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Tributes
Leave a tributeI miss you the hardest when life's path is a question mark. Be in my heart and let me find you along the way. I love you mom.
When tomorrow starts without me
and I'm not there to see
If the sun should rise and find your
eyes filled with tears for me
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
the way you did today
While thinking of the many things
we didn't get to say
I know how much you love me
as much as I love you
And each time you think of me
I know you'll miss me too
When tomorrow start without me
don't think we're far apart
for every time you think of me
I'm right there in your heart
This is the only the third time I've visited this page, because that shining face of yours in all these pictures is too hard to handle the pain it brings me. I am here feeling lonelier than ever on this night in my cabin. I created an alter for you in the corner with one of your last school photos, some beans from jungle trees in Costa Rica, shells, gratitude stones ,and other gems of mine. I've lit a candle for you and picked the first flowers I have ever laid in remembrance of you, fireweed. If you had ever made it up to Alaska I know it would have been your favorite. I miss you and need you more than I've ever realized. Please come into my dreams.... I love you
And then I heard the angel say "She's with you every day."
Miss you here and love you very much
Your smile and warm heart are greatly missed.
I know that you're in a good home now in Heaven where you're keeping everything just so.
I hope you're looking in on all of us from time to time to check on us.
Now you know how truly loved you were. You are missed.
What a loving and thoughful tribute you girls have created. Her loving nature lives on through each of you.
We never wanted memories though ... we only wanted you."
I wish more than anything that you were here to celebrate your 52nd year of life. I love you and miss you terribly.
Born in December
The four beautiful gifts you left behind
Your friends-
Are remembering you - today and often
Blessed to have had you in our lives
Know we loved you.
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I miss you the hardest when life's path is a question mark. Be in my heart and let me find you along the way. I love you mom.
A Closet Confession
As is the case with most teenage sisters Karen & I would borrow each others clothes on a regular basis. I use the word "borrow" loosely as it implies we actually gave one another permission! For the record, both parties were guilty of this same relatively harmless crime. However, since we went to different high schools, with Karen typically leaving the house first and getting home last, I had a HUGE advantage in the stealthful game I'm about to reveal.
Upon Karen's morning departure I would sneak into her closet to review my options for the day ... sifting through the myriad of shirts, riffling through stacks of sweaters and continually being disappointed I was too short for her pants. As the day went on I would delight in my clandestine accomplishment as friends commented on liking my "new blouse". After getting home from school I'd fly upstairs to change clothes hoping I didn't leave evidence of my misdeed behind ... like a stain from lunch or something incriminating left in a pocket. This game went on for years until Karen left for college. Imagine my disappointment when she took ALL her clothes with her!
It's now 3+ decades later and I still occasionally have dreams where I'm standing in her closet reviewing which item to filch that day and worrying if I'll get caught!
Drive-up bank teller
I remember how much fun Karen and I used to have playing "drive-up bank teller". There was a window in our family room that opened up to the garage. One of us would sit inside playing the role of bank teller. The other would ride our bike up to the drive-up window playing the role of bank customer. We played endless rounds of the deposit/withdrawal game using monopoly money ... which worked perfectly! Then we would switch roles back and forth until we got bored (which was typically an hour tops).
Memories
Hooked on phonics in the afternoons over "coffee"
Rescuing bunnies and kitties at the house on 450 N
Ice skating practice and competitions
Christmas decorating
My baptism
Spring breaks in Florida
Summer by the pool
My tennis matches in high school
Mom's day at Purdue
My 21st birthday
Getting to know you as a friend, not just my mother
And so many more..
(The last one didn't last long enough, and I wish everyday that we could've had more time).
You are greatly missed, and forever in my heart.