November 8, 2023
November 8, 2023
May the soul of this great man continue to rest in peace.
This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved father, grandfather, brother, uncle, Elder and friend, Dr. Akolawole (Kola) Ayonrinde. We will remember him forever.
Funeral:
Date: 24th November 2022
Time: 12.30pm (Australian Western Standard Time).
Location: Pinnaroo Valley Memorial Park, Perth, Western Australia
*Link to recorded service: http://bit.ly/3ESmfml
The Ayonrinde family would like to thank you for your presence, fortifying prayers, comforting messages and outpouring of love…the beat goes on!
Funeral:
Date: 24th November 2022
Time: 12.30pm (Australian Western Standard Time).
Location: Pinnaroo Valley Memorial Park, Perth, Western Australia
*Link to recorded service: http://bit.ly/3ESmfml
The Ayonrinde family would like to thank you for your presence, fortifying prayers, comforting messages and outpouring of love…the beat goes on!
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November 8, 2023
November 8, 2023
Many happy returns of the day broda mi, the angels are celebrating with you
November 8, 2023
November 8, 2023
Continue to rest in peace, broda mi.
The whole family missed you.
The children and grands are doing fine to the glory of God Almighty
The whole family missed you.
The children and grands are doing fine to the glory of God Almighty
May 3, 2023
May 3, 2023
Gone but not forgotten.
Happy posthumous birthday to our dear Dad. You would've been a nonagenarian today.
Continue to rest in Peace, Omo Olowu.
Happy posthumous birthday to our dear Dad. You would've been a nonagenarian today.
Continue to rest in Peace, Omo Olowu.
December 21, 2022
December 21, 2022
I was deeply saddened to hear of Kola's passing. My deepest condolences to his family. I was honoured to be Dr Ayonrinde's private secretary and administratiion support at West Grampians Psychiatric Services in Horsham. He was so passionate about everything in his life from his profession to family and friends. His humor and incredible kindness will be remembered. His light shined bright and will continue to do so in our memories. RIP Kola
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
your father was a special and courageous spirit
I am sure he will remain a candle in your life and others around him
to glow after his body has left us
with loving regards as a friendly colleague of Deji
sincere condolences to beloved ones,
I am sure he will remain a candle in your life and others around him
to glow after his body has left us
with loving regards as a friendly colleague of Deji
sincere condolences to beloved ones,
December 2, 2022
December 2, 2022
From Professor Femi Oyebode (Birmingham, UK)
Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde
Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde was one of the quartet of psychiatrists who consolidated the theory and practice of psychiatry in Nigeria. This group included Drs Akindele, Olatawura, and Jegede as well as Dr Ayonrinde. They followed in the footsteps of Thomas Adeoye Lambo, Tolani Asuni and Abayomi Marinho, pioneers whose contributions were formalised and codified by Dr Ayonrinde and others, before passing on the baton to my generation.
Dr Ayonrinde’s contributions to psychiatry started early and he was given special mention in the foreword of that most superb book, Psychiatric Disorders Among the Yoruba, by Alexander Leighton, T.A Lambo and others:
‘Translation of the questionnaires was largely done by Mr Akolawole Ayonrinde […], also participated as interpreters and in explaining numerous points of Yoruba culture […] In addition to his duties as interpreter, Mr Ayonrinde served as executive officer and coordinator in the field’.
If it needs to be said, Dr Ayonrinde had yet to graduate as a doctor, at this time, and his contributions at this early stage of his career were pointers to his later commitment and contribution to academic psychiatry.
In my time at medical school, the Ford Foundation was still funding the residence, for two weeks, of 4th year medical students from Ibadan, at Aro. It was an immersive experience for us all, one that was probably singular as I have heard of no other medical school with such an arrangement. I emerged from that experience confirmed in my desire to train as a psychiatrist and this was helped by the teaching, attitude, and approach of Dr Ayonrinde. The structure of study was a combination of teaching by staff from Ibadan, who travelled daily to Aro to teach, and clinical placements with the medical staff at Aro who oversaw our exposure to patients and their treatment.
The theme that is most prevalent in Dr Ayonrinde’s academic publications is a concern about the role of health education in increasing awareness of mental illness, and concern for the mentally ill. These publications, often jointly with Olayiwola Erinosho, demonstrated that people with mental health complaints did not preferentially report to traditional healers in comparison with people with physical complaints. They also prepared the ground for the appropriate use of the community psychiatric programme at Igbo-Ora, alongside the already established antenatal, paediatric, and physical health programmes thus demonstrating that a holistic approach was possible and not only desirable. This approach was part of Dr Ayonrinde’s goal to naturalise psychiatric services and therapeutic practices developed elsewhere for use in Nigeria. Hence his adaptation of family therapy, behavioural therapy and his recognition of the role and influence of marriage, family planning and the mental status of women, at least in Yorubaland.
Dr Ayonrinde’s contributions made it possible for people like me to have a solid intellectual basis to enter the world of clinical practice with confidence that we were well trained and could compete on equal grounds with our colleagues from other parts of the world. If only for that, I owe him an inestimable measure of gratitude and respect.
Femi Oyebode MBBS, MD, PhD, FRCPsych, Honorary FRCPsych
Professor of Psychiatry, University of Birmingham
Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde
Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde was one of the quartet of psychiatrists who consolidated the theory and practice of psychiatry in Nigeria. This group included Drs Akindele, Olatawura, and Jegede as well as Dr Ayonrinde. They followed in the footsteps of Thomas Adeoye Lambo, Tolani Asuni and Abayomi Marinho, pioneers whose contributions were formalised and codified by Dr Ayonrinde and others, before passing on the baton to my generation.
Dr Ayonrinde’s contributions to psychiatry started early and he was given special mention in the foreword of that most superb book, Psychiatric Disorders Among the Yoruba, by Alexander Leighton, T.A Lambo and others:
‘Translation of the questionnaires was largely done by Mr Akolawole Ayonrinde […], also participated as interpreters and in explaining numerous points of Yoruba culture […] In addition to his duties as interpreter, Mr Ayonrinde served as executive officer and coordinator in the field’.
If it needs to be said, Dr Ayonrinde had yet to graduate as a doctor, at this time, and his contributions at this early stage of his career were pointers to his later commitment and contribution to academic psychiatry.
In my time at medical school, the Ford Foundation was still funding the residence, for two weeks, of 4th year medical students from Ibadan, at Aro. It was an immersive experience for us all, one that was probably singular as I have heard of no other medical school with such an arrangement. I emerged from that experience confirmed in my desire to train as a psychiatrist and this was helped by the teaching, attitude, and approach of Dr Ayonrinde. The structure of study was a combination of teaching by staff from Ibadan, who travelled daily to Aro to teach, and clinical placements with the medical staff at Aro who oversaw our exposure to patients and their treatment.
The theme that is most prevalent in Dr Ayonrinde’s academic publications is a concern about the role of health education in increasing awareness of mental illness, and concern for the mentally ill. These publications, often jointly with Olayiwola Erinosho, demonstrated that people with mental health complaints did not preferentially report to traditional healers in comparison with people with physical complaints. They also prepared the ground for the appropriate use of the community psychiatric programme at Igbo-Ora, alongside the already established antenatal, paediatric, and physical health programmes thus demonstrating that a holistic approach was possible and not only desirable. This approach was part of Dr Ayonrinde’s goal to naturalise psychiatric services and therapeutic practices developed elsewhere for use in Nigeria. Hence his adaptation of family therapy, behavioural therapy and his recognition of the role and influence of marriage, family planning and the mental status of women, at least in Yorubaland.
Dr Ayonrinde’s contributions made it possible for people like me to have a solid intellectual basis to enter the world of clinical practice with confidence that we were well trained and could compete on equal grounds with our colleagues from other parts of the world. If only for that, I owe him an inestimable measure of gratitude and respect.
Femi Oyebode MBBS, MD, PhD, FRCPsych, Honorary FRCPsych
Professor of Psychiatry, University of Birmingham
November 30, 2022
November 30, 2022
Deji, accept my condolences.
The Lord will comfort and grant you and the family the fortitude to bear the loss.
May his soul rest in peace.
It is well
The Lord will comfort and grant you and the family the fortitude to bear the loss.
May his soul rest in peace.
It is well
November 29, 2022
November 29, 2022
Dear Dr. Deji Ayonrinde,
I join your kith and kin to commiserate with you and your entire family on the passing of your dear Dad, Dr. Akolawole Ayonrinde, the highly respected and legendary Psychiatrist. The entire Medical Community both in Nigeria, Australia and the world over would miss him greatly for his immense contributions to the profession and particularly to humanity. I pray that the Lord will grant your family, colleagues and friends the fortitude to bear the loss.
Dr. Deji Ayonrinde, thanks for the opportunity to write this tribute for Dad, may his gentle soul rest in peace. Amen.
I join your kith and kin to commiserate with you and your entire family on the passing of your dear Dad, Dr. Akolawole Ayonrinde, the highly respected and legendary Psychiatrist. The entire Medical Community both in Nigeria, Australia and the world over would miss him greatly for his immense contributions to the profession and particularly to humanity. I pray that the Lord will grant your family, colleagues and friends the fortitude to bear the loss.
Dr. Deji Ayonrinde, thanks for the opportunity to write this tribute for Dad, may his gentle soul rest in peace. Amen.
November 28, 2022
November 28, 2022
Dear Deji and Family,
So sorry for your loss. The loss of a father is a hollowing out, but the memories, guidance and legacy our fathers stay with us. We see this in Deji. Papa Deji must have been a legend.
Lade
So sorry for your loss. The loss of a father is a hollowing out, but the memories, guidance and legacy our fathers stay with us. We see this in Deji. Papa Deji must have been a legend.
Lade
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
Daddy! Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde was a respectable family man full of wisdom who cherished and understood the importance of relationships and family values. He was fond of my family and always asked for our welfare and progress even to the end....We eventually became neighbours in GRA Abeokuta living opposite each other. He shared a brotherly bond with my parents.
He visited us when growing up and was very warm and relatable even to younger ones. He made use of our father's library. He, in turn had written quite a number of books which we the younger generation benefited from regarding "Adolescent and puberty"... He had a very lovely sense of humour!
He was focussed and had a good diction.
It was legendary, a testament that through the grace of God, he was able to raise giants like him (both him and Aunty) a family full of distinguished Doctors.
We celebrate Uncle in life and do so in death.
May the good Lord continue to comfort, bless and be with the family he left behind.
Drs Deji, Kunle and Koya - you have done well for your parents and made them proud! Their good memories and legacies will help you through your grief! It was a beautiful send off!
Omo rere agbeyin gbogbo wa o.
Enitan Bamtefa
On behalf of the T A Taiwo family
GRA Ibara Abeokuta
He visited us when growing up and was very warm and relatable even to younger ones. He made use of our father's library. He, in turn had written quite a number of books which we the younger generation benefited from regarding "Adolescent and puberty"... He had a very lovely sense of humour!
He was focussed and had a good diction.
It was legendary, a testament that through the grace of God, he was able to raise giants like him (both him and Aunty) a family full of distinguished Doctors.
We celebrate Uncle in life and do so in death.
May the good Lord continue to comfort, bless and be with the family he left behind.
Drs Deji, Kunle and Koya - you have done well for your parents and made them proud! Their good memories and legacies will help you through your grief! It was a beautiful send off!
Omo rere agbeyin gbogbo wa o.
Enitan Bamtefa
On behalf of the T A Taiwo family
GRA Ibara Abeokuta
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
Dr Ayonrinde, thank you for your selfless services to us as youths. You were part of our formative years the weekend lectures and guidance sessions. You live on in those wonderful children. Sleep on faithful soilder.
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
Though I never met you Papa, through my friendship with Kunle and encounters with the family, it is clear to see your legacy is secure. Rest in Peace
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
Daddy, Moji and I will always remember the first time we met you, on your visit to Ire-ákárí estate to meet Folu’s family. We recall your jovial, friendly nature, and will always treasure the experiences we shared with you.
Thank you.
We pray that our Lord will grant you His peace, and continue to protect us all.
Thank you.
We pray that our Lord will grant you His peace, and continue to protect us all.
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
May your soul rest in peace
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
My dear Deji, Kunle and Koya,
As your daddy might have briefed you during his life, I first became acquainted with him as a young man when we both worked in the Department of Psychiatry (aka known as Professor Lambo’s Unit) between 1968 and 1969. I was a fresh graduate hired as graduate assistant in the department while he was a clinical staff. We parted when he left for Australia and I for Canada for further studies.
We came back home to work at the University of Ibadan, he as Consultant/psychiatrist in the Department of Psychiatry while I took up a lectureship post in the department of Sociology. Your daddy approached and invited me to come and collaborate with him in his effort to render service at Igbo-Ora outreach rural community for medical students and staff of the University of Ibadan. This is because Daddy detested the idea of just working as an armchair psychiatrist in hospital setting but one who wanted to serve in community where his impact will be felt in a resource-poor country like Nigeria. I shared his passion/vision and our collaboration took off, becoming life long one.
Your daddy in the course of collaboration became my mentor, adviser, and counselor. I benefitted from his wealth of experience and knowledge. The collaboration also strengthened the bond between his and my family. For all of this, I am immensely thankful to our good God that our path crossed in life.
My prayer is that our good Lord will continue to richly bless all of you (Deji, Kunle and Koya) and children and grandchildren. You will all enjoy excellent health and live beyond the age of the passing away of Daddy in the name of Jesus Christ our Saviour.
Yemisi and all your aburos commiserate with you on the passing of daddy. He was fond of them, had special pet names for each of them and saw him as a jolly good fellow.
May Daddy soul rest in peace amen.
Lai Erinosho
As your daddy might have briefed you during his life, I first became acquainted with him as a young man when we both worked in the Department of Psychiatry (aka known as Professor Lambo’s Unit) between 1968 and 1969. I was a fresh graduate hired as graduate assistant in the department while he was a clinical staff. We parted when he left for Australia and I for Canada for further studies.
We came back home to work at the University of Ibadan, he as Consultant/psychiatrist in the Department of Psychiatry while I took up a lectureship post in the department of Sociology. Your daddy approached and invited me to come and collaborate with him in his effort to render service at Igbo-Ora outreach rural community for medical students and staff of the University of Ibadan. This is because Daddy detested the idea of just working as an armchair psychiatrist in hospital setting but one who wanted to serve in community where his impact will be felt in a resource-poor country like Nigeria. I shared his passion/vision and our collaboration took off, becoming life long one.
Your daddy in the course of collaboration became my mentor, adviser, and counselor. I benefitted from his wealth of experience and knowledge. The collaboration also strengthened the bond between his and my family. For all of this, I am immensely thankful to our good God that our path crossed in life.
My prayer is that our good Lord will continue to richly bless all of you (Deji, Kunle and Koya) and children and grandchildren. You will all enjoy excellent health and live beyond the age of the passing away of Daddy in the name of Jesus Christ our Saviour.
Yemisi and all your aburos commiserate with you on the passing of daddy. He was fond of them, had special pet names for each of them and saw him as a jolly good fellow.
May Daddy soul rest in peace amen.
Lai Erinosho
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
An amazing legacy of a rich life of remarkable achievements. With an expression of God's divine hand bringing things together his fruitful and unique life. I am encouraged by your father's legacy. Congratulations on a life well spent and celebration of life. The Lord will comfort you all.
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
With a heavy heart we say farewell to Daddy (Daddy Aussie)! Daddy Aussie has been a bright light in our lives for over 25 years. We would miss the jovial, singing, cheerful and insightful nature of Daddy. When you dig under the mischievous exterior, you find an intellect and determination that is so captivating and I will miss our discussions greatly. But Daddy Aussie has lived a very fulfilled life and it is time to rest with our Father in heaven. Rest on Daddy.
Tunde Gisanrin (on behalf of The Gisanrin Family)
Tunde Gisanrin (on behalf of The Gisanrin Family)
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
Our condolences to Deji, Kunle and Koya and your families....may the almighty God Jehovah continue to hold your dad in his memories until resurrection. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
Thank you Dr Ayonrinde for your wise words and faith in me. It was an honour to know you for all of these years.
I feel so lucky to have been apart of your amazing life, the people you have touched and the places you have been.
Mum has kept me up to date whilst overseas and even though I cannot be there to honour you and celebrate your life tomorrow, you will be in my thoughts.
Respectfully, Ryan, your friend.
I feel so lucky to have been apart of your amazing life, the people you have touched and the places you have been.
Mum has kept me up to date whilst overseas and even though I cannot be there to honour you and celebrate your life tomorrow, you will be in my thoughts.
Respectfully, Ryan, your friend.
November 23, 2022
November 23, 2022
A great man, father, teacher and Pyschiatrist per excellence. You left your mark in our hearts and my family is so grateful to have met you. Your wonderful children are a testimony to your greatness. The field of psychiatry will miss you. We thank the Lord for ‘loaning’ you to us during your short stay on this side. We are comforted that you are reunited with Mum at the right side of the Lord. Your drum shall continue to beat forever in our hearts.
Good night Dad.
Good night Dad.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Dad , a formidable race you ran .
The past two years felt like a lifetime.
I do not know where to begin . The singer , songwriter requiring a few seconds to put a song together, the conversations of a few minutes that goes on for hours , video calls I loathe to end .
Beat boxing came naturally to you . Ayon drums specifically beaten by the only one who commands the drumstick.
Words of sunrise that mustn’t set, adages spoken in your own way.
Spontaneity was your hallmark , what you see is what you get .
Your smile , you laughed with infective jollity.
The Sun has set to rise again on the other side , united with your most precious jewel, never to part again.
You will be sorely missed , consoled knowing your legacy lives on .
So long Dad .
The past two years felt like a lifetime.
I do not know where to begin . The singer , songwriter requiring a few seconds to put a song together, the conversations of a few minutes that goes on for hours , video calls I loathe to end .
Beat boxing came naturally to you . Ayon drums specifically beaten by the only one who commands the drumstick.
Words of sunrise that mustn’t set, adages spoken in your own way.
Spontaneity was your hallmark , what you see is what you get .
Your smile , you laughed with infective jollity.
The Sun has set to rise again on the other side , united with your most precious jewel, never to part again.
You will be sorely missed , consoled knowing your legacy lives on .
So long Dad .
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
What a privilege it was to know my dear friend Kola. Kola’s humour and joyfulness was evident every time we caught up, even until very recently. He would know me instantly as LITM (“leave it to me”), Kola’s affectionate term for me.
From our first interaction in 1998 we instantly bonded. It was delightful to get to know both Kola and Simbo and assist in the move from Victoria. We always remained friends no matter of distance in time. When we first met, my son Ryan was 7 years old and actively into sport. Kola always had sound words of wisdom, encouragement and reassurance. Ryan and I have such fond memories of Kola and Simbo’s hospitality, particularly the delicious snacks and we were honoured to attend his book launch - Great Quotations for All Achievers (that also included a dedication to Ryan) in 2008. How special that was and a chance to meet the entire Ayonrinde family.
A poem Kola wrote in 2009 for me still rings true, and at 31 years of age, Ryan continues to charm me and our close bond has never wavered:
Mothers
Do they worry over their children?
When things are going well they do
Fearing anything can go wrong.
When things are not going well they do more.
Father and Son know that and manage it well.
Sons only worry about not crossing the line
Even when they go with peers across the seas.
They freely live their life mindful of mum,
But keep tough manly face to keep mum calm.
Dads are a lot easier with ventures.
They’ve been there and done that
And probably say “boys will be boys”.
All three know that without mum’s vigilant worry
Caution is easily thrown overboard.
Trust my man of charm,
He’ll charm her alright.
Just Leave it to Him!
LITM is in his genes, LITH!
Kola (authority on boys!!)
Thanks for the memories Kola – our trip to the beach in 2019 and conversations will remain dear to me.
LITM
From our first interaction in 1998 we instantly bonded. It was delightful to get to know both Kola and Simbo and assist in the move from Victoria. We always remained friends no matter of distance in time. When we first met, my son Ryan was 7 years old and actively into sport. Kola always had sound words of wisdom, encouragement and reassurance. Ryan and I have such fond memories of Kola and Simbo’s hospitality, particularly the delicious snacks and we were honoured to attend his book launch - Great Quotations for All Achievers (that also included a dedication to Ryan) in 2008. How special that was and a chance to meet the entire Ayonrinde family.
A poem Kola wrote in 2009 for me still rings true, and at 31 years of age, Ryan continues to charm me and our close bond has never wavered:
Mothers
Do they worry over their children?
When things are going well they do
Fearing anything can go wrong.
When things are not going well they do more.
Father and Son know that and manage it well.
Sons only worry about not crossing the line
Even when they go with peers across the seas.
They freely live their life mindful of mum,
But keep tough manly face to keep mum calm.
Dads are a lot easier with ventures.
They’ve been there and done that
And probably say “boys will be boys”.
All three know that without mum’s vigilant worry
Caution is easily thrown overboard.
Trust my man of charm,
He’ll charm her alright.
Just Leave it to Him!
LITM is in his genes, LITH!
Kola (authority on boys!!)
Thanks for the memories Kola – our trip to the beach in 2019 and conversations will remain dear to me.
LITM
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Daddy was a gentleman to the core : kind and considerate. He and mummy Ayorinde were a good match and pleasant to be with. I pray God comforts the children and family: may they continue to enjoy their fathers rich legacy and also achieve greater ones in Jesus name. Amen
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
By there fruits we shall know them. With no doubt you were a good man because I have the privilege to know Deji,Kunle,and Koya Ayonrinde who are your biological children, as honest,hard working, intelligent, decent,loving, God fearing children. Of course,you can't give what you don't have. Because you also had these qualities which are rear in human beings,that was why you could nurture your children to emulate your positive characters.My prayer for the family is that your good records would be nothing beside the least best records of your children IJMN .May the Almighty God grant all of us the Grace to bear this great loss IJMN .
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
I pray the good Lord will continue to uphold the entire family and friends in Jesus name. Great testimonies about daddy Ayonrinde. I pray the Lord will help us all so that none will be ashamed at the appearing of the Lord Jesus. The good Lord will preserve all that he left behind in Jesus name.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Daddy, by the grace of God, made up his mind early about his purpose and guiding ethos in life.
He remained led by his ethical compass as enunciated in his college motto (CMS Grammar School Lagos) "Nisi Dominus Frustra"
Daddy always had words of wisdom and would tell his chronicles about getting his fellow students together in India when they were being treated unjustly.
He fiercely believed that every human being has a right to be heard and be included. Fairness and balance were key.
Talking about hitch-hiking in England he explained that if you do not explore how do you really get to know people, understand individuals and their culture.
I was fascinated by his adventures, his writings, his humour, his wisdom.
Daddy could make us laugh whenever we were with him. You made us feel special and we will miss you dearly.
We were lucky to enjoy your passionate engagement on our visits to Perth.
The phone calls were always delightful, so engaging- filled with laughter.
Daddy’s life was a tour of excellence in service of God and mankind.
May the angels take you into perfection as you switch into nature imperishable, in the bossom of Lord
Daddy, now that you have returned to your Maker in heaven we thank the Lord for a life well spent .
May God crown your efforts with a crown triumphant. Amen
We pray that your lovely soul rests in perfect peace.
Amen.
Tope + Charles Iyore
Darenth Kent
England.
He remained led by his ethical compass as enunciated in his college motto (CMS Grammar School Lagos) "Nisi Dominus Frustra"
Daddy always had words of wisdom and would tell his chronicles about getting his fellow students together in India when they were being treated unjustly.
He fiercely believed that every human being has a right to be heard and be included. Fairness and balance were key.
Talking about hitch-hiking in England he explained that if you do not explore how do you really get to know people, understand individuals and their culture.
I was fascinated by his adventures, his writings, his humour, his wisdom.
Daddy could make us laugh whenever we were with him. You made us feel special and we will miss you dearly.
We were lucky to enjoy your passionate engagement on our visits to Perth.
The phone calls were always delightful, so engaging- filled with laughter.
Daddy’s life was a tour of excellence in service of God and mankind.
May the angels take you into perfection as you switch into nature imperishable, in the bossom of Lord
Daddy, now that you have returned to your Maker in heaven we thank the Lord for a life well spent .
May God crown your efforts with a crown triumphant. Amen
We pray that your lovely soul rests in perfect peace.
Amen.
Tope + Charles Iyore
Darenth Kent
England.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
I little knew that God was going to call your name so soon, barely a few years after your wife, my sister Olasimbo, departed this world.
In life you loved me so dearly. I was really close to you in my childhood and even as a young mother, you and your wife would visit to teach me on parenting. You sometimes visit alone with goodies. You took me as your baby sister. I really appreciate all these. You left me with peaceful memories. Your memory is my keepsake with which I will never part. God has you in His keeping and I have you in my heart. You must have met with your wife and son with beautiful smile and cracking your unique jokes.
Adieu sir till we meet to part no more.
In life you loved me so dearly. I was really close to you in my childhood and even as a young mother, you and your wife would visit to teach me on parenting. You sometimes visit alone with goodies. You took me as your baby sister. I really appreciate all these. You left me with peaceful memories. Your memory is my keepsake with which I will never part. God has you in His keeping and I have you in my heart. You must have met with your wife and son with beautiful smile and cracking your unique jokes.
Adieu sir till we meet to part no more.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Uncle was an exemplary gentleman and father. He was very intelligent, kind with a great sense of humor. I have pleasant memories of him especially of my childhood and young adult years. He offered very good advise and direction about life.
I learnt some good values and guiding principles from him. He will be greatly missed. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
I learnt some good values and guiding principles from him. He will be greatly missed. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
We remember meeting you at Kunle and Dupe’s wedding. You were such a genuinely lovely man who we could tell loved his family deeply.
Rest in peace sir.
Jaf and Seye
Rest in peace sir.
Jaf and Seye
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Rest in perfect peace sir. May the Lord continue to uphold, strengthen and comfort your family.
November 22, 2022
November 22, 2022
Uncle will be surely missed. He was a wonderful uncle to me. I especially have fond memories of him in my childhood and young adult years, where I was opportuned to see him more often in Nigeria. I will always remember his words of affirmation, encouragement, jokes and laughter just to make me feel at home and comfortable among the boys (that is, his wonderful sons, my cousins, and my own brothers) being the only girl in the house when we visited their home in Ibadan and Abeokuta.
Uncle was a wonderful dad and husband. His legacy of love, dedication, commitment, hard work, responsibility, and patriotism lives on. I have seen all these attributes in my cousins, and I know it passes on from generation to generation.
Uncle lived well, accomplished a lot, and finished his race. It is time for him to rest in the Lord.
Uncle, rest in the bosom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Till we meet again.
Your niece,
Odessa Olusola Adebayo
Uncle was a wonderful dad and husband. His legacy of love, dedication, commitment, hard work, responsibility, and patriotism lives on. I have seen all these attributes in my cousins, and I know it passes on from generation to generation.
Uncle lived well, accomplished a lot, and finished his race. It is time for him to rest in the Lord.
Uncle, rest in the bosom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Till we meet again.
Your niece,
Odessa Olusola Adebayo
November 21, 2022
November 21, 2022
'To live in the hearts of those you loved and loved you is not to die'.
Eternal rest grant him O Lord. Amen
Eternal rest grant him O Lord. Amen
November 21, 2022
November 21, 2022
I pray that the Holy Spirit comfort your family at this time and always. I never met you but having met three of your four sons you must have been an extraordinary man to have have raised such gentlemen. May your soul rest in perfect peace with our Lord.
November 21, 2022
November 21, 2022
The great Oak trees fallen !
Roots upended,
Blue skies starring down,
Sunlight streaming down as dawn breaks
It’s offspring spread far and wide groan at his passing.
The forest gathers, swaying in celebration of his greatness.
May Almighty God grant Deji , Kunle , Koya and the entire Ayonrinde clan, the wisdom and strength ,to bear his loss .
May “Dads” soul rest in perfect peace . Amen
Roots upended,
Blue skies starring down,
Sunlight streaming down as dawn breaks
It’s offspring spread far and wide groan at his passing.
The forest gathers, swaying in celebration of his greatness.
May Almighty God grant Deji , Kunle , Koya and the entire Ayonrinde clan, the wisdom and strength ,to bear his loss .
May “Dads” soul rest in perfect peace . Amen
November 19, 2022
November 19, 2022
What a wonderful journey through life! What a privilege and honor to have known 'daddy' as my wife and I fondly called him which was a reflection of the towering 'daddy role' that he played in the lives of so many whether they were of Chinese, African, Asian or 'oyinbo' extraction, far beyond his own biological children and immediate family. A towering figure in international psychiatry whose mindset and approach to that subject matter always brought it all down to ensuring that striving to understand and relieve mental distress for your individual patients remains the ultimate goal. It is always sad when a much loved and admired one departs but it is also a time for gratitude to the Almighty for such a unique and exceptional human being. His legacy will continue to inspire and motivate so many whose paths along their own journeys were so massively enriched, personally and professionally. Our condolences to his immediate family but also to his many non-biological 'children' now in different corners of the world. His memory will continue to live on!
November 19, 2022
November 19, 2022
May his soul rest in peace and God grant the family the strength to bear his loss.
November 18, 2022
November 18, 2022
Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them. So we shall fall asleep in Jesus.... Rest In Peace brother Kola.
November 18, 2022
November 18, 2022
The Joondalup Health Campus (JHC) Executive and Medical Advisory Committee extends their heartfelt sympathy to the family and friends of Dr Ayonrinde during this sad time.
As a foundation psychiatrist at the JHC Mental Health Unit working both onsite and in the community between 1998 until his retirement in 2005, Dr Ayonrinde made a significant contribution to the hospital and people living in Perth’s northern suburbs.
He was respected by many and remains well remembered.
A former close colleague who currently works at JHC has advised that he first met Dr Ayonrinde in Ballarat when he was working there before arriving in Perth. He has reported that some of Dr Ayonrinde’s poems remain pinned on the noticeboard.
As a foundation psychiatrist at the JHC Mental Health Unit working both onsite and in the community between 1998 until his retirement in 2005, Dr Ayonrinde made a significant contribution to the hospital and people living in Perth’s northern suburbs.
He was respected by many and remains well remembered.
A former close colleague who currently works at JHC has advised that he first met Dr Ayonrinde in Ballarat when he was working there before arriving in Perth. He has reported that some of Dr Ayonrinde’s poems remain pinned on the noticeboard.
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Dr Akolawole Ayonrinde, the quintessential psychiatrist, respected and respectable Old Grammarian, committed family man, the life, light and soul of social events, the inimitable professional counselor, the straight man with a large heart which had no space for the morally vile, the indecent and anyone attempting to gain ascendancy in life via short cuts. He avoided such inglorious company,but he was always with open hands welcoming to anyone,once he sees integrity in your fiber.
The news of his passage was numbing. Fate made my paths cross his own anonymously in 1978/1979. I never knew him, but he knew my uncle, Emeritus Prof. T. O. Ogunlesi, also an old grammarian as himself. While working as a resident in psychiatry in UCH, Ibadan, I applied for the Ogun state government overseas postgraduate scholarship to enable me proceed to Edinburgh for my membership training in psychiatry. As the then chairman of the Ogun state health board, he approved my scholarship without knowing me personally, without appearing for any interview, and despite my not being in the employment of the Ogun state government. That act then was to me, emblematic of his passion, vision and fervid zeal at growing the profession of psychiatry in Nigeria .
By the time I returned to Nigeria ( Aro) in 1983,he had founded the Ogun state community mental health services and worked virtually solo, without resident doctors or fellow consultants. Despite the discouraging work environment, he was never deterred. In Ogun state service, he never allowed bureaucracy to interfere with his clinical commitments to his patients. Through his public service lectures on mental health, he demystified , destigmatized and popularized the specialty among both health practitioners as well as the public. He was an avid reader and writer. He must have churned out close to ten books on various aspects of mental health by the time of his transition.
While serving with the state government, he also offered his services as a visiting consultant to " Aro", the mecca of Nigerian psychiatry. I served with him as a member of the steering committee of the first National conference on law and psychiatry,held at Aro in April 1985, under the leadership of our then Provost/Medical Director, late Professor B.O.Osuntokun. Dr Ayonrinde's detailed approach, his insight filled contributions , his engaging charm, his wisdom laden counsel as well as his commitment to innovation shone all through.
Many times we met privately, he called me " aburo "( younger brother). Such moments were laden with one piece of advice or the other, that guided me in my professional career till I retired, as well as in my personal life. In the company of his ever smiling late wife, they were great hosts, when visited in their GRA home in Abeokuta. He would always call to mention that he was around, when he visited home from Australia.
What I loved to listen to most times from his lips were his interpretative perspectives to man's actions and inactions, and he did these with unparalleled insight.
He will be sorely missed by his family, friends, mentees and acquaintances.
May the good Lord grant us the grace of comfort at this time as well as the courageous heart to recognize the indelible legacies that he left behind, amen
Dr Ogunlesi was a former Provost / Medical Director at " Aro ".
The news of his passage was numbing. Fate made my paths cross his own anonymously in 1978/1979. I never knew him, but he knew my uncle, Emeritus Prof. T. O. Ogunlesi, also an old grammarian as himself. While working as a resident in psychiatry in UCH, Ibadan, I applied for the Ogun state government overseas postgraduate scholarship to enable me proceed to Edinburgh for my membership training in psychiatry. As the then chairman of the Ogun state health board, he approved my scholarship without knowing me personally, without appearing for any interview, and despite my not being in the employment of the Ogun state government. That act then was to me, emblematic of his passion, vision and fervid zeal at growing the profession of psychiatry in Nigeria .
By the time I returned to Nigeria ( Aro) in 1983,he had founded the Ogun state community mental health services and worked virtually solo, without resident doctors or fellow consultants. Despite the discouraging work environment, he was never deterred. In Ogun state service, he never allowed bureaucracy to interfere with his clinical commitments to his patients. Through his public service lectures on mental health, he demystified , destigmatized and popularized the specialty among both health practitioners as well as the public. He was an avid reader and writer. He must have churned out close to ten books on various aspects of mental health by the time of his transition.
While serving with the state government, he also offered his services as a visiting consultant to " Aro", the mecca of Nigerian psychiatry. I served with him as a member of the steering committee of the first National conference on law and psychiatry,held at Aro in April 1985, under the leadership of our then Provost/Medical Director, late Professor B.O.Osuntokun. Dr Ayonrinde's detailed approach, his insight filled contributions , his engaging charm, his wisdom laden counsel as well as his commitment to innovation shone all through.
Many times we met privately, he called me " aburo "( younger brother). Such moments were laden with one piece of advice or the other, that guided me in my professional career till I retired, as well as in my personal life. In the company of his ever smiling late wife, they were great hosts, when visited in their GRA home in Abeokuta. He would always call to mention that he was around, when he visited home from Australia.
What I loved to listen to most times from his lips were his interpretative perspectives to man's actions and inactions, and he did these with unparalleled insight.
He will be sorely missed by his family, friends, mentees and acquaintances.
May the good Lord grant us the grace of comfort at this time as well as the courageous heart to recognize the indelible legacies that he left behind, amen
Dr Ogunlesi was a former Provost / Medical Director at " Aro ".
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Dear Uncle,
This much I assure you.....You shall forever live in our hearts, we shall keep the fire of love yourself and auntie created burning through generations to come.
I am grateful to God for making our path cross and for a fulfilling life you lived.
Thank you for being our support system, we shared lots of good memories that we shall forever cherish.
Rest easy till meet at the feet of our Almighty God.
With love,
Foluke Abodunrin (on behalf of the Opelami girls)
This much I assure you.....You shall forever live in our hearts, we shall keep the fire of love yourself and auntie created burning through generations to come.
I am grateful to God for making our path cross and for a fulfilling life you lived.
Thank you for being our support system, we shared lots of good memories that we shall forever cherish.
Rest easy till meet at the feet of our Almighty God.
With love,
Foluke Abodunrin (on behalf of the Opelami girls)
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Uncle was an adorable gentleman.He was intelligent, fun-loving, articulate in both the English and Yoruba languages, witty, a ROMANTIC, faithful and loyal to his darling wife to the very end. I wish I could catch a glimpse of heaven and watch them reunite (if only that were possible). I honestly wish that the young men would write a story about his love life, as it has always enthused me.
I commiserate with Deji and the twins. I hope you realise just how blessed you were to have had parents like Uncle and Aunty.
May his witty and loving soul rest in eternal peace
I commiserate with Deji and the twins. I hope you realise just how blessed you were to have had parents like Uncle and Aunty.
May his witty and loving soul rest in eternal peace
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Dear Uncle,
Your light shined so bright and it was a great privilege to have your influence in my life. Each time I think of you a smile comes to my face because of the great memories.
Your jokes, your humor, your kindness, your encouragement can not be replaced and you will truly be missed.
Your accomplishments inspire and encourage me to continue to thrive do be better.
Thank you for being a great example and inspiration.
I love you and will truly miss you.
Your light shined so bright and it was a great privilege to have your influence in my life. Each time I think of you a smile comes to my face because of the great memories.
Your jokes, your humor, your kindness, your encouragement can not be replaced and you will truly be missed.
Your accomplishments inspire and encourage me to continue to thrive do be better.
Thank you for being a great example and inspiration.
I love you and will truly miss you.
November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
Thank you Dr Kola Ayonrinde for always making me welcome in your home, when I would come to play with my primary school friend, your son Deji. Thanks for the friendship offerred to my parents David and Gwen during this time, they both had many cherished memories of this time.
Thanks for raising your children to be such wonderful people, you were truely a remarkable father.
Thanks for raising your children to be such wonderful people, you were truely a remarkable father.
November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
Dear Daddy
It's indeed been an honour and my greatest privilege to have known you, talked with you, listened to you, laughed with you, been ever so gently chided by you, and always, ALWAYS! welcomed in with open arms by your family.
Thank you for being the Grandpa my Son got to know and whose grandfatherly presence and influence he always enjoyed.
My only joy at this time is that you are finally reunited with Mummy (Grandma), the love ❤ of your life.
Know that you live eternal in the hearts and memories of many!
Go with God and Rest eternally in Peace!
Ijeoma
It's indeed been an honour and my greatest privilege to have known you, talked with you, listened to you, laughed with you, been ever so gently chided by you, and always, ALWAYS! welcomed in with open arms by your family.
Thank you for being the Grandpa my Son got to know and whose grandfatherly presence and influence he always enjoyed.
My only joy at this time is that you are finally reunited with Mummy (Grandma), the love ❤ of your life.
Know that you live eternal in the hearts and memories of many!
Go with God and Rest eternally in Peace!
Ijeoma
November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of dearest Dr Kola Ayonrinde. A great friend and dear colleague from our Ballarat days we shared many happy times together with our families. A compassionate, hard working and big hearted friend his memory will love on with those whose hearts he touched. Sending our love and strength to all the family at this difficult time. We pray God blesses eternal peace to the departed soul. With lots of love and blessings, Hari, Shanta and all the Chopra family.
November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
On behalf of Yoruba Society of Western Australia (WA), I express our (gbogbo omo Oodua) heartfelt condolences to the family. For the Yoruba Community in WA, Baba was a loving father, mentor and a pacesetter. As one of the oldest migrated Nigerians in Australia, you cleared the path for many generations of Nigerians to follow in making Australia a home. Your life was worthy of emulation and your accomplishments we are proud of. I pray that the good Lord will comfort the family and surround them with His presence.
Baba wa, Oluko wa sun re o
Dr Adenola Adeleye
President, Yoruba Society of WA
Baba wa, Oluko wa sun re o
Dr Adenola Adeleye
President, Yoruba Society of WA
November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
Dr. Kola Ayonrinde was one of the founding fathers of modern-day psychiatry in Nigeria and globally. His psychiatry career would be difficult to replicate. No wonder his oldest child son Deji (my twin brother) is also a trail-blazer in global psychiatry
Papa lived an exemplary life that we all emulate. He was an all-rounder in life, he was able to balance his excellent professional career with his family life. His children are all successful in their chosen field and just like papa, in medicine in particular. My few encounters with papa by phone recently while Deji was with him in Australia was memorable. He spoke with me for hours as if we were long lost friends!! He was witty and bubbly
Papa has lived a very good & productive life and he showed us how to live one. He has joined his lovely wife who passed away few years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family especially his wonderful children and grandchildren who will continue with his legacy. He will surely be missed in Nigeria and globally. Papa, thank you for your immense contributions to the world.
May your gentle & caring soul rest in perfect peace. Good night !!
Dr. Thomas & Dr. (Mrs) Latifat Osinowo (Ohio, USA)
Papa lived an exemplary life that we all emulate. He was an all-rounder in life, he was able to balance his excellent professional career with his family life. His children are all successful in their chosen field and just like papa, in medicine in particular. My few encounters with papa by phone recently while Deji was with him in Australia was memorable. He spoke with me for hours as if we were long lost friends!! He was witty and bubbly
Papa has lived a very good & productive life and he showed us how to live one. He has joined his lovely wife who passed away few years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family especially his wonderful children and grandchildren who will continue with his legacy. He will surely be missed in Nigeria and globally. Papa, thank you for your immense contributions to the world.
May your gentle & caring soul rest in perfect peace. Good night !!
Dr. Thomas & Dr. (Mrs) Latifat Osinowo (Ohio, USA)
November 15, 2022
November 15, 2022
Kindly accept my sincere condolences . I was privileged and blessed to meet both him and mama in 2016 in Abeokuta, alongside my late grandma (his sister), my mum (Titi), my late younger brother, my husband and kids, and I must confess it was a sweet-memorable union. The kids had so much fun, the warmth reception and show of love was amazing. From the few hours we spent in his company, I could sense the strong bond, affection and love he had for family (something my mum spoke so fondly of). I only wished we had met earlier... however, I will forever cherish those precious moments and memories.
Adieu Grand Uncle, my love and kisses to Mama (s) (your wife & sister).
Amina Motunrayo Hassan-Biu (Titi's daughter)
Adieu Grand Uncle, my love and kisses to Mama (s) (your wife & sister).
Amina Motunrayo Hassan-Biu (Titi's daughter)
November 15, 2022
November 15, 2022
A wonderful smile, a hearty laugh and loving eyes. I remember "Uncle" (the Indian term for parent friend) as a fun prankster, always cheeky and cheerful. He and Aunty were a perfect couple and made their home a home for all. He will be missed as Aunty still is and we all wish them well on this new journey. To all the family our condolences, love and prayers.
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May the soul of this great man continue to rest in peace.
November 8, 2023
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Many happy returns of the day broda mi, the angels are celebrating with you
November 8, 2023
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Continue to rest in peace, broda mi.
The whole family missed you.
The children and grands are doing fine to the glory of God Almighty
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November 24, 2022
Indeed the drum has gone silent! Uncle was a man of virtue. He was a man of principle. His counsel and advise helped to shape me as i grew up and make wise decisions. Though firm, he was also jovial, friendly and approachable. Always had a joke to diffuse a tense situation.
I pray God would grant him eternal rest. Amen.
November 22, 2022
Dr. Ayonrinde
Words alone cannot fully express my heartfelt sorrow when I received the phone call that my mentor, someone I looked up to and the head of the family is now gone to be with the Lord. I was in shock throughout the day. I reached out to other family members to convey the heartbreaking news.
I thank God Almighty for giving me the blessings of knowing him from birth. In many ways, he greatly influenced my life--my educational pursuits, my adult life, and my marriage. Our frequent conversations over the years inspired me because we could talk about almost any thing, almost any subject. If my memory serves me well, the only subject we couldn't bear to talk about was the sudden death of Brother Niyi Sholola who passed at the young age of 27. I tried not to bring his name up because of the pain we both shared. Anyway, my Aunt "Mama Deji" was always on my side whenever we spoke in the phone. My conversations with both of them were important to me and remain in my heart as memorable treasures. After her death, I was left to defend myself. My big brother/uncle was full of life. He would rather talk to my wife than talk to me. We both have something in common: jealousy. I spent alot of time talking to my Auntie, and he spent alot of time talking to my wife; he told her how much I'm blessed to have met and married her. I'm certainly going to miss you and the world will miss you too.
THE DIE IS CAST WE HAVE LOST A GEM & THE BEAT GOES ON
November 22, 2022
Hmmmmm
Brother mi you actually knew it won't be too long again and as an advance planner that you were, you gathered all your siblings to make up for the lost times of which our father believed so much in UNITY AND TOGETHERNESS .
MAY YOUR GENTLE SOUL CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE
Brother mi you actually knew it won't be too long again and as an advance planner that you were, you gathered all your siblings to make up for the lost times of which our father believed so much in UNITY AND TOGETHERNESS .
MAY YOUR GENTLE SOUL CONTINUE TO REST IN PEACE