My dear sister Gladys
It has been quite difficult for me to write this farewell message . It is true that every human being must die but to me you were always larger than life itself . I never could envisage your sudden demise. I was completely unprepared for it. I cried uncontrollably when l heard the sad news wondering how such an intelligent and highly professional colossus could die. In my wailing l was reminded by a friend that Einstein also died. “ Yes l replied , l did not know Einstein but l knew her, she was my Einstein in flesh and physical presence who mentored and nurtured me through my career with the United Nations in the field”.
Sister Gladys , l was extremely fortunate to have worked with you in the UNICEF regional office in Abidjan where you served as UNICEF Regional Adviser for Health in West and Central Africa. l was also posted there as UNICEF Regional Adviser for Women’s Development for West and Central Africa. My luck was to have found you there in Abidjan. Your kindness and sisterly nurturing were spontaneous, unconditional and bountiful. You not only housed me until l found my own place but also supported the robustness of my professional output. It was through your personal resilience and dedication to hard work that l also learnt to work round the clock including at nights to face the heavy work load and the challenges of empowering staff and institutions on women's socioeconomic development in the sub-region. I could always count on your advise and your well grounded analytical approach to results oriented programing.
It was indeed thanks to your encouragement that l mustered the zeal to develop a field career with the United Nations. Even when you left Abidjan on your well deserved retirement, you would always return to check on me like the loving big sister that you were. My rise in career within the United Nations system was surely your victory too and squarely owed to the fortitude of your mentorship.
I will miss you greatly and already do. I however take enormous pride in all your stellar professional achievements in life. You were a phenomenal woman of unsurpassed intelligence, grace and reputation. A first female Doctor in Cameroon and the Central African sub-region, first Cameroonian female lecturer in CUSS and so many other firsts. Your work shall forever live on to encourage other women.
Adieu sister GEM. May the Lord receive you and reward you enormously for your faithful stewardship on earth. May He grant you eternal peace and rest .
With much love and gratitude .
Elsie Ngowo Effange-Mbella
Minister Plenipotentiary of Foreign Affairs, Cameroon,
Former Director Civil Affairs Division, MINUSMA
Former Senior Gender Adviser, MONUSCO
Former Gender Adviser and Assistance to Victims UN-ICTR,
Former UNICEF Regional Adviser for Women’s Development, West and Central Africa.