Ms. Benoit was my American mom
Ms. Benoit became my American mom when I lived in Lake Charles from January 1974 till July 1975.
She was very dear to me and I loved being with her. I felt she "saw" me and reached out for me. I felt embraced by her warmth and interest and I was forever grateful to her for her sensitivity, her immense hospitality and last but not least her sense of humor. I treasured all of these features in her and being a wannabe teacher I so enjoyed her taking me to her school and sharing her library. I still remember her joking when she noticed my astonishment to the separate staff rooms:-)!
Memories:
We spent Christmas Eve together and I was introduced to a drink called Eggnog - Ms. Benoit always wanted to make sure that I knew about all the American traditions!
She did not have a dish washer and I felt at home due to that fact and she shared her philosophy concerning dishwashing and hygiene!
I once peeped into her secret room that "noone was allowed to see" - and I was intrigued by all the books and clippipngs from newspapers!
Best of all events were our trips to the camp. Never ever in my life had I seen plants - bamboo - like the plants growing there and I learned so much from our walks in the surroundings: Ms. Benoit was a wonderful teacher and host!
After I returned to Denmark we met three times:
First in 1976 in England where she had signed up for a Shakespeare study journey. We spent a week together and marvelled at 3 plays together because she arranged the tickets. We saw two plays in London and one in Stratford-upon-Avon. It was great.
The second time we met was in 1977 in Odense, Denmark. The birth town of Hans Christian Andersen. We had traditional Danish smørrebrød and tea and had good laughs! We only had the afternoon together...
The third time was in 2000 when I returned to Lake Charles for the first time since 1975. I brought my husband - Anders - and our two youngest children - identical twins called Astrid and Naja - then aged 16! It was a 'must' for me to return to Ms. Benoit. I so wanted to see her again and I so wanted to share this wonderful and lovable person with my family.
Thank you, Ms. Benoit, for your genuine generosity. You rubbed it on to the next generation and I adore you for that.
Love, Susanne