Dear Dr. Olivotto,
It is so surreal to write this message knowing you are not on this earth anymore. But it is comforting to know that you are in so many people’s hearts and minds and will be for a very long time, and probably more importantly, you are in a peaceful, comforting, painless place called heaven.
I remember when I first met you at Saint Mary’s College when I became friends with Kelley and I always thought you were the kindest, most gentle man that would do anything for his daughter Kelley (and her friends). I saw the special bond that you both have. And I have numerous memories of laughter and fun with the girls: Kelley, Jovonna, Natalie, and Mrs. Olivotto. Two come to mind. Playa del Carmen, and Rome!
I hold vivid memories of our junior year spring break trip that you so generously took us to Play del Carmen, Mexico for some great beach fun. (I actually just mentioned that trip last week to someone in a conversation!) A year before that, we all made wonderful memories in Rome, Italy together, an experience I will never forget. My mom and dad also joined in on the fun and got to know you both. They really enjoyed spending time with you there. My dad has a specific and fond memory of attending one of the Notre Dame football games with you that next fall. I also know my grandparents had the opportunity to meet you and visit with you as they were also in Rome at the same time with all of us. One big Italian party! My grandparents, whom I called Nonnie and Poppie so enjoyed meeting you and Mrs. Olivotto. And as I write that, I am glad to know that now, my own Poppie has another Poppie with him in heaven now.
Another memory I have is our college graduation. You were such a proud father of Kelley! That was a very special day for all of us SMC chicks. The last memory I have is about 5 years ago when we stopped by your house after our 10 year college reunion in South Bend. It was so great to see you and Mrs. Olivotto then. Little did I know that would be the last time I’d see the wonderful, kind, smart, loving Dr. Olivotto. But now you have left a special legacy and hold a warm spot in so many people’s hearts. I love the friendship that Kelley and I have maintained over all these years and that it has extended to her wonderful husband Dan and their beautiful children Molly and Sam. I look forward to many more years of sharing memories and laughter together with all of them. You have a very brave, loving, daughter and it is a privilege to know her and her parents.
Rest in peace, always, Dr. O.
Love,
Abbie Fleming