I thought of Kevin today, but I didn't know that he had died. From what I remember, he had a beautiful, loving heart - a heart that some of us can only hope for. To Eric and Kevin's family, I pray that the light of precious memories and blessings overwhelm the darkness of loss. It may be 11 years, but that doesn't mean that it's any less significant.

It was 10 years ago today I said goodbye and kissed you for the very last time. Now more than ever I long for our candid conversations, your honest opinion, practical advice and unconditional love. I miss you and I'm still trying to live a "good life". Love, Eric

Thinking about lost friends during life in Pandemic Bizarro World.

I had a very small circle of friends in high school and, in the group, Kevin was the most aggravating, sincere, dorky, sharp-witted, and opinionated (in our group, that was really saying something!). He always carried his heart on his sleeve and he never hesitated to speak his mind, regardless of how popular his point of view might be. I literally cannot imagine high school without him and I didn’t realize just how much I missed him. I deeply regret not taking time off to go along with Brenda any of the times she visited Kevin after he’d moved away. (“Too busy right now, give him my love, I’ll catch him next time.")  I’d love to hear his take on the pandemic, the militarization of police, the latest meme, and well, just everything. The best part of hanging out with Kevin was knowing that we’d find things to disagree about if we just kept talking long enough, LOL. When he really got into it, his eyes would sparkle like nobody’s business. 

I really miss arguing with him. 

It was a morning much like this morning when I drove home from the hospice center for the last time and thought, “Wow, it’s cold outside.”  It was no longer summer. Time had moved on and I had to catch up. I can’t believe it has been 6 years already. Time has again moved on and I find myself having to catch up again. 
I missed you, Kevin.

It has been five years since I held your hand one last time. I miss our deep conversations, random times chilling on the couch, you dragging me out to do things that were always fun and memorable. You will never be forgotten, always missed and forever loved.

Kevin was a dear classmate in high school. Sadly we lost touch after high school and I just learned of his passing last night. I truly enjoyed our time in drama club. He was an unforgettable special sole. Clearly he led a short but fulfilling, impactful life. My thoughts and prayers go out to Eric, The McKenna family and all of Kevin's friends.

Some days it feels like it was yesterday, other times, a lifetime ago. But one thing remains constant, I miss your wit, warmth, friendship and smile.  Love you always.

It is difficult to believe you have been gone for two years now. I miss your smile and wit everyday. Sometimes I would think, "what you Kevin do..." but then that would usually get me into trouble.  I miss you and our time together.

Thinking of you on your birthday and what we'd be doing today. I miss you and think about you every day. Love you always.

Thinking of Kevin on what would have been his 50th birthday. I think about you a lot my friend and miss you. You will be in our thoughts next weekend when Mike and I (finally) get married. You were a big part of our coming together and it makes me sad that I won't see you there, but like to think you will be there with us in sprirt. Much love.

A year ago today the world lost one of its greatest inhabitants; however, the love he shared, the wisdom he bestowed and the light he radiated is still felt, remembered and passed on by those who knew and loved Kevin. We keep his spirit alive and it is through us that the world doesn’t seem so cold, empty or dark. I will miss you and love you always.

We said our final goodbyes to Kevin on July 21st at Otter's Point in Acadia National Park outside of Bar Harbor, Maine as we spread his ashes along the coast. It was a beautiful day and an awe inspiring setting that I know Kevin would have loved. We will forever remember and miss Kevin. It is a spot I will return to again. Love you, Kevin.

Happy Birthday, old friend. I will look for the brightest star in the sky tonight and know that it is you.

Happy Birthday, Kevin. I miss you. Remembering the good time we had a year ago today celebrating your birthday. Having dinner at Calo's again tonight in your honor. Love always, Eric

I will miss those long, deep and very intellectually stimulating conversations and the laughs that went with them. Kevin, you were one in a million and one of a kind. Thanks for being you and the unconditional friendship you gave to me. You will be very missed ... ... Love, Greg

It was a month ago today the world lost an intelligent, witty, compassionate, honest, loving and the most selfless man I have yet to meet. He will be forever missed and his impact never forgotten. I love you Kevin.

Just found a picture, which I posted that reminds me of the fun we had when Kevin relocated to Chicago from Denver, after visiting us. He took to Chicago immediately and joined our volleyball team & the pic is our comedic group, appropriately named the Pastoral "Cheese Poofs", when we came out of no where and won first place in the end of season tournament and then celebrated with bubbly!

II remember Kevin most for his participation in the music program at Voorheesville. He always had a smile on his face and was one of the most positive people I knew. He had a great sense of humor as well.
I send my love and support to you Eric and to the whole McKenna family during this time.

I had Kevin as a student at Voorheesville in the mid 1970's.I recognized his name as soon as I saw the sad news in the Albany newspaper. After more than thirty years, I still remember him as a kind young man. Reading of his accomplishments,I am sure that he made a difference in leaving the world a better place because he was in it. So sorry for his loved ones that he had to leave too soon.

I am so very sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. The McKenna family was so very loving and welcoming to me when Sharon and I were in school together. It was a home filled with intellect, music, laughter, and love. I am grateful to have such warm memories of you all. May your music, love, and laughter be a comfort to you now. ~Lisa Petrone Bohl

Oh, how we laughed in high school! Kevin was smart, witty, & exceptionally kind. I remember vividly a specific incident where Kevin’s compassion lifted my spirits and took the edge off a moment of teenage angst. Just a few weeks ago I relayed the details of that story to my 16 year old daughter as an example of what to look for in a friend. Kevin made the world a better place.

I don't remember the last time I saw Kevin, but we did exchange a couple of emails after a class reunion. It is hard to think about my time in high school without thinking of Kevin: driving back and forth to the pathology lab for a biology internship with the rabbits, and of course all those plays and countless rehearsals. Holy Cabooses. Rest in Peace.

I will miss you! You were the definition of a friend exactly when I needed one. I will never forget you! While you are likely responsible for building out my social network in Chicago, the times I remember most are when it was just us, lost in our own little world. Thank you for suggesting I do my laundry at your place instead of the laundrymat for a wonderful friendship followed. :-)

So sorry to hear about Kevin. At least it's clear, from the pictures, and comments, that he led a full, if short, life. I remember Keven vividly from high school, and sometimes wondered what became of him. It's a shame he couldn't join us at our 30th reunion.

To my other family.... How do I tell you how sorry and sad I am to hear about Kevin. So many great memories! Love to all!

So sorry to hear about Kevin. Although he was too young to leave this world, it's clear from these tributes what an impact he had. Will continue to pray for him and his family and friends.

Kevin - When you walked into a room, people were drawn to your warm smile & sharp wit. I can't believe that you are actually gone. You will be greatly missed.

To all of Kevin's family and friends: We are so sorry to hear of the fight Kevin had to fight recently and of his passing. We knew him in high school and unfortunately lost touch after. We grew up in a small community so knowing him and his wonderful family were special times. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this very tough time. ~Deb and Malcolm Trombley

Kevin you were vigilant champion of all things right in this world. I will miss our spirited conversations, your laugh, and above all your wicked awesome fighting spirit. I just know the angels are singing - for a true warrior has joined their ranks. Thank you for keeping us safe Kev.

Dear Kevin...just heard about your death. I've thought of your warm vibrance and commitment to the truth over the years and wondered where you'd gotten. I am sorry to have lost touch with you after Foley. You are one of the people that have helped me to remember to live the best parts of myself. Live on in peace!

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire McKenna family. Kevin was a Drama Club upperclassman when I was in HighSchool. . . we met during a production of The Matchmaker (my first...) I'll always have fond memories of him, and am glad his charm and effusiveness followed him in life. Rest in peace, Kevin. . .

Kevin and I reconnected at the retirement celebration of our high school choral teacher several years ago and most recently, he was missed at our 30th high school reunion. My prayers go out to the McKenna Family and all of Kevin's friends.

I am sorry to hear of Kevin's death, shocked really. My thoughts are with Eric and all of Kevin's friends and family. I remember a nice, skinny kid with a great smile. Peace and love, Cathy Teuten

Eric you were a guardian angel to him throughout and you have the gratitude of us all, especially Kevin.

Seeing all of Kevin's friends support him during his final weeks was so special to me and spoke to his great character. Kevin was everyone's favorite patient, which is a testament to his ability to charm even people who had just met him. I feel privileged to have known him for as long as I did. I just wanted to be as good and caring a friend to him as he was to me.

I am so sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. he was such a good friend in high school and someone I really looked up to. You will be missed by so many, Kevin.
Anne Marie (Olsen) Chavez

Kevin still managed to talk my ear off only a couple weeks ago when I visited him in the hospice ... and I cherished every word. It had been too long since I'd seen him, but we immediately started chatting like we hadn't skipped a beat. Thanks to you, Eric, for being an angel over his shoulder during the tough times. Peace to Kevin and all of us who loved him. ~ Doug

Kevin and I met while singing in the BGMC, it seems ages ago. He handled my real estate purchases and sales deftly and professionally. In fact, I'll never forget his smile as he handed me the check for the proceeds from my condo. I had no idea that our life journeys had brought us both to Chicago. Peace to Eric and Kevin's family.

I never met Kevin, but just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to his family, who my sister, Kate has spoken of often. GOD BLESS the McKenna family.

Goodbye, Kevin. I hope you're able to ski where ever you are and the guys are good looking:) Rest in peace.

We love you buddy and will always miss you. I will never forget the times you brought the boys apple picking and then invited them over to make apple pie and apple sauce. You even taught them how to properly use a knife.

May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain fall softly on your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the hollow of his hand. ~Irish Blessing

Rest in peace, my friend. You will be missed.

My heart breaks for his family. I grew up with them, went to school with them, went to church with them. I'm so sorry for their loss. He very briefly dated a very good friend of mine, and unknowingly was a great help in my getting through some rough times. I'm so sorry.

So many years since I saw him but thought of him so very often. I was so glad to have connected again recently. From his V'ville friends.... he will be so missed.....
Peace and free flight Kevin......