Retired Major John Thomas Neely Ford, 92, passed away Tuesday, April 18, 2017, after a decade long battle with dementia. By his side, as she has always been for 50 years, was his loving wife Mrs. Lana M. Ford. He is preceded in death by his parents and two sons John Thomas Ford II and James Leonard Ford.
Major Ford has left many to cherish his memory. He is survived by his wife, Mrs. Lana Ford; his son John Minh Ford; his daughters Estelle Ford James, E. Nadine Ford (Avis), and Gwendolyn Ford (James); two grandchildren, Adonis and Sharma James; 4 great-grandchildren, and a host of family members and friends.
A funeral mass was held on Friday, April 28, 2017 at St. Thomas More Catholic Church (940 Carmichael Street, Chapel Hill, NC, 27514). Interment with military honors was held immediately following mass at Markham Memorial Gardens (4826 Trenton Road, Chapel Hill, NC 27517).
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to:
Cure Alzheimer's Fund
34 Washington Street, Suite 200
Wellesley Hills, MA 02481
www.CureALZ.org
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Significance of how the flag is folded
A properly proportioned flag will fold 13 times on the triangles, representing the 13 original colonies. The folded flag is emblematic of the tri-cornered hat worn by the Patriots of the American Revolution. When folded, no red or white stripe is to be evident, leaving only the blue field with stars.
Presentation of the flag
The significance of the rifle volleys
The rifle volley is often mistaken by nonmilitary folks as a 21-gun salute, although it’s entirely different. In the military, a gun is a large-caliber weapon. The three volleys are fired from rifles, not guns. Therefore, the three volleys aren’t any kind of gun salute at all.
The firing team consisting of an odd number of service members, between 3 and 7 (size varies according to the rank of the deceased) fires three times (three volleys).
The three volleys come from an old battlefield custom. The warring sides would cease hostilities to clear their dead from the battlefield, and the firing of three volleys meant that the dead had been properly cared for and the side was ready to resume the battle.
The honor guard often slips three shell-casings into the folded flag before presenting the flag to the family. Each casing represents one volley.