My carpool buddy
March 30, 2021
James joined our research group maybe 2 or 3 years after I did. During the first part of our interactions, I watched him working on Linux on laptops - when both Linux and laptops were extremely novel concepts. That effort grew to be VA Linux - the V stands for Vera. I learned a lot from James during this time - going after new areas, innovation, and so on.
After I graduated, I continued with the research group as a Research Associate, and moved out of student housing to Fremont. James had also moved to Hayward. The two of us carpooled to Stanford from the east bay for at least a year or two. He met Jenny during that time.
The incident I remember from those carpooling days was how James calmed down a nearby driver stricken with road rage. That guy felt James had wronged him in some way and got out of his car and started banging on James car (it was his turn to drive that day). It took James just a few seconds to calm things down - I'm sure if it were me, the situation would have just escalated. I'm sure everyone can relate to this - given all the other stories I have read.
James, I know we were not in touch recently, but I'm going to miss you. We've met frequently at various parent events in the Palo Alto schools, but that has been a few years ago. Rest in peace - you are taking your greatness to a better place.
Sriram
After I graduated, I continued with the research group as a Research Associate, and moved out of student housing to Fremont. James had also moved to Hayward. The two of us carpooled to Stanford from the east bay for at least a year or two. He met Jenny during that time.
The incident I remember from those carpooling days was how James calmed down a nearby driver stricken with road rage. That guy felt James had wronged him in some way and got out of his car and started banging on James car (it was his turn to drive that day). It took James just a few seconds to calm things down - I'm sure if it were me, the situation would have just escalated. I'm sure everyone can relate to this - given all the other stories I have read.
James, I know we were not in touch recently, but I'm going to miss you. We've met frequently at various parent events in the Palo Alto schools, but that has been a few years ago. Rest in peace - you are taking your greatness to a better place.
Sriram