To anyone who loved my brother J , who was touched by him in any way , who saw the beautiful person he was and wished like me he saw that in his self. Some say tough love helps a person with their demons of addiction but I say love that person even more & hold them a little tighter because they don’t wish that life for themselves and with the sweet memories my brother and I and many of you made with him , we can appreciate this life a little more with him in it for a short time. He was a son , brother, uncle , cousin, friend as well as a lover of animals , his nieces and nephew , music , west coast , old cats , his taste in expensive hair and face products that always made mom and I giggle! Pls keep his memory alive w me.