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Retired Major John Thomas Neely Ford, 92passed away Tuesday, April 18, 2017, after a decade long battle with dementia. By his side, as she has always been for 50 years, was his loving wife Mrs. Lana M. Ford. He is preceded in death by his parents and two sons John Thomas Ford II and James Leonard Ford. 

Major Ford has left many to cherish his memory. He is survived by his wife, Mrs. Lana Ford; his son John Minh Ford; his daughters Estelle Ford JamesE. Nadine Ford (Avis), and Gwendolyn Ford (James);  two grandchildren, Adonis and Sharma James; 4 great-grandchildren, and a host of family members and friends. 

A funeral mass was held on Friday, April 28, 2017 at St. Thomas More Catholic Church (940 Carmichael Street, Chapel Hill, NC, 27514). Interment with military honors was held immediately following mass at Markham Memorial Gardens (4826 Trenton Road, Chapel Hill, NC 27517). 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: 
Cure Alzheimer's Fund
34 Washington Street, Suite 200
Wellesley Hills, MA 02481
www.CureALZ.org 

April 26, 2017
April 26, 2017
I am so sorry to hear about your father. We talked about him so much, I felt as if I knew him myself. Thanks for sharing, My prayers are with you, your mom and the family.
April 25, 2017
April 25, 2017
Sorry for your loss Gwen. Your father was a true American Hero. May God bless and comfort your family. Love Tim & Vivian Wood

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April 26, 2017
April 26, 2017
I am so sorry to hear about your father. We talked about him so much, I felt as if I knew him myself. Thanks for sharing, My prayers are with you, your mom and the family.
April 25, 2017
April 25, 2017
Sorry for your loss Gwen. Your father was a true American Hero. May God bless and comfort your family. Love Tim & Vivian Wood
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