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This memorial website was created in memory of our mom, Mabel Chin, 87 years old, born in 1936, and passed away on November 3, 2023. We have set up this website to share stories and memories about her with her friends and family. Instead of flowers, we would appreciate people sharing their memories and photos of Mabel here.  We will remember her forever.  She has reunited with her partner of 60 years.
To view the slideshow and speeches from her Celebration of life, please visit the Gallery Videos.

Gordon's Memorial page: https://www.forevermissed.com/gordon-p-chin/about
February 13
February 13
Typical Deby - 3 days late on the New year. Also typically CHIN family - your kids are all celebrating next Saturday. Gong Hay Fat Choi Mom!
Deby
December 4, 2023
December 4, 2023
Mabel,

We lost Gordon last year. Your passing so soon was such a shock. You and Gordon were together for 60 years. You two shared many adventures and trips together. You were a great couple and a great team. And you two will be a great team together again. Gordon is waiting for you. We will miss you terribly. You and Gordon are together again. The two of you will always be remembered and never forgotten, in our hearts and memories.

Bill and Mamie
December 3, 2023
December 3, 2023
You are loved and will be missed Auntie Mabel. Spending time with you was always a highlight at family get-togethers. You had a great curiosity and love of life - I always enjoyed getting your take on everything from Tai Chi, to world travel, to family stories from the old days.
November 27, 2023
November 27, 2023
I am very honored that I was accepted as a son-in-law by Mrs Mabel Chin. She was tolerant of me when I was at my worst for the sake of her beloved daughter, Deby. She won me over with her patience and kindness , and influenced me to become a better person. Whenever we visited me made sure that I had good coffee and was made comfortable. I feel like she welcomed me into the family and I grew to love and respect her so very much. She was a fantastic mother, grandmother and mother-in-law. She truly was, and in memory, still is a wonderful person. 
November 26, 2023
November 26, 2023
Mabel was an inspiration to me as a young woman. She taught Chinese cooking classes through 4-H; more importantly, her home was our home away from home. Our families were close and she both comforted and inspired me. I learned so many lessons during those years. She helped me grow into a responsible adult. Thank you!
November 21, 2023
November 21, 2023
I have known Mabel for nine years, since joining the Cascade senior center. She taught me so much about tai- chi and patience. Mabel was an amazing lady and she has greatly influenced the rest of my life. She and Gordon are together and are at peace.
Joan
November 20, 2023
November 20, 2023
Mabel, you have always been the second mother to Hank and me. We always appreciated you taking care of us in our younger years before you moved away shortly after Deby was born. Raising twins is always a difficult task.  We can always distinguish who is who in the baby pictures because you were the one to always carry me. 
I already miss our two and sometimes three weekly conversations. I am so grateful to have travelled with you at least annually in the past 20 years. I will see you again someday.
RIP Dear Sis
Harry
November 17, 2023
November 17, 2023
Mom, I will miss you so very much. I wasn't ready for you to leave us, but I know you are with Dad now and traveling new adventures. I hope that I will be as strong as you in the coming years. I miss the little things, like our morning texts, and the big things like helping plan the big family vacations. I'm going to miss talking to you about the trials and tribulations of daily life. I know you are watching over us, keeping us in line in your own special way. Love Deby

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February 13
February 13
Typical Deby - 3 days late on the New year. Also typically CHIN family - your kids are all celebrating next Saturday. Gong Hay Fat Choi Mom!
Deby
December 4, 2023
December 4, 2023
Mabel,

We lost Gordon last year. Your passing so soon was such a shock. You and Gordon were together for 60 years. You two shared many adventures and trips together. You were a great couple and a great team. And you two will be a great team together again. Gordon is waiting for you. We will miss you terribly. You and Gordon are together again. The two of you will always be remembered and never forgotten, in our hearts and memories.

Bill and Mamie
December 3, 2023
December 3, 2023
You are loved and will be missed Auntie Mabel. Spending time with you was always a highlight at family get-togethers. You had a great curiosity and love of life - I always enjoyed getting your take on everything from Tai Chi, to world travel, to family stories from the old days.
Her Life

Looking Back ... It's been a Great Ride

November 14, 2023
Mabel, age 87, passed away suddenly after teaching one final Tai Chi class on Friday, November 3, 2023.

Mabel spent the first decade of her life in China before leaving her beloved grandparents and immigrating with her mother to the United States through Angel Island to  join her father in Seattle, Washington.  A few years after coming to the United States, her twin brothers were born.  Mabel was very close to her brothers from the day they were born until the day she died. As a teenager, she worked as a waitress and had fond memories of bringing home free records from the juke box.  She met her husband of 60 years, Gordon, at the University of Washington and "let him catch her".  She graduated and worked at a local hospital as a nutritionist.  Gordon and Mabel later travelled east with the Army and built a life in the Washington D.C. area. They loved to jitterbug and did everything together as a couple.

A loving wife and mother, Mabel kept their home warm and comforting and raised 3 children, Debra, Monica and Bryan.  She was active as a 4H leader, teaching skills such as cooking, sewing, crocheting, gift wrapping, cake decorating, and bowling to the suburban 4H club members after school.  She took her leadership role seriously, organizing field trips, guest speakers, parties, and many other activities as she helped shape the minds of the next generation.  In addition to kid centered activities, she also taught Chinese cooking at the local community college.  Later, Mabel and Gordon joined a racquetball club where they made life long friends and played in many tournaments.  As her children grew up and went to college, Mabel started working for the Center of Foreign Journalists where she got to travel to Italy and Russia!

Upon turning 50, Mabel became a grandmother for the first time and welcomed a new generation into the Chin clan.  She had a total of 7 grandchildren with ages spanning 20 years.  The family celebrated milestones, took many vacations, and went to reunions with their expanding family.  Their first "big" family vacation with all of their kids and grandkids was in 2004 when they went to Walt Disney World.  Later, big family vacations became an annual event.  In addition to traveling around the continental U.S., Mabel and Gordon took their family all over the world to places like Alaska, Puerto Rico, Hawaii, France, Norway, Spain, Italy, Mexico, Ireland, Aruba, and China. 

After retirement, Mabel enjoyed taking and teaching classes at the Cascades and Ashburn Senior Centers.  She was a devoted Tai Chi instructor spending a significant amount of time practicing new routines to teach the class.  She made many friends at the Senior Centers who comforted and helped her after Gordon died of cancer a little over a year ago.  She was very grateful to her friends who went to lunch with her, took her shopping, played Mahjong or just called her to talk after Gordon died. She said many times that her life would have been sad if she did not have such good friends.

She is survived by her children, Deby (D.H.), Monica (Kevin) and Bryan (Marianne). She has 6 grandchildren, Michelle, Adam, Brianna, Tyler, Connor and Christopher.  She is preceded in death by her husband Gordon and grandson Ryan.  She is also survived by 2 brothers, Henry and Harry (Susan) along with 4 brothers-in-law, Bill (Mamie), Stephen (Janet), Kenneth (Janet) and Phil (B.J.) and numerous nieces, nephews, grand-nieces and grand nephews.  

After losing her husband of 60 years, Mabel has now joined his spirit and they are once again having new adventures together (and probably dancing the jitterbug).
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greatly missed

February 21
Sometimes the urgency of life’s affairs get in the way of doing what is important. Time goes by so fast. You blink an eye and 10 years have gone by. Blink again and 20 years have gone by. Fortunately, Mabel with her outgoing expressive personality enjoyed the moments of her life. How she felt at any certain time was clearly reflected in her actions/screams or this look on her face famously expressed as she playfully slapped you for playing a prank on her. It came as no surprise when she participated in the Red Hat group of ladies. She was willing to try a lot of things including zip lining in her 80’s.

Memories built up over 7 decades ae immense. Some friends have shared with me how envious they were because to them it was unusual for siblings with such a big age gap to be so close but we were. She took my brother and I to movies when she was a teenager but her life was so busy that she did not wait for the start of the movie. In the old days, movies were repeatedly run non stop. We would show up in the middle of the movie, watch to the end and stayed to watch the start of the movie until it reached to where we first came in. Her favorite movies were ones with lots of  Doris Day and Debbie Reynolds singing. However, she also liked the Hercules movies appreciatively enjoying immensely the topless musclemen. Then there was her enchantment with the Lone Ranger until he took off his mask. LOL.

As others have said, she travelled to many places. It was my pleasure to have shared in many of those adventures with her, her husband Gordy, and my brother Harry to experience things near in the United States and far in other countries I otherwise may not have tried. Then on some trips to add in her children, grandchildren, and in-laws made it all the more fun. She did not mind spending money especially for the family but not needlessly be wasteful. This made her perfect in handling the finances for the family. We would have lengthy conversations about the best way to make our money grow.

Mabel was very adept in all her diverse ‘hobbies’. I am so glad that I videotape Mabel making some of her favorite food dishes.

Her greatest character trait was that she cared for people and it came across clearly when she talks to you. It does not matter if it was a relative or her gardener. If you share something wrong with your health, or something you did poorly, her common response would be ‘oh gee’. If it was telling about someone she knew, she would say, 'poor thing, hope she/he gets better'.

When I see photos of her, many fond memories come rushing back. She is forever greatly missed.

My Mom was an Amazing Person

February 3
     I had a really hard time writing a tribute for my mom, not because she didn't do amazing things but because writing a tribute to her makes her passing seem more real and I am not ready for her to be gone. Whenever something happens in my life, important or mundane, my first thought is that I want to tell my mom about it. I miss our evening chats about daily activities and talking about plans for the future. We were starting to plan next summer's family vacation and were in the middle of watching a couple of TV series.  I still had many things that I wanted to do with her. Unfortunately, the time has come to write a tribute to my mom. 

      My dad seemed to view his parental duty as teaching us life skills, making sure we were financially independent, and generally making sure that we would be able to take care of ourselves when he was gone.  My mom seemed to believe that her main parental duty was to show us how loved we were. Though we had disagreements (quite a few in my teenage years), after I had created a problem for myself, she would do everything she could to help me fix the problem even if she had specifically told me not to make that choice.  I was lucky that she did not believe in the "you made your bed, now you have to sleep in it" method of child rearing.
     During the pandemic my siblings and I would have food delivered to our parents from local restaurants. We often sent Chinese food so one time we decided to give them some variety and send food from a Mexican restaurant. When the food arrived, mom called and thanked us for the food but didn't seem as happy as she usually was when food was delivered.  I asked her if there was something wrong with the food and she said no but she didn't actually like Mexican food. I reminded her that we ate at that Mexican restaurant a lot when we were growing up, she even drove us to Vienna to eat there before the restaurant moved closer. She said she didn't like it back then either but she knew I liked it so she often suggested that we go there. I honestly thought it was one of her favorite restaurants (it was my favorite) since we were there so much when we were children.
     As young children, my sister and I would participate in speech or demonstration competitions.  The early stages of the competitions were local but as you moved up to regional and state level, the competitions were further away.  My mom would drive us 2-3 hours away to compete since my dad was often working.  At the time, I did not realize how much it took for my mom to drive us to these distant competitions.  I remember her getting lost once and driving around some mountains for a long time, it must have been nerve racking for her.  I was an adult before she told me that she hated driving more than about 30 minutes away from home but she would deal with anything, even if it made her very anxious, because she wanted to give her kids as many opportunities in life as possible. 
     When I was around 8, I wanted to go to summer camp but I was too scared.  Most parents would have sent their kid to camp and hope it worked out or not bothered to send them.  My mom volunteered to work at the camp. She made sure that she was in a different cabin than me because she wanted to me to be on my own but was close by in case I had a melt down. I remember staying close to her at first but later was ok on my own.  I went to camp for many summers after that on my own but I am not sure I would have gone that first summer if she had not been there.
     My mom was an amazing person and I couldn't have asked for a more loving, wonderful childhood.  I will miss her everyday for the rest of my life.
 
 
November 20, 2023
by Harry H
It is a small world.  Mabel was surprised her husband’s best friend in Seattle Chinatown is one of my wife’s brothers.  Wife Susan was equally surprised when she heard my sister is Mabel, an unusual name.

It is amazing what things we remember in life.  I was sitting next to Mabel as she typed away for her college term paper on a ribbon typewriter.  Her elbow bump into my body and her fingers were off in the home row by one key.  What she typed was gibberish.  She said Oh Harry since she had to throw away the typed paper and start over.  I probably remembered because I felt bad she had to redo the page.

When Mabel returned home from her waitress job, she would share her coins with her twin brothers.  That was such a treat.  She was very excited when someone gave her a large tip.  That ingrained in my memory that the service workers deserve a large tip for their hard work.

Mabel and Gordy were racquetball enthusiasts.  I would join them on court when I visited.  Mabel bragged about her racquetball kill shot.  She told me funny story of young guys frustrated losing to a short grandma.

When we were in Tiger Temple, Thailand, we were told not to pet the tigers.  You guessed it.Mabel starting petting the head of the tiger we were sitting next to.  We quickly and quietly reminded her that was dangerous.

We had many adventures together.  She braved cold Norway for Northern Lights to the hot, humid China summer for Great Wall walk  .Travel will not be the same without her.



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