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Happy Birthday Dearest John

July 5, 2023
Dearest John,

Today you would have been your 88th birthday.
Several people remembered, especially Anne Verweij who sent a picture of the candles she lit. It is a quiet day, as was yesterday, the day we, the Dutch Bunch, used to celebrate your birthday at Olthofs'.
I love you to Heaven and back; miss you like crazy.

Forever in my heart,Tineke

About Time :-)

December 11, 2022
Hello Love of my Life,
It has been far too long since I last wrote to you via this site.  But as we talk several times on a daily basis, I do not feel all that bad!
Life continues to be extremely lonely without you, however, as you know I am an expert at putting up a brave and happy face, hiding my true feelings.
This afternoon is theSchola concert.  Not too long, and no intermission.  The latter due to the Covid numbers on the rise hgere in Santa Clara County.  All singers are to present a negative home test, and wear  a "95 mask"  I have attended every Monday evening rehearsal; helping with refreshments, although no refreshments at this time in order to avoid Covid.  It is expected that we will endure a harsh flu, respiratory and Covid season. 
This morning Greta's sister Henriet died in her sleep.  It has been a long road for both Henriet and Greta.  
Church choir sounded great this morning.  I understand that Gretchen is quite the task master.
A week from today is the annual church Christmas program, once again under the direction of Mary Seerveld.  
The Computer History Museum is fully operating again, since closing due to Covid.  I definitely shall renew my membership, plus send the annual donation.
I have yet to return to the Y aqua class.  I am totally out of the routine.
I was scheduled for the first cataract surgery this coming week, however, decided to postpone till after the holidays.  And talking about holidays:  you will be proud to know that today I sent off the Canada and Overseas Christmas Greetings.  How is that for being on time?  and now for the US ones.... no letter this year, but a quote or two (depends on the recipient), plus a copy of the picture of you in front of a blackboard.  Yes, also a photo greeting card.
As I tell you each day: I miss you to Heaven and back!  But know that you watch over me.
As I have also mentioned:  I still meet with my counselor each week.  As much as I enjoy it, I realize that I am not opening up as much as I started to.  Now that she is "independent" I feel there is a bit of distancing.  You know how insecure I can be, so that is probably the problem.
This my Love, is it for now.  As I ask each day "Please watch over me"..Love, Tineke

Always on my mind! See "About Site" for today's message to John

February 20, 2021
Dearest John,

I just realized that I erroneously mentioned the 19th (yesterday) being the date of your death 
Consequently no message, on this site, as promised.  Today's (20th) message I wrote on the "about" site :-)  Something funny:  all of a sudden there are many more pictures from my album in your gallery.  Love you to the moon and back!
Also, I shall be forever grateful to Len Shustek for setting up this site!!

Our Third Wedding Aniversary

February 15, 2021
Dearest John,

Today, February 5, 2021 is the 3rd  anniversary of our wedding.  I cannot let this day go by without telling you how much I love and miss you.

I was saddened by the fact that, other than Pietie and Henk, and Joan Sakaldasis  acknowledged the fact.  Luckily this evening was Schola rehearsal, which I attend each week (at their request). Margie Maher announced our anniversary, which she had asked me aforehand if that would be OK.  Joanna Read asked me to say a few words.  I thanked the Schola Members for the way they reach out to me, and welcome me as if I am a member.Several folks, i.e. Ann (the Lawyer) who said some really kind words.
I will write again this Friday which is the 3rd anniversary of your death.  At time I will write about the past year.

All my love.
Tineke


Stopping by to say hello (:-)

November 19, 2019
Dearest John,

It has been far too long that I wrote you a note.  This of course does not mean that I have forgotten you, as that is simply impossible.  Luckily you know me well enough to realize that I kept putting it off, being the forgetful person I am.  But enough about that.

I still go to counseling, one on one, once a week with an incredibly kind and understanding "youngish" woman I met through Pathways, andis now with Kara in Palo Alto.  

Almost every Monday evening I attend the Schola rehearsal for just a little while.  I help with the refreshments, visit with folks, stay for an adidtional half hour to listen.  Carol Worthington-Levy and I sponsor the Christmas concert!  The fall concert was Duke Ellington gospel music, with a complete jazz band.  It was really nice.  You would have loved it.  So far I am not too enthused about the Christmas concert; as always it has to grow on me, ahem.

Schola "lost" about 18 members, but they gained 14 new ones.  No re-auditioning was required.  Such will be next year.  I really like the new conductor.

The Sterks have once again invited me for Thanksgiving dinner.  Valerie's parents will be here again, as the SVPC Christmas concert is December 8.

I miss you tremendously; still have moments that I think you are coming home.  Often I can't wait to come home and share something I have noticed on the way, or tell you something interesting I was told.

I love you and always will.  
As I said before "I love to Heaven and Back"

Tinekexoxoxx



 

One Year Death Anniversary

February 26, 2019

Dearest John,

A year has passed since God called you home on February 20, 2018.

Anne Verweij was here for the week and helped me get through it.  In the morning Pat and Pietie came for coffee.  Early afternoon Anne and I drove to Milbrae to take BART to SF in order to meet her cousin Jitske, second daughter of Jeanette Boonstra, who is a co-pilot for British Air and in town for a day.  We got off at the Montgomery station, where Jitske waited for us in a bright red coat, so we could not miss her :-).  The weather was sunny but quite breezy and cold.  We walked to the Ferry Building, which I had not seen inside.  From there we walked to the Pier 23 Cafe and had a wonderful fish and chips "dunch".  Then on to Pier 39, which is not nearly as fun as before as high end shops are coming in.  At least the seals were presen, haha.  The gals then introduced me to Uber, which we took to the Castro, where we had drinks in a delightful corner bar.  Uber back to the Park Hotel where Jitske was staying, one block from the Montgomery station, where we took BART back to Millbrae.  Earlier when I parked the car a gent walked up to his car next to mine and gave me his paid parking ticket. Not too shabby, huh?!  The gals kept me busy so that I was able to take my mind off the day.

There is so much I wish I had been able to share with you before you died. Even apologized for, but you went so quickly.  Know that I love(d) you with all my heart and being.  You are definitely one in a million.

Rest peacefully my Dearest...All my love, TinekeG :-) 

Oh yes: unbelievable the destruction on the Capitola beach, and the Carmel beach from an earlier storm. The latter doesn't even look the same.


Our Wedding Anniversary

February 15, 2019

Hello dearest husband of mine (:-)

You have not heard me for some time (at least on this tribute) but as today is the first anniversary of our wedding I want to reiterate how much I love you and what you meant to me over the many years we were together.....Joan Sakaldasis is taking me to lunch, and this evening I go with the Sterks to Stanford to listen to Durufle's Requiem.

You may like to know that I bit the bullet and ordered tickets for the Carmel Bach Festival, and made reservations at the Lobos, but NOT our room of many years.

 Next week already one year since God called you home. Oh, how I miss you :-(

Rest in Peace!!....Tineke

PS: I forgot to say that yet another patent (group) was approved (:-)



Six Months Anniversary

August 20, 2018

Dearest John,

Today, six months ago, God called you home.  These months have been like a roller coaster, which has not been getting any easier.  I have come to realize that the quote "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal",  which I tend to write on condolence cards, I shall no longer quote as I realize such must sound pretty flippant to the recipient....There certainly is truth in it, however, much more difficult than I had realized.

It is incredibly lonesome and difficult to "go it alone".  I am happy, however, knowing that you are in a better place.

I bid on the conducting of the Halleluijah Chorus which Don Gustafson agreed to do, should I win :-)  

The upcoming Schola Season consists of Bach Cantates, John Rutter Highlights, Carl Orff's Carmina Burana, and Brahm's Deutsche Requiem.  Definitely all favorites of yours. Stay tuned and I shall let you know which cantates :-)

Love you to Heaven and back!

Tineke







Ehrman's Commentary on Murphy's Law

March 20, 2018

I too was fortunate to work with Dr. John at IBM STL back in the late eighties/early nineties. On my desk was a Murphy's law page-a day calendar.  Murphy's Law, as you must remember, states "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong".
One day, the entry was
Ginsberg's Theorem (a parody on the generalized Laws of Thermodynamics) stated:

You can't win. You can't break even. You can't even quit the game.


The entry for the next day read:

Ehrman's Commentary (On Ginsberg's Theorem): 
"Things will get worse before they will get better. Who said things would get better?"

I showed that to John and he allowed that he was indeed the Ehrman of Ehrman's commentary. He described how he participated in a usenet newsgroup back in the day (possibly one of the humor forums, I forget) discussing Murphy's Law.  Some guy collected all the contributions, published them as a book on Murphy's Law and made money off of it. All John got was his name to be immortalized and forever linked to Murphy's Law (feel free to Google Murphy's Law Ehrman to see what I mean).

Co-worker from SLAC

March 12, 2018

An early memory of mine from SLAC in the 70's was John’s trailer office (prior to CGB) which leaked badly — the floor was also warped so John drilled a big hole at the lowest point of his floor.  Problem solved. 

I also remember John’s hand written and illustrated intro to Wylbur!  A very gentle and human introduction to text editing.

John put a marble in the bell of his office phone shortly after we all moved in to the “new building” so when his phone rang it made a distinctive (and quite awful) sound.  That way when he was in the terminal room he knew when the phone was for him.    

An old Schola friend

March 3, 2018

I met John in 1970 when I joined the Schola Cantorum.  After rehearsals a group of us would go out for drinks to wind down.  One night at a Cupertino restaurant the waitress came over to take our order.  John immediately asked if they took Carte Blanche.  She said, I think so, and came back with a carta blanca beer.  After much laughter, John turning red, explained to her he meant the Dining Card which was popular back then.  He then sent the the incident to Herb Cain at the SF Chronicle who put it in his column a few weeks later.  We were all elated to see it in print.

John had a unique sense of humor that we all loved.  I’ve been fortunate to have been in touch with him and Tineke via email and Christmas cards since I moved to AZ twenty-one years ago.  I’m so happy that they had the chance to say their vows. They had so many wonderful years together.  Tineke, my prayers are with you.

John's Jumble

March 2, 2018

John's ebullience was his trademark, for me at least... One day at SLAC he stopped me in the hall and showed me a Word Jumble puzzle... "You know what this word is, don't you?"...  As a matter of fact, the unjumbled word did not pop into my head at that moment but John's contagious enthusiasm for these puzzles infected me, and I've enjoyed them ever since... and think of JRE each time I play one...

Piled to the ceiling

March 2, 2018

John had a couple of different offices during the time that I overlapped with him at SLAC in the 1970s. It was surprising that there was any room for John in them: every table, desk, and available floor space was piled to the ceiling with manuals and computer printouts. There didn't seem to be any organizing principle. But there must have been, because he had no trouble finding anything he was looking for. 

When the fire marshall would make his annual inspection, there would be some negotiation, after which the piles would retract from the ceiling. For a while.

Adios Amigo

February 27, 2018

I was virtually introduced to John in 1992, when IBM introduced the High-Level Assembler (HLASM). John starred in a video that described the many of the features of the new product. At the time, I was working for an IBM competitor (Amdahl Corporation), but competitor or not, we wasted no time in ordering a  copy of HLASM ... an absolutely wonderful product. I later came to think of him as both the father and mother of HLASM.

In 2001, I joined IBM's Systems Architecture groups, working from my home in San Jose. John and I would regularly confer on the phone, and he arranged for me to be located on site at the Santa Teresa lab. After that, had lunch almost every day and collaborated on new instruction-set architecture (for which we shared several patents).

John was the kindest and gentlest soul I have known; and it was a pleasure to
have worked with him and a privilege to call him a friend.

My long association with John

February 23, 2018
I was always very fond of John, and admired him on many levels. I first met him about 46 years ago at SLAC, when I was a Computer Science graduate student at Stanford. We bonded over many things: an appreciation of Fortran and Assembly Language, a penchant for accuracy in exposition, and an office style that reflected our natures as packrats.

John's packrat tendency certainly was to the benefit of the Computer History Museum. He donated a substantial collection of material (http://www.computerhistory.org/collections/catalog/102733967), including his notes from a programming course for ILLIAC at the University of Illinois in 1957. He paid for and donated reproductions of the IBM green (360) and yellow (370) reference cards, as well as the quirky blue-covered IBM Songbook from the 1930s.

He was also the first and so far only donor to a "Babbage Difference Engine Rebuilding Fund" at the museum to enable us to build our own replacement for the Engine we demonstrated to great acclaim for seven years but had to return to its owner. The fact that his $2000 contribution would need to be expanded by a factor of 1000 didn't deter him in the least. 

John was a remarkable human being, and he will be missed by many.

John on teaching assembler language

February 23, 2018

Getting to Know Your Assembler Bootcamp Instructor:
John Ehrman


By Andrew Grzywacz

This year’s SHARE Academy: Assembler Bootcamp is fast approaching. With the event just around the corner, take a moment to get acquainted with one of your instructors: John Ehrman. We asked John to share with us what drove him to co-found the boot camp, his years of experience in assembler language and what he hopes to impart to attendees by the end of the course.

What was your motivation behind starting the Assembler Bootcamp?

Well, as the name implies, to give programmers a boot camp in assembler language! Michael Stack and I started it together in 2000 because it occurred to us that, as important and fundamental as assembler is, a lot of programmers either don’t understand the language or don’t understand how important it is to other languages. You could program in whichever language you like and never know what’s actually happening when the program is issuing requests to the machine. By teaching assembler, we can give programmers some insight into what’s going on “under the hood,” so to speak. Assembler gives them a way to understand the actual activity going on beneath the overlay.

How did you first hear about or become interested in assembler?

I first learned about it in grad school. My roommate and I were both studying physics, and one day he asked me to proofread a program for him. I couldn’t understand it in the slightest! So he recommended taking a course with this physicist who taught computational physics. That was when I became first exposed to using a computer, and I’ve been hooked on it ever since! I took my first computer course in 1958 and never looked back (though I did still have to finish my physics degree).

What’s the biggest problem that you think programmers face when first trying to learn assembler?

The learning curve for assembler is very different from the learning curve that comes with other high-level languages. In most cases, when you’re learning a programming language, you have to think about the kind of data that you want your program to manipulate – like currencies or character strings. But in assembler, understanding how that language works means having to learn hexadecimal arithmetic or binary arithmetic. It forces you to learn these other concepts on the side just to execute programs in assembler. It’s a little like having to learn about how combustion works in a car engine just to drive to the grocery store.

What’s the main lesson you hope to impart to the class?

“People who are more than casually interested in computers should have at least some idea of what the underlying hardware is like. Otherwise the programs they write will be pretty weird.”

Don Knuth wrote that in The Art of Computer Programming, and it essentially sums up the whole value of the boot camp in my eyes. The fact of the matter is a lot of teaching institutions have cut back on assembler lessons, or eliminated them entirely, because it’s considered an old technology and not something that will lead to any acclaim or promotions for people who write about it or teach it. But assembler is so fundamental to what we do, that if we can get our attendees to walk away from the Assembler Bootcamp really believing in the overarching value of assembler, then our mission was accomplished.

How SHARE described John

February 23, 2018

Ehrman has been an Assembler Language programmer since the first days of System/360. In the past, he has served as a teacher of Assembler Language at Stanford University (1967-1980), a SHARE Assembler Language Project Manager (1968-1972 and 1988-2011), and fathered IBM's "High Level Assembler." Ehrman is also the author of a recently completed Assembler Language textbook.

PS from Len: don't miss the audio interview posted in the "Gallery/audio" section of this website.

The SHARE award in John's name

February 23, 2018

SHARE Awards: The John R. Ehrman Award for Sustained Excellence in Technical Education

This award was established to recognize an outstanding body of contribution to SHARE’s technical program. It honors those who have provided the content of SHARE’s technical program, by delivering high quality presentations, contributing to strategic white papers and ongoing task forces, championing technical activities, and sharing technical expertise at a high level. 

How John described himself to SHARE

February 23, 2018

John Ehrman
IBM Corporation

After too many courses in math and physics John discovered computers, and has enjoyed working at the Assembler Language level ever since. He is the former product poobah for the High Level Assembler (HLASM), now a free-floating assembler enthusiast.

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