The sweetest memory I have of Julie was right around her wedding night when she volunteered herself and Jonah to watch my two young daughters Frances and Catherine so that me and my wife could enjoy an evening out.  They both felt that they needed a break from the action,and we had a few nights left in the hotel, so I took her up on it.  I thought it was so unbelieveably kind of the two of them to take a practice run at parenting so early in the honeymoon phase, but I thought, YES!  By the time that we returned from our outing a few hours later, I could tell that Julie perhaps had had her first real glimpse of what motherhood was going to be like as her eyes were sunken and my daughter Catherine was dressed in a different outfit.  It seems that while Julie was attentively attending to one of Catherine's various baby needs, the munchkin projectile vomited all over her.  And in classic Julie Chow style, she apogized profusely and laughed in her "light" way.  She was the beautiful bride that week inching so peacefully across the white beach, with a touch of red and doves in the sky.  I will never forget her and the role that she played in my life.  We were wonderful partners carrying out her mother's vision in so many ways.  I miss her daily.  JF

I’m so thankful with God for giving me the opportunity to met the Brum family be part of their lives and share this couple of months with Julie, it has been an honor and a pleasure sharing Julie’s journey. Knowing that she was a loving and caring person, generous, humble and gracious it makes me feel blessed because without any words between us I knew her through her eyes all that love and happiness that she will bring to anyone around her, I would never forget our silly faces and mimic Karaoke! Your warrior soul will always bring to me the hope to find us again! You will always be in thoughts and prayers! God bless! I love you girl!

With Julie as your friend, you never needed a brain. She was always miles ahead of you figuring things out and was patient and humble enough to let you catch up to her. With Julie as a friend, you could learn to cook up a dish better than you could find it at a restaurant. With Julie as your co-volunteer, you could laugh like crazy and still get more done in a day than you thought possible. I miss her humble spunk and subtle sass. Her memory is a blessing to all of us who were so fortunate to know and love her!