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Time at the green cottage

October 18, 2021
  1. I have many good memories of time at the green cottage: cooking lobster from the pound, painting parts of it in my inside out pyjamas, Watching a local old man digging clams, watching Mark swim naked toward the seals and hoping they didn’t bite anything off, enjoying Rory’s bedroom  ceiling hanging, trying to get a tent down in a horrendous wind that was making the attic entrance cover go up and down, scaring the heck out of little Hannah!  It was such a peaceful place.  I am so grateful Lawrence and Paulette gave us an opportunity to enjoy it.

Check Out the Videos in the Gallery

October 24, 2020
There is an assortment of videos in the Gallery section. They are all pretty short and entertaining mostly.
  1.  The Infamous "Grandpa Dance" video. Everyone takes a stab at it!  Dad shows us how it's done at the very end. (3 minutes).
  2. Dad fishing off the stern of the houseboat, Big Rideau Lake. (42 secs)
  3.  Dad's new cat Sammy, just hanging out on his foot. (20 secs)
  4. Rideau Canal lock transit, trip to Portland with the Iron Lady, 2017. (53 secs)
  5. Beach View, the Old Green Cottage, PEI, near Dad's hometown of Georgetown. (20 secs)
  6. Rory taking Dad out on his salvaged old boat. Just offshore from the old family campsite at Pickerel Park, Hay Bay, Ontario. (1 min 30 ses)
  7. Washing TeeWye the dog, with granddaughter Sarah. (2 mins 20 secs)

A shelf for Sarah

October 23, 2020
Had a pleasant surprise when I went to take a picture of Dad's signature on the back of a pine shelf that he made.  The shelf is one of many items that he made from the wood that was cut from their property before they build their home.  I remember that Dad put the shelf up for me in Sarah's bedroom when she was just a baby.  When I turned the shelf around I found the inscription "To Sarah   Grandpa 4/2/99".  

Had a dream about you this morning . . .

October 21, 2020
    
     Had a dream about you this morning . . .  You were sitting peacefully, by yourself, at my house, I walked into the room. Your presence took me totally by surprise, as I knew right away I must be dreaming . . . because you had just passed last week! But it was comforting too, at the same time.
    One of the short videos in the VIDEOS section reminds me of the exact energy of that dream. In the video, I am coming around the side walkway of the houseboat taking in the lake's beauty.  There you were! . . . peacefully fishing - and we shared the moment together, then you pulled in something on your rod.
                                                . . . your commentary is priceless.
                                                                           RIP Dad.

My dad's garage

October 23, 2020
My Dad loved his garage. Everyday when I drove home from work I passed by Mom and Dad's house and always slowed down a bit to see if Dad was sitting out. I'd honk and wave and he would automatically lift his arm even though he did not know it was me. If the garage door was open it was a 'Welcome' sign to all to pop in for a quick visit with Dad. We all did it - didn't have to take off your shoes - just sit on a dusty stool and say Hi to Dad and share what was going on in your day. His little fridge was always stocked - a Blue for me and a half can of ginger ale and some Hickory Sticks for AJ. Dad, Grandpa, or Lawrence (however you knew him) was a great listener. We shared our challenges and he had advice but he didn't judge because he had lived through his own struggles. The garage was where he was most relaxed. He created projects in that garage and taught his grandkids, son-in-laws and children so much about taking pride in what you do. The projects were an opportunity to create something special, and more importantly, spend quality time with a man of few words. His garage is full of tools - 'Just make sure to put it back where you found it' he'd say rather sternly. We all did what he asked. Dad was fun too. He'd say 'Ryan/Sarah/Clay - Open the back window and get the pellet gun - let's see who can hit the bucket'. Over the past weekend we found ourselves gathered in the garage looking around at all his stuff: the haphazard marks on the back of the swinging door showing how much all the grandkids have grown over the last 20 years; the map on the wall that shows the route from Bath, ON to Georgetown, PEI; the boards in the rafters (the last of the wood he cut from the property); pictures of the Iron Lady; and his tools. We all love the Garage and will miss you tons Dad XXOO

The Daily Walk Across the Street . . . and the story of the new garage door.

October 22, 2020
Shared on the behalf of:  Errol and Mary-Jane
     We are going to miss Lawrence a lot - especially Errol.  They have been walking back and forth across the street almost daily (when possible) for many, many years.  They always had questions to ask or help to request or a tool to borrow.  Although it happened less frequently in the last while, Errol always looked forward to seeing him out sitting in front of the garage - it was always his cue to go and "shoot the shit" with him!  It will be a big void in his life not having him easily accessible when he needed him or just wanted a break.   
    Turns out it was Dawn trying to get hold of us last night.  She wanted to tell Errol that he left the garage door open.  I told her Lawrence would have gotten a kick out of that because Errol just finished putting new board and batten on the garage and we stained it yellow to match the house.  I had to do some convincing to get him to agree to replace the garage door too but he finally caved.  When he told Lawrence his response was - "why the hell would you do that - that garage door hasn't been down in all the years I've known you!"  Errol definitely tried to use that to his advantage but I persevered!  ; )     
    We had a quick look at your memorial site - it is a wonderful tribute to Lawrence and I'm sure it will continue to grow.  The bench is a good idea and a good project to work on when it is possible to get together again.

          Thinking of you All.  We are so sorry for your loss.
                                                             Errol and Mary-Jane
October 22, 2020
We are so sorry for the loss of Lawrence.
We love you.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Love,
Rene, Pat and Family

Dear Lawrence

October 19, 2020
Hi Lawrence
  It has been a year since I saw you last.  It was wonderful to see you even though it was under sad circumstances saying goodbye to my dad.  It meant the world to us and dad when you and Rory paid him a visit shortly before he passed. 
 I can't believe a year later on this same weekend, you have left the earth and your family is  grieving you.  
  Myself and my family share that grief as well.  So many childhood memories are flooding back.  You were always larger than life to us growing up, a big man with a big voice and an even bigger laugh.  I will cherish the childhood we had with you and your family always...from a small community townhouse complex in Amherstview to your amazing property in Bath...The skidoo rides...when you and dad weren't under the hoods of them fixing something or other, BBQ's, family dinners, late nights watching movies, us kids playing games...listening to you all playing cards.  Usually Euchre but I think you and dad had a few Cribbage nights too.  
Thank you so much for those memories, they are very much a part of the fabric of who I am.  All of my love to you and Paulette and Rory, Debbie, Dawn and Tara and everyone who loves and misses you.  I hope you and dad are sharing some good stories out there somewhere.  Sleep Sweet Lawrence 

Love Jacquie
October 19, 2020
We lost a great champion this weekend: - Sarah O'Neill 
Lawrence Sylvester Batchilder was a real character. For anyone that knew him, you’d know he was a old school, honest, hard working, sensitive soul.
My brother and I spent a lot of time with him and my nana when we were younger. Before and after school, all through elementary, we were there. Grandpa would be showing me how to bevel an edge in the garage, or we’d be playing a game of crib (or he’d be yelling the plays I SHOULD be playing from behind my shoulder, when I was playing with nana). It didn’t really matter what it was, my brother and I were always thoroughly entertained. Not only that, he pushed us. He knew we were fully capable, and he helped us work on our skills without making it feel like we were learning something. Him and my Nana believed in, and taught us, tangible skills, hard work, and honesty.
In the last few years, my grandpa had a lot of health problems. I have never seen anyone so resilient and determined. He went through chemo, surgery, triple bypass, total kidney failure, amputation (twice), just to name the big ones. He quit smoking cold turkey, he got a special gas pedal so he could drive with his prosthetic, he continued to participate in family gatherings, pulling up right in the yard in his caddy. He became gentler, and more eager to express his feelings. He always had the most concise, thoughtful, and tear jerking toasts. He had just bought a brand new car. Self doubt was not an option for him. He lived his life, fully, until the very last second. And I love him for it. And I’m so very proud to be his grand daughter.
October 20, 2020

Paulette and Family
Holding you close in our hearts. 
We all have so many wonderful memories of Lawrence,
he was one-of-a-kind. 

All Our Love and condolences,
Margie, Larry, Lisa & Nick
October 19, 2020
                                                          Remembering Lawrence
our high spirited, fun loving, kind hearted friend who's bright smile & super attitude played a big part in many wonderful memories our family share. He loved his family & friends & we all  thought our gang was pretty special because just being together always brought much laughter & good times.  Snowmobiling, sitting around the campfire, dances & parties ...  
... trying to understand what Lawrence was saying after a few drinks.   To you my friend 
                                                                Rest in Peace

Much love to all the family  
                           

To the whole Batchilder Family

October 21, 2020
One of my memories of Lawrence is of his strong commitment to his profession and to helping others.  It was an early morning October, pouring rain, the sump pump wasn’t working and my basement was flooding.  I called Lawrence, who else would I call?  He was at my house inminutes.

Lawrence was outside for quite a while in the teaming rain, wading through the mud to find the sump pump hose.  He fixed the problem.  I’ll never forget his dedication and kindness.

I hope all your fond and fun memories help to ease your sorrow.
Sandra

October 19, 2020
Condolences to the entire Family
 I hope your sorrows are short and your memories long.
I remember hanging at the  Batchilders’ place on the Bath hill with Rory when we were ten or so.  Lawrence was fixing the TV in the basement laying behind it and yelling for Rory.  When we got there he had no problems telling us how disappointed he was that it took us so long to get there and.... the consequences that Rory may encounter if he didn't pay attention to his needs, sort of... He needed a screw driver. So we promptly went to get him one. Of course we forgot what we were sent to do once we hit the garage. After about an hour of playing in and around the garage completely forgetting why we were there, Rory stood up white as a ghost and remembered we forgot to get the screw driver. He decided to own up to the punishment and went downstairs with the screwdriver totally expecting the worst outcome.  Im hiding on the stairs as any good friend would do. Next thing I know Rory is running by me smiling and telling me to run as fast as I canto the pond in the back. Turns out Lawrence was fast asleep behind the TV. Rory dropped the screwdriver next to his hand and we vamoosed .  We got lucky.

God bless you Lawrence .
October 20, 2020

Wishing You and
     your family love,
        comfort and Peace!

         Hugs from
  Kevin, Terry & Family

Back deck BBQ

October 19, 2020
There was a neighborhood BBQ hosted by Batchilders one summer afternoon. Everyone brought something to eat and I tucked right in, probably went back for seconds.  I was enjoying the food until Lawrence said I remindehim of a gannet, always eating!
October 23, 2020
Kimberly and andrew
Dear Paulette and family
We are so sorry to hear of Lawrence’s passing.
You wrote a lovely obituary of him
Andrew knew him from the union before his retirement. I knew him through you Paulette at our weekly art get togethers
He was a very strong and determined man with facing his health issues. Proud of him as you are .
Sending huge hugs to you all and please if anything we can do let us know
October 20, 2020

                               Flowers from: From UA Union 401
                                                  (Formerly UA Local 221)
October 23, 2020
Susan Swackhammer
Dear Paulette and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Lawrence's passing. My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
October 20, 2020

Aunty Paulette and Family,

    We are so sorry,
          thinking of you.
              Lots of love.
                    Jody & Brad
October 23, 2020
Bonnie and Jim Bedford
Dear Paulette, Tara and Family,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you and your heart ache.
October 20, 2020
Dan and Kathy Sager

We are extremely saddened to hear of Lawrence's passing. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.  Lawrence was a great guy and will be sorely missed.  
                                                Dan and Kathie Sager
October 23, 2020
Ted&Carolyn; Burgess
Dear Debbie. We were very saddened to hear of your Dads passing. While we know that words are only a small gesture, just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
October 23, 2020
Angela Patterson
Thoughts are with the entire Batchilder family as you navigate through this incredibly tough time. May you find strength in each other. On behalf of the Pattersons (Tony, Angela, Amyka and Linda)
October 23, 2020
Peter and Helen Sullivan
When we moved to Canada from the UK in December of 2000 we purchased the house at 354 Church Street. We loved the house. It is very sad to lose your life to a road traffic accident and our deepest condolences go out to his family.
October 23, 2020
Sandra (Mulders) and David Scouten
Paulette and Family,
Our sincere condolences, such a tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
October 23, 2020
Bonnie and Jim Bedford
Dear Paulette, Tara and Family,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you and your heart ache.
October 23, 2020
Sue ,James and Riley Rochon
Paulette,Rory,Deb,Dawn and Tara ,our sincere condolences on the loss of a wonderful man. You're in our thoughts and hugs to you all
October 23, 2020
John Telford
I am so sorry to hear of this tragic accident Lawrence and I were co workers at Local 221 Lawrence was great Tradesman hard worker good foreman I always enjoyed our discussions regardless of where we stood on issues it has been many years but I can still hear his down east laugh Rest In Peace my Brother
October 23, 2020
So sorry to hear of your families profound loss. We have memories of family times with Lawrence’s robust laugh enjoying his young grandchildren. Our most memorable family trip was sharing your Uncle Paul’s cottage and land on Prince Edward Island. We will keep you all in our thoughts.
  Greg and Deb Flood                
October 19, 2020
I would like to invite friends and family to share memories of Lawrence.  I just read all of Roy's posts it reminded me of such sweet memories!  I am sure many of you have photos and stories that would bring comfort to our family.
Thank you to everyone who have reached out by phone and in person.  

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