Remembering Matthew
December 5, 2022
by Diane Valade
Matthew was in one of my math classes many years ago. I can't remember exactly when because it didn't matter. Matthew was so often in the computer lab across the hall from my office that he was a regular part of so many semesters. He would stop in my office to tell me something funny he had heard, or I would take leftover treats from some event in one of my classes to Matthew and his friends. We would share funny computer cartoons and math jokes. Matthew loved to laugh and that is one of my most enduring and endearing memories of him. My heart breaks for you - his parents and his siblings, his friends and all who loved him.
I came across a Quaker prayer and had saved it as it seemed so meaningful to me. A few of the lines are:
"We give them back to you, dear Lord, who gavest them to us. Yet as thou didst not lose them in giving, so we have not lost them by their return. ... life is eternal and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon, and a horizon is nothing more than the limit of our sight."
The wording is old-fashioned but seems somehow right. Matthew's light will be missed here.
I came across a Quaker prayer and had saved it as it seemed so meaningful to me. A few of the lines are:
"We give them back to you, dear Lord, who gavest them to us. Yet as thou didst not lose them in giving, so we have not lost them by their return. ... life is eternal and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon, and a horizon is nothing more than the limit of our sight."
The wording is old-fashioned but seems somehow right. Matthew's light will be missed here.