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Jean Newton Pleasants, 84, passed away Wednesday, March 15, 2017 at her home.

A native of Granville County, she was the daughter of the late Townes and Annie Newton. She was a farmers’ wife and a homemaker. She was preceded in death by her husband, Clyde A. Pleasants, Sr.

Surviving are her son, Clyde A. Pleasants, Jr “Jack” (Lisa) of Pleasant Grove; two daughters, Judy Lynch (Jimmy) and Mamie Pleasants, both of Oxford; two grandchildren, Charles Pleasants (Lesa) of Bullock and Gina Blackwell (Jerry) of Oxford; three great-grandchildren, Gary Pleasants of Henderson, Landon Blackwell of Oxford and Tyler Kellerman of Hillsborough.

Funeral services will be conducted at 11:00 A.M. Saturday, March 18, 2017 at Eakes Funeral Home in Oxford by Pastor Glenn Stallsmith. Burial will be in Salem United Methodist Church Cemetery. Visitation will be held prior to the funeral service from 9:30 to 11:00 A.M. March 18, 2017 at Eakes Funeral Home and at other times at the homeplace.

March 15, 2018
March 15, 2018
I miss my friend, dear Jean. I relive those good moments we had together. When I would be at my lowest, I could count on her to put me back to laughing. I renamed her road 'Jean's laughing lane'. I visit there often - in memories. We all need a Jean in our lives and I''m so glad and fortunate to have found mine!  Much love to you - til we meet again lovely Jean!
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
So sorry to hear about Mrs. Pleasants. Keeping the entire family in my prayers.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
So sorry for all of the family as I know how close all of you were. I was glad I got to see Jean at the last chicken sale at the fire department. Was really great to get to talk with her. Will keep you in my prayers and please let me know if I can do anything.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
So sorry for all of the family as I know how close all of you were. I was glad I got to see Jean at the last chicken sale at the fire department. Was really great to get to talk with her. Will keep you in my prayers and please let me know if I can do anything.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
Jean, some may have seen you as bound to a wheel chair with out vision or drive.; Some may have seen you as an old woman with no heart or soul.
Some may have seen you as a lovely woman in youth but no more'.
Some may have seen you as over the hill and with out purpose or value.

They could not see the forest for the trees, dear Jean
for never has there been a woman who could dance across fields
of sunflowers and bow humbly before her God;
Never has there been a woman all heart and soul who gave so much in her 'Hellos', her smiles, and her welcoming.
Never has there been a woman whose purpose of love for all and whose value lay in her ability to love others until they knew their value,

Jean you were special, one of a kind. There will never be another who mirrors your talents, skills, characteristics and being.

And now God, recognizing your great beauty and love for others selected you to come live by his side for you are one of the true gems he placed among us, the blind. You are now a magnificent star in his crown -as you always were.

I have no words meanginful enough so I'll use those used for all times - Thank you. Thank you for more than I can say. Thank you lfor your magnanimous generosity Jean - for all thelaughs we shared, for all the gifts of eggs, fruits, vegetables, and on and on and more; for the Christmas/New Year's suppers ; for showing me my value and most of all for being my friend. I loved you. I love you, still. B
March 16, 2017
March 16, 2017
we are so sorry to learn of the passing of Jean. Mama and Ethel and her had many good times. I remember going to your house and Brenda and me playing with judy and mamie lee. May God be with you all and give you peace at this time.
love yall much, elsie mae Wilson, Brenda and jackie
March 16, 2017
March 16, 2017
We are very sorry for the loss of Jean. We pray for each and all the family. I'm sure Jean has been yearnig for her Mate Cylde whom are now once again together. We Love You Much Mamie. T-Bone and Family

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March 15, 2018
March 15, 2018
I miss my friend, dear Jean. I relive those good moments we had together. When I would be at my lowest, I could count on her to put me back to laughing. I renamed her road 'Jean's laughing lane'. I visit there often - in memories. We all need a Jean in our lives and I''m so glad and fortunate to have found mine!  Much love to you - til we meet again lovely Jean!
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
So sorry to hear about Mrs. Pleasants. Keeping the entire family in my prayers.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
So sorry for all of the family as I know how close all of you were. I was glad I got to see Jean at the last chicken sale at the fire department. Was really great to get to talk with her. Will keep you in my prayers and please let me know if I can do anything.
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We were the 'welcome to the lake' girls

March 18, 2017

If you knew Jean,  you know she lived in a wheel chair and spent her days cooking , watching her cooking shows, and visiting with friends on phone or in the confines of her productive kitchen. I say productive for she peeled bushels of tomatoes to make canned tomatoes, strung green beans by the zillion and make great pear preserves and ciijed delicious means.  If those kitchen walls could talk, they would tell a tale of a woman who did not let a wheelchair stop her from accomplishing unbelievable things. .  

I  viisited Jean as often as I could - stealing a moment here and there to spend with her.  I know her 4 walls seemed to grow close at times.  One day, I went and Jean was a bit gloomy.  I decided we'd kick the glooms back to where-everville.
 
"Jean, will that front door open, I asked.  Jean responded that it would.  So I managed to get the door unlocked and open.  I hope I did not damage it too much (I did not get a letter of complaint from the family (Mamie, that is) so I suppose it was not too destroyed.

Out I pushed Jean onto the front porch.  And what a lovely spring day.  Jean took a deep breath and relaxed a bit.  The cars and trucks went by many hauling their boats behind.  "Jean", I said - why don't we make ourselves useful and wave to all the people traveling today?"We'll be like the 'Walmart welcoming folks and welcome everyone as they pass on their way to the lake? 

And so we did.  We waved and giggled as each vehicle passed We made comments about the travelers which will remain between Jean and me but they gave us cause for laughing until we cried.   She was so easy to please.  And I adored her.  Her laughter was infectious.  Still is.    

God has his arm around Jean now and they are a welcoming committee to behold.  They make comments which will remain between Jean and Him. And what is that I hear?  Did I hear God giggle? Is that a knee slapping laugh I hear from the two of them?  Jean now lives in her forever home -happy, loved and useful -[ as always.      

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