I first met Melanie and her husband Ralph as we would pass each other while giving our dogs their daily walks in our neighborhood. Her two little boy dogs she held the leashes of would voice to my large dog, "don't get near our dog mom or we'll tear up your ankles!" Mel would smile, apologize and tell me they thought they were big guys. It became an everyday occurrence that provided us a daily laughs and something in common as we loved our four-legged family members.
We'd been neighbors for awhile when one day I went to check our mailbox for something important my husband was expecting and all the while tears were streaming down my cheeks. Mel and her sister Penny were enjoying the late summer, early evening by the pool - she walked over and asked, "why the tears?" I told her what had occurred, she wrapped her arms around me, gave me a big hug and asked me to join them for a bit until I felt better.
We exchanged phone numbers then enjoyed times of conversing over our shared passion for tea. During the '16 holiday season I wasn't feeling well, during my times in and out of the E.R. Mel brought my husband meals, one of which was her Shepards Pie that he raved about and says no other compares. She'd stay in our home with our dog (that suffers from seperation anxiety) and gave her the care and love she needed, even on Christmas day she watched her so we wouldn't miss our special church service.
My husband & I share fond memories of "spaghetti night" when he said he was famished and Melanie filled a plate with a mountain of the delicious food she cooked with her special ingredient of TLC. Melanie was an exemplary neighbor and friend with a true and genuine heart of gold bigger than the state of Texas. We were honored and privileged to have had her in our lives. My minds eye has many forever snapshots of Melanies beautiful blue eyes, her bright smile and the red hair that gave her the special spunk that just made you feel good and lucky to be around her. My heart breaks from the loss we all feel of someone so kind, loving and extordinary. My husband and I express our genuine condolences and thoughts and prayers are with her husband, family and all those that we're blessed to have known and loved Melanie Ann Respress.