I’ll never forget meeting Mr. C. for the first time in the fall of 1990 at the 5th grade band screening night. Little did I know at that time how much of an impact one individual would have on my personal and professional life. As an educator, he was inspiring, encouraging and had a way to connect with every student. He had an amazing ability to find the good in every student and able to dissolve stressful situations with funny Italian comments or jokes, most I always didn’t get
There are 3 moments as a student I will always remember. One was at the end of 7th grade when Mr. C. asked for any student interested in marching with the high school marching band next fall. As he made his way back to the percussion section, he looked at me and said “Jeffy, (his nickname he still used the last time I saw him a couple of months ago), here is some snare drum music. Learn it. A few months later, I was hooked.
Disney my freshman year. My first and only detention. It was the year Tower if Terror was opened and we wanted to ride one more time. Long story short, we were 3 minutes late for our report time. Mr. C. gave us all 15 minute detentions for every minute we were late when we got back to the hotel. Not so bad??? Well, when we returned to the hotel, we were scheduled to have one hour of free time, which included swimming in the hotel pool. In true Mr. C fashion, he had arranged for us to serve our detention by sitting in a large conference room overlooking the pool, watching everyone else having fun. No lecture was needed. To this date, I always do my best to be on time.
Finally, my last parade: the Chippewa Lake Fourth of July parade in 1995 at the end of my freshman year. At the end of the parade, I informed Mr. C and Mr. Becker that I was moving and would no longer be attending Cloverleaf. His emotions were real and as he hugged me said:
Jeffy, never stop playing. You are always welcome back here.
I never did stop playing and as I enter year 17 as a band director, I only hope I have made my mentor, friend and colleague proud. His influence in my teaching is evident everyday.
In April of 2004, I was attending the district 8 middle school solo and ensemble event during my first year as a band director. My very first event was a Flute Solo and guess who the judge was? That’s right, Mr. C! He looked up from writing comments on his comment sheet and very loudly said Jeffy, how the hell are you! I answered and then explained that the next event was one of my students and he rambled on about how old he was becoming. He then continued to write a book on the previous performers comment sheet as he did for every student. He always took the time to pass his knowledge on to every student, no matter the amount of time it took. I’ll never forget being so nervous as I waited for my student to perform her solo. She did great by the way
Mr. C also had the opportunity to judge one of my High School Concert Bands during sight reading at large group contest a few years back. I remember being more nervous that night than any other time as an educator for two reasons.
I wanted to make him proud of his former student.
I was extremely anxious of any stories he might tell my students about me or just what he might say in general. I had prepped my kids for the previous month!
As I walked in the room, he was telling some story to the volunteers in the room and had them all laughing hysterically! As he saw me, I got my usual greeting! “Jeffy, how the hell are you!” As he addressed my kids about their upcoming sight reading performance, I was quickly taken back to being a student. He engaged everyone in the room with every word he spoke. He just had that clout the instant he started talking. It wasn’t our best performance and he was honest in his evaluation of my group, which was one of his finest attributes. He was always fair and honest. However, before talking to my kids about their performance, he told a few stories about me, but he also had some extremely flattering words to my students about me as an educator. As my kids were leaving the room, I turned, shook his hand and thanked him. He said Jeffy, call me sometime. I’d like to come work with your kids on sight reading.
Mr. C was at his best working with kids. I will always be indebted to him for helping mold and encourage me to to be the best musician and educator I can be. Thank you for being you and my inspiration. Till the next time I hear you say “Jeffy, how the hell are you!”, I hope I continue to make you proud and can have the same impact on my students that you had on me.
Much love and respect. Rest peacefully Mr. C.