March 13, 2016
I've known Jocelyn Stoller since she was 16 years old. From that moment on she had my heart. A beautiful, sensuous, passionate girl.. who loved to dance, to sing, to act, to create stories to tell little children.. a lover of life.. who knew that normal high school was not for her. It would not teach her what she wanted to know. And that was rationale enough for her to break free, like a bull in a china shop, leave her family and friends and everything she knew, to travel the world.
So at 17 she did just that.. and by herself. Juxtapose this stunning, magical girl, enchanting everyone she met who, from every outward appearance could have been on the cover of Vogue without even a touch-up to speak of, with a mind that absorbed and remembered everything.. smart, articulate, curious, inquisitive, a scholar in the making, and a nexus, drawing in every every human being, every experience, every dog and cat, the original networker. In fact she gave networking its definition.
For Jocelyn, high school would have been a waste of precious time, but traveling the world with purpose would be everything to her. She was already well equipped with dreams and aspirations far beyond her years that would take her around the world for adventures we can't even imagine. And so it was - a beginning to a life of involvement and commitment. A big involvement envisioning how to make the world a better place, learning and reading everything she could about medicine, world cultures, religions, psychology, metaphysics, spirituality, and with her scholarly pursuits well integrated, going about creating projects in Russia, in Africa, for classrooms, for medical institutions...
I never met a more selfless, generous person. For Jocelyn, asking how you are was not a perfunctory exercise. She really wanted to know. So you told her and wisdom poured forth.. always focusing on the other, never herself. And for her valued friends, colleagues, clients she would launch them into new and evolved ways of going at their lives and creative pursuits.. always ever expanding her world and theirs, and reaching far into places that needed her.
Jocelyn's presence was always larger than life, even as a young girl. Always way ahead of her time she thought big and encompassed and embraced the world.
Jocelyn helped us all to find our way. She left us way too soon and is deeply, profoundly missed.