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​For Kurt Othberg

May 18, 2019

A Poem by Michael Kiefel

“Always the captain,”

         his true love Susan and his best friend Loudon said of Kurt

             on managing the sailboat,

not because Kurt demanded the role,

        but because his commanding knowledge

of how to angle each sail to catch the wind

how to veer the craft was clear to all of them---

the wind and sea had met their match.

All that he undertook involved his quiet moves toward excellence,

      even and especially his hummus

which was in itself such smooth sailing

                  of garlic and lemon juice     spices and garbanzos,

     who wouldn’t want to climb aboard this pleasure cruise,

          go back for more     no real hunger just mindless indulgence.

(How could Kurt, the rational scientist, create what could make you cray-cray?)

His garage would meet the Curtis Phillips Standard of Neatness:

         not a spot of oil on the floor, not a socket wrench out of place,

   however many hours Kurt spent fixing a valve or fine-tuning the timing,

             just the way he’d check every jib as carefully as he would the mainsail on the mast.

When Kurt and Susan hosted an event, Kurt cheerfully navigated around the tables,

          collecting empty bottles and finished plates,

                and if folks were still dining, he’d ask if they needed a refill.

He’d lean back, tall and thin, smiling at the lively chatter and laughter,

      happy to make sure everyone was taken care of.

Kurt would not be afraid of going down with the ship, but his leaving seems very much instead

       a matter of checking the waters ahead, so that our hopes remain buoyant,

               until we find our own mooring berth in the harbor.   

---Michael Kiefel    

W. H. Auden "Funeral Blues"

March 13, 2019

Kurt and I watched Four Weddings and a Funeral several times over the years. Every time we both wept at the recitation of this poem.

Funeral Blues

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message 'He is Dead'.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Eulogy for a book lover: Titles loved and cherished by a late companion

February 19, 2019

From the Moscow-Pullman Daily News

By Chris Sokol   |   Feb 16, 2019 Updated Feb 17, 2019

Eulogy for a book lover: Titles loved and cherished by a late companion

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Last weekend, a dear family friend passed away unexpectedly. Kurt had been a geologist for the Idaho Geological Survey and loved science. In his leisure time, he devoured books, scientific journals and audiobooks. We used to exchange reading recommendations. In tribute to Kurt and his wide-ranging, infectious curiosity about the world, I’d like to share with you some of his favorite books that I know about. Maybe his reading legacy will live on by sparking your own interest.

An avid birder and nature enthusiast along with his wife, Susan, Kurt was captivated by “The Genius of Birds” by Jennifer Ackerman. Before they moved from Moscow to Walla Walla, they enjoyed honing their bird identification skills with the library CDs “Bird Songs of the Pacific States” by Tomas Sander, “Western Bird Songs” by the Cornell Laboratory of Ornithology and “Birdsongs of the Pacific Northwest” by Martyn Stewart. Kurt clued me in to the excellent book, “Chrysalis: Maria Sibylla Merian and the Secrets of Metamorphosis” by Kim Todd. After moving to Walla Walla, that city’s public library became a favorite haunt of his.

Kurt grew up on the Puget Sound. His early career, after serving in the Navy during the Vietnam War, was spent working as a geologist for the Washington Department of Natural Resources. Somewhere along the line, Kurt developed excellent sailing skills. A couple of times, he and Susan leased a sailboat along with our family for a glorious week spent winding through the San Juan Islands. Not surprisingly, Kurt enjoyed fiction and nonfiction related to sailing and the open sea. But his reading interests ranged far and wide.


When I was selecting books for our library system as the adult services librarian, I would often tell Kurt about books I thought he might like. He was so pleased to learn about the nonfiction World War II book “Heart of Oak” by Tristan Jones, “Sailing Alone Around the World” by Joshua Slocum and the “Richard Bolitho” naval history fiction series by Alexander Kent. Kurt, in turn, told me about former Moscow resident Gregory Newell Smith’s collection of memoir essays, “The Solitude of the Open Sea,” so I bought it for the library. A couple of years ago, the Rocky Mountain Section of the Geological Society of America held its annual meeting in Moscow. I tried in vain to order a field trip guide published for the conference, “Exploring the Geology of the Inland Northwest” (edited by Reed S. Lewis and Keegan L. Schmidt). Kurt volunteered to get a copy (thanks to his GSA membership) and it is now part of the library’s circulating collection.

Kurt was a longtime friend of and colleague at the Idaho Geological Survey with my husband, Loudon — both great fans of Patrick O’Brian’s “Jack Aubrey-Stephen Maturin” series of nautical historical novels set during the Napoleonic Wars, especially the downloadable audiobooks narrated by Simon Vance. Each listened to the whole series; later, one of them would pick up listening to the series yet another time, tell the other, and they’d be sharing the adventures all over again.

I asked Loudon to recall a few of the other books he and Kurt had enjoyed and discussed. Herman Wouk was a favorite author, with “The Caine Mutiny,” “The Winds of War” and its sequel, “War and Remembrance.” Kurt loved the Soviet-era classic novel “Dr. Zhivago” by Boris Pasternak; Loudon couldn’t get into the book. It took some time for Loudon to convince Kurt to listen to the “Horatio Hornblower” audiobook series by C.S. Forester, but he finally came around to enjoying them. Not long ago, Kurt had recommended “Jack London: An American Life” by Earle Labor, and now it’s on Loudon’s list. Other beloved books they shared include “The Vikings: A History” by Robert Ferguson, “Das Boot” by Lothar-Günther Buchheim, “The Endurance: Shackleton’s Legendary Antarctic Expedition” by Caroline Alexander, and the classic three-volume biography of Winston Churchill, “The Last Lion” by William Manchester.


With Kurt as my inspiration, I’ve placed a Valnet catalog hold on the new book “Timefulness: How Thinking Like a Geologist Can Help Save the World” by geology professor Marcia Bjornerud. I’ll miss exchanging book recommendations with him, but I treasure what he was able to pass along to us. I hope this incomplete depiction of Kurt’s rich reading life may stir someone to pick up a book and read.


Chris Sokol is director of the Latah County Library District.

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