It has been nearly three weeks since my Bother-in-Law, Julius passed away, leaving both sides of the family devastated. For the past days I have been trying to ask myself so many questions, particularly why this happened to him? He was a young, happy and healthy person full of life with much energy.
Dear Son-in-Law/ Brother-in-Law,
Wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place looking down at your wife and children. I know you will lead the way for them into the light. Although you are no longer physically with us, you will forever remain in our hearts and your spirit will always be felt. Thank you for coming into our lives and enriching all of us. You were such an amazing person to my family; we shared and supported each other. What an exit this is!
As human beings, I cry and ask God, why? Why take our loved ones from us? But I know it is not for us to know and to question the Almighty One. I know you are by God’s side now and you understand why God needed you, and why God decided your journey and your work on this earth had to end now. I hope you prepare the way for us, until we meet again. You have taken a part of us with you. Things will never be the same around here without you. We will miss you.
I am so happy and proud to be your Sister- in Law and Mother-in Law and despite this tragic loss I remain grateful for the years we shared together. I will cherish each and every moment we all shared. If I had one more chance to do it all over again, I would still take you to be my Son-in Law, Brother-in Law.
It is hard to say Goodbye, so I prefer to say
Night Night Son-in Law, Brother-in Law, Proff, Ju
Rest In Perfect Peace
Mama Odilia ( Neh)