Hi Dad, I can not be here to celebrate your passing because that was one of the saddest days of my life. I don't believe in celebrating Birthdays when one passes as you are not here anymore, I just recall the happy Memories of you and the kids. My best friend and his parents and brothers and nieces I see every other weekend and it is nice to have people that really care. I am sorry Karen and Connie, and Sherry and Arnie did not want to see me anymore I tried even went to Sherry's home and she kicked me out when I could barely walk, even yelled at Doreen to shut up and Bruce because they were telling her to stop it. I never tried again Dad, it was useless so nice to have a new family. But not interested in boyfriends they are just a pain. I love and miss you, dad, I sent this to other family members just myself has been here. I think of you often and wish I could talk to you in some way. So many people wish this who have lost their loved ones. I will be back in a few months my sweet dad hugs:)

Hi Dad, I wish you were here to talk to I could use your advise so bad not your money I just want my dad :( Dave is still in the house and I have not seen my kids for almost 5 years, i am sure he bought them off. .I am not a mom anymore...I live life but do with lots of chronic pain but have support and not someone telling me he does not want to be taking care of a cripple, I am far from that, i have gotten so much more strong minded and do not miss Dave! I looked for a good lawyer got burned twice but now found an excellent lady who has my best interest for me. I took the money out and put it in RRSPs and other so Dave couldn't get it, you were so right dad my smart dad..I used to live with a roomie and her 2 kids but she moved out to the country and dave has to pay rent ect..but I never wanted to leave dad it was my home, he made me leave making look for places daily it was a nightmare still is as the area I live in is in the really bad area of the city it was all my friend and I could afford.. Lawyers I talked to don't understand why I had to leave he wanted a divorce now he just wants a separation long term, I want a divorce and the house sold, this has gone on long enough and I have lived in this awful area long enough...I am a strong woman dad so much stronger then you have ever known me and I can get through anything you would be so proud of me:) I love you and miss you terribly shine the brightest star down here so I know you are ok, forever your Lori

Hi Dad:) I hope where you are you are happy with Doreen and know that you are so very missed...Yes Dave and i are separated and most likely will stay that way. I have changed so much i am more indepenant
 and speak up for myself i just wish i could work but my back is so bad and painful i had recent tests done and i now have 3 discs out of my spine out of 4 and my doctor is talking about a permanent solution but i won't go into a chair.. I met a nice man who loves me, shows it and i have a new family..my boyfriend is just like me he likes what i like i like what he likes, i love his parents, and i am very close to his niece and nephew 22, and 30:) It feels good to be loved again:) Please watch over me I always look at the sky for you, love you Dad:)

Hi my sweet Dad, ohh do I miss you so very much :( It looks like I will be divorced 30 years like you did with Mom, dave is too ill to have a relationship and makes me so sad daddy. I hope you are ok where you are and I know I will see you again when it is my time..i will be safe where I will be going and very cared about more then I have ever had in my adult life. Please know my heart breaks when I think of you I wish you were here dad so very much....love your loree

Hi Dad :) I don't believe in remembering a loved one when they left this earth but rather when they were here..Katie your granddaughter misses you, so does dave,I sometimes pretend you are in florida with doreen in your Condo and will be back in time, i love you so much and miss you more then my words could ever express. I hope where you are is much better then here, love you forever dad.

My dad was the best person in the world even though i never saw much of him while growing up. He worked a very hard life with 7 children and i loved him dearly. He divorced my mother as soon as we got older and finally found his love. I adored my dad since i was quite young and even as i became a adult i wanted to make him proud of me..i don't think i ever achieved that :( I love you Daddy

Daddy i am sorry i don't visit your grave as you are not there your beautiful soul is up in heaven with god and i would rather talk to you around me as i know you are watching out for us. I miss you so much Dad and wish we had a closer relationship but it will never stop me from loving my only dad. I am sorry Dad i only became a Mom and not like Carol..and i am sorry i get sick so much:(

Dad, You never hit me like mom did since i was a little girl and with out my oldest sister Carol i would have had no one raise me as long as she did. You raised her well. You have alot of friends missing you so much.
I hope you see your grand daughter Jessica up there, remember she was almost 3 when she died, it broke my heart and soul but you were strong. I always love you for that