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Family and friends,

Our beloved father Howard passed away on December 18, 2020. He is now reunited with his dear and beloved wife, our mom, Kris.

MEMORIAL SERVICE UPDATE
Use the link below to join the online "virtual" memorial service on March 20, 2021 at 5:00 p.m. (eastern time), using the Zoom web application.
(Meeting ID: 952 4321 4857):
Please look at the gallery, life, and stories tabs on this website, including the photos and videos. If you want to leave a tribute or add your own photos and stories, please follow the instructions to create a log-in. We very much want you to share your own memories and thoughts about Howard and Kris!

With love,

Brad and Josh


Howard's obituary: https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/mcall/obituary.a...

Kris' obituary: Frances Gallup Obituary (1928 - 2020) - Morning Call (legacy.com)

Lafayette College memorial: https://today.lafayette.edu/2021/01/13/howard-gall...

Donations can be made in Howard's name to ProJeCt of Easton (320 Ferry Street Easton, PA 18042 Phone: 610-258-4361  jrzeszowski@projecteaston.org)
March 30, 2021
March 30, 2021
I didn't know what to say at the memorial, but it was really nice to hear other peoples' stories and songs! I didn't think of what to say until right now..

When I met Howard, he was in his 70's leading bike rides for Genesis Bicycles. I was in my mid-20's. I was probably the youngest rider, and Howard the ride leader was likely the oldest (except maybe for Earl Wuchter). We were going on bike rides that started in March at about 20 miles, stretching to 50-60 miles by August preparing for the Annual Gap Gallup century bike ride (100 miles) in September.

Howard inspired more people to build their fitness to be able to complete the 100 mile bike ride. People who had never ridden 100 miles before, and probably who would not have done it if not for Howard. Most of the riders were in their 40's, 50's, or 60's and Howard was encouraging them to physically and mentally to go further. He nurtured a gaggle of 20 or so riders each year that became a core group, always growing, always evolving as people could manage with the flow of their lives.

I remember Howard sometimes as a gruff personality; I'm not sure if that came with age, or if he was always like that. Yet, I always knew that his sometimes terse disposition was always based in wanting to help people ride and enjoy their bikes more.

I remember his sailcloth sleeve of fabric with bike tools rolled inside that he kept strapped to his rear rack. I remember catching up to him at about mile 40 of the 100 mile Gap Gallop and he wouldn't look at me because he felt bad being passed. I only wanted to ride next to him for awhile, but he wouldn't say anything, so I kept going. How many times did he ride the Gap Gallop? 25 or 26? His tenacity over the long haul was amazing.

I did also see him perform a piano recital once at Kirkland Village.. a relaxed and proud Howard making sweet music - interesting contrast being with him so often cruising the country roads between Easton and Wind Gap. Ride on Howard! 
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
My fond memories go back to my first day at LVMM in 2001. I talked about how I found bicycling a spiritual experience. Well, he came up to me right after worship and said, "I have been bicycling for 40 years! Thank you for your message!". A few years later, I was bird watching along Green Pond Road at the pond, and he came zipping down on his bike, said "Hi, Grant!", and flew by and excellerated!
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
yes.. an engaging conversationalist and so very proud of his children and of Fran.  as a young nephew I was a bit intimidated by him, but never doubted his love for his extended family of nieces & nephews and extended beyond that too and beyond.
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
As one of the first group of women students at Lafayette, I remember Howard and Kris being especially welcoming and supportive of the advent of coeducation. I was fortunate that Howard was my advisor and he continued to challenge me throughout my time as an undergraduate. The Gallup household was a friendly place for students and we were often included for meals and activities. 

Kris and Howard attended our wedding and we settled nearby which made it convenient for Howard to stop by during bike rides for a visit and a water bottle refill. 

Both Kris and Howard were wonderful people who touched many lives. I am grateful that I was included in that group. 

March 19, 2021
March 19, 2021
Over the last 5 years it became increasingly clear to me that Grandpa Howard had a large impact on my life and how I currently interact with my own kids.  I may have seen Grandpa less than 15 times since moving to California in the 70s but I cherished each of his visits with Grandma Kris.  Grandpa loved the outdoors, loved journeys, and loved telling stories.  These types of memorable moments are also the type of moments I find myself enjoying the most with my kids.  Thank you.  I miss you Grandpa.  Love, Noah
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021

I met Howard when I arrived at Lafayette College in the Fall of 1966 as a new faculty member in the Psychology Department. I was 26. At that time, I knew some psychology, but about the ways of the world not so much. Howard took me under his wing, and through his example gently shaped me to be a better teacher, and more importantly a better human being. 

    I hadn’t met people before with the same unfailing kindness and generosity. (I once mentioned that I was looking for a new stereo system and Howard offered to help build one for me -- where do you find people like that?)

    Howard was my mentor, though neither of us would use that phrase. He still is. He had a lifetime impact on me, and I’m sure that is true for many others who will not have the chance to visit this memorial site. His spirit lives on though the countless others he influenced. I was blessed to know him.
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
I was a student at Lafayette from 1967 to 1971 and Howard was an important part of my life there. I valued him as a teacher, friend and mentor and was always grateful for the way he welcomed me and other students into his family. Howard influenced my growth as a person and supported and encouraged me in becoming a psychologist. Our friendship continued long after graduation. Howard's belief in me meant much and I will always be grateful for his influence on my life.
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
Howard was more than just my teacher and advisor at Lafayette from 67-71. He and Kris, along with the rest of the family (and Bilbo), would invite us to their home to share in there lives.
Howard and I would often ride together and now I have the privilege to continue the lead HIS Genesis ride to Milford.
Howard will be missed by all who knew him....
March 15, 2021
March 15, 2021
Uncle Howard and Aunt Frances mean to me...
Family vacations at Cape May
Summer birthday parties on the beach
Family holidays at Gallup / Hollingsworth houses
Summer cousin switches
Going to visit Howard’s lab with the mice
VW van
Thanksgiving and red wine
Biking, obviously
And way too many more to name.
I remember Howard and Fran being so in love with each other and giving us the best cousins ever!!
So much love to all!
Kim 
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
I attended Lafayette College from the Fall of 1966 to my graduation in June, 1970. I stayed in Easton for every summer while I attended Lafayette. I first met Kris Gallup and then all the Gallup family during the summer of 1967. They invited me into their family and we got to know each other very well. 

Kris & Howard had one of the best relationships I have ever experienced. It was never just Kris or just Howard-it was "Kris and Howard". Howard needed Kris and Kris needed Howard. And it was never just the two of them-Joshua, Shar and Brad were all part of it. They set the standard for what kind of family I would also like to have (and I am still working towards).

They introduced me to Lehigh Valley Monthly Meeting and the Society of Friends (Quakers), which accepted me into membership in November, 1970. They also were a strong influence how I made the transition from a fairly conservative Freshman in the Fall of 1966 to a Conscientious Objector to the war in Vietnam by the late Spring of 1969. As I look back on these decisions from the perspective of time and distance, they feel like two of the best decisions I have ever made. 

I thank all five of the Gallups very much for what they have done for me. They, all five of them, were one of the most exceptional families I ever met, and I will be eternally grateful to all of them for their guidance, love and acceptance. 

Tom Hill
Lafayette College, Class of 1970
March 7, 2021
March 7, 2021
I rode with Howard in his Century Club. He was a dedicated and authoritarian leader, and I mean that in the most positive way. He expected riders to follow the rules because he was genuinely concerned for our safety and well-being. I was well prepared to ride the Gap Gallop. All these years later I still follow the rules of riding etiquette that I learned from Howard.
February 27, 2021
February 27, 2021
When I married into the Hollingsworth family — actually long before that — I met Howard. He was outgoing, warm and approachable and made me feel a welcome part of such a large and boisterous group. I soon found out he was also a curious and stimulating conversationalist, always ready with an opinion and the facts to back it up, not to mention a quip or two that kept you on your toes. And did I mention he liked to compete? On the bicycle, the tennis court or at the pool table — all places I experienced Howard’s invitation to a challenge.

But most of all, Howard was a caring, sensitive person who loved majestic mountain scenery, sitting at the piano playing Chopin etudes, pedaling the 75th mile on a bike ride just as much as the first, and eating a simple over easy fried egg.

You are missed Howard.
February 26, 2021
February 26, 2021
I have great memories of the many long bike rides with him .The best memory for me was riding the Gap Gallop with him , he rode like the energizer bunny he just kept going, a great inspiration.He instilled the great love for biking in me that keeps me motivated,to keep riding. The last time I saw him, he asked me if I was still riding, and I said of course. He made me smile, with his knowing nod of the head.
He was a good, and gentle man, it was a honor and privilege to have known Howard.
My thoughts go with him and his family.
All good memories.
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
Howard made a lasting contribution to life at Kirkland Village through music, especially through selecting endowed programs and accompanying the Joyful Singers. We have special memories of him and Kris doing their crossword puzzles at breakfast time in the Marketplace. They were pillars of our community, and we miss them both.  Madeline and Bob Brown
February 16, 2021
February 16, 2021
I remember one time, the family was gathered for Thanksgiving. We were expecting Howard & Fran, but they had decided not to make the trip that year. Instead of calling or texting, Howard sent an email to Diane. But it was Thanksgiving and she wasn't checking her email. We all panicked, thinking there had been an accident or some reason Howard & Fran were missing. When we finally got a hold of them by phone, Howard said, "I sent an email."

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March 30, 2021
March 30, 2021
I didn't know what to say at the memorial, but it was really nice to hear other peoples' stories and songs! I didn't think of what to say until right now..

When I met Howard, he was in his 70's leading bike rides for Genesis Bicycles. I was in my mid-20's. I was probably the youngest rider, and Howard the ride leader was likely the oldest (except maybe for Earl Wuchter). We were going on bike rides that started in March at about 20 miles, stretching to 50-60 miles by August preparing for the Annual Gap Gallup century bike ride (100 miles) in September.

Howard inspired more people to build their fitness to be able to complete the 100 mile bike ride. People who had never ridden 100 miles before, and probably who would not have done it if not for Howard. Most of the riders were in their 40's, 50's, or 60's and Howard was encouraging them to physically and mentally to go further. He nurtured a gaggle of 20 or so riders each year that became a core group, always growing, always evolving as people could manage with the flow of their lives.

I remember Howard sometimes as a gruff personality; I'm not sure if that came with age, or if he was always like that. Yet, I always knew that his sometimes terse disposition was always based in wanting to help people ride and enjoy their bikes more.

I remember his sailcloth sleeve of fabric with bike tools rolled inside that he kept strapped to his rear rack. I remember catching up to him at about mile 40 of the 100 mile Gap Gallop and he wouldn't look at me because he felt bad being passed. I only wanted to ride next to him for awhile, but he wouldn't say anything, so I kept going. How many times did he ride the Gap Gallop? 25 or 26? His tenacity over the long haul was amazing.

I did also see him perform a piano recital once at Kirkland Village.. a relaxed and proud Howard making sweet music - interesting contrast being with him so often cruising the country roads between Easton and Wind Gap. Ride on Howard! 
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
My fond memories go back to my first day at LVMM in 2001. I talked about how I found bicycling a spiritual experience. Well, he came up to me right after worship and said, "I have been bicycling for 40 years! Thank you for your message!". A few years later, I was bird watching along Green Pond Road at the pond, and he came zipping down on his bike, said "Hi, Grant!", and flew by and excellerated!
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
yes.. an engaging conversationalist and so very proud of his children and of Fran.  as a young nephew I was a bit intimidated by him, but never doubted his love for his extended family of nieces & nephews and extended beyond that too and beyond.
His Life
January 25, 2021
Our dad was amazing! He had many accomplishments and touched the lives of many, through his teaching, bicycling, and music. He was a devoted husband and father.

Here is some of his story....

Howard Frederick Gallup, (1927-2020) was born in New London, Connecticut and grew up in Newark, New Jersey, which might account for his zestful, do-it-yourself approach to so much in his life. His father, Wallace L. Gallup, a Presbyterian minister, passed on to Howard his attentiveness to his low-income parishioners and to the general need for equal rights for minorities. Howard’s mother was Edna E. Ketcham Gallup. Howard had one older sister, Edith W. Gallup Specht, who predeceased him. Howard enlisted in the Navy just at the end of World War II. Trained in airplane mechanics, he maintained the Navy’s aircraft.

Howard, who loved learning, attended Rutgers University as an undergraduate. He received his M.A. and Ph.D. in Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. A dedicated student, Howard was a member of the Phi Beta Kappa society.

Howard first taught at Hobart College. In 1958, he became a professor at Lafayette College in Easton PA, where he taught experimental psychology for 37 years. He retired from his post as Chair of the Psychology Department at Lafayette in 1995. During the 1970’s, he was a visiting professor at Hampshire College in MA, and at Evergreen State College, WA.

During his academic career, Howard wrote a well-received and popular textbook for undergraduate psychology students, An Invitation to Modern Psychology (1969). Fascinated by theories of teaching, while teaching at Lafayette College he promoted a type of self-paced learning called the Keller Plan of Personalized Learning Instruction (PSI).

Howard met the love of his life, Frances (Kris) W. Platt, on a blind date. When he brought her back to her family’s home after their second date, he saw the Gilbert and Sullivan score for Pirates of Penzance on their piano. Having recently performed the lead role, Howard began to play and sing the score. His passion for music enchanted Kris, and he was equally thrilled that she also entertained a love for music. They fell in love on the spot, he used to say, and were married in 1949.

Kris was a member of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers). Howard joined the Society of Friends, an affiliation he maintained for the rest of his life. Howard and Kris Gallup were married for over 70 years, until her death in January 2020. They had three loving children and in-laws: son Joshua S. Gallup and his wife Josie, son Bradford K. Gallup and his wife Lei, and daughter Sharrene P. Gallup, who predeceased Howard and Kris. He had three grandsons, one step-grandson, four great granddaughters and a great grandson. Howard had many nieces and nephews: his sister Edith Specht’s three children, and Kris’s sister Helen Hollingsworth’s seven children. Carol Hollingsworth Gruenburg, and her husband Drew unfailingly drove north from Virginia to visit Howard and Kris at least once a month until stopped by the spread of Coronavirus.

Howard maintained a renaissance passion for many fields. He was an avid classical pianist; Chopin was his most beloved composer. He ran a music concert series at Kirkland Village, where he and Kris lived in their retirement. Howard gave his own classical piano concerts for the residents and frequently played popular tunes at Kirkland’s Happy Hour.

His love of bicycling and mechanics led Howard to work for Tomias Hinchcliff at Genesis Bicycles, a store he cofounded in 1974. At the shop, Howard worked there for many years, repairing bikes and leading 100-mile bicycle rides for the surrounding community. He logged in over 85,000 personal miles.

In addition to bicycling, Howard loved photography. He and Kris took yearly road trips across the United States to visit their sons in California. Howard was proud of visiting, photographing, and bicycling in each of the lower 48 States, and in Canada, too, but he always said Yosemite was his favorite spot to visit.

The photos we posted here show a little of the many parts of both Howard and Kris' life. The three Youtube videos are some of their favorite pieces of classical music that Howard used to play at home and during concerts. Enjoy.

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March 20, 2021
I vividly remember being a young boy in Easton and visiting Howard and Kris' house.  I recall enjoying wandering in the yellowing fields in late summer behind the house; pushing the (non electric) lawn mower up the grassy hill, and praying I wouldn't lose control of it when I went down the hill with it.  I still remember the walking down the steps into their basement with the musty smell of thousands of old National Geographic magazines lining the bookshelves. Most of all, I remember Howard playing on the piano and sitting at the dining room table with Kris.  These are some of my happiest memories.
Eli

Howard & Fran / Fran & Howard / (and, in our family, F/H for short)

February 24, 2021
These two wonderful beloved people have been part of my heart and memories for my entire life.  Their love for each other, their joy in their family, their intellect and social justice concerns, their senses of humor — all of these shone brightly when in their presence.  

I have a rainbow of memories of time spent with the Gallup Family — from Friends General Conference in Cape May, to visiting them in Pennsylvania, and having all of them arriving at our home in Baltimore for various holidays.  I remember the Hollingsworth and Gallup kids hiding on the mornings when either they, or we, were to head home … we desperately wanted to extend our time together!  (Our parents did not find this last ditch ‘hide & seek’ effort as amusing as we kids did.)

Like my sister, Jean, I remember Howard’s cartoons, going to Howard’s lab at the university and seeing the rat mazes.  I also remember flying kites, running in the fields by their house, playing ping-pong, singing camp songs and generally having a great time together.

Up until the last 10 years or so, Fran & Howard came down to join the Hollingsworth Thanksgivings (a pot-luck affair that rotated between Delaware, Baltimore & Virginia among the 4-sisters, depending on who was hosting).  Fran always made and brought the same rolls that her mother had made on Thanksgiving.  Now, I make those rolls for the annual Thanksgiving rotation.

Drew & I started visiting Fran & Howard regularly after our kids moved into their own grown-up lives. It was nice to hang out with the two of them, run errands with Fran, take them out to dinner, and go to Meeting on Sunday before we left to go home.  Since Drew is also an ardent long-distance cyclist, he and Howard had many conversations about their various cross-country and local rides. Drew and my brother Scott joined Howard for the Gap Gallop century ride (100 mile bike ride) when Howard turned 80.   Howard was an iron-man, no joke!

The comfort I got from being with Fran & Howard, and then just Howard, cannot be overstated.  They brought me joy, love, memories, laughter, contemplation, and always interesting conversations.  Over the last year, we had a standing weekly FaceTime ‘Howard Concert’.  He would great us lovingly and then spend an hour playing the piano - pausing between each piece to give us a summary of the lyrics and the history of the song.  Not being able to see them in person makes me very sad, but, boy-oh-boy, do I have a lovely treasure chest of memories, conversations, laughter and piano tunes held in my heart.

Thank you Howard & Fran … with all of my heart! 

—  Carol Platt Hollingsworth Gruenburg

February 19, 2021
Uncle Howard and Aunt Frances have been part of my world my entire life. My earliest memories involve visiting them and their family, running around the beach and eating ice cream cones together.  I remember the fun I had when Uncle Howard took me to visit his work and I felt quite grown up to visit his office.  I remember waking up in the morning and finding the coloring sheets Uncle Howard had made for us with various cartoon characters.   As a teenager, Uncle Howard was the first adult who was willing to talk to me as an adult.  But my enduring memory is their love for their family.  Each time I visited Uncle Howard and Aunt Frances they would share stories of their children, spouses, grandchildren and great-grandchildren including memories of Shar which kept her alive in our hearts.   I love you Uncle Howard and Aunt Frances.

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