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Marching to the Beat of Mr. C.

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

Jerry Carasea has left this life before the rest of us were ready to let him go… typical of him. Anyone who knew him was aware that Jerry could leave a conversation mid-sentence if he thought he knew how it would end. When you had his attention, it was 100%, but you had better talk fast and with few words. 

Jerry’s high energy, sharp focus, and love for everything musical were instrumental in his success as a father, husband, friend, musician, music teacher, band director, music contest judge, and educational music consultant.  

As his wife, best friend, and mother to our children, I realize that Jerry knew we would be okay. Jerry believed all of us to be capable of more than what we thought we could. Jerry marched to the beat of his own drum, and he made sure we all followed him. He made it fun, and he made us better people because of it.


On June 13th, 2019, Jerry took Matt and I to Isle of Palms, South Carolina. We had two special weeks at the beach before medical symptoms forced his return for testing.  Jerry’s family and friends held his hand and talked to him during his last five days with us. He was never in any pain and was aware of everyone around him. On July 11th, 2019, Jerry passed away from this earth due to organ failure from pancreatic and liver cancer. We will never forget his life and his love for all of us, as his spirit lives on.

Mrs. C.

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January 1
January 1
January 1st, 2024 would have been Jerry's 73rd birthday. Last night at 12:01, we toasted the New Year and Jerry. Caryn, Matt and I miss him greatly. In many ways he is so alive in our hearts. We have many wonderful memories of Christmas together with him. That softens the loss a bit. Blessings to all in 2024!
January 1
January 1
I miss Gerry so much. I hope this next year brings your family love and peace
Dennita
July 11, 2023
July 11, 2023
Tonight we were catching fireflies. Caryn said laughingly, "Maybe all the fireflies are sent from Dad to keep an eye on us!" I hope!

We miss him no less now than when he passed from this world four years ago today. It's still amazing to me how he is still so conscious and real to us in our daily lives. 

Our family is blessed with so many good memories of our time together. Like the time he was driving us to our favorite ice cream place, Biggins on the Portage Lakes. He was going a bit too fast, slammed on the brakes while turning the wheel then slid on the gravel sideways into the parking lot yelling... "Yee haw! What a ride!"

And yes, now there are sad and tearful times knowing we cannot see him in this life again.
But while he was here, he enriched our lives with fun and laughter and the strongest love. 

Then he slid into death sideways, worn out and screaming... "Woo Hoo! What a ride!" (George Carlin on a well lived life.)

God's blessings upon you all. 
His Life

Professional and Personal life highlights

July 22, 2019

Professional Life Highlights:

Graduate of Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Bassoon scholarship.  Played in IUP marching band.

Worked summers during college in construction and at Sears.

Member of Music Tones, a polka band, playing sax in venues ranging from veterans’ clubs to weddings.  Learned phonetic Polish so he could sing in the group. Recorded “Ashes of Our Love Polka.”

1st teaching position:  One year as high school band director at a Pennsylvania girls’ Catholic school.  Priest permanently cured him of inappropriate language on the practice field.

2nd teaching position:  Four years as Jr. high school band director at Barberton U.L. Light.

Last teaching position:  Thirty-four years as high school band director and instrumental music teacher at Cloverleaf Schools.

Mentored many students and teachers in many ways.

Many of his students became music educators.

Member of American Society of Band Directors.

Member of OMEA, Ohio Music Education Association.

Graduate of Akron University with a Master’s in Education Administration

Judge of statewide instrumental solo, ensemble, concert band and marching band contests.

Judge of marching bands for Festivals of Music.

Educational Music Consultant and road rep for Pellegrino Music.

Driver for Doug Chevrolet.


Personal Life Highlights

Son of Gerald and Catherine Carasea.  Brother to Anthony Carasea and brother-in-law to Lori Carasea.  Brother-in-law to Roberta (Ewart) and Robert Marchbanks and Glenn Ewart.

Eagle Scout:  Completed a 33-mile hike in a day.

Married Mrs. C. in November of 1986 between the end of football season and the band trip to the Fiesta Bowl (also known as their honeymoon).  

Father to three children, Lynn Todich, Caryn and Matthew Carasea.  Grandfather to Michal and Emma Todich. He was very proud of Emma’s playing flute in Jackson Twp. School’s 5th grade band.  Once left alone with the Caryn and Matt (ages 3 months and two years), he drew mustaches on them.

Mr. C. was a force to be reckoned with in advocating for our children’s needs. Both were diagnosed with autism at ages three and two years old.  Caryn graduated from Kent State and is working. Matt is in the Bravo! Program at United Disabilities Services in Akron. Both reside at home. 

Family has been members of St. Jacob Lutheran Church in Jackson Twp. for 32 years.  Jerry started a Euchre group which enjoys fellowship and fun once a month. He loved to cook for the church, where his homemade pasta sauces were a great hit.

Excellent self-taught cook who prepared all his family’s meals.  Grew his own tomatoes and herbs and canned his own spaghetti sauce.  He stirred sauce like he directed the band. There are spaghetti sauce stains on the kitchen ceiling that will never come out.

Coached Matt’s Challenger Baseball team for 10 years.  Jerry said being a father of our children and a coach of children with special needs taught him more patience in his teaching.

Jerry enjoyed taking Caryn for 13 years for lessons and riding at Pegasus Stables in Hartville.

Teamed with son Matt playing in a bowling league on Sundays nights.

Played Baritone Sax in the Stark Kent Community Orchestra and the Medina Community Band.


There’s peace in the promise that life is everlasting.

Recent stories

A New Year's Birthday as told by Carolyn Carasea

January 2, 2023
BK, that is "before kids," we always had a special celebration for Jerry's birthday.  He and the New Year share a birthday of  January 1st. My favorite was when we went to Washington, DC.  Jerry made New Year's Eve reservations at Murphy's Pub in Alexandria, VA.  The atmosphere was great as well as the food.

And then it got better.  A group of bagpipers came into the pub.  They played for awhile. I'm half Scottish on my dad's side and love to hear the pipes so I enjoyed it immensely. But it was the only instrument that Jerry could not stand. He said it was a weapon of war. This is true.

Then they piped themselves out of the pub through the cobbled streets of Alexandria and into the next pub. Numerous patrons, including Jerry and I, followed them through numerous pubs that night.  It was definitely a night to remember. 

When we called it a night (actually morning) and circled back to the car I was missing something.  I took off my shoes while bar hopping as it was difficult to walk on cobblestone in heels.  I had no idea which pub I left my shoes in!  
January 1, 2023
Think of you Gerry so often. Carolyn, Caryn and Matthew, hope all is well. Happy heavenly birthday 
July 29, 2019
I first met Gerry when he arrived in Barberton to interview for the UL Light band position. I was the band director at Portage Jr High at the time. We became good friends and colleagues. He was an amazing musician and a great teacher. He had the respect of all who knew him. 

He helped me in many ways, professionally and personally. I valued his support. I’ll never forget the day he helped me move into my new home. He had a bad back, but still helped me move a very heavy refrigerator. 

When it came time time for him to move on professionally, I called Bob Hofstetter, the Supervisor of Music in Wayne County to recommend he hire Gerry. He informed me that I was a little late since he already received many calls supporting Gerry and was indeed going to hire him.

i could relate many stories about Gerry that show what a fantastic band director, musician and friend to many people he was. Suffice it to say that he will be missed by all who knew him hope we’ll meet again on some “stage” performing with a heavenly ensemble.

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