It's 4 years already, enough time to get a university degree in Nigeria, but it seems like 4 days ago I said goodbye to you at heathrow only to get the shocking news of your passing on, Joe as I fondly called you its been 4 years since you left us and I am yet to understand why this should have happened and what we may have done differently to keep you here, God knows best and the pain still lingers on. The family is coping but the vacuum your absence created can't be filled by anyone, I miss your kindness, I miss coming to London and you opening your wardrobe and telling me to pick whatever I want, I miss you taking time off work just to take I, mimi and kemi around London, I miss rubbing minds with you when I had an issue in the office or home,I miss you telling me to love my wife, I miss your funny dance steps and your old manish ways . Mum, dad are fine but constantly miss you, alero, olu and angela are hanging on fine though we wish everyday you were here, life would have been kinda of easier. Victor is 5 today, blossom is a Prof in the making, Daniel-Jonathan is growing by the day and our new baby Nathan is smiling just like you. Mimi is fine, so is kemi, Words can't express how much I and the family miss you, sleep on Joe, the most selfless, caring,Christ loving and wisdom filled brother any man could wish for.We love you but God loves you most