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Hello everyone!
I thought that since all those who loved my dad lived all over the USA, I would create a memorial website in his honor.  
My Dad hardly liked anything better than sharing stories with his friends. Be sure to check out my dad's written stories (sent to us over the last few decades) and some video stories from him in July 2023. He would absolutely love it if we shared a laugh with him posthumously. 
Please contribute!  We would all enjoy your stories, pictures and thoughts.  Also please share this link with anyone who you think would be interested.
Thanks to many of you for the support you have shown me over the last couple of months. We lost a man worth remembering.
April 11
I was a year behind Jerry at Rice U and lived below him, Fryar C., Tom Sears, and Albert K. He was always cheerful, generous in his manner toward us lowly freshmen, a delight and inspiration to be around. Very sorry to hear he is gone.
Michael McGoodwin (MD)
March 4
March 4
I was so fortunate to have Jerry as my uncle! I really lucked out. He was always so genial, polite, thoughtful and easygoing - superb company at family gatherings through the years. A prince of a man, as everyone knows, and we all loved him. I’m so grateful to have a had a good visit with he and Lois about two weeks before he passed. He was as warm and considerate as ever. Rest in peace, Uncle Jerry.
February 24
February 24
Jerry, my roommate for our first three years at Rice, was known for his dry wit, his friendly, outgoing personality, and his charisma and leadership, culminating in his service as president of Hanszen our senior year.

He had been a talented athlete and student at Midland High School in West Texas, and if not for a devastating knee injury his junior year, he might have played quarterback for the Owls—or, perish the thought, some other college team. His sports nickname at Midland High, “Killer,” indicates just how good he was. He also played clarinet in the Midland High band, a fact I learned only much later.

Tom Sudberry, who was a good friend of Jerry’s back in their Midland days as well as at Rice, remembered those times in an email: “All of us on the Midland Bulldog football team expected to win State with Killer as our quarterback. His injury torpedoed those dreams.” Tom added this tribute: “In all the years and circumstances that Jerry and I shared, Jerry (without trying) was always the smartest person in the room. And consistently a kind, honest, dependable, and gracious gentleman. I never heard him make a negative comment about anyone.”
Albert Kidd recalls another nickname, “Big Chief,” that was bestowed on Jerry by Tom Sears. (Albert and Tom were Jerry’s and my suitemates for two years.) “It fit Jerry perfectly—tall, handsome, proudly erect, a leader on the intramural field, in the classroom, at Hanszen (one of Rice’s residential colleges), and in his career as a distinguished cardiologist. Tom died in 2014, the year of our 50th reunion. Next year we will have to celebrate our 60th without Jerry. How we already miss the Big Chief!”

Jerry Alan Hanson was born in Mount Vernon, Illinois on March 8, 1942, to Robert Coleman Hanson and Lou Ellen Hageman Hanson. When he was quite young, the family moved to Midland, where his father worked his way up through the oil business and eventually owned an independent drilling company.

At Rice Jerry took pre-med courses and majored in economics. When he was studying organic chemistry our junior year, I would sometimes be awakened in the middle of the night to find him sitting up in his bed, eyes wide open but still asleep, reciting carbon-chain formulas out loud. The next morning, he wouldn’t remember the incident.

After receiving a B.A. in economics from Rice in 1964, Jerry attended Southwestern Medical School in Dallas, graduating with an M.D. in 1968. Along the way he did summer rotations in psychology in London and in a kidney lab in Madrid. I saw him there in summer 1967, when we attended a bullfight together.

He then served his residency in internal medicine at Boston Community Hospital. He enjoyed his time in Boston, even though his first experience there was disheartening. As he was moving into the apartment he had rented, his car was stolen. A few days later, his landlord said he could find him a replacement car at a good price. When Jerry questioned him, he admitted it would be “hot.” Jerry said, “Well, can I get my own car back?” That ended the conversation.

In spring 1971 Jerry, an ardent traveler, had recently returned from a trip to Machu Picchu when he met Lois Buenger, who also loved to travel and had just finished her third year as a Peace Corps volunteer in the Philippines. The couple married in July 1971 and almost immediately went on a long voyage—to a U.S. Army base near Seoul, South Korea. In those days, young doctors were obliged to spend a year plying their trade in the armed forces. Jerry and Lois thoroughly enjoyed their time there and later continued to roam the world with enthusiasm.

When they returned to the States, Jerry joined a cardiology practice in San Jose in the San Francisco Bay Area. Lois and he settled in Los Gatos, a suburb just west of San Jose, and lived there for the next five decades. He had a successful career as a cardiologist and served a term as chief of staff of the San Jose Medical Center (now closed). Jerry was a member of the Santa Clara County Medical Association and the San Jose Rotary Club and a supporter of the excellent local Opera San Jose. Over the years, Jerry, Lois, and I went together to quite a few performances there.

In recent times Jerry had some serious heart problems that may have played a role in the fall that led to his death.

We’ve lost one of our best. 
February 20
February 20
I'm going to miss Jerry! We were first friends in our wives' book club. Then we socialized with mutual friends over the 35 years that we were friends. Later we were members of the Rotary book club. Jerry was one of the most insightful members. His roommate from college, Tom Sudberry, remembered Jerry: in all the years and circumstances that Jerry was(without trying) the smartest person in the room. He was consistently a kind, honest, dependable and gracious gentleman. I agree wholeheartedly!!
February 19
February 19
I go back to the 5th grade with Jerry at Sam Houston elementary. I played football with him in junior high at San Jacinto. I only played basketball in high school and wonder why Jerry didn’t try out for our team ?  He was such a good athlete. He was a good catcher in baseball and a talented football player.  Jerry went to Rice and I went to Texas. We lost contact over the years. I last saw him at MHS 25th class reunion. 8 of our old teammates and buddies spent a memorable day together. I was saddened to learn of his passing.
I wish we had lived closer together and remained in touch.  RIP old friend.
February 19
February 19
Where do I begin? Jerry was one of the happiest people I know. He was always smiling and that laugh!! I can close my eyes n see that smile. He was smart n kind to everyone. He excelled at everything he did even football. I met him before Ruff n I were married. I think we went to San Diego to see he n Lois. They were best friends growing up in midland. I loved his family and Jerry. I am sad about his passing. I hope he n Ruff are up there laughing about old times ❤️❤️
February 18
February 18
We were so saddened to hear about Jerry’s passing. Bill and I were fortunate to meet your parents through a book club Lois and I were members of. Just want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please give Lois a huge hug from us!

February 18
February 18
As in-laws go, I could not have done better, Jerry was a gentleman, and easy with whom to have a conversation. He was not only willing to talk about himself but was interested in what I had to say. I truly enjoyed his company. I wish I could have spent more time with him; Texas - California.
February 18
February 18
KG and I are both so saddened by Jerry’s passing. KG is still trying to take it all in. As you know, the two of them worked together throughout the many years in San Jose. Jerry always had a smile on his face and could always make us laugh. He loved and cherished his wife Lois and was so very proud of their daughter Leslie. He was a wonderful man and was respected by everyone who knew him.
Thank you Leslie for letting us know. 
Phyllis & KG Romine
February 18
February 18
I thought the world of Jerry. I practiced Medical Oncology at the same hospital where Jerry practiced Cardiology, and got to know Jerry pretty well. My wife was friends with Lois and my daughter with Leslie. My wife and I attended many social events with Jerry and Lois…always enjoyable. Jerry was loved by his patients and highly respected by his fellow physicians…and equally importantly, was a true gentleman. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. His family can certainly be proud of Jerry’s accomplishments and reputation.
February 18
February 18
Your Dad was my absolute favorite Cardiologist! He was always available to discuss his patients with a smile and insight. He would make me laugh with his hilarious jokes and witty sense of humor!
He loved and adored you beyond measure. I also have a daughter and we would share stories. He was so proud of you and spoke so highly of your husband as well.  And of course LOVED being a grandfather.
He once gave me his box at the arena so I could take my daughter to the Disney on Ice.  I was so grateful and my daughter Sarah loved it!
He was truly admired and adored by so many! He will be greatly missed at the get togethers where we would catch up occasionally. Thank for sharing his stories as they are so special and so was your Dad

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April 11
I was a year behind Jerry at Rice U and lived below him, Fryar C., Tom Sears, and Albert K. He was always cheerful, generous in his manner toward us lowly freshmen, a delight and inspiration to be around. Very sorry to hear he is gone.
Michael McGoodwin (MD)
March 4
March 4
I was so fortunate to have Jerry as my uncle! I really lucked out. He was always so genial, polite, thoughtful and easygoing - superb company at family gatherings through the years. A prince of a man, as everyone knows, and we all loved him. I’m so grateful to have a had a good visit with he and Lois about two weeks before he passed. He was as warm and considerate as ever. Rest in peace, Uncle Jerry.
February 24
February 24
Jerry, my roommate for our first three years at Rice, was known for his dry wit, his friendly, outgoing personality, and his charisma and leadership, culminating in his service as president of Hanszen our senior year.

He had been a talented athlete and student at Midland High School in West Texas, and if not for a devastating knee injury his junior year, he might have played quarterback for the Owls—or, perish the thought, some other college team. His sports nickname at Midland High, “Killer,” indicates just how good he was. He also played clarinet in the Midland High band, a fact I learned only much later.

Tom Sudberry, who was a good friend of Jerry’s back in their Midland days as well as at Rice, remembered those times in an email: “All of us on the Midland Bulldog football team expected to win State with Killer as our quarterback. His injury torpedoed those dreams.” Tom added this tribute: “In all the years and circumstances that Jerry and I shared, Jerry (without trying) was always the smartest person in the room. And consistently a kind, honest, dependable, and gracious gentleman. I never heard him make a negative comment about anyone.”
Albert Kidd recalls another nickname, “Big Chief,” that was bestowed on Jerry by Tom Sears. (Albert and Tom were Jerry’s and my suitemates for two years.) “It fit Jerry perfectly—tall, handsome, proudly erect, a leader on the intramural field, in the classroom, at Hanszen (one of Rice’s residential colleges), and in his career as a distinguished cardiologist. Tom died in 2014, the year of our 50th reunion. Next year we will have to celebrate our 60th without Jerry. How we already miss the Big Chief!”

Jerry Alan Hanson was born in Mount Vernon, Illinois on March 8, 1942, to Robert Coleman Hanson and Lou Ellen Hageman Hanson. When he was quite young, the family moved to Midland, where his father worked his way up through the oil business and eventually owned an independent drilling company.

At Rice Jerry took pre-med courses and majored in economics. When he was studying organic chemistry our junior year, I would sometimes be awakened in the middle of the night to find him sitting up in his bed, eyes wide open but still asleep, reciting carbon-chain formulas out loud. The next morning, he wouldn’t remember the incident.

After receiving a B.A. in economics from Rice in 1964, Jerry attended Southwestern Medical School in Dallas, graduating with an M.D. in 1968. Along the way he did summer rotations in psychology in London and in a kidney lab in Madrid. I saw him there in summer 1967, when we attended a bullfight together.

He then served his residency in internal medicine at Boston Community Hospital. He enjoyed his time in Boston, even though his first experience there was disheartening. As he was moving into the apartment he had rented, his car was stolen. A few days later, his landlord said he could find him a replacement car at a good price. When Jerry questioned him, he admitted it would be “hot.” Jerry said, “Well, can I get my own car back?” That ended the conversation.

In spring 1971 Jerry, an ardent traveler, had recently returned from a trip to Machu Picchu when he met Lois Buenger, who also loved to travel and had just finished her third year as a Peace Corps volunteer in the Philippines. The couple married in July 1971 and almost immediately went on a long voyage—to a U.S. Army base near Seoul, South Korea. In those days, young doctors were obliged to spend a year plying their trade in the armed forces. Jerry and Lois thoroughly enjoyed their time there and later continued to roam the world with enthusiasm.

When they returned to the States, Jerry joined a cardiology practice in San Jose in the San Francisco Bay Area. Lois and he settled in Los Gatos, a suburb just west of San Jose, and lived there for the next five decades. He had a successful career as a cardiologist and served a term as chief of staff of the San Jose Medical Center (now closed). Jerry was a member of the Santa Clara County Medical Association and the San Jose Rotary Club and a supporter of the excellent local Opera San Jose. Over the years, Jerry, Lois, and I went together to quite a few performances there.

In recent times Jerry had some serious heart problems that may have played a role in the fall that led to his death.

We’ve lost one of our best. 
His Life

Sailing to Europe, by Jerry Hanson

February 24
I graduated in June 1964 at Rice University and decided to take a trip to Europe before starting Medical School in the fall. My parents indicated they would fund the trip and consider it a graduation present. Imagine my excitement when I learned that one of the Rice Board of Trustees who owned the Bloomfield Shipping line offered four free round trips to Europe in a contest for graduates. The only requirements were to leave on the last port of call of the ship and disembark on the first port we reached and return from the last port returning to the United States. Two friends, Tom Sears and Larry Yeatman, and I were all accepted. The other passenger was Marty Buckley who was a Rice student from Midland, Texas.

My Dad invested in a VW bus for me which we planned to use and return to Houston and hopefully make a profit. One week before departure we were notified to meet our ship, the SS Alice Brown, in New Orleans on June 8. We took a bus to New Orleans and boarded the Alice Brown where we learned we were the only passengers and the ship was not leaving until the following morning.

We decided to spend our last evening ashore in the French Quarter and were able to see the famous trumpeter Al Hirt and jazz clarinetist Pete Fountain. I played the clarinet in my high school band and could appreciate the skill of these musicians. Another group was the Preservation Hall Jazz Band which played in a small room open to Bourbon Street and allowed people to stand next to the musicians. We concluded our evening at Pat O’briens Bar and gardens with their famous hurricane cocktails.

I was sound asleep when I was jolted awake by the sudden motion of the ship. I quickly dressed and ran out on deck convinced our voyage had begun but was surprised that we were moving up the Mississippi. A crewman told me we were going upriver to load more cargo at the Napolean wharf, a military area. None of us really felt like another night in the French Quarter but after realizing it was our last night before two weeks at sea we went anyway. That afternoon I was taking a walk when I thought my trip was over before it began when I was attacked with a chokehold from behind and told I was under arrest. I had been photographing the Dixie Queen, a paddle steamboat and forgotten it was a military area and no pictures were allowed. I explained my situation and the soldier released me after confiscating my film.

The following morning the SS Alice Brown started weaving down the Mississippi. The terrain consisted of countless marshy island and lagoons. I wondered where Andrew Jackson and his troops had fought the Battle of New Orleans in 1814 because there was no dry land until we reached open water.

None of us had sailed on the ocean and we worried about being seasick for two weeks. To our great joy the Gulf of Mexico and most of the west Atlantic Ocean were as smooth as molasses. We met Eric who was our steward and turned out to be an interesting guy. He woke us at 7:30 for breakfast. We spent most of the day reading or learning to play a cheap Decca guitar with a Weavers songbook I bought in New Orleans. Our daily pattern was to go back to bed after breakfast, get up for lunch at 11:00 walk around the ship or exercise in the afternoon, and clean up for dinner at 5:00. In the evening we often played bridge until midnight. When we passed the lights of Key West we witnessed a terrific electric storm over Florida. One night we were startled by four long blasts from our ship. We ran on deck just in time to see our bow barely miss running over a small boat showing only one small light. We discussed whether the boat was a drug runner or possibly carrying people escaping Cuba.

One night after dinner we were invited by First Mate Schulmeyer to visit the bridge. He explained that every day they post our position and distance to our destination. That day we were near Miami and 4,194 miles to Le Havre France. The ship made 400 miles a day and was predicted to arrive around June 22. We could see the hotels of Miami and West Palm Beach but about 60 miles south of Cape Kennedy we turned out into the Atlantic to catch the Gulf stream. First Mate Schulmeyer showed us a Coast Guard map showing iceberg limits and paths of famous unusually large bergs. He stated that we would cross a very small portion of the iceberg area but June is the time of year they are coming down.

One night Eric invited us to use the ship to shore radio and I was able to talk to my parents for a few minutes. They were surprised and relieved to talk to me from the Atlantic Ocean. Later that evening we were talking to Eric and he revealed that he had two wives. One wife lived in Mobile, Alabama and the other lived in Hamburg, Germany. They did not know about his unusual lifestyle and he admitted he had to be careful to keep their names straight but he was never lonely when he was in port.

First Mate Schulmeyer calculated we should reach Le Havre about June 23 but shocked us when he announced that our first port might be Gdansk, Poland since we were carrying a large cargo of grain that we might have to unload first. This was a major problem since none of us had visas for Poland and I had plans to meet friends in Paris who were going to travel with me on the VW bus.

On June 22 we were passed by a huge passenger ship, the SS United States, which was making 33 Knots to our 15. We were near the English channel and soon could see Bishop Rock. Our course was still Le Havre. We went by Normandy beach and could see the famous beaches of Utah and Omaha which were stormed almost exactly twenty years ago on D-day by Allied forces. Some German concrete bunkers were still visible.

We had to negotiate two locks to get to our berth. A huge ship in the harbor was a US Carrier the SS Essex. We were all enchanted by thepastel cliffs of Le Havre with quaint little cars and hundreds of bikes. The town and harbor had been completely destroyed in World War II but rebuilt in the original style. We learned that Americans were not welcome because of the extensive damage we caused to the docks and city. Our voyage was over but our summer trip to Europe had just begun.

The Early Years (Bowie, TX) by Jerry Hanson

January 31
My world began in Bowie, Texas.  Oh, I was born in Mt. Vernon, Illinois, almost exactly three months after the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor.  My dad was an oil rig driller, working to produce oil from the shallow fields in southern Illinois for the war effort. My brother Wayne had been born in Cisco, Texas, almost four years before me. I was the first Hansen to be born outside of Texas since my great grandfather had immigrated from Denmark in 1865.  I don’t remember the famous white squirrels of Olney, Illinois or the paralyzing mud of the Illinois oil fields during the winters. My first memories are of our farmhouse in Bowie, a two story house surrounded by acres of land, a large pond filled with fish and frogs and the windmill that provided all our water.

My brother and I hunted for birds with Daisy Red Rider BB guns which propelled their projectiles at such a slow speed you could see them leave the barrel and sail away to the target. Nothing ever struck by our sluggish BB’s ever suffered more than a temporary sting if they were hit by one of our shots.  Looking back on this fact makes the Daisy seem like a perfect weapon for boys our age.  Once during a battle of cowboys and Indians I attacked too soon and took a BB in the back from a playmate but it did not even break my skin.

Bowie was named after a famous Texas hero who died at the Alamo during the war with Mexico that resulted in Texas Independence. He had developed a large hunting knife that was widely adopted by frontiersmen who referred to it as the Bowie knife and was used for more than hunting. The town is northwest of Fort Worth and is in the ancestral lands of the Comanche tribe known as Comancheria.  Eighty years before we lived there this land was very much on the frontier and only the very brave or very foolish settlers would dare to put their families in such danger.  My brother and I sought make-believe danger to make our play more exciting. Several generations before our time in Bowie battles between cowboys and Indians there would have been a life and death affair.

Our other playmate was our cocker spaniel we named Smokey because he had a patch of white on his chest of his otherwise jet black coat. He was a loyal companion who readily followed orders no matter how ridiculous they were. But one command he never obeyed, however, was to jump into our pond. We thought cocker spaniels were bird dogs and, as such, should be able to swim in order to fetch game but our dog seemed to avoid the water if at all possible. We determined to find out if he had the right stuff.  My brother and I took positions on opposite sides of the pond and the one without Smokey would whistle and call for him with great enthusiasm. He, of course, would charge around the pond and never get a paw wet.  After several futile attempts to entice him into the water we decided to take drastic measures. Together we picked Smokey up and on the count of three we tossed him as far as we could into the pond.  I remember that he was slowly rotating in the air and his ears were sticking out from his head at such a degree he looked like a small black helicopter.  He never made a sound as he entered the water and completely disappeared under the surface. We fully expected him to emerge in a few seconds and swim back to shore but to our horror there was no sign of him. All we saw were the enlarging circles of wavelets reaching out from his point of entry. My brother and I exchanged glances and without a word we both jumped as far as we could into the pond to save our faithful companion.  I remember we were still in the air when Smokey suddenly popped to the surface with a look of joy I will never forget.  Years later in West  Texas we would take him dove hunting to a watering hole supplied by a windmill and I would recall our attempt to test him only to find that we were the ones that had failed.

One day another dog entered our lives.  He was a stray with no collar, a tall short-haired black mix who seemed very smart. He was twice as tall as Smokey but they were very compatible and we adopted him with the unimaginative name of Blackie. The dogs never fought and were great friends and playmates.  One day during a blizzard we discovered which of the two dogs was dominant.  My dad had built a doghouse that was big enough for both of them but had only a small door. During the storm we looked out our window and could barely make out that the doghouse door was completely filled with Smokey’s rump.

A neighbor farmer appeared one day at our front door with his hat in his hand and politely asked to see the lady of the house. I ran to get mother and together we walked to the door. In his gentle Texas twang he slowly stated that we had to do something about our dog. When mother asked if he could explain the problem he stated that our dog had been getting into his chicken pen and killing some of them.  We were shocked to hear this and assumed it had to be Blackie given his background as a stray.  I was dispatched to get the dogs and returned with them for his review. Mother had already apologized for Blackie and asked the man if he was the culprit but to our great surprise the farmer said “No, it’s not the big one, it’s that little one!” To this day I believe Smokey understood the whole episode. He had a look of total embarrassment that I had never seen.  To his credit, he reformed and never bothered the man’s chickens again.

We loved playing with toy guns and one day Dad came home with a new type of toy gun for us.  It was a plastic pistol with a tiny plastic man equipped with a parachute. You wrapped him with the parachute and stuffed the whole thing down the barrel of the pistol feet first. When the gun was fired the man was ejected by a spring about twenty five feet in the air. The parachute opened and the man drifted slowly back to earth. After shooting him into space about a thousand times, we decided to try it ourselves. Since I was the smallest I was selected to be parachute man.  We collected an old sheet and some string and got to work.  The string was attached to multiple sites on the edge of the sheet and then to my belt. I then courageously marched up to the second floor of the house, opened the screen window and stepped out onto the small section of roof that circled the house between the first and second floors.  After some appropriate drama concerning the need to bail out of a crashing plane that was on fire and yelling some appropriate bravado such as “Geronimo!” I stepped out into thin air. I fell like a rock to the lawn and thought I might be knocked out until I realized it was dark because I was completely covered by the sheet. My brother, probably thinking I might be dead, ran into the house and announced to mother that Jerry had jumped off the roof. I was uninjured but my flight status was suspended and I don’t think I ever saw the parachute man again.

Midland, the "Tall City," by Jerry Hanson

January 31
“There’s an Indian behind every tree.” So said Everett Jones as he described my new home to be in Midland in far West Texas. Everett was a native of Kentucky, my Dad’s business partner, and known to be a man who enjoyed a good joke. I guess I should have known better than to believe him but I was eight years old and wasn’t too sure what to expect outside of Dallas. And besides, everyone knew that Everett was a war hero, having flown over thirty missions over Germany in his B-24 bomber and lived to tell about it. World War II had ended abruptly five years ago and Everett had decided to embark on another risky line  of work, the oil business. He and my Dad were working at the Standard Fryer Drilling Company owned by R.J. Fryer. Dad was moving our family to Midland to run their rigs in the booming Permian Basin oil fields. I knew he was glad to be leaving Dallas because he was more comfortable in the wide open spaces of Texas and not commuting to an office every day.

Everett sensed I was a little nervous about moving to Midland but could not resist one parting piece of advice, “Be careful, Jerry, because everything living in West Texas has horns, thorns, or fangs.” When we were finally approaching Midland after a six hour drive, I immediately knew he had been teasing me about the Indians at least because there were no trees to hide behind. The beautiful oak trees of East Texas had been replaced by scrawny, ugly, mesquite bushes with, sure enough, long thorns.

Midland at some point in time began to call itself “The Tall City.” This was partially due to a few buildings which reached ten or twelve stories but mostly because the landscape was so incredibly flat they could be seen from thirty miles away. It is no wonder that Midland and two of it’s neighbors, Big Spring and Abilene, each had their own air force base because novice military pilots could always find an emergency landing place on the flat terrain of West Texas.

I started school in the middle of the third grade at West Elementary. The other kids had already determined who their friends were and did not quite know whether to admit me into their ranks. Things changed after the first recess period. Play at recess consisted of a tough game of dodgeball. Two teams were picked from the group of potential players and then each player took turns trying to hit one of the opponents  standing next to a building wall with a volleyball without the ball being caught. I managed to plunk a few players including their team captain and my status improved immediately.

It is appropriate that a game should have provided me with an easy entry into my new world. I am proud to say that many of those third grade dodgeball players are still friends today. They were my classmates and teammates in flag football, basketball, baseball, track and field and most importantly, high school football.

There must be something in the mineral rich water in West Texas that causes temporary insanity in the citizenry in the fall regarding high school football. Other factors may be an exaggerated sense of town honor in communities with only one high school, the lack of other entertainment, and the frontier spirit passed on by cowboys who enjoyed a good fight. Midland played in a conference with Odessa, San Angelo, Big Spring and Abilene which was nicknamed the little Southwest conference since the winner often went on to win the state championship. After I graduated Odessa started a second high school, Odessa Permian, whose football team became so successful that a book

“Friday Night Lights” was written by H.G. Bissinger about the drive of their team for the state championship. The book led to a movie and a television series that ran for several years.

Midland society was surprisingly sophisticated for a town of around 50,000 in the middle of nowhere. The first residents were some rancher families who had been barely making a living until oil was found in 1923 in the Permian Basin and they became fabulously wealthy. Many residents were highly educated geologists, petroleum engineers, wildcatters, financiers, and bankers. As a result, Midland did develop cultural institutions such as a symphony orchestra, a resident Theatre company, the Museum of the Southwest and an observatory to supplement more traditional activities such as a “World” Championship rodeo and a gaslight era melodrama called the Summer Mummers. One leading oilman, Carleton Beale, even developed a polo competition which must have befuddled the local cowboys tremendously.

The men who were in the oil business, particularly the independent operators, were gamblers and risk takers. One friend of our family,

  1. C. Williamson, a geologist, lost six million dollars in 1958 to a famous scam artist named Billie Sol Estes. Mr. Estes sold nitrogen fertilizer tanks to investors all over the southwest. The only problem with his business plan was that he was selling the same tanks to different investors over and over again. When the scheme collapsed many expected that J.C might use one of the tall buildings in Midland as a platform to jump to his death but he attended the weekly meeting of the Midland High School Football Booster Club and behaved as if nothing had happened. Within a year J.C. discovered another huge oil field and according to his daughter he never seemed to let his loss bother him.
George H.W. and Barbara Bush caught the “Black Gold” fever and left Yale University and their prominent position in New England society to make it on their own in the “Oil Patch” of West Texas. George took a job in sales at Dresser Industries. The Bush family lived in Odessa, Texas, and briefly in Bakersfield, California, another oil area but in 1950 moved into a small house on Ohio Street in Midland. He soon formed an oil development company with Hugh Liedtke named Zapata Oil. The Bushes lived four blocks away from our home on 1702 Kansas Street.

Everyone who became friends with them including my dad thought they were fine people. George loved baseball and one of his community activities was to coach Pony League baseball. When he was elected the 41st President of the United States, I called my brother and admitted that if your Pony League baseball coach can become President, anybody can.

George W. Bush was the oldest son of George and Barbara. He was born in 1946 and was four years behind me at Sam Houston Elementary and San Jacinto Junior High. The Bush family moved to Houston in 1959 and unfortunately I never knew George.  Years later George W. moved back to Midland and became very good friends with my friend from dodgeball days, Charles Younger. Charles was also my roommate at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School in Dallas and had returned to Midland to practice orthopedic surgery. In 2000 when it became apparent George W. would be the Republican nominee for President many reporters descended on Midland to get some background (i.e. dirt) about George. They couldn’t find anyone to say anything bad about George until finally Charles remarked that everyone thought George was a great guy and a loyal friend but “nobody thought he was smart enough to be President.” That statement was only partially true because when George was elected the 43rd President of the United States he arranged a flight to Washington and tickets to an Inaugural Ball for his friends from Midland, including Charles.

Dad and Mom both loved living in Midland. He became a partner when Standard Fryer Drilling Company became Fryer and Hanson Drilling Company. He was running rigs over a huge territory from Farmington, New Mexico to New Iberia, Louisiana and even in western Pennsylvania. During a trip to Pennsylvania in the winter he almost died when the wings of the company airplane began to accumulate ice which caused the plane to lose altitude. The pilot announced the plane was in danger or crashing unless they could reach some warmer air. Finally the ice began to melt when they were near the ground and they were able to land safely but not before dad promised himself that if he survived he would sell the plane and drive to his drilling locations regardless of how far they were.

A combination of fast cars and straight empty highways allowed him to keep his promise to abandon air travel. He could visit drilling sites 500 miles away in northern New Mexico and return the same day. I realize now that mother must have been worried about his safety during those long trips but he never had an accident. He did take time during his trips to have a little fun. During Easter one year he returned from a small truck stop at Four Corners, New Mexico, with a box labeled Easter Bunny Rabbit. He presented the rabbit to me as a present. I carefully opened the box only to find the only sign it ever held a bunny were some droppings it might have left. Then I found the card that read “Whoops! Looks like he got away!”

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March 4
I’m so fortunate to have known Jerry practically my whole life, as Jerry was my uncle. And everyone knows how easygoing and affable Jerry was. But the one time - out of all those many years - I saw him lose a smidgen of patience was just after a Christmas fundraiser that he and Lois attended. Lois had “won” a huge, gorgeous, decorated-to-the-hilt full size Christmas tree with baubles and ornaments galore - she was so excited! But now Jerry was faced with how to get it home intact. As my husband and I lived nearby, he called John in as a reinforcement…and there may or may not have been a small grumble on the way home. Uncle Jerry, of course, was always such the perfect role model that we loved seeing this side of Jerry!
February 20
Jerry was our brother in law and a favorite relative to see at least once a year. The story we remember most was when Alice and I went to the Sonoma wine country with Jerry and Lois for a day of tasting. When we got back to the hotel on the square in Healdsburg we were told by the manager that we had to move our car from the on street parking before midnight. She went to great lengths to describe exactly which places in back were for the hotel and given a stern warning to only park in those specific spaces. When I drove there I found a huge lot with dozens of empty spaces everywhere. So when we met for dinner at a nice restaurant I related the story. The thing was we had consumed way more wine than we were used to so I related the warning with an exaggerated german
 accent of the manager. Of course we all started to laugh so hard I did it again waving my arms and pointing my finger. We were laughing so loud that the manager came over and we thought we were going to get thrown out. Turns out he just wanted to join the party so he sat down and started telling funny stories. When the night was over we all agreed we had never laughed so hard. I still think it was the wine.
February 18
I met Jerry in the 5th grade at Sam Houston.  I played football with him at San Jacinto Jr High.  He was a very good athlete.   In high school, I played only basketball.   I can’t remember why Jerry didn’t play my sport..,,… he would likely have been good at it.   I played basketball at Texas and Jerry went to Rice where he was an outstanding student.  We lost touch over the years.  I saw him at our MHS 25th class reunion.   He was still the same smart likable guy he had always been.  Several of our old teammates and buddies spent the day together and had a memorable day.   I wish we had lived closer and stayed in touch.   I was very saddened to learn of his passing.
”Moose” / Mike Hump

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