The first time I met JR was when he came to NACCHO for his
initial interview. At that time I was involved in all of the screening
interviews for open positions, along with members of the hiring team, so there
were several of us there. The candidate that walked in was slightly disheveled,
and had what we came to realize later was his trademark backpack hanging off of
one shoulder. Additionally, he had on a tie with cartoon characters. We were
not particularly impressed by this candidate, although he seemed nice enough.
60 seconds into the interview, JR Ransom had our attention! His
brilliance was immediately apparent. 15 minutes into the interview, we knew
that we wanted this unique and interesting individual to join our team. That
was in 2002.
Fast forward to 2010. I left NACCHO to open my dessert shop
around the time that JR left NACCHO to begin his work abroad. Each time he
returned to DC we got together for a quick coffee (JR’s beverage of choice) or
lunch if we had time. Sometimes he just came and sat in my shop, had coffee and
dessert, and read a book that he pulled out of his backpack. I never tired of
hearing about his life and work in the South Sudan or in Myanmar. Time and time
again JR found himself in incredibly challenging situations, yet could not
imagine staying away. How could one not come to love this selfless human being?
JR often ordered multiple desserts from my shop, which he
traveled to Tysons in Virginia on a train and bus to pick up (JR did not DO
Virginia, so I felt honored!). He then divided and packed the desserts to mail
to friends and family around the country. On several occasions he ordered whole
cakes to get on a plane with, and quite naturally he carried the cake boxes,
along with his travel backpack, to the airport. When I asked him how he
intended to hold the cakes for the duration of the flight, he gave me that “seriously?!!”
look and said, “in the overhead compartment, of course!” I always imagined the
cakes coming apart during the flight, but he convinced me that they remained
intact.
I will miss my beautiful, generous friend. I will miss his
laughter and his idiosyncrasies. I will miss hearing about his experiences in
places to which few dared travel, let alone work and live. The world has lost a
remarkable human being, but memories of him will certainly remain.