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Jeff Promotion 1-28-2014

February 1, 2014
Jeffrey Silver, 36, who has been a town police officer for nearly 15 years, has been promoted to the rank of sergeant, in which capacity he will oversee the activities of patrol shifts at the police department. After interviewing three candidates for the position, Police Commission members on January 28 unanimously selected Mr Silver for the post, according to Police Commission Chairman Paul Mangiafico. “[Silver] has quite a ranking on his written/oral [test] scores,” Mr Mangiafico said. “I think we have an absolutely superb person … He’s got 15 years of solid service behind him,” Mr Mangiafico said. Commission members soon will consider filling another sergeant’s vacancy at the police department, Mr Mangiafaco said. The two sergeants’ vacancies were created by the recent retirements of Darlene Froehlich and John Cole. “It’s still very fresh,” Sgt Silver said on the morning of January 29 of his promotion the preceding night. In his new role, his police uniform now bears arm patches with three bright blue chevrons, signifying the rank of sergeant. Becoming a sergeant marks a “logical progression” in his police career, he said, noting that he has received much specialized law enforcement training over the years. Since 2006, Sgt Silver has specialized in commercial truck inspections for the police department. In that role, he would conduct thorough federally sanctioned inspections on all types of commercial trucks in seeking out safety violations. He estimates that he has made full written technical safety inspections on about 400 trucks, plus many more less detailed truck inspections. For the past three years, Sgt Silver has worked as a member of the of the police patrol division’s traffic services unit. In that capacity, he and others would conduct traffic enforcement projects, as well as prepare reports on traffic issues, involving subjects such as traffic counts, motorist sightlines, and traffic signs. In his role as a traffic accident reconstructionist, he would assist at investigations of fatal accidents. Sgt Silver also has worked as a training officer at the police department, providing instruction to other officers on the use of force, including rifles, pistols, and tasers. Also, the sergeant is a child safety seat technician who works to aid the public in properly installing such devices. He also instructs other police officers in the use of intoximeters in DUI cases. Sgt Silver noted that working in the patrol unit teaches a person much about how to best handle various situations. No two days in patrol work are the same, he said, noting that the variety of situations that are encountered keeps people fresh. As a supervisor, Sgt Silver said he would work to aid patrol officers perform their jobs, making sure that their equipment is suitable and safe. During his initial training as a sergeant, he would “shadow” another sergeant on the job, observing how that person performs their job, Sgt Silver said. He would later receive certain formal training on the supervisory work of a sergeant. Of his role as a supervisor, Sgt Silver said, “I’d like to have the confidence and respect of the [police] officers in the agency, while bridging the gap between patrol officers and management.” The police department’s full complement is 45 members, seven of whom are sergeants, including six patrol sergeants and one administrative sergeant.

His 40th Birthday

October 25, 2013
Well, to say Jim enjoyed his 40th birthday, would be a lie! It was the only one, that I know of, he loathed! Of course not knowing this, I sent him a huge bouquet of flowers with several, and I mean several!, balloons attached. Well, of course, as fate would have it....the one balloon that said "Happy 40th Birthday" on it was the one that stayed full of helium for at least a week! So every day he would go into work and see that Happy 40th....needless to say it didn't start his day off in a "Happy" mood! I did not know this until several months later when he mentioned how very much he hated turning 40! Today he would have been 69.... A man God needed back home! Love you forever Jim, and Happy Birthday! Balloons are coming your way!

Mother's Day

May 14, 2013
Well, Sunday was a mixed day, a great day because Jenn, Terri, Arber, Cameron and Ramiz were all here. But, a sad day because Mom was not, but I know she was celebrating with you and Dad, your Mom and Dad and her Mom and Dad and all the rest! It was a wondefful weekend, Terri came down with Cam and Jenn came with Arber and Ramiz and spent the whole weekend. We all went to Jeff and Melanie's, including Jay, on Saturday and had dinner. I remember all the great Mother's Days we spent, first with just Jane, then we added Jay and then Jeff.....great times! Now we have 3 children, 7 Grands and 3 Greats....what a nice, nice family. So proud of all of them? Love you always.
May 1, 2013
Hi Bompa. It's really hard for me to get on this site, but I think about you everyday. I just miss you so much. But I know you're happy and without pain, I just wish I could see you. I graduate soon, and I really wish I could see you there, but I know you'll have a front row seat. I turn 18 in a few days. You're Big Mac is really growing up. And I'm going to college in the fall! If you were here you'd give me all this useful advise that would make everything easier. I just wanted to thank you for everything you did for me, i have no idea what my life would be like now if you weren't there. i realize now, that your house was always my home. No matter what was happening in life, going to see you and Memaw always made everything better. You're my hero Bompa, still are. The strongest man I ever met. I appreciate everything, all the fond memories, the advice, and every time you picked me up when I was down. I'm getting a tattoo in your honor soon too. It's going to be an anchor with "I will love you always" just like my necklace. I love you Bompa, no other grandfather could even compare to you. I hope you're having a good time up there, and I know I'll see you someday. Keep watching over us, you're very missed down here

Falling in the Holly Bush

January 29, 2013

I was just thinking about our time in VA and the time you were checking out the little porch, off the third bedroom and stepped through the window and out onto it and the next thing I knew you had fallen into the Japanese Holly Tree that was under the porch!  You hurt from the thorns for days!  We did have some memorable times there though. Remember filling in the "goldfish pond", after Jane - who was 3 at the time - fell in and almost drowned - we thought the pond was only inches deep.... wrong .... that was our first day there.  The next day you and a neighbor, took the huge goldfish out, took them to another pond and then filled the pond in with dirt...the "pond" was not very big but sure was deep!  We did have some great times there too, lots of picnics with all our Navy friends, great neighbors, who could forget Mama Pitts - she was a wonder! 

Just needed some memories to make me laugh today!  I love you.

December 6, 2012

     "I'm Gonna Walk with my Granddaddy,
  And He'll match me Step for Step,
 And I'll tell him how I've missed him
Every minute since he left,
 and then I'll hug his neck"
<3 
Well Bompa, Tuesday is court and I know you'll be watching. I'll never forget you walking right out of the courthouse last time. I am so grateful to have you as my grandfather,not just my grandfather, you're so much more than that. You're my Bompa. And we all know how much you love us. I think about you everyday, and miss you so very much. I know you're watching all of us, which is a very comforting thought. Chistmas is coming, every Christmastime I always think about the Christmas you helped me pick out the Lighthouse candle gift for Memaw <3. I know Christmas has to be beautiful in Heaven. I know you are having a beautiful, peaceful, pain-free time up there and you deserve it. Everytime Cameron and I talk about you he looks up and says, "Hi Bompa! I miss you and love you so much!" He will never forget "Bompa's Snore", I know :). Love you Bompa, I miss you so much <3

Love

October 27, 2012
Just a note to let everyone know what love and courage are. When Jim was first diagnosed with CBD, he found out there was no cause, no treatment and no cure. Did that get him down? I am sure it did, it devastated me, but Jim never showed fear of the disease, only acceptance and courage. The very first thing he said was, "I want to give all the kids and grands something so they will always know I will always love them and be with them.". After some thought he decided to buy heart necklaces for his girls, and money clips for his boys. He had them inscribed with his nickname for each of them...yes he had nicknames for all our children and grands, "Janie Bug", "Witchiepoo", "Little Red", "Big Mac", "Stretch", "Little Bit", all the boys are called "Bub"... The front has their nickname on it, the back has "I will love you always" and either Dad or "Bompa".....yes, he did have a necklace made for me also... That is love....when you are facing a fatal disease and your first thought is of your family not yourself. That is Jim!

Courage

October 27, 2012
Good Morning My Love, I hope you are having a good day in heaven! I just wanted to say thank you for being a wonderful, caring compassionate, loving man to all of us. You children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren were the world to you and you ALWAYS let them know. They all knew you would go to any length to make them happy, to get a giggle out of the little ones, you were so proud of all of them. As you always said the are our greatest accomplishments. You, my darling, accomplished so many things, the way you chose to deal with the horrendous disease called Corticobasal Degeneration was one of them. You faced evey day with such courage and determination, not knowing what new symptom (or worsening old) would show its ugly head. You met the challenges of each day with the attitude "I can't do anything about the disease, but I can choose how I react to it". You always reacted with such dignity and faith you humbled me and all who had the honor of knowing you. As always you did not want anyone to know just how much you hurt. Rest now my love all the pain and suffering you had is truly gone. You are forever in our hearts. I will always love you!

Happy Birthday

October 25, 2012
Happy Birthday my love! I hope your first birthday in heaven is filled with you doing all the things you have not been able to do for so long. You are celebrating with your parents, my dad, and you have met your baby brother and are now enjoying the company of all the other saints...Mike and Vicki and all our family and friends who paved the way. Our day will be sad, but we will think of all the good birthdays we celebrated. You are forever in my thoughts, I will always love you!
October 19, 2012
I can't believe all of dad that I see in this photo. The grits, the paper towel, office chair, camp chair, Grace, bull frog... All in an image. Oh... And he is smiling and happy. love ya always Pop

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