"A death in the family leaves a void that cannot be filled. No one can ever take the place of this individual in the world. We should not try to comfort the family by saying that "it was his time"or" He was suffering". These may be words of comfort later. However, there must be time to mourn the fact that things will never be the same.one minute he was here and now all of a sudden he is gone. the human mind must be allowed to sit with this reality. Mourning is a necessary part of the human experience, if it is ignored, a general feeling of saddness may pervade the whole family" This helpes me get through it all a little better, it is the truth.. When people tell me it is going to be okay,"maybe it was his time" or so forth i just want them to shut up,and i wanna be alone.. So hopefully this helps some others.