Marching to the Beat of Mr. C.
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16
Jerry Carasea has left this life before the rest of us were ready to let him go… typical of him. Anyone who knew him was aware that Jerry could leave a conversation mid-sentence if he thought he knew how it would end. When you had his attention, it was 100%, but you had better talk fast and with few words.
Jerry’s high energy, sharp focus, and love for everything musical were instrumental in his success as a father, husband, friend, musician, music teacher, band director, music contest judge, and educational music consultant.
As his wife, best friend, and mother to our children, I realize that Jerry knew we would be okay. Jerry believed all of us to be capable of more than what we thought we could. Jerry marched to the beat of his own drum, and he made sure we all followed him. He made it fun, and he made us better people because of it.
On June 13th, 2019, Jerry took Matt and I to Isle of Palms, South Carolina. We had two special weeks at the beach before medical symptoms forced his return for testing. Jerry’s family and friends held his hand and talked to him during his last five days with us. He was never in any pain and was aware of everyone around him. On July 11th, 2019, Jerry passed away from this earth due to organ failure from pancreatic and liver cancer. We will never forget his life and his love for all of us, as his spirit lives on.
Mrs. C.
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Dennita
We miss him no less now than when he passed from this world four years ago today. It's still amazing to me how he is still so conscious and real to us in our daily lives.
Our family is blessed with so many good memories of our time together. Like the time he was driving us to our favorite ice cream place, Biggins on the Portage Lakes. He was going a bit too fast, slammed on the brakes while turning the wheel then slid on the gravel sideways into the parking lot yelling... "Yee haw! What a ride!"
And yes, now there are sad and tearful times knowing we cannot see him in this life again.
But while he was here, he enriched our lives with fun and laughter and the strongest love.
Then he slid into death sideways, worn out and screaming... "Woo Hoo! What a ride!" (George Carlin on a well lived life.)
God's blessings upon you all.
A New Year's Birthday as told by Carolyn Carasea
And then it got better. A group of bagpipers came into the pub. They played for awhile. I'm half Scottish on my dad's side and love to hear the pipes so I enjoyed it immensely. But it was the only instrument that Jerry could not stand. He said it was a weapon of war. This is true.
Then they piped themselves out of the pub through the cobbled streets of Alexandria and into the next pub. Numerous patrons, including Jerry and I, followed them through numerous pubs that night. It was definitely a night to remember.
When we called it a night (actually morning) and circled back to the car I was missing something. I took off my shoes while bar hopping as it was difficult to walk on cobblestone in heels. I had no idea which pub I left my shoes in!
He helped me in many ways, professionally and personally. I valued his support. I’ll never forget the day he helped me move into my new home. He had a bad back, but still helped me move a very heavy refrigerator.
When it came time time for him to move on professionally, I called Bob Hofstetter, the Supervisor of Music in Wayne County to recommend he hire Gerry. He informed me that I was a little late since he already received many calls supporting Gerry and was indeed going to hire him.
i could relate many stories about Gerry that show what a fantastic band director, musician and friend to many people he was. Suffice it to say that he will be missed by all who knew him hope we’ll meet again on some “stage” performing with a heavenly ensemble.