The Blessing
March 3, 2021
My greatest pride and possession is my family which includes
Kamatams and Perejis .Apart from my parents,both maternal and paternal grand
parents,uncles and aunts loved me and my three brothers Samson
David,Christopher David and Wellington David very dearly,supported us in times
of need,checked,corrected,counselled and conditioned us in the right way and
raised us with good values.We imbibed many qualities like
humility,empathy,sympathy,generosity,simplicity and the like from their way of
life.Whatever we are today is the result of their influence over our lives.I
thank God for the gift of such a loving family.
When I recall some anecdotes narrated to us by our grand mother Mariamma,my mother Rathnamma,my aunts Karunamma and Santhosham(The Kamatam girls)that is how my Dad and I used to refer to them jovially,two words come to my mind.They are Sacrifice and Responsibility.My thatha and mama sacrificed their opportunities and stayed back in the village and encouraged and supported their siblings to go to nearby towns and hostels to pursue their education.They took up the responsibility of the family being Widowers which in itself is a great challenge. The most applaudable thing is that,they ventured to send girls from the family to pursue studies in those days ,against the then prevailing social norms.It is because of this sacrifice that we enjoyed and still reap the benefits of having an educated mother!Thank you thatha and mama.
Manikyam mama was a diligent,intelligent,industrious,humerous,witty,very straight forward yet a simple man.He could start a conversation with anybody irrespective of age,position and status.He was good at debating on various topics which include indigenous medicine,philosophy of daily life and politics.We used to call him,Ethirajarao(a local MLA) and my younger daughter would call him lovingly as Thorri thatha.
Samson anna and Chittanna had the privilege to visit Kothapalli more often and enjoy the fresh produce of the Ancestral land and the village scenery but me and my younger brother had the benefit of enjoying their stories.
Mama, truly you are,MATTILO MANIKYAM ! Your simple way of life enriched with great values,deserves this title.Mama,you will remain in our hearts and thoughts,ever smiling.Rest in eternal peace till we meet again.
Kodalamma.
When I recall some anecdotes narrated to us by our grand mother Mariamma,my mother Rathnamma,my aunts Karunamma and Santhosham(The Kamatam girls)that is how my Dad and I used to refer to them jovially,two words come to my mind.They are Sacrifice and Responsibility.My thatha and mama sacrificed their opportunities and stayed back in the village and encouraged and supported their siblings to go to nearby towns and hostels to pursue their education.They took up the responsibility of the family being Widowers which in itself is a great challenge. The most applaudable thing is that,they ventured to send girls from the family to pursue studies in those days ,against the then prevailing social norms.It is because of this sacrifice that we enjoyed and still reap the benefits of having an educated mother!Thank you thatha and mama.
Manikyam mama was a diligent,intelligent,industrious,humerous,witty,very straight forward yet a simple man.He could start a conversation with anybody irrespective of age,position and status.He was good at debating on various topics which include indigenous medicine,philosophy of daily life and politics.We used to call him,Ethirajarao(a local MLA) and my younger daughter would call him lovingly as Thorri thatha.
Samson anna and Chittanna had the privilege to visit Kothapalli more often and enjoy the fresh produce of the Ancestral land and the village scenery but me and my younger brother had the benefit of enjoying their stories.
Mama, truly you are,MATTILO MANIKYAM ! Your simple way of life enriched with great values,deserves this title.Mama,you will remain in our hearts and thoughts,ever smiling.Rest in eternal peace till we meet again.
Kodalamma.