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Kelly's obituary as it appeared in the Cape Cod Times:

Sweet Kelly, 


When we think about you, we see only the most beautiful things. We see your infectious smile that radiated love and made everyone happier, and we hear your contagious laughter that could fill a room. We see you dancing, carefree, happy, and uninhibited, to the music that never stopped playing in your one-of-a-kind soul. You taught us what it is to truly be yourself, love who you are, and enjoy every moment. Your unfiltered honesty has always been refreshing, and it reminds us how important it is to always tell people how we feel. Your vibrant, free-spirited nature is truly inspiring, and we are so proud of you. You lit up every room you entered, and you touched every soul that has been fortunate enough to know you. We hear your voice in the wind that blows, feel your warmth in the sun that shines, experience your joy in all of the memories we cherish, and feel your lively spirit within us with every step we take. 

No one could ever ask for a kinder sister, a sweeter daughter, a lovelier wife, or a more loving, generous friend, and we can only hope to be half the person you are. We know our lives will never be the same without your effervescent presence, and we must hope that you know how loved you are and how deeply missed you will be. However, we take comfort in knowing that there are places to find you, even now, as we struggle and wonder where to look for you. We will find you in everything you love: in every heart-shaped rock left in the sand, in every piece of sea glass that tumbles up to the beach, and in every reflection of light that dances on the wall. We will find you in every spectacular, colorful sunset that draws our eyes to the horizon, in the change of the leaves during the fall season, and in the soothing music of the ocean waves as they kiss the shore. Life is fleeting, but you are constant, always found in beautiful things around us. When we see and hear these things, we will know that it is you and your big heart sending your limitless, selfless love; it is you shining your bright, always-glowing light; and it is you, laughing your light-hearted, spontaneous laugh. 

You will always be the resilient, expansive presence that urges us forward, teaches us, and compels us to reach out and live each moment, just as you have always done. You will always be your mother's sunshine, and you will always be your husband Mark's Jersey Girl, walking down the street with him. You will remain our protector, our confidant, and our strength, and you will forever be everything that is beautiful and precious, just as you were in life. No matter how the tides may change, your footprints will never be washed from the sands of our hearts. May your gentle soul be at peace. We'll see you at the beach, beautiful Kelly, because "down the shore everything's alright." 

We love you to the moon and back,

Your husband Mark, your mother Cheryl, your dad Jimmy, your dad Stephen, your brother Nik, your sister Jamie, and your mammy and papa, Frank and Helena. 

May 22, 2014
May 22, 2014
Hi Kelly, (Guess what? It's 4:00) We're now coming into Memorial Day week-end.....the world just keeps on spinning and father time keeps marching forward. I, myself, am stuck in time; as fast as it goes, I lag behind. The only thing that moves forward for me is one foot in front of the other and even that's on autopilot. I miss you so much Kelly; you belong here with us today. If only you could've gotten through that fateful, horrible day. You had so much light, beauty, love and life left in you. Those were the things that defined you and it's so sad that panic and anxiety could have overwhelmed all that you were. I'm so sorry you suffered so much while I knew so little. I'd give anything today to be able to hold you and comfort you. I just have to settle with holding you in my heart and I do sweet Kelly, I do. I love you, Mom xoxo
May 21, 2014
May 21, 2014
Hi my Kelly, It's getting close to the end of my work day and as always I'm thinking of you. My heart grows heavier as the hours pass; I always seem to get weepy around 4:00. The reality of the fact that you're not here with us burrows itself in and around my heart and soul. Sometimes it hurts so much it feels like it has teeth. I'm not alone with this feeling.......we're all totally devastated. Even after almost five months, the shock hasn't waned. We're all still numb; we want you back. I miss you Kelly. Love, Mom xoxo
May 20, 2014
May 20, 2014
My dear Kelly, Everything triggers memories of you.......looking through a Christmas Tree Shop flyer, seeing a mom buckle her daughter into a carriage, looking up at the sky, eating a crab cake, garden ornaments, heart rocks, the beach, your sunglasses, music, "Oscar" gowns, chicken salad with salami (who would've thunk!), pretty sandals, pretty girls..........It's so hard to learn to live without you.....life's toughest lesson ever! I miss you, my girl and I'll never, ever stop! I've always loved you deeply. Mom
May 2, 2014
May 2, 2014
Sorry for forgetting Joey, and all of our departed friends and family.
May 1, 2014
May 1, 2014
Our Dear Kelly, you're missed every minute of every day. Our lives forever changed that terrible day. Hopefully you're hanging with Gram, and a new visitor Wally. Love you forever.
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Thinking of you so much today, sweet girl… wish I could see your eyes light up when you smile.
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