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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Arland Waters, 85 years old, born on July 28, 1937, and passed away on November 18, 2022. We will remember him forever.

Celebration of Muddy's Life is being held this summer at Ham Lake, MN: SUNDAY, AUGUST 6th 

A memorial gathering for Arland "Mud" Waters will be at one of his favorite places...Ham Lake, on August 6th between 11:00 AM and 3:00 PM. We welcome you to informally drop-in to reminisce, and celebrate our beloved father, Arland “Muddy” Waters. 12:00 Remembrance of his life. Lunch will be served.

HAM HAVEN - 28753 190Th St, Akeley, MN 56433

Link to his February Celebration of Life service held in Florida:  https://livestream.com/emmanuel/events/10759554 

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Remembering Muddy Waters

December 2, 2022
Arland Lee “Mud” Waters passed to the Lord on November 18,2022 at his home in Naples surrounded by family members including his wife, Carol. He was born in 1937 in Postville, Iowa. He lived his life to the fullest and he was always quick with a joke, a song, and his infectious kindness to anyone in his presence. He is survived by his beloved wife Carol Waters, children Kristen Struyk(David), Kurtis Waters(Tammy), Eric Waters(Ellysia), grandchildren Meagan Krogh(Josh), Sydney Struyk, Alese Waters, Gabrielle Waters, Griffin Struyk, Madeline Waters, Brynn Waters, Lucas Waters, Davyn Waters, great grandchildren Krash, Karvey, and Kal Krogh, sister Julie Minor, and many dear nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by his brother Duane and parents Dorothy and George Waters. 

Throughout his life as a Marine, teacher, Jostens’ salesman, athlete, and musician….Mud forged friendships with everyone he touched.  To this day, many remember Muddy Waters helping them with the high school yearbook and attending his summer yearbook camp.  His incredible gift of song was embraced in the Voices of Naples and Church choirs, at celebrations, friends parties, and in all of the family traditions. He and his wife could be found harmonizing a familiar tune and staring into each other’s eyes up until the last week of his life.

Mud was an amazing athlete. In his years wrestling at University of Northern Iowa to later in life as an incredible golfer, tennis and pickle ball player who was somebody you definitely wanted on your side, as he made everything look easy with his smooth swing and competitive spirit… for many years he was the guy to beat. Friends and relatives will forever remember the “Waters Olympics” held annually at the Ham Lake cabin, continuing with the grandkids carrying the torch forward with the family fun and competition.

Muddy is remembered as being a kind, gentle, and loving soul. A devout Christian, he was full of integrity, loving kindness, humor and joy. He gave his time and energy in so many ways to the community around him; in his church, volunteer work as part of the Fargo Kiwanis, and years as a little league coach and mentor to young athletes be their very best. He was a wonderful role model for the kind of human being that his family and friends would try to emulate.  His trail in life touched many friends from coast to coast; Virginia, California, Iowa, St. Paul, Fargo, and eventually their retirement settings at Ham Lake in northern Minnesota and Naples, Florida.

We know he is now in God’s hand and looking over us. The kids and grandkids grew up with their papa singing “If we hold on together, I know our dreams will never die, dreams see us through to forever”.  Here is to the legacy and dreams left behind by Arland “Mud” Waters.

For those touched by the life of Arland “Mud” Waters, we will gather to celebrate his life in Naples, Florida, in January; a memorial will also be held in Minnesota in June 2023. Details will be posted on the Arland Waters Facebook page and Forevermissed memorial site:

https://mud-waters.forevermissed.com/

Memorials are preferred to: The Voices of Naples Scholarship Fund. 

Mail to:  Mariellen Lemasters 2249 Clipper Way, Naples FL 34104

Recent stories

The Best Big Brother

January 29, 2023
My big brother, Arland, was 91/2 years old when I was born.  Duane was 6.  So here I come…JulieAnn, the only sweet little girl in the Waters family.  I’m not sure how they felt when I was born…but I have fond memories of the five of us doing many things together.  One of the kid’s chores was washing dishes…the boys were always fighting about something, snapping the wet dish towels at each other (and me when I got older). Arland washed dishes, Duane dried and I stood o the counter and put the dishes away.  I think we were usually singing and laughing. 

When I needed help decorating my bike for the “Recreation” Parade in Hampton, Arland came to my rescue with crepe paper in my wheels and streamers on the handlebars.  I had the best bike in the parade.

The “boys” did tease me a lot but we always had fun, lotza music and many many laughs.  However, several times, I ran into my room, slammed my door because I was so upset about “something” quite important.  But the  last time I did slammed the door after some teasing,  the ceramic fish that mom so carefully put above the tub…fell and broke.  Then, I was the one in trouble but it will always be Arland’s fault.  

And our camping trips with the “Hampton Gang” was always fun.  I think there were 4-5 families and all the kids who were close to our ages.  It was always filled with laughs, bonfires, swimming and skiing.  Arland and Dad taught me how to ski on the Greene River.  They did, however, forget to tell me to let loose of the ski rope if I fell.  I was not happy and the Greene River was not very tasty

Arland was the best older brother you could ever ask for.  First he would do anything for me growing up.  I even went to the movies with him and his girlfriend and we sat in the balcony.  And then, He and Carol would do nothing for me as I grew up and started a family. From offering me a place to live, to always inviting the kids and me for holidays…and of course many invites to Ham Lake.   All my friends wanted to be a part of Waters Olympics and a part of our family.  

Memories remain. ❤️


Dad's career as a Jostens yearbook sales rep

December 8, 2022
I look back at Dad's career as a Jostens sales representative and now ....so much appreciate how dedicated he was to his job.   Having to hop in the car and travel around North Dakota and Minnesota.....being gone many nights of the week , getting stuck in the many small towns he served to meet deadlines, driving thru blizzards.  Dad was so committed and a great role model for the three of us....teaching us to give it your all in anything you do.

Both he and mom had expectations of chores that we typically did on Saturday mornings.  One of the assignments was filing papers for each school in his file cabinets.  At the time....I was sure he was violating some form of child labor laws....but it taught me to appreciate hard work, delegation, that not all jobs are fun all the time. 

I spoke to someone two weeks ago who was on the junior high yearbook staff in a small town in North Dakota....and to this day....she will never forget the energy and kindness of Mud Waters!

Dad was a Golf Club and Ball junkie

December 5, 2022
My Dad probably went through 15 sets of clubs over his lifetime. But it was his quest to find the latest driver, chipping iron, or putter that was most prolific. I don't think I ever bought a set of clubs in my life given the never ending flow of "hand-me-downs" I could get from Dad. There was always a barrel full of used golf clubs in the garage, and a lot of them were in fine shape and very good clubs.

Putters seemed to rotate about twice a year. It is funny because he was a good golfer and a very good putter. But, he always thought he'd find that club that would give him the magic touch. The last putter I could remember him using looked something like the Millennium Falcon from the Star Wars movies. 



He was also addicted to finding golf balls in the water or woods. We'd always have a gallon or two of used balls that we'd use for chipping practice, or launch into Ham Lake from the beach.



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