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Andrew Pritchard, my childhood memories

February 2, 2023
Of all the wonderful childhood memories I have of growing up, one stick's in my mind more so than any other. I remember being around five years of age and just like most of the kids at my junior school, I too had an obsession with Action Man. The blond-haired, eagle-eyed action figure featured a robust, articulated plastic body that was strung together with elastic. He stood about 12" high and wore a contemporary desert camouflage uniform. In addition, the toy manufacturer had come up with an ingenious idea, they decided to market a complete range of accessories, which included weapons, vehicles, and even a helicopter. All are carefully designed to feed the need of gullible children, whilst picking the pockets of their loving parents. Naturally being a spoilt little brat, I placed my parents under emotional blackmail. This came in the form of them buying me an action figure accessory every Sunday morning otherwise I'd sulk until they gave in. However one particular Sunday, my parents had gone through an extremely hard month struggling to pay the bills and put food on the table, the kind of thing that most parents tend to do for their children without a second thought. That Sunday morning they didn't even have twenty pence in silver between them. Yet I persisted to nag and whinge believing that if I continued I'd get my own way. At this point, mum was looking for a belt to give my backside hiding.

Needless to say, my father being the rational and considerate man he was, managed to come up with a solution. Every Sunday morning at 10.45 am the Changing of the Guard ceremony took place at Buckingham Palace. Despite of there being very little petrol in the family car, we drove to St James’s Palace, to see the Queen's Guard conduct a precision drill before marching down The Mall towards Buckingham Palace, preceded by Regimental Bands playing stirring music. To top the day off my father bought me a soft whip ice cream covered in strawberry syrup...with a flake. That day learnt money cannot replace memorable moment spent between a farther and his son. 

Archie

April 24, 2020
I first met Ronnie whilst working with Charlie, his brother in law. Ronnie was working for one of his local councils at the time. Charlie & I went to his house as Charlie needed a bricklayer as the job we were doing became dangerous & at the time was a young boy expelled from school at 13 years old.
The jobs I did for Charlie was really just cleaning & tidying, so I really wasn’t aware of the work that needed to be done as Charlie mainly did Plumbing & Plastering at that time. As I had left school early, I was grateful to meet Charlie and work for him.

I will never forget when I first started with Charlie, he would give me £1.50 per day, which by the end of the week was a lot of money in those days for a boy of my age.

When Charlie knocked at Ronnie’s door, his wife Mavis opened it and we went inside, and as you all know, if you know Mavis, her first words to Charlie were, and I’ll always remember this was my first experience of Mavis- Mavis said to her brother, “what nastiness brings you here in the afternoon?” As she said this, Charlie took off his cap and laughed as he looked across at Ronnie who was sitting on a chair at the table drinking his beloved tea as I got to learn very fast, Charlie started to explain why he had come round.

As he was explaining why, Mavis then came across to me immediately, as she stoked my face and held my hands, which I was not use to, she said to me “what is a lovely young boy doing with my scheming bastard of a brother?!” She then looked through me, made that Mavis laugh that we all knew and hugged me.

I could go on forever telling you stories of so many times from that day on to the sadness where we are now but as this is Ronnie‘s passing, I will tell you only a little of what this super, kind natured human was, always willing to help anyone who needed a helping hand, he was full of stories himself that he made me laugh for hours on end. I had so much love and respect for him but above all, before I forget to mention, and what I found out, was that for sure is was and I know this myself, I am 61 years old now, he was a Master Bricklayer.

I say the word ‘Master’ because Ronnie’s son Andrew and i always referred to anyone who was top of their game, we would say together ‘MASTER’ it was a joke between us, I myself, as a Bricklayer knows, and it was through Ronnie & Mavis that drove me on to do something with my life, Ronnie knew I was a good worker and kept pressing me to get a trade because as the years went by, Ronnie & Mavis came to my christening & confirmation of my then wife, myself and 3 children, which they became their god parents which I am so proud of because if my children worked as hard as they did, or half as hard I would be a very happy father.

I did at 19, take Ronnie’s advice to go to College. He took me down to Hackney College to sort things out for me and they sent me to a skill centre in Enfield where I got my City & Guilds certificate.I laid my first brick with Ronnie, and we did many jobs together after.

I remember one Sunday morning, I hadn’t seen Ronnie & Mavis for some time as I was working for my local council doing brick work maintenance, when I opened the door and saw them, I fell into both their arms, it was so great to see them both.

They had bought a house in Chingford and Ronnie wanted me to work weekends there when I had time off so as not to disrupt my council work in the week to help them with the works for their dream home, of course I obliged with both my arms open.

As I said there are so many stories to tell you, could go on forever. What I would like to finish in saying is if it wasn’t for Ronnie, I would never have become a Bricklayer, and go on to be a MASTER BUILDER!!! Just joking, that’s not for me to say!

Until we meet again Ronnie, God Bless

Love Archie XXXXXXX

R.I.P dad, you and mum are finally reunited

April 21, 2020
As you know my father Ronald Pritchard sadly passed away on the morning of 1st April 2020 and unfortunately, owing to the Coronavirus epidemic, we are not allowed to give him the send-off he deserves. This is both sad and painful to Deborah, Beverly and I, as we really would have liked to have been able to bring you all together to celebrate his life, but we have been told that is not possible. Given the current circumstances, I would like to ask you all to join us in marking the day of his funeral 23rd April 2020 (St George's Day) by lighting a candle at 12 noon and to spend a quiet moment remembering Dad and celebrating a life well lived.We intend to hold a fitting momorial service at some point in the near future.

Of all the wonderful childhood memories I have of growing up, one sticks in my mind more so than any other. I remember being around five years of age and just like most of the kids at my junior school, I too had an obsession with Action Man. The blond-haired, eagle eyed action figure featured a robust, articulated plastic body that was strung together with elastic. He stood about 12" high, and wore a contemporary desert camouflage uniform. In addition, the toy manufacturer had come up with an ingenious idea, they decided to market a complete range of accessories, which included weapons, vehicles, and even a helicopter. All carefully designed to feed the need of gullible children, whilst picking the pockets of their loving parents. Naturally being a spoilt little brat, I placed my parents under emotional blackmail. This came in the form of them buying me an action figure accessory every Sunday morning otherwise I'd sulk until they gave in.

However one particular Sunday, my parents had gone through an extremely hard month struggling to pay the bills and put food on the table, the kind of thing that most parents tend do for their children without a second thought. That Sunday morning they didn't even have twenty pence in silver between them. Yet I persisted to nag and whinge believing that if I continued I'd get my own way. At this point, mum was looking for a belt to give my backside a hiding.

Needless to say, my father being the rational and considerate man he was, managed to come up with a solution. Every Sunday morning at 10.45 am the Changing of the Guard ceremony took place at Buckingham Palace. Despite of there being very little petrol in the family car, we drove to St James’s Palace, to see the Queen's Guard conduct a precision drill before marching down The Mall towards Buckingham Palace, preceded by Regimental Bands playing stirring music. To top the day off my father bought me a soft whip ice cream covered in strawberry syrup...with a flake. That day I learnt money cannot replace a memorable moment spent between a father and their son.

R.I.P dad ♥️♥️♥️

Ron and Mavis (Till death do us part)

April 1, 2020
This morning at 5.15am on the 1st April 2020, my wonderful father Ronald (Ronnie)Pritchard passed away peacefully. A beautiful soul has left his tired body now, and has found peace to join my mother. Sunrise 28th May 1932-Sunset 1st April 2020. R.I.P dad 

The MAVIS Award - Motivation, Ambition, Vision, Inspiration, Success

October 27, 2019
There are few awards that recognise the grit and determination it takes for people to turn their lives around, to change their situation from the cards they were dealt at birth, through no fault of their own.

The ambition of the AP Foundation is to put a spotlight on those who have fallen through the net, to give them the tools, education and work so with resilience, determination and courage they can become the person they were always meant to be.

This award is more than just a recognition of personal endeavour.

It is an award for people who have gone one step further and demonstrated integrity, treating others with respect and compassion. Who have reached out and extended the hand of friendship and support to others who are on the same journey, and who recognise that by everyone working together:
www.apfoundation.co.uk  

Mavis's actions during her life were befitting of an Angel and will continue after her death.

August 31, 2019
FEATHERS APPEAR WHEN ANGELS ARE NEAR: WHAT IS THE MEANING OF FINDING FEATHERS?
 
Although our Angels are always near us, looking over us and protecting us, we very rarely know that they are there. Sometimes, our Angels will send us small signs and signals to let us know that they are near, and will always be there to love and support us. These signs can be anything from a subtle flash of light, a rainbow on a gloomy day, or even an unexpected, sudden feeling of love and warmth within you.

One of the ultimate signs your Angels are with you is finding a feather. Coming across a feather in your path, or finding a feather in an unexpected place is thought to be a message from the Angels.

Your Angels will use feathers of all different shapes and colours to offer you comfort or validation when you need it most. Feathers could also be a clue to an answer you have been looking for, or even a message to tell you you’re on the correct path.

So next time you find a feather, pay attention! Although the most common feather sent from Angels is white, Angel feathers can come in all kinds of colours, and the colour of your feather can give additional meaning to the message your Angels are sending you.

Have you found a feather recently? Take a look below to find out what it could mean.

White.

This is the most common Angel feather, and is thought to be a sign of faith and protection. A white feather can also be your Angel telling you that any loved ones in heaven are safe and well. 

Pink

A pink feather is a sign of love from your Angels. They are letting you know that their love is unconditional.

Purple

Purple is a colour that represents spirituality. Perhaps your Angels are prompting you to activate higher thought and connectivity.

Red

A red feather represents courage, strength, stability and good fortune. If you’ve been going through a difficult time of late, your Angels are sending comfort to let you know how strong you are.

Yellow

Should you find a yellow feather, your Angels may be nudging you to smile, have fun and enjoy life!

Green

Green feathers represent prosperity and growth. If you find a green feather, you’re in luck!

Blue

Blue represents communication, so a blue feather may well be your Angels telling you to listen! Blue is also a sign of peace and protection.

Grey

Grey feathers can symbolise peace, as well as neutrality. If you see a grey feather in your path, your Angels may be trying to tell you that the answer to a certain situation may not be as straightforward as a yes or no. 

Brown

Brown feathers symbolise home and grounding. Perhaps your home life will see positivity soon!

Black

A black feather is a sign of protection from your Angels. They are here to guard you and repel negative energy.

Orange

Orange feathers will bring you attraction and success! This is a sign that any new ideas or opportunities are approved by your Angels.

No matter what the colour or meaning, finding feathers is a true blessing and a sign of love from your Angels.

Mavis Rest in Peace

August 26, 2019
No words can I give you that will express what your mum meant to me she was so so special, so so strong and in my lifetime I've never met a true true woman that with my own Mum taught me so much from such a young age. Thank God your Uncle Charlie introduced me to his incredible sister Mavis .....All my love to you Deb from the bottom of my heart ️ xxxxxxx.......
Archie
August 14, 2019
I remember Mavis for her big cuddles and smiles and my biggest memory was when I was 12 and visited from New Zealand and Mavis had her little Chihuahua dog. I think it's why ended up adopting one about 7 years ago.  Thinking of you all today.  Lots of love Janie xx

R.I.P Mrs P

August 13, 2019
Deb - I just wanted to put some words down for your site
 
“ Mrs P was our landlady for 5 yrs while we Studied at Barts. 
She was the most wonderful lady - so kind and caring. Alistair was always her favourite- but she treated us all like we were part of her family. We loved her deeply for all of her care and her wonderful food! Jerk chicken - rice and peas. she kept us from malnutrition as we were incapable of most normal functioning other than working and playing sport.
 
You have never been far from our thoughts since we qualified in 1996. 

You were a big part of what made those years the happiest of our lives. 

All our love Tim, Al and Simon ( those dirty bastards upstairs!!!!) xxxxx
Sent from my iPhone

Mavis Pritchard

August 2, 2019
When I met this wonderful lady in her home she immediately made me feel welcome. She was a beautiful force to be reckoned with. Funny, vivacious, considerate, warm, and kind. A  straight talker which I admired so much, she won my heart in minutes.  She was a protective mother who adored her children and wanted the very best for them. She was family oriented and would do anything for her loved ones.Rest in perfect peace beautiful lady, you will be remembered with affection and admiration, I know that you are but a veil away and always watching over your family. 

Sleep In Peace Aunt Mavis

August 2, 2019
  1. Aunt Mavis will be missed . I have fond memories of her as a little girl from her many visits to Jamaica. She would always give me 5 or 10£as my pocket money. I also remembered when mummy and I visited in 1998. Everyday she came home from the off license she would tell me to relax and have a drink. Her infectious laughter will not be forgotten and her kindness. ♥️ Wish I could make it to the funeral, however I send my love and prayers

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