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July 16, 2023
July 16, 2023
Can’t believe it has been 3 years. Really missing you this summer
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
Aunty!
It is so hard to put into words how much I miss you. We didn't always see eye-to-eye but knowing you were just at most a Whatsapp message or phone call away was always comforting. I miss helping you pass a level of Candy Crush, our thinly disguised gossiping sessions, and your stern but caring advice...I just miss you. I don't believe there is heaven but if there was one, I know you have a very special place therein. I hope you are resting, and resting well.
With lots of love!
June 26, 2023
June 26, 2023
Happy Birthday grandma! I love and think about you every day. Wish we could celebrate together one more time.
June 26, 2023
June 26, 2023
Good morning Auntie.
Another year has gone by.
Thinking of you always!!!
June 26, 2023
June 26, 2023
Happy Birthday Mummy! We miss you! This would have been a super special birthday with all the weekend activities!! You would be so proud of your grand daughters! Your special moimoi and akara were conspicuously absent! I need to make some!! You showed me enough times!
We know you are looking over us. Your essence lives on. Love you ❤️
December 6, 2022
December 6, 2022
Aunty, sometimes words fail in their purpose. What can I write here that would be adequate to your life. You showed such love, commitments, energy and excellence. You always had wisdom to impart. From the first question I asked you about injections, to marriage advice, to recipes, gardening and work relationships. You left a chasm that will never be filled. Hmmm. Chai. Even grief can be cherished as a continuation of love.
July 16, 2022
July 16, 2022
My dearest Aunty Doctor, you left us two years ago today, and it still feels so raw. We miss you loads Aunty / Grandma. So much has happened since you left, and there is so much to tell you. Let me get through this day, and then we go story. Rest on Aunty, we love you.
July 16, 2022
July 16, 2022
Dearest Mummy, it’s been 2 years since God called you home. I miss you every day. So thankful for all the memories you left us with - it is what keeps me going. Rest In Peace, I love you-
June 30, 2022
Dear Sister Gladys

Still missing you sorely. Continue resting in the bosom of the Lord . Rest sister , rest and have a blissful birthday with the rest of the Angels.
June 29, 2022
June 29, 2022
Auntie thinking about you on your birthday. Miss you so much.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Belated Happy Birthday Aunty!
Sunday at Track & Field brought back memories of our trip to NC to watch Jaden. We had some really hilarious road trips. Thank you for always being a ready road side kick. To tell the story of picking up my aunties from Wadesboro and their “a few bags” na woah for wuna this my Aunty them. Filled up a full size SUV. Thank you for the laughs! Missing you more times, than just your birthday.

Rest on Aunty, your ⭐️ continues to shine bright in our hearts.
June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
happy birthday grandma - sending cake up to heaven for you! i miss you
June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
Happy heavenly birthday dear Mummy!
We. miss you terribly xoxo
July 16, 2021
July 16, 2021
Even in your absence mummy, your kind, gentle and caring presence still stands strong in our daily lives. We miss you deeply as we embrace each day with the graciousness of spirit that you instilled in us. As you fly among the angels we know you blow the kiss of peace, love and joy down to each of us. We love you.
July 16, 2021
July 16, 2021
Hard to believe Mummy, that a year has gone by since you left us. I miss you.
Wishing for a few more minutes with you just to hear your voice one more time.
Love you, Mum
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Happy Birthday Auntie.
I cannot believe it has been a year already.
I think about you so often especially when I walk into your room.
I miss you dearly!!
Love you always.
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Happy Birthday Mummy!!
I miss you dearly. The flowers are blooming just for you … even the orchid!!! The house is missing your touch, but I think you will be proud of what we have done with the garden so far!!! All your gardening tips from Indianapolis are slowly paying off!!!
Thank you for all your love and precious advice. I love you❤️.
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Dear aunty,
Happy heavenly birthday. On this day I choose to remember how happy you were on your last birthday. I miss you dearly everyday, a little more some days and a whole lot on other days.
With lots of love,
Etondi
December 1, 2020
December 1, 2020
Thinking of you and missing you dearly, Mummy
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
Dear aunty,
We made it to Abidjan. You promised to come visit when I was "settled" but I suspect you probably would have made it here to help me settle. You were curious to know what had changed since you were last here. You told me I would enjoy my time here and to take advantage of as much as I could. I'll do just that!! You always had those little nuggets that you threw out there and I sincerely miss you for that. Rest well aunty, rest well....
September 22, 2020
September 22, 2020
Dear aunty,
I hope you are indeed resting in peace. I often wonder where all who depart go? I have images of you still taking care of EVERYONE where you are. Oh how I miss you. It is often said "you don't know the value of someone until they are gone". Well, I knew your value while you were here and I'm glad I grew up enough to be able to have adult conversations with you. I'm comforted by the fact that I got to tell you how much you meant to me before you made your final exit. Chaii aunty!!! You do we oh!! You lived a full life but I don't think we would have been ready to let you go even at 100years old. We're flailing here without you but we'll get it together soon because you taught us well. Rest well aunty and say hi to the gang.
August 20, 2020
August 20, 2020
Dear Aunty Doctor,

The Holly God is full of grace in your live. You inspired many generations of women in Cameroon and in Africa.
Thank you very much for always being there with your subtlety and delicacy mind at any difficult time. There is so much loves, smiles through you and memories around you that will never disappear. Even if today, there are so many tears... Wherever we are now, you will never be forgot
Amen.
Huguette Ticky Monekosso
August 20, 2020
August 20, 2020
Dear Auntie, we will forever miss the warmth of your presence. In good times and in bad, you've always been there - a pillar of comfort, love, reassurance, and wisdom. Thank you for everything and may the good Lord grant you everlasting blessings as you take your place in heaven. Rest in peace, till we meet again.
August 17, 2020
August 17, 2020
Dear Aunty Dr.,
As the tears roll down my face
I MUST believe you are resting in a better place
I wish that place was here with us
But you taught me to always believe God knows best.

I cannot bring myself to accept that I will never see you, hear your voice, or read from you again. However, I find comfort in the memories I have of you, the stories I hear about your and all the lessons you have taught me over the years (even those times when I didn't want to listen). You quietly made an impact in my life at the times when I needed it most. For this I will forever be grateful. 
Rest well Aunty Dr. Lord knows you ran a good race.
August 17, 2020
August 17, 2020
No one lives forever
But I thought you’d stay longer

Your love was like a rock
And here came molten lava to keep death on the clock

Life from now on
Is an everlasting eclipse blocking out the sun

Shower your rays from heaven above
Mending broken hearts down below, our precious dove

Here we will go following off the cuff
For a thousand lifetimes would never have been enough

Prince said ‘nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling’
And now I know it’s true though it is more like bawling

Our unreachable goal now is for us to make you proud
Easier though for the fields you already plowed

Rest easy dear Aunty, rest
In your memory we will do our best
August 15, 2020
August 15, 2020
Dear Aunty Doctor,
I will be forever grateful to you for always being there. There is no doubt that God blessed our family abundantly with you. Even before I experienced your selflessness myself, my mother told me of it, especially how you appeared equipped with appropriate winter clothing when my mother arrived at Liverpool dock in winter shivering and frightened in her thin tropical clothes. You knocked on her cabin door and saved the day. She was never more relieved and that experience was repeated in many ways for countless family members and friends. I am thankful to you for also being there when Daddy was in hospital. Again, you were not supposed to be there and you missed out on a graduation ceremony in the States to support Daddy. You woke up every morning to go to the hospital and gave my mother strength and courage to face the challenges and ultimately comforted her when he passed away. Knowing you were there when I couldn’t be there was the greatest comfort. You brought a sense of calm wherever you went. I know that you have taken your rightful place in God’s kingdom where you will rest after a life of service. We already miss you so much.
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
My sister Sissy Kake
I cannot bring myself to understand how we were able to celebrate your birthday, laughing and then 2 weeks later you were gone? You called and talked to Kate, Nicky and I at length that following Wednesday , was it to say goodbye? you loved me unconditionally. I will never forget our early years together with Grandma Katty : how we lived and loved ; and have been bonded ever since up until the last time here in North Carolina sharing stories and meals.! You were very patient and attended to me always. Encouraging, uplifting always to me. Oh how the angels have gained my wonderful sister. Memories fade over time, but my sister isn't a memory she's a part of me always. I will miss you. I can't describe the pain of your loss in my heart. The sadness i feel when I think you are not here physically anymore. scriptures promises we will see you again and be joined in your presence to part no more. I am forever grateful for your love. Sleep well, sissy Kake rest well in the Lord.
I love you
Your sister Doris Martin
August 11, 2020
August 11, 2020
When together, I called her Aunty. But I have always referred to her more formally as Dr Martin, in deference to her professional accomplishments. Yet, it is her genuine character and unassuming personality that I remember her for.
Her calm and gentle cadence drew me into the comfort of a good listener and sage advisor. Her pragmatic observations enriched our conversations and always held tones of optimism. Her tireless energy fueled her passion for engagement, staying active and supporting others.
Dr Martin, Aunty, was blessed with 85 years of love and appreciation. What a invaluable treasure trove of precious moments and cherished memories. I will fondly recall those moments shared with her.
May her soul repose in peace.
August 10, 2020
August 10, 2020
What a moment! What a Gift!!
You touched all those who came in contact with you. I am fortunate to be one of them. You lifted me up in ways I cannot explain. I found a lot of strength, wisdom and courage in our discussions. You were very true and good to me, always!
Thank you for being a big part of my life. I will always have you in my heart.
Farewell Auntie.
August 9, 2020
August 9, 2020
Dear Granny I'm missing you a whole lot I love and would always wished you could stay much longer but as it is God Almighty knows best and have a reason for everything. I thank you so very much for your words of encouragement,love and giving me the opportunity to live with you. I missed how you call me Kalla.Jr lol,ain't you going fry us some fish I so much thank God for your life you were a big inspiration to me I pray may have good rest in the Lord's bosom till we meet again rest Granny and ur words u planted in my brain still remains..
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
From Jacquie Mukete
There are so many words that have been used to describe you, Aunty. The one that inspired me most is HUMILITY.
In spite of your great national and regional academic and professional achievements, you remained such a simple and unassuming woman, which I marvelled at and admired so much.
St.Augustine is quoted as saying ‘.....it is humility that makes men angels.’
You were, indeed, an angel whose love permeated the hearts of your family and all those you came across, and whose humble heart taught many, including me, a great life lesson. ‘ Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less ‘ (C.S.Lewis)
Rest, Aunty, in the beautiful peace of the Lord.
August 6, 2020
August 6, 2020
Kind and thoughtful, gentle and considerate, principled but reassuring, giving yet unassuming…. These are just a few of the attributes that defined the wonderful person that was you, mummy.

I am blessed to have had a mother-in-law in you, whose wisdom gave me answers that alone I could not conjure, whose spirituality brought me personal comfort and whose zest for embellishing in the beauty of nature humbled me into appreciating the virtue of simplicity. Your peaceful presence set an aura of safety that took away hollow anxiety and left one feeling that all will be well. In you, mummy, I found a sage whose words would prompt new thinking, a friend who would engage in intellectual banter ranging from social issues to politics to religion - all while indulging in quality brandy, and a mother whose instincts would nurture my most fundamental interests, particularly so, my favored culinary desires.

Through life’s journey, seldom does one come across a fellow human whose selflessness seems inexhaustible and whose humility subdues the ostentatious roar of the gregarious. I recall times when in the heat of vehement philosophical debate, you would whisper in the most compassionate of tones the simple words, “calm down”.

The 16 years that you touched my life are filled with precious moments of warmth in togetherness and unremitting agape love. You have blessed me not only with my precious family but even more by leaving me with cherished memories of you.

Embrace your rightful place among the angels, mummy …. we will forever love you.

Your son-in-law,
Abie.
August 6, 2020
August 6, 2020
To 85 whopping years of helping friends and family, and to "waste not, want not." I do miss the puzzles and chats after school, but you have taught me so many lessons and ways to go about life in only 12 years of being in my life. To this, I owe you the greatest thank you, so rest in not only peace but rest in pleasure and power. No one will forget you, and you have touched so many hearts.

Lele kiʻekiʻe, ʻānela.
Fly high, angel.
August 1, 2020
August 1, 2020
Thank you Auntie Dr, for the guava juice and trees you gave us. It has stayed with me and I hope to pass it on.
Thank God the for the long productive life you lived doing his work. There will be a lot of company on the other side to keep you going, until we all meet again.
Rest in peace.
July 29, 2020
July 29, 2020
Gladys Ejomi Martin: Our Flickering Point of Light
By her siblings - Grace Monekosso, Divina Kweti, Pamela and Samuel Martin

A point of light gets noticed only after darkness falls
All who know you sincerely attest that you magically appeared
Like a flickering light into their darkest hour of need

A point of light replaces darkness but does not consume it
And so, a flicker is born
Each flicker of a candlelight signals its vulnerability
A constant reminder that with the blink of an eye it could be gone and
Darkness will return

Those who depend on it wrongly assume
That a flicker is testimony that light will return
But alas on July 16 with one last flicker you were gone
Never to return

When a candle flickers the hand rushes to shield it
Mindful of its fragility, value and selflessness
Those who fail to cup a flickering flame
Will eventually lose it to the wind

Everyone follows a point of light because
It illuminates, it teaches, it heals, it shows the way
You were our teacher, our healer, our leader our point of light

Three wise men followed a point of light to meet the King
So come on Sissy Gladys, hurry, strap on your wings
Grab your GPS to navigate the milky way
We lost you to the wind
So fly high, fast and away with the stars to meet your King

(EsKay July 20, 2020)
July 25, 2020
July 25, 2020
How sweet it is a mother's love, ever flowing, always giving, nourishing, uplifting!
Her love is soothing, calming, comforting, like a blanket of sweet memories, woven over time.
I am surrounded by this blanket of love, Mummy .... till we meet again.
Rest, rest, rest in the Lord
Adieu

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July 16, 2023
July 16, 2023
Can’t believe it has been 3 years. Really missing you this summer
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
Aunty!
It is so hard to put into words how much I miss you. We didn't always see eye-to-eye but knowing you were just at most a Whatsapp message or phone call away was always comforting. I miss helping you pass a level of Candy Crush, our thinly disguised gossiping sessions, and your stern but caring advice...I just miss you. I don't believe there is heaven but if there was one, I know you have a very special place therein. I hope you are resting, and resting well.
With lots of love!
Her Life

The Gladys Ejomi Martin Prize

July 28, 2020
On March 5, 2020, Dr. Gladys Martin was honored by the Cameroon Medical Women Association (CMWA) and the Minister of the Promotion of Women and the Family.
Upon hearing of the death of Dr. Martin, CMWA has created the Gladys Ejomi Martin Prize in her honor to be awarded to pioneering women in the medical field in Cameroon.

BIO

July 27, 2020
Dr Gladys Ejomi Martin was born on June 26, 1935 in Kake, Cameroon. She was the third daughter of Dr. and Mrs. E.K Martin. She was fondly known as Sissy Kake to her siblings and close friends and Auntie Doctor to her nieces and nephews. 

EDUCATION
She attended primary school in Buea and Victoria (now Limbe) excelling in her primary education and completing her studies a year in advance of her classmates. She went on to St Anne’s School in Ibadan, Nigeria for her secondary education. 
In Ibadan, she completed her post secondary education at Nigerian College of Arts, Science and Technology. She then went on to obtain her M.B.B.S degrees  (London) from University College and University College Hospital in Ibadan in 1962. Dr Gladys Martin was the first Cameroonian female physician. 
She completed her internship and residency in Pathology and Rheumatology in the United Kingdom.  She received a Diploma in Child Health and a certificate in Family Planning in 1966 from the Conjoint Board of England and Wales. 

PROFESSIONAL LIFE

She was accepted into the Pediatrics residency program at the University of Dalhousie in Halifax, Nova Scotia in 1968 and board certified by the American Board of Pediatrics in 1970.  She completed an M.P.H. at Harvard University in 1971. 

She briefly worked at the Health Department in NYC, USA in 1971 prior to returning to Cameroon at the end of that year.

On her return home, Dr. Martin worked at the CDC (Cameroon Development Corporation) taking care of employees and their families in various locations in Bota, Ekona and Tiko. In 1973, she was recruited as a staff pediatrician and public health physician at the University Health Center for Health Sciences (CUSS) in Yaounde. CUSS was the first medical institution in Cameroon. While there, she was responsible for running the community health program at Mvolye, a small town located just outside Yaounde.  At the clinic, free healthcare, but most importantly, preventative care was delivered to expecting mothers and their children.  This was also the platform she used to introduce nutrition workshops in that community.

In 1980, she left CUSS to head the Center for Nutrition Research at the Institute for Medical Research and the Study of Medicinal Plants, which was part of the Ministry of Scientific and Technical Research in Cameroon.
From 1986-1994, she worked at UNICEF as the Regional Adviser in Primary Health Care in various African regions moving to Madagascar, Kenya and eventually Ivory Coast.  
Dr Martin retired in 1995 and returned to Cameroon.

RETIREMENT
In retirement, she devoted her time to her family and close friends. She was known for showing up when a family member was in need.
She enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren in the US and attending their school activities.  

Dr. Martin loved astronomy. She would often give tutorials of the stars and the constellations if you found her gazing up at the sky at night.

She took over the running of Carl Steane Memorial Primary School, which was founded by her mother Mrs. Hannah Nene Martin. She worked on expanding the library and computer lab. She often talked about starting a program to help developmentally challenged children.

She loved gardening, especially planting flowers. She told me a story of when she and some friends got into trouble in school at St Anne’s. They were caught eating fruits they picked from a tree. She suggested to the principal that instead of letting her attend the upcoming school dance, she would weed her garden as punishment!! The principal agreed, but eventually came to realize that it was not quite the punishment she had in mind. From then on, the principal let Gladys “work” in the garden whenever she wanted.

She had a keen interest in technology and was known to carry around 2-3 phones, an Ipad and a laptop. She was always creating cards from pictures of flowers or nature that she took.  She single handedly created a booklet on the history of PNEU in Yaounde, a school founded by several parents including Dr. Martin. 

My Mum was loving, kind and giving. Despite all her many accomplishments, she remained humble.  She always put God first, then everybody else, before herself. She was tireless in her endeavors.

She leaves behind three sisters and a brother, two daughters, three granddaughters and many cousins, nieces, nephews and their children. She had many “adopted” children and grandchildren she cherished.

(Dr. Ruth Ekangaki, July 2020)
Recent stories
August 3, 2020
My dear sister Gladys 
It has been quite difficult for me to write this farewell message . It is true that every human being must die but to me you were always larger than life itself .  I never could envisage your sudden demise.  I was completely unprepared for it.  I cried uncontrollably when l heard the sad news wondering how such an intelligent and highly professional colossus could die. In my wailing l was reminded by a friend that Einstein also died. “ Yes l replied , l did not  know Einstein but l knew her, she was my Einstein in flesh and physical presence who mentored and nurtured me through my career with the United Nations in the field”. 
Sister Gladys , l was extremely fortunate to have worked with you in the UNICEF regional office in Abidjan where you served as UNICEF Regional Adviser for Health in West and Central Africa.  l was also posted there as UNICEF Regional Adviser for Women’s Development for West and Central Africa. My luck was to have found you there in Abidjan.  Your kindness and sisterly nurturing were spontaneous, unconditional and bountiful. You not only  housed me until  l found my own place but also supported the robustness of my  professional output. It was through your personal  resilience and dedication to hard work  that l also learnt  to work round the clock including at nights to face the heavy work load and the challenges of empowering staff and institutions on  women's socioeconomic development in the sub-region. I could always count on your advise and your well grounded analytical approach to results oriented programing. 
It was indeed thanks to your encouragement that l mustered the zeal to develop a field career with the United Nations. Even when you left Abidjan on your well deserved retirement, you would always return to check on me like the loving big sister that you were. My rise in career within the  United Nations system was surely your victory too and squarely owed to the fortitude of your mentorship.
I will miss you greatly and already do.  I however take enormous pride in all your stellar professional achievements in life. You were a phenomenal woman of unsurpassed intelligence, grace and reputation.  A first female Doctor in Cameroon  and the Central African sub-region, first Cameroonian female lecturer in CUSS and so many other firsts. Your work shall forever live on to encourage other women.
Adieu sister GEM. May the Lord receive you  and reward you enormously for your faithful stewardship on earth.  May He grant you eternal peace and rest .
With much love and gratitude .

Elsie Ngowo Effange-Mbella 
Minister Plenipotentiary of Foreign Affairs, Cameroon, 
Former Director Civil Affairs  Division, MINUSMA 
Former Senior Gender Adviser, MONUSCO 
Former Gender Adviser and Assistance to Victims UN-ICTR,
Former UNICEF Regional Adviser for Women’s Development, West and Central Africa. 



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