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This memorial website was created in memory of our magnificent husband, father, grandfather, uncle, colleague, and friend. 

Neill was a man among men.  Led by an innate curiosity and a passion for living, Neill sought experiences and befriended people from all over the globe.    He shared his experiences generously and lovingly with his family and friends which had a profound impact on us all.   We invite you to celebrate his incredible legacy with us. Our family has deeply appreciated every story and memory that has been shared with us so far. Please feel free to post your messages, tributes, photos, videos and memories here in the hopes of celebrating his life together.   

Short tributes can be posted using the Tribute section below. Photos, stories, and video messages can be shared by clicking the Stories or Gallery tab at the top of the page. Our hope is to compile these tributes and memories into a book later on
June 9, 2021
June 9, 2021
I have known Neill since Sept.1975 when he hired me to work in the marketing dept of Foremost Industries, he was the Sales Manager at the time. Over the years I worked with Neill at a number of different companies and he was really the only “boss” I have ever known. We became friends and ultimately Neill was the primary influencer of my adult life, aside from my wife.

We went on countless adventures together, everything from looking for dinosaur bones, lost golf balls, fishing, sea kayaking to 4wd trips in Utah. And although there was never a consensus on the political life of the day, he was great companion. Many memorable hours were spent travelling in the car, boat or sitting around the campfire.

Neill purchased a folding sea kayak and we decided to take it out the islands west of Bella Bella for a 10 day trip, this entailed driving to Bell Coola, renting a Beaver sea plane and flying to Bella Bella. Where we assembled the kayak, stuffed the thing to the gills and paddled off for our 10 day trip. I think over the course of our 10 days we saw a total of 3 fishing boats at a distance but no other people so it was remote.

On the morning of the second day I saw Neill walking down the beach back to camp with something that looking like a wet white football in his hand, and I asked what’s that? He said that he had dropped our one roll of toilet paper in the water as he was tending to his morning ablutions. Neill’s comment was “it will dry out”. He never failed to remind me over the years of the utter look of horror on my face as the impact of what he was saying struck home. 

A couple of days later in the trip he managed to redeem himself. We had paddled into a bay, beached the kayak and as we always did, set off to have a look around. When we returned to the beach the boat was gone, the tide had floated it well out into the bay. If it had fallen to me, we might still be there, but Neill sprinted down the beach, dove into the water and retrieved the departing kayak. He was a great swimmer and a man of action, he will be missed.
June 9, 2021
June 9, 2021
Neill is my grandfather and I remember as a child he had taken my brother and I to the badlands with our parents to go dinosaur bone hunting. My brother and I always thought it was so cool that he had these tiny bones of ancient creatures that he had found. He was such a cool guy, always wanting to explore, travel, and knew so much about different countries and their cultures. He and my grandmother had so many amazing collections of artifacts and souvenirs at their home, that their house was almost like a travel museum. He was an active man, still playing lighter sports and going for bike rides into his late eighties. He knew a lot about business, and when I was older and a business student myself, I realized just how knowledgeable he is in the subject and how well he understood economics and marketing. As a funny thing, he absolutely loved Carl’s Jr. and to this day every time I pass one I think of him.

Though from the outside we were pretty opposite, sometimes debating things we did not agree on, after his passing I have come to realize just how alike we were. We were both passionate about business, were big on debating and arguing (which, sometimes would happen in the living room), both have a taste for adventure and travel, love the water and the beach and love the family. And sometimes, we’re both sore losers at sports or board games (especially pickle ball or monopoly).

His passing has shown me how much life there is to live, and how it is possible to live all of it. To go and see the world and meet so many different people and learn about everything.

I hope to be like him and live a life of adventure, and hopefully he even half as knowledgeable about the world as he was.
I love you, Grandpa.
June 9, 2021
June 9, 2021
What a man! Neill was the first person to get a grad school degree in Geology from UCR, I was the second. We became fierce opponents on the tennis court in grad school and friends off the court. Neill got me a summer job as junior geologist at Riverside Cement and, after grad school a full time job with American Cement. We worked and traveled together together for many years. I remember well Neill and Gretchen's wedding and often, over half a century would think how lucky Neill was to have Gretchen as a wife. Gretchen is a tough, patient, loving woman and had to be, for Neill was always a bundle of energy and action.
Neill was the most charming person I have ever known, I think because he was so passionate, smart and well-spoken. In his later years I often regretted that we did not live closer together, people like Neill are so rare. Smart, kind, always living a life of action-what a guy. My condolences to Gretchen and the kids. I'll soon be seeing Neill Down Below for, to quote Mark Twain: "Heaven for the climate, Hell for the company".
Ron Gibson

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January 12
January 12
Debi and I remember January 12 as Neill's day each year and we shared a couple of our favorite memories today. Life has less color now that he's gone, but he's never forgotten. Debi and Murray
January 12
January 12
Neil and family are in our thoughts on this special day.
Bob & Mardelle.
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
One year ago, my Dad passed away at the age of 90.  It was devastating to all of us, and it has been a really difficult first year without him physically present in my life.  I am so thankful for all the wonderful support that we have received, particularly the outpouring of love and support for my Mom.  Thank you beyond!

I really miss my Dad.  I always drew so much comfort from knowing, even if we were in different places, that he was always there for me.  He was such a powerful presence, but fortunately, his energy, wisdom, and love for life and family are so enduring that I feel him every day.  Not a day goes by that I don't think about some story, some memory, some word of wisdom, some loving fatherly advice, some prime example of how to live that my Dad gave me.  I am so grateful to be able to pass along these powerful messages and examples of living to my children.  And I do.

I want to say, "Thank you", to all the kind tributes and reflections that have been shared with my family about our beloved Neill, MY DAD.  I love reading every story, seeing every picture, and hearing every tribute. It warms my heart to witness the shared love that so many had for my Dad.  I am so proud of my dad and the impact that he had on my life, my family's life, and the lives of the many people that he came into contact with.  

While today is very somber and difficult for me, because I lost a magnificent father and a great man, I feel the deepest gratitude for everything he gave to me, my family, and all our future generations.  That is the gift that keeps on giving.   Thank you, Dad!

Legends Never Die.

I love you Dad!
His Life

Neill's Life Chronology

June 7, 2021

Neill will always be loved and remembered in the hearts of his loving wife, Gretchen, sons Chris (Michelle) and Greg (Alexis), daughter Michelle (John), and 4 grandchildren, Tiffany, Nicholas, Benjamin and Alexandra.

Neill was born in San Francisco in 1931 and spent his youth in southern California in Laguna Beach. While growing up, he spent countless hours diving, fishing and boating in the ocean, and had a great love of sports which he continued throughout his life.Neill graduated from Chaffey High School in Ontario, California in 1948, and attended Chaffey Junior College from 1949 – 1950.In 1951, he moved to Venice Beach, California and attended UCLA where he was a walk-on with the UCLA basketball team, under legendary coach John Wooden who was an early mentor to him.

In 1952, Neill was drafted by the US Armed Forces to fight in the Korean War.  He is proud of his service and was a true patriot throughout his life.  After his tour of duty he resumed his college studies at UCLA before transferring to University of California at Riverside (“UCR”).In 1957, he graduated with a geology degree from UCR, and then commenced working for American Cement Company.  While working at American Cement, Neill also obtained his Masters degree in geophysics from UCR.

Neill met his future wife Gretchen (a school teacher) in Riverside. They married in 1962 and had their first two children, Chris and Michelle while in Riverside. In 1968, American Cement transferred Neill and the family to Palma de Mallorca in Spain where they lived for two years. In 1970, Neill began work for a new company in Caracas, Venezuela where the family lived for three years.  In Venezuela, Neill and family were frequently on the ocean, enjoying fishing, diving and boating.  In 1972, the family’s third child (Greg) was born in Caracas.

In 1973, Neill took advantage of a job opportunity in Calgary, Canada. Since then, Neill and Gretchen have resided in Calgary on a full or part-time basis.  Neill has worked in several industries in Calgary, including the oil patch, where he was a consultant and an owner of a reservoir engineering company.  He was a trail blazer as the first graduate of the MBA program at the University of Calgary (“U of C”), and later became an adjunct marketing professor at the U of C.As part of his business career, Neill was a director of Antrim Energy and the Canadian Sport Association, where he provided valuable guidance.

In Calgary, Neill continued his love of the outdoors taking the family on numerous camping, hiking, boating and fishing trips in Alberta and British Columbia.  He also went on annual salmon and halibut fishing trips for 35 years to Northwest British Columbia that became hallowed ground for Neill and the numerous people who accompanied him.  Neill loved taking the family on trips all over the US and Western Canada, including annual trips to Mexico which provided the family numerous special memories and invaluable experiences.

In 1999, Neill and Gretchen bought a house in the Goodyear area of Phoenix, Arizona.  They continue to have a residence in Goodyear today, splitting time between Calgary and Goodyear as “snowbirds”

Led by his innate curiosity, Neill was an avid traveler and explorer, as he and Gretchen travelled all over the globe and enjoyed learning about cultures across every continent and all walks of life.In particular, Neill was an accomplished scuba diver and underwater photographer and did numerous presentations for the Calgary Dive Club.  He was a captivating story teller and an incredibly interesting man.

Neill lived his life for his family.  Married for nearly 59 years, Gretchen was the love of his life, best friend, and constant travelling companion.  He deeply loved his children and grandchildren and loved attending their sporting events, special activities and sharing his passions and stories with them.  Neill was a mentor to his kids, grandkids, students and friends and positively impacted the many people he came into contact with.  He will never be forgotten and his spirit lives on …







Recent stories

Happy Father's Day

June 20, 2021
Dad,
Happy Father's Day.  You will always be on the top of my dance card.  I miss you very very much!
Love you,
M
June 15, 2021
We first met Neill in a Great Decisions class, when he moderated the group.  We were impressed with his breadth of knowledge on many of the topics, supported by his wide-ranging experiences while living in many parts of the world.

Later, Neill and Gretchen joined our Pub Trivia team, and their knowledge of the world helped with many answers.  He had a good sense of humor and we even had fun being humbled together on some occasions.

Our trivia team members have been guests in Neill and Gretchen's home, where we enjoyed their gracious hospitality.  We will certainly miss Neill, his bigger-than-life presence, and especially his entertaining stories.

Our hearts go out to Gretchen and the family as they mourn his loss.  We look forward to seeing Gretchen when we return to PebbleCreek.

Pub Trivia Champs at Pebblecreek!!

June 11, 2021
One of the pleasures of life in Pebblecreek is the opportunity to meet and make new friends from all points of the compass.  A number of years back the combined knowledge of our American/Canadian/Australian team helped our Pub Trivia team, the Muddleheaded Wombats, take home the very valuable medal of honor!  
We've shared travel tales with Neill and Gretchen over the years, picked a lot of their lemons and when they moved into their newer home Neill shared some of his rock collection which is now adorning our backyard!
Neill's enthusiastic presence will be sadly missed - our love and support are extended to Gretchen and all the family.
Bronwyn and Doug Kelch 

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