but I always respected him. His word was final. He always knew when we could give more. We wanted to give more.
I wanted to be a Sprout so badly in Eighth Grade but I wasn't picked. But I was picked in Ninth Grade to go to the high school concert band for the year. All of us that were picked were told we would be last chair and we were not allowed to challenge to move up. I didn't care. I thought it was the most amazing honor! I learned so much plus I got to be in two concert bands at the same time and be in marching band. It was a great help in eventually becoming first chair my Senior year.
Band was the highlight of my high school 'career' and it is all because of Mr. C. Some called him gruff and hard on us. I always thought he did it because he knew we were better than what we thought. He saw the greatness in all of us and because of that, I believed in myself enough to at least tryout for field commander and it was one of the best things I ever did.
Thank you Mr. C. for being the guiding light that got most of us through school and gave us the skills to get through life.
RIP Mr. C!
We had three children go through the Cloverleaf band program. Our oldest marched from 9th through 11th grade and was in symphonic band from 9th through 12th grade. Our daughter started as a prop in 7th grade, then marched from 8th through 12th grade and also played in the symphonic band. Our youngest son started as a prop in 6th grade and started marching his 8th grade year. He marched 5 years and was also in symphonic band all those years. He was so impacted by Mr. C that he went back to college after getting a BS in psychology to get a teaching certificate for music education.
I am so glad to see that many of the posts share life lessons that Mr. C taught his students and peers. He truly cared about all of his students - even the frustrating ones - and treated them all alike. He did believe in making students strive to be better than they thought they could be. He always had the band room open Fridays after school before games so that students had somewhere to go when going home was not always an option. He made sure the band was always fed before a competition. He understood that each student was not perfect, he asked that they gave 100% and improved to the level that they didn't even realize they were able to reach. He did instill responsibility and commitment in all of his students. And they responded.
I know that when Cloverleaf finally gets an arts center, with an auditorium, Mr. C will be sitting in the front row enjoying the first concert.
Mr C. was the most influential teacher I had in school. He believed in my talents before I knew I even had them and pushed me to do much more and take me out of my comfort zone. He gave me the lead solo in Shaft my sophomore year and convinced me to do solo and ensemble. I remember him picking the piece and saying this will be challenging but worth it (morceau symphonique). He stayed after school many times to help me perfect it. He then had me try out for the Cleveland Youth Wind Symphony and I used the same piece to audition - I went on to be selected and spent the next 3 years playing for them where we played multiple concerts a year at Severance Hall - an amazing experience I would have never had without him.
I will never forget after state competition we had received a 2 after a great performance and he came on the bus furious, “you guys were robbed out there, you played it perfect and those judges got it wrong, don’t you dare hang your heads” or something to that effect. If we had deserved the 2 he would have let us know it. He somehow had the ability to connect with each and everyone of us at a personal deep level - a true leader! He will be missed. RIP Mr. C!!
The world feels a bit darker today. We've lost a beautiful soul. Thank you, Mr C! Your music continues on in the hearts of many.
I know Mr. C is already playing and directing in Gods heavenly band! We will miss you until we meet again in that concert in the sky!
My deepest condolences and
Prayers for peace for his family!?♡
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Dennita
We miss him no less now than when he passed from this world four years ago today. It's still amazing to me how he is still so conscious and real to us in our daily lives.
Our family is blessed with so many good memories of our time together. Like the time he was driving us to our favorite ice cream place, Biggins on the Portage Lakes. He was going a bit too fast, slammed on the brakes while turning the wheel then slid on the gravel sideways into the parking lot yelling... "Yee haw! What a ride!"
And yes, now there are sad and tearful times knowing we cannot see him in this life again.
But while he was here, he enriched our lives with fun and laughter and the strongest love.
Then he slid into death sideways, worn out and screaming... "Woo Hoo! What a ride!" (George Carlin on a well lived life.)
God's blessings upon you all.
A New Year's Birthday as told by Carolyn Carasea
And then it got better. A group of bagpipers came into the pub. They played for awhile. I'm half Scottish on my dad's side and love to hear the pipes so I enjoyed it immensely. But it was the only instrument that Jerry could not stand. He said it was a weapon of war. This is true.
Then they piped themselves out of the pub through the cobbled streets of Alexandria and into the next pub. Numerous patrons, including Jerry and I, followed them through numerous pubs that night. It was definitely a night to remember.
When we called it a night (actually morning) and circled back to the car I was missing something. I took off my shoes while bar hopping as it was difficult to walk on cobblestone in heels. I had no idea which pub I left my shoes in!
He helped me in many ways, professionally and personally. I valued his support. I’ll never forget the day he helped me move into my new home. He had a bad back, but still helped me move a very heavy refrigerator.
When it came time time for him to move on professionally, I called Bob Hofstetter, the Supervisor of Music in Wayne County to recommend he hire Gerry. He informed me that I was a little late since he already received many calls supporting Gerry and was indeed going to hire him.
i could relate many stories about Gerry that show what a fantastic band director, musician and friend to many people he was. Suffice it to say that he will be missed by all who knew him hope we’ll meet again on some “stage” performing with a heavenly ensemble.